Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Nutritional Truths – Children

A child who eats 2 cups of Kraft Macaroni & Cheese, a small bag of Skittles, and 8 ounces of Crush Orange will consume 102 milligrams of artificial food dyes. Behavioral tests found as little as 30 mg can cause neurological injuries.

Then parents are told their kid has ADD/ADHD

https://www.cspinet.org/new/201405071.html

Family who view you as having no meaning in their life

Your toxic family members do not view you has holding ‘meaning’ in their life. They view you as someone who is or isn’t “useful” to their life. Love isn’t a consideration because love is not something severely character disordered people feel.

To only be valued for your usefulness sets you up to ‘earn’ love that should not have to be earned. Yet, ironically, your family members will not feel as if they have to earn your love. They feel entitled to your love

This hypocrisy is exactly what makes them poisonous.

Hold the mindset that it is not your job to become lovable through being useful. This idea sets you down a self-destructive path of learning to over-function to “earn your way” through life.

Over functioning is a form of self-neglect. A pattern that can be more easily overcome by setting the necessary boundaries on those who demand your usefulness.

Angel Message : Walk away from drama , trauma

The Angels say that when you find yourself suddenly on stage in the personal drama of another and are playing a role you didn’t audition for, it can be difficult to get off of that stage and out of the drama. It is wise to just walk away rather than engage. Don’t be a sympathizer or giver of advice to the chronic complainers. Don’t fight back with those who would attack you in some way. You waste so much energy doing this and nothing is gained by either party. Just walk away. Walk away not in anger or fear. When you don’t feel guilt or fear as you walk away, you are non-judgmentally refusing to let them drain your energy or pull you into that black hole that is their life. You are exhibiting not only courage but wisdom and compassion. Your Angels stand by you when you need help to not be influenced or intimidated by their negativity. Walk away with love in your heart and with a smile tell them that you don’t think you can help them at this time. By removing yourself from another’s negative force field you are creating a different vibration. They may not like the message you give them but they will get it.

Unforsaken

UNFORSAKEN

He wanted to borrow her light,

For it comforted him in the night.

He wanted to borrow her eyes

To see all the beauty she finds.

He wanted to borrow her lips

Just borrow her taste, just a kiss.

He wanted to borrow her heart

For his was so lost in the dark.

She willingly offered her light,

But she felt quite lost in his night,

And she offered of him her eyes

But it left her vision blind,

She melted her taste in his kiss

And now it’s the taste she does miss.

She gave him her beautiful heart,

But he held it in all of the dark.

She waited for all to return

But the borrowed was taken and burned,

So she lost all her love in his night,

She forgot she was holding the light,

But her eyes have a vision so deep

That her heart has no choice but to keep,

So as she burns her truth in the night,

Her wings start to lift her in flight.

See, she gave but nothing was taken,

She just lost it in all the forsaken,

But the truth of her love never died,

It just gave her the dance of the night.

In the night we give love sacrificed

Till we fall, in the empty of sight

Yet the fall is always to find

A love that is ne’er sacrificed.

Each time our love is taken,

Let it grow, never leave it forsaken,

For love always grows, never dies,

But the night has to be sacrificed.

Tis the contrast of dark with the light

That gives every wing strength to fly.

We make love, dancing colours to life,

Making rainbows; we rain till we shine.

Heather Lea

Artist unknown