“When life breaks you, it is because you are ready to be put back together differently. Every piece of you that feels shattered is a piece that will find a new place, a new purpose, a new meaning. Trust that the cracks are where the light gets in. And sometimes, in our brokenness, we find our greatest wholeness. We find the courage to rebuild, to reimagine, to redefine what it means to be strong. You are not broken; you are breaking through.”
— Unknown
To The Ascension LightWorker Collective
The real reasons the ascending may be experiencing being single in the higher dimensions is because in this much higher realm you are healed and vibrating at higher levels of knowledge frequencies which makes the self highly incompatible for codependent relationships , trauma bonds and unhealthy 3D connections .
Unfortunately trauma bonds is the template for the low conscious and broken 3D culture as anyone who chooses peace over trauma will have difficulty in lower conscious relationships as most people we meet in the programmed world are in 2-3D and are emotionally , mentally and spiritually damaged and dysfunctional in many different ways .
Healed individuals vibrating in higher frequencies will only seek lightminded and higher conscious connections , these higher vibrating connections create authenticity ,honesty , integrity, transparency , respect , equality , truth , alignment and shared values and beliefs .
Fifth-dimensional relationships enhances exisiting freedom and joy, serving as investments in the interconnectedness of people, places, and nature. They emerge from God’s unconditional love, offering an environment for safety, respect, love and understanding, expressing evolutionary expansion in shared development.
5th dimensional relationships are extremely different from third-dimensional ones, as they are built to maintain and sustain themselves rather than eventually breaking down . Both parties in higher consciousness fully support reconnection with their divine nature and higher self , they support the other in higher realms , throughout their incarnations, they have consciously evolved to provide a sense of true belonging and higher Ascended connection.
The truth is 95 percent of the 3D relationships and marriages in 3D dimensional perceptions and awareness are actually trauma bonded because they feel they need another half of themselves to make them feel whole , however they eventually become disappointed because they find they are in an unhealthy and codependency connection , this creates dysfunctional mentality , combined shadow aspects and are empty emotionally.
In the realm of 3D , relationships can be a confused and complex tapestry of Ego, dysfunction, health issues , obsessiveness secrecy, infidelity, illusions, lies, criticisms, power struggles, control , delusions, hierarchy, psychological confusion , lack of effective communication , abuse , stress, manipulation, and gaslighting intertwined.
All third dimensional relationships are built to break whether they choose to remain together or not . The third dimensional human beings on this planet were here to experience separation, struggle , loss, and fear. Humanity agreed to participate in this divine experiment of amnesia that required our civilisation to find its way back to its Divine Source of its own free will.
Humans are experts in suffering as they took this indoctrinated task seriously and over time became extremely skilled in hurting themselves and others , this is the truth and reason why transformation in self if essential , to escape the programmed and perceived struggling , Realms of all nature here on Earth supports this experience . Allowing humanity the free will of birth right creation .Lower consciousness learned to destroy connections rather than nurture and honour them , to the point that they were in great danger of destroying our civilisations and the planet as a whole in which we live on .
Fifth dimensional relationships are built to Maintain and sustain themselves . In this moment, those single on this journey may not be focused on loving someone else, but rather on authentically loving the self . It is a time in self’s ascension level where some may feel challenged to be their own source of Love strength and security. Allowing the right connection to unfold organically , once the self feels loved and safe within , they naturally attract their aligned counterpart , when all expectations cease to exist and the self is healed , whole and feeling complete .
As we ascend we become the point of attraction. This is why there is no forcing or controlling. There is recieving and allowing in the fifth dimensional existence. Feeling at peace and trusting in the divine process taking shape .
Love and compassion are necessities in humanity and not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. Soul intimacy arises from a profound sense of purpose and interconnectedness, based in the understanding of our inherent Oneness. fifth-dimensional relationships are purposeful, never casual, and do not waste energy on trivial and meaningless concerns. They compliment and enhance the values in each other , they are in a consistent synchronistic flow , and are conscious of their highest good . Both parties encourage the authentic and true expression in the other .
They consciously create collaboration, equality, and a profound appreciation for the roles, service, and love shared. Participants deeply respect and commit to fulfilling the work they have come together to accomplish, resulting in a profound sense of satisfaction , feeling valued and expanding in shared joy.
Ascending Souls , Those that were needed to be left behind , those you left , or who left you and hurt you only brought you back to your original and true self, in this place you are doing Exceptionally well. We are ascending , rebuilding, re identifying and readjusting, being kinder and more understanding with the self ,the soul / higher self is in tremendous gratitude for this higher opportunity, it’s now about giving Self the same love that was always given out to many others throughout many life times , including this one .
Self love is the true path in raising the vibrational frequency within , this is true for all human being God is found only from within and not outside of self , this is why Self love is the highest form of unconditional Love one can ever truly Experience and Embody .
Ascending Starseeds are no longer rushing their heart or relying on others to heal, rescue and fix them . Instead, they are thriving on their own feeling connected with higher self and light team . They are striving and healing , merging and melding in the higher self aspects , naturally sharing love wherever they go , the meld with source love Creator is the ultimate goal of ascension. Seeking God’s love ensures we are filled with peace , love, expanding our light in every moment . The feeling of Source Divine Love in higher dimensions is what heals and cures all things within .
Love transcends the mere act of loving another person in this world. It is the essence that radiates from the heart, encompassing love for many others, our ascending planet, the universe, the higher creator realms.
True love is an omnipotent force that resides in all cosmic spaces, places, people, animals, nature, and the vastness of our oceans. Unconditional Love is the highest dimension that heals a multitude of sin. It is found in the realms of Divine connection and Creation .
With Love and Devoted Ascension Service 💜
By Ascension Lightworkers . ©️
The Mirror.
To reveal that which is hidden. It’s an Archetype – a deep-pattern in our collective minds.
Mirror, mirror, on the wall, show us who we are.
It’s active. It’s grabbed our our mind’s unfolding. We’ve been collectively “captured” by an Archetype.
You think you’re “choosing” – no, you’re not. Your “choices” are arising from places inside you that you don’t comprehend. You are so much more than your consciousness is aware of, and it’s the more that controls what you think and do, not you.
The Mirror is here because it’s time for us to transform into something… more. Our minds formed in times before that are no longer relevant.
We’ve reached the world of abundance we were promised when we set out upon our journey away from chipping stone tools onto a path we call “civilization” – a path of immense trauma and suffering.
The price in human suffering was extraordinarily high to get to this world of magic and plenty. We’ve arrived, the children’s children of those who set out on this new path of evolution so many years ago.
On our journey to here, our unconscious balanced our conscious orientation, unfolding the path beneath our steps as we walked blindly into a future unseen. Now our collective unconscious is preparing our minds for the next step – a doozie.
We’re transforming in our minds to something different. We – inside – will be different.
The Archetype of the Mirror guides us – once you see it, you’ll see it everywhere because it is… everywhere. In us, through us, we are the Mirror that reflects us to us.
The next Archetype in the sequence if the patterns hold true will be the Cauldron of Rebirth – ugh – that’s not pleasant either. But… the rebirth is magnificent – the Phoenix rising is wonderful.
But for the Phoenix to rise from the ashes… there must be ashes.
Believe me, don’t believe me. I don’t really care. I have five more years plus-or-minus two here in this place, then it’s entirely your concern and entirely none of mine.
It’s the way of things.
The problem is NOT that we don’t know what the problem is. The problem is NOT that we don’t know how to fix the problem. The problem is that you don’t listen.
The reason you don’t listen is because you’re working some things out – you have a parasite of trauma in your minds. It’s not us, but it controls us, it makes us do things – terrible things.
It makes you not listen to anything that would expel the mind-virus within us. It wants to live… in us.
We are the host-organism for an alien creature-thing that lives in our minds, in our attachment networks, in our love-and-bonding system.
It’s a specific set of damaged neural networks in the love-and-bonding system of our brains – damaged by trauma – and it’s passed from one generation’s mind to the next through the damaged parenting that the damaged love creates.
The trauma damages our mind – our damaged mind damages our parenting – our damaged parenting inflicts the trauma on the child, damaging their love-and-bonding system… and so it moves from generation to generation, mediated by the damaged parenting that the unresolved trauma creates.
The Mirror will show us – us – so we can extract the mind-parasite that’s formed through thousands of years of immense suffering received through our Ages of Violence – our Ages of Empires – our Ages of Trauma.
It’s my pathology. I’m a trauma psychologist out of foster care, the trans-generational transmission of trauma is spot-on my pathology of expertise. I see it.
I’ve read its source code. I know what the pathogen is going to do before it does.
Which means… I know what you’re going to do before you do.
There are things you must see. Our collective unconscious is opening our self-reflective insight capacity in our frontal lobe executive function systems – The Mirror.
Our self-reflective insight will allow us to see the mind-parasite of trauma that’s within us… so we can extract it and be free of its brutal and savage control.
I’ve read the pathogen’s source code… and it has a Death line – Thanatos. Don’t assume we’ll survive – in truth, none of us are getting out of here alive.
It’s the way of things. The Mirror – to reveal that which is hidden. The sooner you see, the sooner the next phase comes.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857
The most profoundly healing and helpful thing we can offer our alienated child/ren is our own healing. That is the same whether they’re currently in our lives or not. It doesn’t help them to know we’re in pain (angry, grieving, holding onto the past) and it doesn’t draw them back to us, quite the opposite. They also suffered and if they’re ever aware of the part they’ve played (or been induced into playing) there’s enormous guilt and grief and shame for them too. We subconsciously hold onto grief as a reminder, a bridge of sorts to the old life we miss, our alienated child. We feel the void, the ache in our hearts as a physical sensation that, in some ways, we find it hard to let go of, almost as if to do so means we’re forgetting, not doing enough, and we’re not allowed to be happy without feeling guilty. But we owe it to ourselves, and our child/ren to be happy and lead the way. It’s not selfishness. It’s strong and it’s loving. Even without children around, we can start working on ourselves. Healing ourselves is also the way to heal the world. One person at a time, the more we heal, the more people around us can too. It has a ripple effect. Someone has to stop the generational trauma – let it be you. Psychologist, D.W. Winnicott, said we don’t need to be perfect parents, we just need to avoid harming our children. Most of us have childhood wounds, and if we don’t sort them out, we can inadvertently pass them down. As we say, hurt people hurt people, so do healed people heal people.
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I’ve thought this would work many times , over years .
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