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Alienator Abuser : I’m the only parent you need- Charlie McCready

It’s hard for us to get inside the mind of a parent who is willing to hurt their children by denying them a relationship with their other loving and loved parent. They actively undermine the other parent in the child’s eyes, they tell lies, and they obstruct and damage the relationship as much as they can. If there is an event or date in the diary with the ‘target’ parent, the alienating parent will most likely try to sabotage it or make it difficult. The child learns to work around placating and pleasing the alienating parent. Why? Because the alienating parent is jealous of your relationship with the child and because they want to punish you for triggering in them negative feelings about themselves – any insecurities, fears, and childhood traumas. Or if not negative feelings, it could be an ego wound stemming from narcissistic traits triggered upon separation/divorce and causing angry, arrogant, vengeful behaviours and pathogenic parenting. This is no excuse for their behaviour by some of the reasons they do what they do, which is not in the child’s best interests, only theirs. This is also why it is very difficult/impossible to co-parent with them, even though family courts and counsellors think this is possible and like to advocate for this. Alienating parents have no desire to co-parent, only to erase the other parent from their child’s life until the child believes they act autonomously when they take on the thoughts, beliefs and behaviours of the alienating parent (shared persecutory delusions). This is coercive control, which is abuse. Getting inside the head of the alienator is helpful because it helps us think the unthinkable – that these people will hurt their children to hurt us. And they do it under the guise of love and protection. These behaviours are abusive. It is child psychological abuse and spousal psychological abuse. It is a mental health crisis.

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Mars Conjunct Neptune

During the alignment of Mars and Neptune, the boundary between the conscious and subconscious realms fades, and the line between fate and free blurs. It’s a period marked by sudden, unexplainable connections and intense deja vu moments, where dreams take on a prophetic quality, guiding us towards encounters that feel predestined.

During this period, soulmates may emerge, bringing connections that transcend logic and reason. These profound connections are often foreshadowed by vivid dreams or intuitive insights, offering glimpses into the unfolding of our destiny.

In witnessing this planetary meeting, we come to understand the captivating enchantment of the Universe, where each decision and interaction holds significant meaning in the trajectory of our soul’s journey.

Over the next few weeks, here are a few things that may manifest:

Intensified desires and passions

Increased susceptibility to manipulation or deception

Heightened creativity and imagination

Tendency towards idealism or romanticism

Potential for spiritual or mystical experiences

Difficulty in asserting oneself or taking decisive action

Desire for transcendence or escape from reality

Enhanced sensitivity to subtle energies and vibrations

Potential for confusion or disorientation

Yearning for connection with something greater than oneself

A need for clarity amidst the fog of uncertainty

Longing for a sense of purpose or direction

Seeking solace in artistic expression or creative pursuits

Feeling drawn to acts of compassion or selflessness

Potential for disillusionment or disappointment

Heightened empathy and compassion towards others

Strong intuitive impulses or gut feelings

Desire for meaningful connections and soulful relationships.

Embracing the mysteries of the unknown with curiosity and wonder.

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Mars Conjunct Neptune

Thank you

Alex Myles ❤️

Men vs Bears

This is for all the men who are big mad that women are saying they’d rather encounter a bear in the woods than a man.

For all the man screaming “this isn’t fair, it’s not all men!”

For all the men who are Stubbornly. Not. Getting. It.

First, we don’t care that it’s not fair. Second, you men are the whole reason this conversation exists. YOU made this problem. YOU.

🐻 A bear won’t hit you in the face with a brick if you won’t give it your phone number.

🐻 A bear won’t stalk you if it told you you’re pretty and you said you weren’t interested.

🐻 A bear won’t pretend to be kind to get you to lower your guard.

🐻 A bear won’t lock you in a basement for months to torture you.

🐻 A bear generally won’t bother you if you’re not bothering it.

🐻 If you encounter a bear, it will almost always retreat slowly because it means you no harm.

🐻 If you do get attacked by a bear and you say so, people will believe you.

🐻 No one will ask you what you were wearing that made the bear attack you.

🐻 No one will ask you how much you had to drink.

🐻 No one will ask you what you were thinking, being in the woods.

🐻 No one will ask you if you even tried to fight back.

🐻 No one will ask you if you led the bear to believe you wanted to be attacked.

🐻 No one will condemn you for not fighting back harder.

🐻 No one will arrest you for harming the bear.

🐻 No one will say you deserved the attack.

🐻 No one will ask how many bears you allowed to attack you before.

🐻 The bear won’t say you were asking for it.

🐻 The bear won’t say it was consensual.

🐻 The bear won’t try to convince everyone you’re lying.

🐻 The bear won’t get his buddies to maul you too.

🐻 The bear won’t threaten you to get you to keep the attack a secret.

🐻 If you survive a bear attack, you don’t have to worry that the bear might be good friends with medical staff or the police.

🐻 You won’t have to hear that you’re making it all up to get attention.

🐻 You won’t have your reputation called into question.

🐻 You won’t get called a slut.

🐻 People won’t tell you you’re paranoid for being cautious around bears.

🐻 People won’t tell you that not all bears are dangerous.

🐻 If a bear attacks you, you won’t be told it wouldn’t be fair to ruin the bear’s future by bringing it up.

🐻 You won’t be told the bear is from a nice family and they don’t deserve the humiliation of an arrest.

🐻 IF A BEAR ATTACKS YOU, WE KILL THE BEAR SO IT DOESN’T HARM ANYONE ELSE.

👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤👤

If you still don’t get it, consider this:

Many women in the woods carry bear spray…

…AND IT’S NOT BECAUSE OF BEARS.

And finally, ask yourself this: If you hear human footsteps near you in the woods, are you hoping it’s a man or a woman? Pretty much EVERY woman would be praying it’s a woman.

In 2020-2022, bears killed a whopping 8 people in North America. Even if all 8 were women, that’s not even close to the approximately 12,000 women who were killed by men in that time period.

Bears = 8

Men = 12,000

It’s a real head scratcher guys.

It’s a YOU problem.

Beautiful Girl

Beautiful girl, when you are finished falling, after you hit rock bottom and watch yourself come apart into a million pieces, no one is staying to help you collect yourself, no one is sticking around to pick through your pieces to decide which parts of you are worth keeping. That’s for you to decide. So stay down for as long as you need to. This is the most important part. Take your time. Pay attention. You already broke. So the easy part is over. Go slow….I know, you thought the breaking was the most painful chapter. It wasn’t. Turn the page. The next part is much longer. It’s the healing. The rise. The comeback. It’s the birth of the new you. And it’s not easy. But you are strong and brave and worth it. You’ll have to leave a lot of yourself behind, you’ll have to let go of all the parts of you that you’ve outgrown. We’re not making ourselves small anymore. We’re not bending to fit where we don’t belong anymore. Do you hear me? We’re going all in. Count your wounds, every scar ripped open, every drop of blood you bled like a promise, every tear you cried like a bet in the name of crossing your whole heart, your whole soul, was all for this moment. Right here. Right now. You had to hurt like that to get here to this version of you who knows exactly who she is, who she’s not, who she will never be again. Drop the apologies, babe. We’re not sorry anymore for who we are, we’re not sorry for what we had to do to get here, and we’re not sorry for the time it took to learn our worth. Step out of the box of all you were supposed to be, according to everyone who wasn’t you, and walk into the you, who’s comfortable in her own skin. It’s time. You earned it.
We no longer wear the expectations of anyone else and we no longer let anyone else decide what we’re worth. Because we know now. We finally know. And now it’s time to celebrate it. Get up, babe. It does not hurt anymore. Now go show YOU what you’re made of.

Not sure of the author , but a very dear soul Crystal posted this and it’s very true !

Mass purification & vibrational attunements above and below

It is a time of mass purification and vibrational attunements not only coming from the heavens but also coming from the ground up to support us. We are activating dormant energies that are now surfacing into the hands of the master weavers that we are. Threading colours of our own unique vibratory signature, so our spirits can soar to new heights of awareness.

We carry inside of us the very code of creation and we are always in constant cellular communication. It is woven into the very fabric of ourselves. Light sound and love – divine strings of DNA.

We are destined to start using more of our DNA which holds many more abilities and attributes than previous generations. We know that there is a reservoir of wealth we haven’t even begun to tap into and we are gearing up to take giant steps forwards to claiming these.

We are getting an upgrade; everything is starting to amp up. Our bodies are either going to follow through or resist the changes and we can make life affirming or life denying choices. We can try to hold on to the old ways or embrace the new way; it can be a beautiful unfoldment or a painful unfolding process. We must hold faith in the great presence that resides with us and recognize that our body’s ability to heal itself is far greater than we currently know. When we reach higher levels of consciousness and are aligned while in the body, miracles happen.

– Terri Morehu ❤️

excerpt from The Only Way Out Is In

Send light

I’LL SEND YOU LIGHT

IF YOU DON’T KNOW what to do to help those who suffer and don’t want to get out of their suffering …..

SEND LIGHT

If you wanted to do more for your world because it hurts and you don’t know how to help …

SEND LIGHT

If you want to talk and they choose to reject you, don’t listen to you…

SEND LIGHT

If you wanted to help in a situation that doesn’t suit you and frustrates you…

SEND LIGHT

If they hurt you

And they persist in their darkness…

SEND LIGHT

If YOU YOURSELF… You’re in the middle of the confusion and you don’t know what to do…

GIVE YOURSELF LIGHT

I KNOW YOUR LIGHT

The LIGHT dissolves fear and opens the horizon to the new understanding …

SEND LIGHT

Just close your eyes gently, think with love, feel how the light springs from your heart and ….

SEND LIGHT

I’M SENDING YOU MY LIGHT

BLESSINGS OF LIGHT FOR ALL.

Credits to whom it corresponds.

May Energies

As we continue navigating the energies from the eclipses, and many other stellar portals that have helped us to achieve soul reconnection and light-body recalibration, we move now into a new energetic month, one in which we are going to continue embodying the many changes that we are triggering from within and that are yet to come. May is a month in which everything blossoms within our earthly plane, and so do we, manifesting, expanding, and focusing on our soul creations.

At a deeper level, May is also a month for us to focus on our earth plane to continue assisting the many planetary changes that we all are witnessing. A month that invites us to ground ourselves, so we can anchor all the healing, light transmissions, and activations received in the previous months, as well as our manifestations, and beyond everything, the support that as ascending souls we are here to provide to our earth plane and the elementals, whose transfiguration process continues.

We are invited now to anchor ourselves to our earth realm, by activating with the assistance of the current energies our Star Earth chakra – 12 inches below our feet – as we do so too with our Soul Star chakra – 12 inches above our head – for as it is Above so it is Below.

As ascending souls our main task is to remain aligned to both our Divine Self and our earthly one, as only by being anchored to our earth plane is that we can descend all the healing, love, wisdom, and power required for our personal journey, and that of All.

Recently many of you have felt the profound Soul Star activation taking place within yourselves due to the eight-dimensional energies we are receiving. My Guides shared the importance also of continue activating our Star Earth charka, so we live in a constant flow of descension and ascension.

Our Earth plane is equally important to what we call Divine planes, as in truth everything is Divine in Essence. Our mission is with the earth and its living beings, and it is during May that we will have the opportunity to work with the Ruby and Emerald Rays to bring the grounding, healing, and expansion required to assist our earth plane.

Prepare yourself with the proper protection and clearing before grounding yourselves. Use the amethyst ray to clear yourself and your bodies before grounding yourselves to the earth, and then shield yourself in the 12th dimensions where you exist. Then, feel how the earth pulls you towards its core, 12 inches below your feet, and visualize your earth star chakra, of a white-platinum color shining bright as your consciousness focuses upon it.

Feel the embrace of Mother Earth, its love and its warmth, and decree to be one with its loving wisdom, utilizing this knowledge to be of assistance to the earth and All its beings residing in it.

As you retrieve your connection to the earth you will too receive valuable information about the earth’s core, the grids, previous earth incarnations, ancestral guidance you need to know for your personal healing and that of your entire lineage, and how you can be of assistance to the earth.

Guidance comes from many different sources. As we are open to receiving guidance from our God Self, we also need to think of the Earth plane as a living organism with infinite wisdom that can help us put together the puzzle of our existence on this Earth, retrieving memories that can benefit our personal growth.

May will provide us with the opportunity to ground ourselves, and our soul’s visions, expanding and manifesting all we descend from Above. This will be a month to focus on grounding our essence, securing our foundations, as its universal number 4 reminds us, and opening ourselves to its healing transmissions, assisting as well the earth to continue purifying itself from human damage.

May you create a wonderful month, Beloved Ones!

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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