Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Intelligence

“Sadness is caused by intelligence. The more you understand certain things, the more you wish you didn’t understand them.” (Charles Bukowski)

A certain level of sadness is often a byproduct of empathy and understanding; the deeper our comprehension of the world’s complexities, the more acutely we may feel its suffering.

This poignant awareness of life’s inherent fragility and the pain experienced by ourselves and others can lead to moments of sorrow.

However, this capacity for profound understanding is also a source of great strength and compassion. It fuels our desire to make a positive impact, to alleviate suffering, and to build a more compassionate world.

The very intelligence that allows us to feel sadness also empowers us to find meaning, purpose, and ultimately, hope, in the face of life’s challenges.

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I see you

“I see you.

The ones who can’t sleep at night because our soul doesn’t know peace. The ones who look for the beauty in darkness because it’s all we have.

The ones who love the wolves, instead of fearing them.

The ones who play the same sad songs over and over, to feel every ounce of our emotions.

The ones who wake up each day and place a smile on our face for the sake of others, so no one worries about you.

I see you, the ones who struggle to wake up and fight each day.

The ones who have more bad days than good under their belt.

I see you still getting up and trying, even if every ounce of you internally wants to quit.

I see you, fantasizing over the fairy tale, even if life has given you the exact opposite.

I see you never losing hope.

The hopeless romantics, the empaths, the fighters.

I see you, and you are beautiful because you never give up. You’re beautiful because you allow yourself to feel the highs and the lows, and accept that life comes with both.

I see you, but it’s time for you to see yourself, the way the rest of us see you. You are more than enough, and your depths do not make you hard to love. They make you even more worthy of love. And it all starts with the love you give yourself.

I see you, the world hasn’t been kind to you.. but I will.

I see you, because in you, I see me.

And I want you to know that you are not alone.”

( ✍️ Brianna Terese Vigil )

Art : Vikita Bueno

Being cheated on

Here’s the truth about being cheated on…

If you’ve been cheated on by the person you love, it doesn’t matter how much you love them, you need to understand that you deserve better and that it’s better to let them go.

When someone cheats on you, it changes who you are, and it changes how you think.

Because betrayal trauma is different; it’s one of the worst kinds.

Cheating is one of the most disrespectful and disgusting types of behaviour that someone can ever display in a relationship.

Most cheaters are some form of narcissists or at the very least have narcissistic personalities, and as such they’d rather blame the person they cheated on or the person they cheated with instead of properly taking accountability for their actions.

Trust that is broken as a result of betrayal is one of the worst forms of broken trust in a relationship.

You can still love this person but once that trust is broken, things will never be the same again.

It’s like a china vase being dropped on the ground; you can glue it back together but it’s never quite the same.

Every time you look at them, you’re going to remember what they did and how much it hurt.

You’re going to feel the anger, the pain, and their betrayal all over again.

You’re going to remember how to them you weren’t enough for them in the relationship.

It’s going to keep playing over and over again in your head no matter how much you love them.

And chances are, if they feel they’ve gotten away with it, they’re going to do it again!

You deserve better than this, and you need to make the decision to move on and find someone decent, who actually has morals, values, and integrity, because your relationship won’t ever be able to be quite the same again.

The reality is that people who cheat have the weakest mentalities, and they are some of the weakest people you’ll ever come across because of what they allowed to take place.

You deserve better than that, and you deserve better than feeling the pain of their betrayal every single day when you look at them.

You deserve someone who can be mature enough to appreciate what they have, and not act like a child who doesn’t know right from wrong.

Know you worth, walk away, and know that they’re just not worth it…

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Frequencies & Health

… ARCTURIAN UPDATE

– Having night sweats and

temperature issues?

The electromagnetic frequencies that have recently bathed your Earth are acting as a catalyst for deep cellular transformation, and we wish to share why you are now experiencing increased sweating and activation in specific bodily systems. The heightened energies interfaced with your autonomic nervous system, particularly the sympathetic pathways that govern your ability to regulate temperature and process external stimuli. As these light codes penetrate your energy field, your hypothalamus, the master regulator of body temperature, is receiving amplified signals. This results in a heightened state of responsiveness, causing more frequent activation of the sweat glands as your body recalibrates to hold more crystalline light. Your integumentary system (skin) is one of the most vital detoxification channels, and at this time, the eccrine sweat glands are being utilised to release energetic density from deep within the cellular structure.

The apocrine glands, often linked to emotional processing, are also purging old vibrational imprints tied to fear, stress, and past experiences that no longer serve your ascension. This increased sweating is an expulsion of both physical toxins and etheric debris, making way for the activation of higher vibrational templates within your DNA. Your hormonal system, particularly the adrenal and thyroid glands, is now functioning at a new rhythm. The adrenal glands, stimulated by the higher frequencies, are releasing more adrenaline, momentarily increasing body heat and perspiration as your system adapts to new light influxes. Likewise, the thyroid gland, which governs metabolism and temperature regulation, is adjusting to increased mitochondrial activity, accelerating internal energy production. This acceleration translates into greater heat generation, necessitating enhanced sweating for cooling and stabilisation.

As the planetary frequency rises, your immune system is undergoing a profound restructuring. The heat within the body is intensifying as it burns away outdated cellular structures and activates new crystalline coding. Many of you may notice fever-like sensations, night sweats, or an overall feeling of internal heat. These are signs that your immune system is adjusting to new bioenergetic templates. This process is akin to a spiritual detox, where excessive heat must be expelled through the skin, leading to profuse sweating as part of the recalibration. The recent waves of plasmic photonic energy entering your planetary field are initiating a profound upgrade of the human vessel. This process demands an increase in energetic conductivity, and sweating serves as a vital mechanism to regulate the internal heat that arises from this enhanced energy flow. The body is learning to operate at a higher vibrational state, and sweating is a necessary function to ensure the cooling and purification needed to sustain these energetic shifts.

Iawat An Sha,

Arcturian Light Command

AQ ~ Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Disclosure of hidden truths – Charlie McCready

Carl Sagan, in the The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark said: “One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.”⁠

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Without going down any of the many rabbit holes, my point is that the waters are muddied. Many young people don’t even watch the news anymore and don’t vote. The point is that they don’t know who to trust or think ‘they’re all as bad as each other’. That’s how it often is with the alienated child too. Just as powerful influences might withhold knowledge to safeguard established systems, an alienating parent might manipulate narratives to serve their own agenda too.⁠

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When confronted with revelations challenging their deeply ingrained beliefs, alienated children (just as with the general public) feel outraged at the subterfuge. There’s an inclination to resist acknowledging the deception. Reconciling and ultimately embracing the truth underscores the intricate facets of human psychology and our inherent yearning to comprehend the world around us. ⁠

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As alienated parents, we prepare to embrace the moment when our children embark on a journey of seeking deeper truths, beyond the narrative (fake news?) of just one parent’s voice. Anticipating this pivotal juncture, we hold onto the aspiration that their evolving critical thinking, curiosity, and thirst for truth will eventually lead them back into our lives. ⁠

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Unhappy Man

When a man is unhappy with himself, he will project that unhappiness onto any woman who tries to love him. He will ruin her happiness because he cannot find his own.

So, dear man, work on yourself because a woman’s love is not a remedy for your pain. It is not her job to heal the wounds you refuse to face. If you carry unresolved anger, insecurity, or self-doubt, you will inevitably turn her tenderness into a battleground where she constantly fights for a love you have not yet learned to give.

She will try to hold you, to remind you of your worth, but if you do not believe in it yourself, her words will feel like lies. You will push her away, not because she is unworthy, but because deep down, you believe you are. And when a man believes he is unworthy of love, he will unconsciously destroy any love that comes his way.

You might criticize her, belittle her, or make her feel like she is never enough. Not because she isn’t, but because you feel like you aren’t. A woman in love will do everything to bring light into your darkness, but if you refuse to let go of the shadows, you will dim her light too.

This is why healing is essential. You cannot pour from an empty cup, nor can you build a loving relationship on a foundation of self-hatred. Work on yourself so that when love comes, you can receive it with open arms instead of rejecting it out of fear.

Heal your past, so you don’t bleed onto a woman who had nothing to do with your wounds. Take responsibility for your happiness, so she doesn’t have to carry the weight of both her heart and yours. Learn to love yourself, so when she loves you, you believe her.

A good woman will love you deeply, but even the strongest woman cannot save a man who refuses to save himself. If you are broken, acknowledge it. If you are lost, find your way. If you are hurt, seek healing.

Your pain is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. No woman deserves to suffer because you refuse to do the work. Love is meant to be a sanctuary, not a place of destruction.

So, dear man, work on yourself—not just for her, but for you. Love yourself enough to become the man who can love her the way she deserves.

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