Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Why Vision & Dental are not Covered under Health Care

Waking in 2005 days included discovery that my cobra serve was running out , and legally I had been made ” responsible ” for my own health care .

Up until then I was trying to stay current with dental care especially since the diagnosis of Sojourners Syndrome(dry mouth) which was so severe I had no saliva which is very bad for dental health .

When I brought this to the attention of my psychiatrist, he opened a huge reference book and laughed as he said I was 4 out of 100 to develop Sojourns due to RX interaction which was Paxil .

I did try dental insurance which did not cover biological dentist and for which I had to travel for .

I eventually ( with inheritance money) had root canals which were porcelain capped removed ( out of town) . It wasn’t that bad but abscesses were discovered under the caps and Dr suctioned them rather than have them examined .

I then drove out of state for work as I could afford it which totally ended previous to my 2020 eviction , due to arsenic poisoning, I lost a 3 part bridge on my left and partially lost both eye teeth with both having abscesses that I have tried to heal due to not having the money to see professionals who will not do further harm .

Implants are not an option for me , the last Dr suggested I cap all my front teeth .

I have a partial for those removed root canals which has never been adjusted ( 10 years) and my bite plate finally broke due to age and grinding intensely as few weeks ago .

I have ordered a kit which I pray resolves the issue . I have been wearing my partial which is not the best thing but my teeth are so fragile it helps a little .

My teeth are very important to me and I am aware that teeth are being regrown in experiments and testing .

Removing all silver / mercury from my mouth has been done to a point . The canals were possibly filled with a mixture including mercury ! That can lead to bone loss which I definitely do not want but the Dr did not insist and I was not funded to pay the cost of doing so

I was having major work done pre COVID and did not get a return call from Dental office to complete procedures which required I drive out of state for .

I cannot and will not see a dentist who is not educated about mercury and the composite that contain the bad form of plastic which again is a neurotoxin .

My bite is way off , my jaw may sound loud as I chew and I note that my last 5 years of marriage as the 15 before it , my former partner had no interest in my health and neglected his own . His teeth had rotted to nubs and he saved between traveling and exotic cars etc to have implants . He lives near 5G and must be adversely affected . One of our sons ( that I know of ) has tons of silver fillings and my earlier efforts to inform him have not motivated him to seek professional assistance.

Statistics point to root canals leading to Cancer . What other body part is deadened and left in the body ? Each bite of food , each chew releases toxins .

Charlie Brown is a source of dental info

DAMS is another

And a lady I worked with , an educator and highly knowledgeable is Marie Grey Flowers and her web site is

Mercury Poisoned

Mercury was outlawed in thermometers but still allowed in dental practice and does adversely affect patient and Dental professionals .

Fluoride is another neurotoxin and should not be allowed especially in developing brains.

Boron aides in bone and dental health (not calcium)

Eyes

It’s been over 5 years since I had an eye exam and glasses which I paid out of pocket for and it’s very expensive . I did not get non glare however which I really need .

Using my cell phone for several years for lack of foundation and desk top etc have not helped

I currently have the no pay Medicare and planned to get a better plan and a supplemental in 2021 and 2022 but that was blown out of the water by the fraudulent acts of a business partner who was after all I possess .

He failed but I’m still renting a motel room May- Dec and storage and lack funds to obtain coverage that serves my needs .

I have been uninsured since 2005, had a lawyer , and made every effort to buy coverage and was suckered in by 4/5 insurance companies including Anthem who charged me 3k just to be able to sign up at $1000 per month , no dental , no eye coverage .

My 3k was not refunded though I was not covered for even 5 minutes!!!

That was common with the previous companies ; having to pay a fee and then getting dropped with the 1st submittal .

One company did not cover Virginia!!! After waiting 3 months for a neurologist, he told me he wasn’t taking new clients but was covering himself for his office not getting pre approval before my visit .

A colonoscopy was pre approved and then rejected which I made payments on until I made it clear that the hospital bore responsibility for allowing the procedure.

One huge reason I sold my last house was due to the hospital’s force of liens etc to pay medical debts .

Less than a week after signing up I received a bill for $3000 , and with a $1000 house payment , I just gave up on buying health care that does not provide coverage that I need and deserve .

It was just another part of the matrix I escaped ; I don’t understand how or why such gross professional concepts and concepts are allowed and why everyone is not entitled to the healthiest options .

m.dailykos.com/stories/2022/12/1/2138849/-The-frustrating-reasons-dental-and-vision-care-are-separate-from-your-regular-health-insurance

Waking to the Truth / The Psychological Abuse of the Alienated Child

How does a child cope with ALIENATION from a parent they LOVE?

A child who has been induced into aligning with one parent against another has to survive this trauma however they can. Often they ‘split’ and this is to almost become a different person. It has been described as a ‘false persona’ while the true self is in itself alienated and hidden behind a false facade. This makes it ‘easier’ to cope with having to take on the false persecutory beliefs of the alienating parent who they feel they must align with (to survive). In this way, we could see the child’s anger, criticism, disdain, and rejection of the ‘other’ parent, as coping mechanisms too. They just can’t deal with it all. They’re dealing with coercive control, lies, enmeshment … they have been weaponised against a previously loved parent (they still do love). But at some point, when the child/ren has that ‘lightbulb moment’ and starts to see things different/more independently, it is extraordinarily difficult for them/their ego to accept how they’ve been played. The shame and guilt is huge. The false persona has to be replaced with the true, authentic self. They have to deal with feelings of anger towards the alienating parent, and learn to forgive and understand why they did what they did. They have to find a way to forgive the mental health and legal system that supported their continued alienation from a loving parent – from the healthy-minded parent. This child needs to reconnect, not only with their alienated parent but also their true self who split off in order to cope. This is why the target/alienated parent must do all they can to empower themselves with an understanding of the pathology, and emotional and mental resilience, despite a shocking lack of support out there, and the anti-PA campaigners. Strive to be happy. Stay strong. And please see more of my posts on Instagram. I post 2-6 each day to spread awareness about parental alienation, to inform and to uplift. I hope they help. https://www.instagram.com/charliemccready1/

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Man with honor ; No Worries

It’s hard to explain how it feels to be with a man that you never have to worry about. You never have to question or second guess. You never have to call him repeatedly, never catch him in a lie. Never wonder where he is or when he’s coming home. Never wonder when the next time he will break your heart may be. Never wonder if he thinks you’re perfect, or if you’re his dream come true. Never wonder if the love is real. Never wonder if it’s going to last, or if it’s going to be forever.

I never have to wonder. And until you get that same exact thing…. keep waiting. If you’ve given up hope that this man exists, allow me to reassure you, he’s out there.