Strong Women

She’s a strong woman with a intense personality..and she makes no apologies for who and what she is.

All the men gush about how amazing she is, how they admire her strength and pursue her with relentless intent..

But the thing is, most of them just like the idea of her- the real and authentic woman that she is will always be too much for most of those chasing her..

They don’t understand the kind of woman she truly is and what it takes to love a person like her.

Her needs and desires are simple enough- love and be loved, respect and loyalty..

Ideals that are much more than just words to her..they are part of her values.

She’s not one to be taken lightly or dismissed easily, for she goes after what she wants and doesn’t know what defeat is.

The weaker men fancy themselves to be something other than what they truly are- for it takes a strong man to run with this lioness..

And none of them fit that bill, though they don’t seem to realize it.

She’s not content with those of lackluster character or ordinary passion.

She needs more- no, she craves the one who can ignite her heart and connect with her soul..

And that’s no easy task given the wall she has built around her inner depths to protect herself.

Many have tried and all have failed, because in her world, she’s not going to settle, wait or be an option.

She demands the best of those who stay in her life, just as she gives..

All of her heart, every bit of her soul and loyalty that knows no end.

The ones that come along seeking temporary satisfaction and superficial desire don’t ever get a chance ..she knows the look and feel of a coyote in wolf’s clothing.

She carries herself with dignity, class and courage and expects the same from any that would attempt to love her.

They’ll push her away, saying she’s overbearing, too demanding or too much..

And yes, she’ll gladly tell anyone that’s she’s too much for those who aren’t strong enough to run with her.

She’ll never be happy with just anyone, because she doesn’t actually need anyone.

She loves herself completely and values her time and independence..

So, if someone wants to step up and vie for her affection, they’d better be prepared to be patient, true and genuine, for her world isn’t one that tolerates fake or insincere.

She’s been down that road too many times before and burned that bridge so that she’d never go back.

She’s always trusted the way things worked- and if love was meant for her, it would show up when the time is right..not a minute before.

So, she made sure that the weaker men with false intentions could save their time, energy and shallow requests..

She wasn’t stopping for a distraction that would never earn her heart.

Maybe she was tough, she was definitely strong..but she would always be one of a kind..

And until someone came to change her mind, she’d keep living her best life.

Strong, beautiful and free.

|Ravenwolf

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Masculine – Freedom & the Feminine

The masculine has three choices when it comes to freedom and the feminine…

The masculine in all of us seeks freedom.

The freedom to be the master of one’s own destiny.

The freedom to explore power and love on his own terms.

But there is no guarantee that the masculine will ever actually experience freedom.

Because he must grapple with the feminine

And that adds a whole layer of complexity.

Can you imagine a world with no women?

What do you imagine men would be doing?

Yet we do not live in such a world

We never will.

And so inherent to men and the masculine

Is a desire to meet the feminine

To experience intimacy with woman.

For most men, this is a perennial desire

And struggle.

He wants freedom

And he wants her.

How to resolve the two?

There are only really three options…

1. Freedom FROM the feminine

This is the realm of the f*&k boi, the man going his own way, and the tyrant.

“Woman cannot control me!” is his slogan.

He refuses to allow the impulse to merge with the feminine have any say in the matter, and so he keeps her at bay.

For the f*&k boi and player, oh he will explore intimacy… the most superficial kind… but the moment she gets close enough to have any influence over his internal world, his freedom… he is gone.

Onto the next one in an endless parade of novelty seeking.

The man going his own way simply gives up, and off into the wilderness of freedom he goes… no need for her, I’ll be fine. A dog, beans out of a tin and a caravan (or perhaps something nicer too).

And the tyrant… well he may be in a relationship, yet his intense need to be uncontrolled makes him controlling. Think of Scarface, the Wolf of Wall Street, Casino… he gets the girl, but she never ever ever gets him, not really and he will fight her until the abusive end to ensure it stays that way.

To be free from the feminine is to give up any real chance of experiencing intimacy with her.

2. Abdicating freedom TO the feminine

Sadly many men will simply roll over and hand the keys to their wild masculine essence to her.

“You are the boss” he will simper, as he spends the next years trying, and failing, to make her happy.

Even more sad is how many women will coerce a man into this scenario believing it will provide her the safety and security she is craving, as the forces the submission of his power that she is also craving.

Women will utterly break men this way.

And weak men will allow themselves to be broken.

This is the saddest choice of all… and the only outcome is a gnawing core of bitterness.

Nothing worthwhile can grow from this scenario.

Let us grieve for how many relationships in the world are, right now, festering in this pit of patheticness.

3. Freedom WITH the feminine

The last choice left to a man is to reconcile his desire for intimacy with her, with his own wild inner freedom.

This is a man who recognises that true freedom comes from within.

The feminine can never take it from him, and so he never has to fight her for it.

Freedom is not the ability to do whatever, whenever he wants… that is the freedom of a teenager exploring his first taste of independence… rather it is an internal experience that he uses to shine, to unleash his power in the most benevolent of ways.

This is a man who is the master of his own domain, the keeper of his kingdom.

And like any good King, he has a Queen next to him.

He is not beholden to her, he co-creates with her.

Reciprocal complementary polarity.

His unique gifts meets hers and together they create more than they could ever possibly do alone.

Freedom is not some set of circumstances that needs to be rigidly controlled to be felt… it is a place within.

Freedom is his

It always was

And it always will be

Nothing can ever take it away.

When a man embodies this… he soars.

And he is finally capable of the true depths of intimacy that are possible with a worthy mate.

✍️ Damien Bohler

To men who 👏🎉

To the men who got us home safely when we desperately needed transportation. To the men who didn’t take advantage of us when we were too intoxicated. To the men who protected us when we were in danger, although they didn’t know us.
To the men who maturely accept rejection when they hit on us. To the men who didn’t speak ill of us because we weren’t interested. To the men who would never dare raise a hand to a woman.
To the men who LOVE and RESPECT women, we thank you, we appreciate you, and we recognize you. 🫶🏼

As things fall apart : Women Rise

“As things fall apart, women rise up. The crones, the elders, the kuia, the aunties, we Mother Bear Crones are the way-showers. To don the mantle of leadership we have to shed the sugary definitions of motherhood parlayed especially on so-called Mother’s Day, and identify the true meaning of our names. We are a world culture unto ourselves, and we are called to mentor one another and show up. Really show up. Meaning: Be seen. Be heard. So, get out your editing tools, sisters. We have to speak clearly. This is the courage I am speaking of; the courage to be straightforward, to tell it like it is, to be outspoken, to use our chosen words as we interpret them, to name our audiences. And go direct to them.

We initiate a new language. It is the Mother Bear Crone dialect in which language come from the heart, with no sidelines, no fads, no politically correct come-ons with freebie offers and promises of something we never wanted or needed. No seductions. Just the gorgeous naming and claiming that make women and children jump up and wave their hands in the air, asking for more and more and more.”

Dr Stephanie Mines from her exceptional Substack

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Loving a Woman

Women Glow differently when they are loved right and treated with appreciation and respect.

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HOW TO LOVE A WOMAN-A LETTER TO MEN.

Forget trying to figure her out.

She is beyond your mind.

She is a sweet mystery.

Allow her to be that and

she will shine more brightly.

She doesn’t need to be understood with your mind. Just love her.

Feel her heart not just her body.

You will find an infinite river of surprises

and delights of endless wonder.

Tell her something sweet everyday.

You will be amazed at what she gives

you back in return.

You will never be able to out give her.

Her heart is vast like the ocean itself.

So don’t be cheap with her.

Give her all you’ve got.

And she will give you more than you

could ever imagine.

When she opens and let’s you into her being,

tread with care and tenderness.

Her heart is a sacred universe and her body is a temple that you are blessed to worship inside.

She will reveal to you the magic of the moment.

Yes, appreciate her beauty but remember she is so much more. The real essence of woman is beyond physical. She exists as a formless dance.

Meet her there and she will show you the meaning of real love. She will show you the face of the Goddess. She is a living smile.

Allow and embrace all her moods like the changing weather. Enjoy the rainbow taste of each flavor that she gives you. Let it tickle your heart and make you stronger.

When you think she is being difficult or giving you a hard time, this is not the time to run away and hide. This is the time to breathe, stand in the storm,

feel her deeper, look into her eyes,

and reassure her of your love.

Don’t just listen to the words she says, as you may get confused, but feel her heart and really listen to her hearts pure language.

Listen to the heartbeat of her soul.

It is a gift often way ahead of your mind.

She knows things.

Trust me she just does.

Don’t try to control her.

Create a safe space for her to be herself fully.

And she will give you everything in herself like

an unconditional river of devotion.

Woman is love.

She is life.

She is grace.

She is a great mystery.

Bottom line, just love her fully.

Just love her.

This is what she really wants.

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