Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Mama’s Perfect Boy – The Narcissist Playbook

“The Narcissist’s Playbook: Momma’s Perfect Boy”

Some women carry the heaviest emotional burdens without realizing they’ve stepped into a toxic triangle—a relationship with a narcissistic man raised by an enabler. His mother coddled him, convinced him he could do no wrong, and now he brings that entitlement into every romantic relationship he enters.

These men are charming, at first. But behind that charm lies a deep inability to take accountability, an emotional void, and a sense of entitlement that leaves their partners depleted and questioning their worth. They demand everything while giving nothing, dismissing emotions, invalidating concerns, and twisting reality to avoid blame.

The mother often looms in the background, refusing to see any fault in her son, defending him no matter what—even in courtrooms, when his wrongdoings are undeniable. She paints him as the victim and others as liars. This enmeshed bond keeps him from forming healthy boundaries or seeing his own toxic patterns, while his partner is left to shoulder the blame and compete for attention.

I’ve lived this dynamic. I’ve seen how the mother enables, excuses, and even justifies behavior that is damaging and abusive. It’s disgusting. Even now, while court proceedings are happening and the evidence is crystal clear, she denies it all, claiming her son is innocent and being falsely accused.

To make matters worse, she infantilizes him, calling him “Mommy’s perfect boy” and leaving comments like, “Mommy loves you. You’re amazing. It’s hard to watch these lies because they’re all false. Mommy loves you.” She even congratulated him publicly on a “new wife,” playing along with his charades while he’s still legally married. She has no problem supporting this behavior, validating his delusions, and encouraging him to continue deceiving others.

For those who’ve found themselves in this dynamic, let me say this: You are not his mother, and it’s not your job to fix what she broke. His lack of accountability is not your burden to carry. His unresolved trauma is not your responsibility to heal. His inability to show up as an equal partner is not your failure.

Walking away doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’ve chosen to protect yourself. Reclaim your power. Set boundaries. And know this: You deserve a love built on mutual respect, emotional safety, and equality—not one built on imbalance, entitlement, and manipulation.

#RadiantResilience

#TruthPrevails

#WinningInTheEnd

#BoldAndUnbreakable

#WordsOfSteele

#ShatteredSilence

#StayStrong

#PureHeartPower

#ResilientHeart

Narcissist Relationships

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will always be another secret life going on behind your back.

This is because these people are very empty, and they need stimulation from multiple sources just to face existence. They’ll be doing drugs or pornography. They’ll be stringing multiple partners through flirting and emotional affairs. They will be chasing financial intrigue that occasionally gets them into scams and trouble.

The reason they must flirt with other people is also because they’re seeking to move on to other people who don’t know the games they play.

They know they’ll get bored with you eventually, or you’ll learn to resist their shenanigans. And since being alone would kill them, they begin to groom possible replacements among anyone whom they can charm.

You’ll also notice this habit of making promises to you and then using those promises as a dangling carrot to get compliance from you. If you don’t do what they want, they’ll withdraw the promise.

Sometimes, they’ll deny having promised at all, or they postpone it until you give up. The truth is that they never intended to fulfill it in the first place.

Narcissists have lost all sense of right and wrong. Everything is about satisfying themselves.

When you finally leave, they’ll circle back to you, pretending to be checking on you when actually they’re checking if they still have access.

If you have a child with them, they would weaponise that child to torture you until you cut them off totally or you manage to enforce boundaries with the help of the law.

But the child will be scarred or wasted by the counter parenting and objectification from the narcissist.

Society knows very little about narcissists.

Sometimes, you stay because you fear the pain of letting go until you realize the pain you’re already taking for holding on.

Other times, you think you’re staying for the children until you realize that the narcissist is turning all of them into other small narcissists and broken empaths.

Your solution is to recognize that this person is incapable of peace. They’re only excellent at pretending and confusing you.

You will never have a life until you detach from them and direct your life towards wholeness and emotional stability.

#karmasays

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Out of Time: How Addiction Care Fails to Keep Pace with Patients’ Realities

The linear timelines of addiction treatment clash with the lived experiences of drug-dependent individuals, creating new barriers to care.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2025/01/out-of-time-how-addiction-care-fails-to-keep-pace-with-patients-realities/

Spiritual meaning of Centipedes

I wanted to share this after talking to a friend , who

had a bed bug invasion and I recalled my own

invasion in 2004.

I had just bought a house , leaving a 3 level condo

and I was ” coming to ” in very often traumatic

experiences .

One day , I noticed these iridescent, dolly polie

things around my steps to the basement .

I followed the trail , to discover newly hatched

centipedes in my dryer , when was surrounded by

by wisteria .

I was already vulnerable and this freaked me out .

I called my realtor and she laughed upon seeing

them.

Not funny.

I wish I had read the following at the time :

www.angelicalbalance.com/spirituality/centipede-spiritual-meaning/

Narcissist Performance

The narcissist doesn’t move on—they latch on. Their new relationship isn’t about love; it’s about feeding their ego and proving they’re still “special.” Don’t mistake their performance for genuine care—it’s all about attention. 💔

#WordsOfSteele #TruthPrevails #BoldAndUnbreakable #RadiantResilience #StayStrong #WinningInTheEnd

Crossing the threshold into our new harmonic passage

We are now crossing the threshold into our new harmonic passage. A cosmic step we have been taking for many years, and now we finally see anchored on our physical plane, and personal realities. Pluto in Aquarius was the initiator of our cosmic entrance into the soul dimensions. We are gradually rebirthing into who we truly are, clearing old programs, beliefs, and relationships, and embracing new soul reunions and higher truths, becoming the pioneers we came here to be.

We are heading into another key passage to continue liberating ourselves from the old, activating our higher senses, through monadic reconnection and light body rehabilitation. This passage is marked by the sun soon moving into Aquarius on the 19th, together with Mercury entering Aquarius too on the 27th, and a New Moon in Aquarius on the 29th.

We are now preparing ourselves to move into a totally new frequency, one that cannot coexist with our old one, one that does not hide who we truly are, our intentions, our true purpose and direction, for where we are going, there is nothing hidden as in our 3D plane.

This is why it is so important to walk within divine love, integrity, and an absolute conviction of our personal choice to ascend, for once this decision is taken, there is no way back into old ways. When we are not yet anchored in an illumined frequency, when there are yet egoic masks we wear, consciously or unconsciously, and when we do not act as we think and feel, there is still separation, and we will continue remaining in our old reality, experiencing the same old situations and outcomes.

There are many allies in our journey to become conscious beings, who are helping us as well to retrieve our crystalline essence, there are many incarnated and non-incarnated plasma benevolent beings guiding many of you to embody more plasma and build your light bodies, as we can only build them through the conscious embodiment of plasma, and continue retrieving your authentic essence.

Plasma-crystalline beings are non-humanoid races whose main mission is to help humans who are ready for physical ascension, as well as the elemental who like us, are too embodying their illumined forms, moving as well into more harmonic dimensions. You may see them as bright plasmatic orbs, or they may send you a humanoid crystalline vision of them, as we all have a unique way to receive.

They are guiding many of you as I see often to embody more love, compassion, and neutrality, for it is what activated the process of galactivation and physical ascension that many of you are now undergoing, stepping into this new aquarian cycle and becoming who you authentically are in nature.

As signs of plasma embodiment, and self/energetic liberation you may be experiencing:

Headaches

Fatigue

Emotional breakthroughs

Skin and hormonal imbalances

Stomach aches

Dizziness, and if your body is completely aligned, then you also may feel too excited, which is a sign that you need to calm your nervous system and work on recalibrating your light body, so the energy is more balanced and you remain in a more peaceful state of being.

Others may experience pain in your bone structure, as a sign that the process of density emancipation has started. It is important to understand the difference between having physical diseases or conditions and ascension symptoms, for we need to be grounded and treat our bodies properly at all levels.

With Aquarian frequencies surrounding us, we are removing suffering from our bodies, healing, and understanding pain, and moving into a more joyful and balanced state of being. One that is only achieved through personal freedom and reconnection to our authentic Divine Sources.

We are leaving a Piscean Era behind, as Neptune and Saturn will too confirm when they move into Aries, and step into a more empowered, harmonic, and sovereign space. The shift that many of us are feeling can only be compared to the one we collectively experienced as well around 2012, and 2017, for individually nothing will ever be the same for us, as we continue transcending our old selves and ways of being/living.

We all may be challenged to step out of our comfort zone, to be more committed in certain areas of our lives, to be who we truly are without fears, or to confront our fears through the opportunities our Unified Self considers we need to pass through.

Everything that we experience is for our highest good, and the difference between suffering and being in a more peaceful state of being is working on acceptance, neutrality, witnessing everything from an Above perspective, surrender, and having complete trust in the Divine and Its Ways, for we never know what is best for us All.

Our task is to remain focused on our vision, on our soul’s desires, remaining in such an illumined frequency that no one or anything that happens to us can touch us, for when we have the Will, the courage, and the Heart to remain, always One with our Divine Source, we step into the universal flow of infinite possibilities that are there for us to pursue when we are aligned, trust and surrender.

May you embrace the courage to be who you are, and follow your Heart, Beloveds.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

nataliaalba.com

personal sessions: https://www.nataliaalba.com/p/personal-sessions_13.html

Narcissistic: Masked Predators

A TRUTH THAT YOU ARE MISSING

You didn’t lose the love of your life, you’ve lost the parasite that was draining your life.

Narcissists are not soul mates. They are masked predators, and understanding this is critical to your healing.

The person you see at the end of the relationship is the person who actually is.

Their true nature was hidden behind a facade of magic, charisma and manipulation.

You’ve been lured in false promises, false feelings and masked behavior.

Even though it was feeding your emotional energy, crushing your self esteem, and leading to eating your sense of self.

What I went through wasn’t love; it was a toxic cycle of abuse where every day seemed like a battle for survival.

Gaslighting, their emotional blackmail and constant criticism were not signs of affection. They were instruments of control and domination.

Their betrayal, deceit, and lack of empathy were not simple mistakes; they were deliberate actions to exploit your weaknesses.

You didn’t just lose a family member, you escaped a toxic nightmare

Breaking free from the cycle of abuse, takes incredible courage, strength and resilience. Narcissists are incapable of true love; they just imitate it to get what they want.

To heal, you have to accept the truth: you weren’t loved, you were used.

You’ve been a source of supply, a means of purpose, and a pawn in your manipulation game.

Although you are now free to rediscover yourself and embrace truelove and live a life filled with purpose, joy and authenticity.

You deserve real love, real connection & healthy relationships

You deserve to be seen, heard, and understood. You deserve to be appreciated, respected and appreciated. Never settle for anything less.

You deserve love, and it will find you when you least expect it.

#karmasays

#cttowner