Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Walking Away

Stop testing the limits of my patience and my love. I’ve given you my trust, my loyalty, and my heart…but even I have boundaries. If you continue to deceive, manipulate, and betray me, don’t expect me to stay.

I’ve stood by you time and again, forgiving your mistakes, overlooking your flaws, and believing in the person I hoped you could become. I’ve poured everything into this relationship…my love, my energy, and my faith…even when it hurt me, even when you didn’t deserve it. That’s what love is: showing up, holding on, and believing in someone, even when it’s hard.

But love and loyalty are not infinite. They have limits, and they come with expectations. Cheating is not an accident; it’s a choice. Narcissism is not just a flaw; it’s a refusal to see anyone but yourself. If you keep exploiting my forgiveness, testing my understanding, and shattering my trust, there will come a moment when I no longer have the strength or desire to repair what you’ve broken.

And when that moment comes, don’t act surprised. Don’t play the victim. Don’t accuse me of walking away too easily. I’ve given you every opportunity to change, to grow, and to prove that this relationship is worth saving. But if you continue to take me for granted, you can’t be shocked when I finally choose to walk away.

When I leave, it won’t be out of anger or hate…it will be out of self-respect. And when you finally realize what you’ve lost, remember: it wasn’t me who gave up…it was you who pushed me away.

#karmasays

Craig Childress PsyD – Case Manager

Hey – hey – hey – have I got news for you.

The forensic psychologists – Drs. Deutsch & Pruett – are recommending a Case Manager to oversee family treatment – as a liaison role between the family therapist and the Court.

See – here’s their chart. They put the Case Manager in a connecting liaison role with the Parenting Coordinator, the Family Therapist, the Attorneys, and the Court.

See that? The only people the Case Manager doesn’t connect to is the litigant parents (who are being treated by the family therapist).

I could do that.

That’s the perfect role for me, don’t you think? If someone suggests a Case Manager – say okay and propose me.

I’ll make sure the child and family receive a high-quality assessment that accurately diagnoses the pathology in the family 100% of the time with effective treatment fully resolving the diagnosed problem in six months.

I can do that.

I’m a clinical psychologist – I know about treatment – I’m a clinical psychologist, and I know what diagnosis guides treatment. I know how to do that – diagnose and treat pathology – I can work with the involved professionals and make sure that happens.

Isn’t that interesting? I think so. I have another model actually, based on a standard healthcare model of second-opinion consultation.

I don’t think we need a Case Manager ($$$) or a Parenting Coordinator ($$$), and the Attorneys hardly at all hopefully ($$$).

We need to stop adding people to the parent’s payroll.

I think Dr. Deutsch and her friends want to be Case Managers who don’t actually do anything except tell other people how to not do anything too.

But hey, if somebody wants a Case Manager – I’ve lead treatment teams with CPS involvement. I can organize a treatment team and make sure the Court gets accurate information (and effective treatment) from the mental health services.

I can do that.

Hey… do you know what we should do? Debate the two structures. The AFCC can host an online Debate:

Debate: Forensic vs Clinical Intervention Structures

Clinical Intervention Structure: Dr. Childress

Forensic Intervention Structure: Dr. Deutsch

That’d be fun.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist

WA 61538481

OR 4392 – CA 18857

Control over every inch of your life – Narcissist Domination

“Suffocation doesn’t always look like hands around your neck. Sometimes, it looks like control over every inch of your life.”

Being with a narcissist was one of the most suffocating experiences of my life. I had no idea one person could demand so much while giving so little.

I wasn’t allowed to talk to people without their permission. I couldn’t be away from their side unless it was “approved.” I had to wake up and go to bed on their schedule, and the life I once loved—the career, hobbies, and even decorating my own home—was stolen from me.

I’ll never forget the phrase that still haunts me:

“That’s not a part of your life anymore.”

Those words were a declaration. My voice, my choices, and my freedom were stripped away by someone who thought my life was theirs to control.

In every photo of us together, people now tell me they notice it—the grip. His hand always on my neck, pulling me in, always holding me close as if to say, “She’s mine. I own her.” But here’s what they didn’t see: behind the fake smiles was a woman who couldn’t breathe. A woman who had lost her identity. A woman who had no right to question anything or speak up for herself.

But let me tell you something: there is hope.

I broke free.

I stopped being his “yes babe.” I spoke up. I sought counseling. And slowly, I began to stand up for myself. The more I reclaimed my voice, the angrier he got, and the more he started searching for his next victim—someone easier to control. Narcissists don’t like being questioned, and the moment you stand tall, they start looking for their Plan B.

Today, I’m stronger. I’m wiser. And I’m here to tell you:

You don’t have to stay suffocated.

You are not alone. Your voice matters. And the freedom waiting for you on the other side is worth every hard step you’ll take to get there.

#WordsOfSteele #RadiantResilience #ShatteredSilence #PureHeartPower #BoldAndUnbreakable #WinningInTheEnd #RelentlessStrength #ResilientHeart #StayStrong #TruthPrevails #GivingItAllMyMight #MomOf7 #CoachSandi #ShatteredSilence

Weaponized Children waken

As an alienated child grows older and gains more independence, they may begin to have a deeper understanding of the manipulation and coercion they experienced. They may start to realise that they were used as a weapon to reject a parent they once loved and who loved them unconditionally. This realisation can evoke a wide range of emotions, including betrayal, anger, confusion, and sadness.

The alienated child may feel betrayed because they were led to believe hurtful and false narratives about the targeted parent, causing them to say and do things that they now recognise were unjust and harmful. They may feel guilty and regret their actions, and have different ways of dealing with this.

As they mature and gain a broader perspective, some alienated children may try to see both sides of the story rather than solely aligning with the aggressive alienating parent. They may feel a longing to reconnect with the rejected parent and seek understanding and reconciliation. However, the process of navigating these complex emotions can be challenging, as they may still harbour feelings of anger and resentment towards the alienating parent. They may also have to work hard to ‘deprogramme’ as if detoxing from years of poisonous narratives.

Ultimately, each alienated child’s experience and feelings may vary based on their unique circumstances and individual resilience. Some may choose to distance themselves from the alienating parent, on realising the toxicity of the relationship, while others may strive to establish a healthier connection, aiming for personal growth and healing. The journey towards finding peace and restoring the parent-child relationship can be a difficult and multifaceted one, requiring support, therapy, and a commitment to self-reflection and understanding.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#parentalalienation

#FamilyCourt

#parentalalienationawareness

#childcustody

#custodybattle

Cannabis – 34 treatments for Cancer

Nature’s remedies often hold the wisdom we’ve overlooked in our pursuit of modern solutions. Cannabis, with its ancient history and healing properties, represents a bridge between the Earth’s natural gifts and our understanding of wellness. Yet, its potential remains locked behind stigmas and regulatory barriers.

The comparison between natural remedies and pharmaceutical approaches raises important questions about how we define healing. Is it about profit, or is it about genuinely restoring balance to the mind, body, and soul? By opening our minds to alternative solutions, we take a step toward reclaiming harmony with nature.

How can we shift the narrative and embrace natural paths to healing? Share your thoughts and experiences below 🌿🌟.