Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Message : Archangel Michael

Archangel Michael 💜❤️🌎💜❤️
Via Erena Velazquez💖

My Beloved Souls,

I am Archangel Michael, and I want to congratulate humankind on starting to connect the dots on founding the truth behind the deceptions and lies portrayed for a millennial.

The plans of implementing New World Order are failing everywhere globally. The Darkness is losing the grounds despite their efforts to create fear by raising the prices and creating shortages in the necessities. Their goal is to create confusion and distract everyone from the focus on staying in the Light.

Please, don’t believe the misinformation told by your media. The truth can’t stay hidden anymore. What you are seeing now, it’s the end of era of the elite, who mislead and deprived humanity from living prosperous and happy lives.

You are Light and carry God within you. Nobody can’t stop your evolution into 5D. Right now, only a small percentage of humanity is ready to move to New Age. This situation can change instantly, if the ones, who work behind scenes, are going to disclose finally the truth.

The time has arrived to introduce to general public, what has been occurring around the world. The ones, who are still asleep, need to be exposed to the real reality not illusion. The Cosmic Energies are very high on your planet, which are perfect conditions to help awake more people.

Only the truth can set everyone free. Please, release all of the negative emotions and open yourselves to receive Love and Light from the Cosmic Universal Consciousness. Now, you can manifest and create anything you desire, and just trust yourself that you are capable to be a creator.

Everyone on Mother Earth is a powerful being. The goal of the Darkness was to make you weak and doubtful about your origins. All souls came here from many different Stars, Universes and Galaxies to free this part of Milky Galaxy. Each day you are getting closer and closer to the day, when you are going to see the Golden Age.

Recent events in Ukraine exposed a lot of the truth, who really is the Light, and who is the Darkness. Follow the natural flow coming from the Cosmos. I, Archangel Michael, sending my Love and Courage to everyone. Remember you are not alone, billions routing for your planet. Thank you Universal Channel

You are almost there, be patient and loving to each other.
Archangel Michael

Channeled by Erena Velazquez

Origins & Causes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

When people in society talk about narcissism, there is usually a definitive statement of, “Well it’s caused by childhood trauma…” with an undertone of…”So any aggressive behavior is justified.” However, according to research that’s not always or even usually the case – at least, not in the way people often definitively describe it. There has actually been mixed empirical “results” on the causes of narcissism from studies that have investigated it, although research has yielded surprising associations between parental overvaluation and the traits of narcissism, with less evidence for a direct effect of childhood maltreatment. It’s important to note that there is also no clinical verdict on the cause of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. So even if we learn more about the origins of the traits of narcissism, more research needs to be conducted on NPD as a full-fledged disorder too.

***Childhood trauma regardless of whether it is present or not is also not a justification for abuse. #originsofnarcissism #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #mythsaboutnarcissism #shahidaarabi

Solar Storms

By Azurae Windwalker

WHAT’S UP WITH YOUR BODY NOW? #1 of 3. According to Alex Myers, “During solar storms, masses of luminous energy infiltrate Earth’s atmosphere, and absorbing it can be over-stimulating; so we may notice our energy—and that of people around us—feels super intense, like everyone is extra irritable, emotional, anxious, fatigued, spacey, or stressed. This is likely due to the fact that we are currently in the midst of these powerful solar storms that are emanating powerful electromagnetic energies.

Body & Mind

Solar storms are known to desynchronize our circadian rhythm, which is the internal biological clock that controls our sleep and wake times. Our pineal glands are affected by this electromagnetic activity and produce an increase in melatonin—thus disturbing our sleep and impacting our intuition. We may have enhanced intuition and psychic awareness.

Solar storms are also believed to directly impact our nervous system, causing us to feel extra edgy, cautious, and feisty, and as though we are running on adrenaline in “fight or flight” mode. When these storms occur, we can find ourselves spun out or agitated without knowing why. We may also notice that our senses are on high alert, and that everything feels and sounds louder, brighter, stronger, and more vivid than normal.
Research has found that geomagnetic storms can have a huge effect on our emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical health. Peaks in increased anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, fatigue, and nervousness have been found to coincide with solar activity.

This can be so extreme that many people will feel as though they have entered a new reality as they leave behind their old, outdated thoughts, emotions, and beliefs. The transformation can be so powerful that it can propel people to leave any relationship or dynamic that is causing them pain or destruction. This is similar to the “ascension flu” that occurs when someone is going through an intense awakening period and their body is transcending from a physical one to a “light body.”

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Life is not a Disney movie . Discern 🧐

Dating and relationships are much different now than they used to be.⁣⁣
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Now, we must be discerning and evaluate people before allowing them to be part of our life.⁣⁣
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Love at first sight is a thing of the past, thanks to this era of social media and peoples’ attention spans being the same as a goldfish (that’s actually been scientifically proven).⁣⁣
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So, what this means for us is that we can no longer go on two or three dates with someone and try to form an instant relationship or plan a future with someone we barely know.⁣⁣
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Or try to form a deep friendship with that coworker because we went to lunch with them a couple of times.⁣⁣
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We need boundaries and self-protection more than ever. ⁣⁣
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Most of the people we meet are not compatible with what we want from our close relationships.⁣⁣
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Because we feel connected with someone after a few dates does not, in any way, mean that they feel the same way. ⁣⁣
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Because you may be intimate with them does NOT mean they are planning a future with you or intend to be exclusive.⁣⁣
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Don’t go all in with someone you’ve seen a couple of times just because of the excitement and butterflies. Life is not a Disney movie…we need to be choosy about who we allow into our sacred space.⁣⁣

Free boundary worksheets here:

⚔⚔⁣ https://bit.ly/BoundaryBoss

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Dar⁣
⁣#relationshipgoals #relationships #healthylove #boundaries

Deeply Held Trauma presents as total Self Absorbson, Abuse , Toxic Behaviors

Anyone who acts as a parental alienator has major issues with their mental and emotional health and is incapable of relating to other human beings in a normal loving, caring way – not even their children.

I know this from first hand experience and was as deeply shocked as anyone who has had their children withheld from them as an act of vengeance, regardless of the impact it has on others. Alienators will do and say anything to hurt you, because they are hurting deep inside, and have been for a very long time.

There are common patterns in the alienators’ past. They suffered trauma earlier in their own lives and became detached from normal behaviours and feelings. It does not matter how strong these people appear on the outside, they are weak, vulnerable and insecure on the inside. Don’t expect them to change or seek help as they are terrified of re-visiting their past – they are stuck in their own traumatised state.

You may recognise some of the common patterns with your own alienator; a troubled childhood, possibly with domestic violence, emotional abuse, alcoholism, lack of loving or supporting parents, or being over favoured and knowing no boundaries. This list continues but some of these will be very recognisable to readers.

It is shocking to the alienated parent how quickly their child can go from being loving to not wanting to see them. The child is living in fear that the alienating parent will punish them in various forms if they do not comply with the alienator’s demands. The child goes into self protection. They are hugely conflicted but side with the people they are most afraid of, who threatens to do them the most harm. This is nothing less than emotional abuse and creates trauma for the child that can stay with them for years.

Whilst it does not change your situation, it can help to better understand why this is happening. Your experience is not because, you or your children did something wrong, but because your X is mentally and emotionally affected by trauma in their past. This is not to make them out as being a victim as any of them can seek help at any time.

Legal and social services remain poorly equipped to identify and deal with parental alienation, which means you are often left to your own devices to manage the situation as best you can.

3 top tips:

1 – Make sure you are in a good mental and emotional state so that you can deal with the situation. There are many tools and techniques to build your mental and emotional resilience

2 – Where you have contact, focus on rebuilding your relationship with your child by concentrating on their needs and support, rather than involving them in the alienation battle of asking them to deal with any of your own issues

3 – Create boundaries between you and the alienating parent. Tactically, it is helpful to remember that you are dealing with people that demonstrate infantile behaviour and you may need to manage them accordingly

Mother

”As you remember you are a
Daughter of the Cosmic Mother.
Daughter of the As Above, So Below
who aspires to the heights and
plunges the depths as She
walks between the worlds.

So, scream like the Banshee
and keen over the bones.
Light the fires of ritual
and offer prayers to the
Ancient and Future ones.

Though the world may change and,
perhaps, not in the way you desire
while grief and trauma shift and morph,
you will survive and even prosper
IF you remember who you are
and the power you hold.
Remember…

She who is the Great Mother Goddess,
Warrioress and Ancestor and more.
She who is Ancient Bone Woman
and She who is yet to be re-born.

Remember…

She who will always hold and inform you.

Remember…

You are you own Way-Shower and need
only look for the place of the next light.

Remember.
Remember.
Remember.

Excerpt from The Place of the Next Light by Arlene Bailey, ©2020, 2021 featured in Re-Membering with Goddess: Healing the Patriarchal Perpetuation of Trauma

Art: Prayers for the Tween Time by Arlene Bailey