Tag: Women

Strong Women

A weak man will never know what to do with a strong woman. She’s not difficult… she’s direct. She’s not rude… she’s honest. But to a man who’s insecure, inconsistent, or emotionally underdeveloped, her strength will feel like a threat instead of a blessing.

She’ll speak her mind… and he’ll flinch. She’ll ask for clarity… and he’ll say she’s “too much.” She’ll set boundaries… and he’ll call her controlling. She’ll challenge him to grow… and he’ll say she’s trying to change him. But deep down, it’s not her words that bother him… it’s the fact that she sees right through him. He can’t manipulate her with charm. He can’t pacify her with empty promises. He can’t keep her quiet with crumbs of attention.

So what does he do? He blames her. Blames her attitude. Her independence. Her expectations. Anything to avoid admitting that he simply wasn’t ready for her. That he was intimidated by her self-respect. That he couldn’t handle being held accountable. Because a strong woman will not beg. She will not chase. And she will not water herself down to be more “digestible” for a man who’s still trying to figure out who he is.

She wasn’t too loud… he was just used to silence. She wasn’t too bold… he was just used to women who stayed quiet to keep the peace. She wasn’t too intense… he just wasn’t prepared for someone who didn’t need him, but chose him. And that’s the difference. A weak man craves control… a strong woman demands partnership. And if he’s not ready to meet her as an equal, she won’t shrink to make him comfortable.

He’ll tell people she had an attitude. That she was cold. That she was difficult to love. But the truth is… he was just too scared of what her strength revealed about his weakness. He couldn’t rise to her level, so he tried to dim her light instead.

Let him. Because a strong woman knows her worth. She doesn’t exist to be understood by weak men… she exists to be loved fully by a man strong enough to stand beside her, not one who runs the moment he’s asked to show up.

Jamir Hezekiah

Crone Time

This time belongs to the crone.

She’s arriving into the greatest time of her life.

Creativity is blossoming, even exploding within her.

She’s never felt more free than now and she’s never felt more empowered than now, to be all of herself.

She has no image to safeguard.

She has a reservoir of energy like never before.

She’s the wise teacher our planet needs now.

She’s holding vital information.

From elderly, she’s becoming the elder…

(✍️ Sukhvinder Sircar )

Art : Autumn Skye

Toxic Women

She’s toxic, right? That’s the story you’re telling everyone now… but let’s back up for a second. Was she toxic when she gave you her trust, completely and without hesitation? Was she toxic when she believed every word you said, even when her gut told her something wasn’t right? Was she toxic when she kept choosing you, over and over, even after you showed her why she shouldn’t?

Or did she become “toxic” after you broke her spirit?

After the lies you told… after the nights she cried herself to sleep wondering why she wasn’t enough… after the silent treatments, the manipulation, the disrespect, the gaslighting. After the texts from other women. After you made her feel like she was losing her mind for reacting to the things you were actually doing. You didn’t just hurt her…you rewired her.

She wasn’t toxic. She was tired.

She stayed through heartbreak after heartbreak, still hoping you’d change, still trying to love you through the damage. But the more she stayed, the more pieces of herself she lost. And when she finally started snapping… when the love turned into survival… suddenly, she’s the problem?

No. You don’t get to break a woman down and then call her crazy for not being whole.

You don’t get to paint her as bitter or unstable when all she ever wanted was loyalty, effort, and truth.

The truth is, you damaged someone who would have given you the world. And now you want sympathy because she’s no longer soft with you? You didn’t just lose a good woman. You turned her into someone she never wanted to be. That’s not toxicity… that’s trauma. And it came from you.

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“Crazy ” Women

Have you ever noticed how the moment a woman refuses to tolerate lies, disrespect, or deceit, she’s suddenly labeled as “difficult”? How the second she stands up for herself, draws a line, or refuses to accept less than she deserves, she becomes “unstable,” “crazy,” or “bitter”? It’s almost like the world has a problem with women who have standards… especially when those standards challenge the comfort of a man who’s used to getting away with doing the bare minimum.

Let’s be real…. a woman who speaks her truth, calls out toxic behavior, and walks away from anything that disrespects her is not broken. She’s not hard to love. She’s not angry for no reason. She’s just tired of pretending she doesn’t see the red flags, tired of shrinking herself to keep the peace, tired of swallowing her emotions to protect someone else’s ego.

It’s not that she’s bitter… it’s that she’s done being betrayed and expected to stay sweet about it. It’s not that she’s unstable… it’s that she’s exhausted from carrying the weight of her own loyalty while constantly being tested. And it’s definitely not that she’s crazy… it’s that she finally stopped ignoring what her intuition was screaming all along.

The truth is, many men call women “crazy” when they can’t manipulate them. They call them “bitter” when they refuse to accept disrespect. They call them “difficult” when they realize she’s not going to play small just to be loved.

But here’s what they don’t understand: a woman who knows her worth is powerful. A woman who says, “I’m not accepting less than I give,” is unstoppable. And if protecting her peace makes her “too much”…. then let her be too much. Because the right man will never be intimidated by her strength, her boundaries, or her voice. He will honor it.

So let them talk. Let them misunderstand her. Because being labeled for standing firm is a small price to pay for keeping her dignity intact.

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