Grandparents Responsibility

I realized in my healing journey that my parents had no idea how to raise children properly . Both had harsh childhoods with life lessons that did not include healing , balanced , guiding healthy children.

I have tempered this with in myself and reparented myself properly , however siblings have not , or in the process . I’m not involved in their efforts and hold faith for each of them 💯🙏

I wasn’t able to discuss things with Mom before she exited ; and that bothered me for decades .

I did with Dad however have time with Dad who opened his heart ❤️, and he was full of regret .

Grandchild are beautiful gifts for my grandmother spirit ,

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Grandparents baby sitting

As a medicated 52 year old Granny , I totally wanted to help care for eldest grandchild .

A drug change was made with my agreement to aide in my weight loss and the side effects were horrific and aided in flipping me into what’s referred to a mania .

Then baby had a day of horrific reactions to Soy formula which I thought I had given him at first .

However baby has to go to day care $$$

Granddaddy that’s was caring part time had a form of cancer .

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Grandparents

Being a grandparent allows you to be the parent you should have been the first time around but couldn’t be because of the “too many” expectations placed on parents.

You were too busy finding your footing and figuring it out—swept up in pressure and hurry.

But a grandparent has the time and perspective to be calm, attentive, forgiving, and fun.

They accept the mess.

They know the same bedrooms with unmade beds also had their grandchildren sleeping safe and sound with their minds at ease the night before.

They don’t yell because they know a child calling “grandma” or “grandpa” 20 times is a blessing.

And they don’t care if their grandchildren are the best at anything, as long as they’re happy and healthy. To them, they’re everything exactly as they are.

A GRANDPARENT’S LOVE IS ONE OF A KIND.

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You’re In Heaven But Your Grandkids Know You – Her View From Home

You’re in heaven but your grandchildren will still hear stories about grandma and grandpa and they will know you and your love.
— Read on herviewfromhome.com/even-though-youre-in-heaven-your-grandchildren-will-know-you/

Why A Maternal Grandmother Is So Important To A Child

We all know grandparents are important in raising a child, but research shows that genetic bonds of a maternal grandmother are especially beneficial.
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Grandparents Give Us Bonus Love That We Should Never Take for Granted – Her View From Home

Grandparents give us bonus love that should never be taken for granted. A grandparent’s love sticks with you for life.
— Read on herviewfromhome.com/grandparents-give-us-bonus-love/