Tag: relationships

Relationship with a narcissist

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will always be another secret life going on behind your back.

This is because these people are very empty, and they need stimulation from multiple sources just to face existence. They’ll be doing drugs or pornography. They’ll be stringing multiple partners through flirting and emotional affairs. They will be chasing financial intrigue that occasionally gets them into scams and trouble.

The reason they must flirt with other people is also because they’re seeking to move on to other people who don’t know the games they play.

They know they’ll get bored with you eventually, or you’ll learn to resist their shenanigans. And since being alone would kill them, they begin to groom possible replacements among anyone whom they can charm.

You’ll also notice this habit of making promises to you and then using those promises as a dangling carrot to get compliance from you. If you don’t do what they want, they’ll withdraw the promise.

Sometimes, they’ll deny having promised at all, or they postpone it until you give up. The truth is that they never intended to fulfill it in the first place.

Narcissists have lost all sense of right and wrong. Everything is about satisfying themselves.

When you finally leave, they’ll circle back to you, pretending to be checking on you when actually they’re checking if they still have access.

If you have a child with them, they would weaponise that child to torture you until you cut them off totally or you manage to enforce boundaries with the help of the law.

But the child will be scarred or wasted by the counter parenting and objectification from the narcissist.

Society knows very little about narcissists.

Sometimes, you stay because you fear the pain of letting go until you realize the pain you’re already taking for holding on.

Other times, you think you’re staying for the children until you realize that the narcissist is turning all of them into other small narcissists and broken empaths.

Your solution is to recognize that this person is incapable of peace. They’re only excellent at pretending and confusing you.

You will never have a life until you detach from them and direct your life towards wholeness and emotional stability.

🥀🌹💐😍🥰😊☺️😘

Home without peace / Narcissism

The biggest prison in the world isn’t behind bars—it’s a home without peace. 🏚️💔

And let me tell you this: you will NEVER find peace in a home with a narcissist. 🔥

It’s not a home. It’s a battleground. 🪖 A place of chaos, manipulation, and control.

Break free. Choose peace. Choose YOU. ✨🏡💖

#WordsOfSteele #ShatteredSilence #RadiantResilience #BoldAndUnbreakable #BeYourBestYou #WinningInTheEnd

Big Shift – Gemini Full Moon

Many of you are feeling the big shift that is coming, for our bodies, as divine conduits, predict the many energies that we are now welcoming and that are transforming our bodies like never before.

Energies that depending on the inner work we are doing at this time can bring many imbalances to the surface, experiencing profound sudden healings, clearings, and activations, as we continue allowing, surrendering, and remaining in our Higher Hearts.

Energies that may cause dizziness, or the sensation of vertigo, as we move between two dimensions, crossing the veils of illusions, and many other sensations as tremendous joy too, crying tears of joy to see all the wisdom we have too gained, and the harmonic timeline we are transiting into.

The change that many of us strongly feel is being anticipated by the Gemini Full Moon of tomorrow. Gemini is a great shifter, and as a catalyst of change, it is now aligned with Uranus in this moon, reflecting the massive transition occurring for all of us at this time, and that will be amplified next year. This is an important transit that anticipates what we are about to live next year, for we are already creating it with every thought, feeling, and act toward soul reclamation and hence, self-liberation.

The most important aspect in this Gemini full moon, apart from Mercury trine Mars and Jupiter Square Saturn, is the moon semisextile Uranus and the Sun quincunx Uranus, a significant aspect that triggers one of the most important planetary shifts that we will welcome next year and will be too reflected in our Heavens, Uranus moving into Gemini, on the 7th of July. A 7th month, for nothing in the Universe, happens by coincidence.

7th is a frequency that involves self-mastery, wisdom integration, and the acceleration in our ascension journey that many of us are experiencing. During this time many of you will start receiving the wisdom transmissions, the downloads, that will help you achieve a more illumined state of being, as nothing will be the same from this moment onwards.

Gemini moon in resonance with Uranus will help us heal all karmic memories, residual ones, and self-created ones, through fears, as often I find many of the ascending souls do not have karma, but fear of having it, bringing residual karma into their present selves.

It is a time to bring freedom into your wounded soul fragments, releasing painful memories and retrieving divine love for yourselves and all you have ever experienced, for you are not the same person you used to be anymore.

It is a time for adjustments and transformations that will conclude in divine timing, which is why it is so important to be patient, surrender, and trust in the divine, not wanting to force a certain result or healing to take place, for we never know when is the perfect time for All.

Gemini’s full moon, connected to Uranus, is the predecessor of this important planetary and individual gradual change. A frequency shift that we are preparing ourselves for, and that involves the total activation and reconnection of our light bodies, for we are just starting to shift at a physical level, reaching the initial steps to the process of body crystallization that awaits for all of us who are willing to transfigure our physical bodies.

Uranus and Gemini are great allies to radically show us what is not working in our lives, what is fragmented within and needs to be unified, which is why is such a sudden and often unpleasant energy. Forces that come to liberate us from the old paradigm, from who we are not, and from everything inorganic and false in essence.

Ours is the power to choose whether we wish to step into this path of conscious change and adaptation to it or continue in the old, for these Forces do not do the work for us, only support us in our chosen mission.

We are blessed to be living in this current planetary transition. Remember that each of you contributes with all your choices, energy, and intention.

May you always choose to continue becoming the illumined lovelight being that you are, Beloveds.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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Never a wife to a Narcissist

When you marry a narcissistic man, you never get a chance to be a wife; instead, you take on the role of a mother because these adults behave like man-children.

Narcissists don’t marry for love or partnership; they marry because they want a maid, cook, secretary, banker, and a nanny.

They crave control, not connection. Their selfish desires consume them, leaving you to run the household, raise the children, and satisfy their every whim.

Your dreams of a loving and equal relationship are shattered, replaced by the harsh reality of servitude.

As days turn into weeks, and weeks into years, you become a shadow of your old self.

Your identity is erased, replaced by the exhausting duties of handling a narcissist’s life.

You are obliged to sacrifice your own desires, interests and friendships to accommodate their demands.

Emotional childbirth is suffocating, leaving you drained, resentful, and wondering how you ended up in this nightmare.

You’re not alone in this fight.

Many women have fallen prey to the charming facade of a narcissist, only to find themselves trapped in a loveless and ungrateful role.

Remember, you deserve better 💜

Mother Hunger

Every woman carries a map of her mother’s unresolved wounds. They are inherited like heirlooms, passed through blood and breath, encoded in cellular memory. McDaniel reveals that mother hunger is not just psychological—it is a profound spiritual amputation. A violence so deep it rewrites how a woman understands love, safety, her own worth.

This book is not for the faint of heart. This is for warriors. For women ready to name the unnameable, to look unflinchingly into the abyss of their own pain and say: No more. Not today. Not ever again.

1. The Anatomy of Invisible Wounds

Mother hunger is not a metaphor—it’s a landscape carved into your soul. Every unmet need, every moment of emotional abandonment becomes a topography of survival. You learn to survive in the negative space of love, creating intricate survival mechanisms that become your armor. But survival is not living. Healing begins when you recognize that the wounds you cannot see are the ones that cut the deepest, and that naming your pain is the first revolutionary act of reclaiming yourself.

2. Rewriting the Language of Love

You were never taught the true dialect of love. Your mother tongue was silence, abandonment, conditional affection. McDaniel reveals that love is not martyrdom, not silence, not shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s comfort. Love is a living, breathing commitment to your own humanity. It is seeing yourself with the same tenderness you would offer a wounded child. It is understanding that your worth was never determined by the love you did or did not receive.

3. The Body as Sacred Witness

Trauma lives in flesh, in memory, in the way you breathe. Your body knows stories your mind has forgotten. Mother hunger manifests in every relationship, every choice, every moment of self-doubt. But here is the miracle: your body is not a battlefield. It is a sacred text of resilience. Every scar, every tension, every unexplained ache is your body’s way of holding wisdom, of protecting you, of remembering what you were never allowed to speak.

4. Breaking Generational Chains

You are not condemned to repeat the patterns of pain. You are the moment of interruption, the generation that says: No more. Breaking generational cycles is not about blame—it is about radical compassion. For your mother, who was also wounded. For yourself, who is learning to heal. For the daughters who will come after you, who will inherit not your pain, but your profound capacity for transformation.

5. Resurrection as a Daily Practice

Healing is not a destination. It is a moment-by-moment choice. Some days, healing looks like rage. Some days, it looks like tenderness. Some days, it looks like simply breathing. You are learning to mother yourself with the same fierce, unconditional love you were always meant to receive. Your worth is not negotiable. Your pain is not a weakness. Your survival is a testament to a love so profound it can resurrect entire worlds.

This is not just healing. This is a revolution written in the language of the heart.

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