Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Toxic Family

Sherrie Campbell PhD

One of the most frustrating things about our narcissistic family members is they see nothing wrong with the mass destruction they leave in their wake. They have no interest in changing, and do not appear to suffer from, or recognize, their complete lack of empathy. This is exactly what allows them to continue on as the vile person they are.

In fact, the more they abuse, the more divorced from empathy they become. The more divorced from empathy they become, the crueler they grow to be. For this reason, they will continually up the anti on the heartless ways in which they treat you.

If you can recognize this and understand that people like this do exists in the family system, you won’t be so hard on yourself when you choosing to remove them from your life.

If you have removed them, they earned it.

S-word fear failed our youth

The “S” Word: How the Culture of Fear Has Failed Youth in Crises

By Genevieve D

I learned at a young age to correlate my suicidal thoughts and feelings with panic and punishment from adults. To this day, I have a deep distrust in mental health professionals.

I know people are scared. And I know I can’t fully understand because I am not a parent. But I have been the child. And I have had the parents called. And I have seen how much worse that made things. I have been taken to the hospital. I have had police show up at my door.

None of those things ever helped. They only ever made it so much worse.

www.madinamerica.com/2022/11/s-word-fear-failed-youth/

Winter

“Your soul is made for sleep. For the rest phase, for the wintering, for the slow time and the night time.

Your body is made for rest. For the kind, soft pillow and the blankets tucked around your head, for the slow turn of breath – the ins and the outs of rhythm that run their gentle course within.

Your mind is made for the quiet time, the spent time, the calm time, when the red rattle of words and worry subside to leave you in a fallow patch, a spacious patch – a cosy patch, where stars are seen and sensed as a glitter of miraculous and guiding lights and the moon suspends like a jewel on the forehead of your gorgeous night face.

Go to sleep. This is your sleep time and your calm time.”

– Camilla Slater 2022 ©️🌸

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Letting Go

The message this morning was to let go

and I can assure you that’s been forced

and choice until I again feel “naked” before

Divine who knows my heart .

The source is not out there it’s within me

Which attracts more than it repels .

The need to know as much as possible from

my decades of experiences and research

and then blasphemy me or channel it as

“theirs” 💯

I have only myself which has got me to this

space in between . However , there is clarity

about my responsibilities in closing out

cycles that our grandchildren will not

inherit as the “ sack cloth “ of servitude to

very dark secrets in ancestors is no longer

a legacy .

I did not receive one moment of truth and

sense change , only denial and projection

which I have long accepted as self talk .

My healing included detaching from his

shadow , and keeping faith that our sons

would awaken and recognize the better

healthier choice to heal these trauma . Past

but so triggered , so shamed , so resistant

as they channel their father ; I surrender

them once again to Divine ,

Having had no healthy connection for

over 20! Years and “ No contact “ but for

one I did business with , the dimming of

having had a loving family being a reality .

Just as he masked , they masked , and have

no loving , compassionate, respect for me.

Letting go , presenting my experience , the

total lack of Justice and civil rights and

mostly the effort to repress my spiritual

growth , emotionally abusing my very

heart and soul .

Severed is The Living Connection , that is

destroyed by an individual who must

win .

Letting go of the recent lesson in partnership

a repeat lesson involving children which

was and is hard but it’s done .. surrendered.

Letting Go

Letting go of 6 th month in a motel as

my home becomes a reality .

Despite the effort to keep me low financially

which is less appealing to a suitor , as I

began my single hood , with zero credit

and making it worse by refinance quotes

as I sought healthcare replacements

I tanked around 500.

So I was thrilled to get my paper credit

report to find my score at 630 and lots

I can dispute !

I have much to be grateful for , as I listen to

some happy birds , enjoying the bare trees .

I am surrendered to the changes in my life

that I have prayed for since I was a child

where I choose to hold the childlike wonder

and deflect within or without and childish

repetitive trauma or drama .

Have a Very Blessed Day

Peace ☮️ & Love ❤️

Dona Luna 🐸

Difference Between Narcissist & a Pleaser

“If your emotional foundation is shaky to start with because there never was any support or nurturing, it becomes tougher to face new challenges, and this often leads to retraumatization through recurring experiences.” Roland

#PTSDnarcissist

rolandbal.com/narcissistic/

Depression Treatment Increase

In my case , as in many , it was Domestic Abuse : Axis l – Marital Problems and Trauma which was over looked , and treated with toxic to me RX which induced what he termed Bipolar l

A total and complete sham

Between 1987 and 2007, the number of people receiving treatment for depression in the United States increased fourfold (and has continued to rise more gradually since). However, the prevalence of depression either stayed the same—or may have even increased—during that time. Researchers call this the “treatment-prevalence paradox” (TPP).

Now, in a new study, researchers review the seven possible explanations for this—and the evidence for and against each one. The study was led by Johan Ormel at the University of Groningen, The Netherlands, and published in Clinical Psychology Review.

Ormel and his co-authors explain:

“The increased availability of effective treatments should shorten depressive episodes, reduce relapses, and curtail recurrences. Combined, these treatment advances unequivocally should result in lower point-prevalence estimates of depression. Have these reductions occurred? The empirical answer clearly is NO.”

Despite More Treatments for Depression, Prevalence Doesn’t Decrease—Why?

www.madinamerica.com/2022/10/treatment-depression-increased/

Spiritual meaning of Umbilical Cord around baby’s neck ?

Our 1 born had the cord wrapped around his neck 3 times and was a shade of blue purple . The cord was clamped which I now know to be so wrong

I was told his birth was a sign of his having high psychic abilities and yes a gift 🎁 to our world .

I have prayed for the right sources to educate him of his abilities 🙏

Bringing a life into the world is one of the most precious things we can experience. But, in some cases, the baby can come out of the womb with the umbilical cord wrapped around the neck.

✨ You need to consider the spiritual meaning of the umbilical cord around the neck to know the message you are getting about your baby.

spiritualinsights.info/spiritual-meaning-of-umbilical-cord-around-neck/