Tag: Men

Unhappy Man

When a man is unhappy with himself, he will project that unhappiness onto any woman who tries to love him. He will ruin her happiness because he cannot find his own.

So, dear man, work on yourself because a woman’s love is not a remedy for your pain. It is not her job to heal the wounds you refuse to face. If you carry unresolved anger, insecurity, or self-doubt, you will inevitably turn her tenderness into a battleground where she constantly fights for a love you have not yet learned to give.

She will try to hold you, to remind you of your worth, but if you do not believe in it yourself, her words will feel like lies. You will push her away, not because she is unworthy, but because deep down, you believe you are. And when a man believes he is unworthy of love, he will unconsciously destroy any love that comes his way.

You might criticize her, belittle her, or make her feel like she is never enough. Not because she isn’t, but because you feel like you aren’t. A woman in love will do everything to bring light into your darkness, but if you refuse to let go of the shadows, you will dim her light too.

This is why healing is essential. You cannot pour from an empty cup, nor can you build a loving relationship on a foundation of self-hatred. Work on yourself so that when love comes, you can receive it with open arms instead of rejecting it out of fear.

Heal your past, so you don’t bleed onto a woman who had nothing to do with your wounds. Take responsibility for your happiness, so she doesn’t have to carry the weight of both her heart and yours. Learn to love yourself, so when she loves you, you believe her.

A good woman will love you deeply, but even the strongest woman cannot save a man who refuses to save himself. If you are broken, acknowledge it. If you are lost, find your way. If you are hurt, seek healing.

Your pain is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. No woman deserves to suffer because you refuse to do the work. Love is meant to be a sanctuary, not a place of destruction.

So, dear man, work on yourself—not just for her, but for you. Love yourself enough to become the man who can love her the way she deserves.

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Being fair to her

If you think her reactions are always excessive or out of place, maybe it’s time to look at yourself.

A woman doesn’t just become difficult or hot-headed for no reason; most of the time, it’s a reaction to the way you treat her.

Are you focusing on every little flaw of hers? Do you point out her mistakes while ignoring your own? When was the last time you really took a hard look in the mirror and asked yourself if you’re being fair to her?

She’s not the problem if all you’re showing her is disrespect, neglect, or indifference. You can’t just judge her like that when your own behavior is left unchecked.

If you want a woman to love you fully, you need to take care of her trust and respect. In the end, she’s not looking for perfection. She just wants to feel valued by you, in both words and actions. Maybe the reason you think she’s toxic is because you haven’t yet understood the importance of being a responsible partner.