Tag: relationships

The Truth of being Single

THE TRUTH ABOUT BEING SINGLE

‘What people don’t realize is that some people are single in this generation because they are healed, which makes them incompatible with trauma bonds.

Unfortunately, trauma bonds are the template of our culture at this time.

Those who choose peace over trauma will have difficulty in relationships because most people that we meet are emotionally damaged in some way.

Healed people seek healthy bonds.
These bonds hold space for authenticity and correction. It’s kind of like an oxymoron.

About 90% of the relationships/marriages that we see are actually trauma bonds. Those involved “need” the other person to make them feel whole because they’re both broken mentally, emotionally and/or spiritually.

Let that sink in for a moment…

With so much love,

~Unknown

{A Red Sun Rising}
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Let Them Go- Madea

Many messages coming in on this topic .. I think many are lighting their load and releasing .. in mass that’s going to lift our planet in our ascending .. prayers for each soul who’s holding on to that which does not serve them .

Thy Will be done … it’s not easy but necessary to surrender to your best and highest power .

#YouGotThis 👁️

#AskAndItIsGiven🙏🏼

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Letting Go

To love someone long-term is to attend a thousand funerals of the people they used to be. The people they’re too exhausted to be any longer. The people they grew out of, the people they never ended up growing into. We so badly want the people we love to get their spark back when it burns out, to become speedily found when they are lost.
But it is not our job to hold anyone accountable to the people they used to be. It is our job to travel with them between each version and to honor what emerges along the way. Sometimes it will be an even more luminescent flame. Sometimes it will be a flicker that temporarily floods the room with a perfect and necessary darkness. ~Heidi Priebe

(Book: This Is Me Letting You Go https://amzn.to/465sSwc)

Dear Men

Dear Men..

We miss you.
Deeply.

When women gather together in circles..
we tell stories of how much we long for you.

Crave you.
Pray for you to rise and meet us here.
We mourn your missing presence.

In our childhoods.
In the homes we’ve built without you.
In our beds.

We hold hands and beg God to set you free from whatever keeps you from standing at our sides.

Right here.

Here In intimacy.
In integrity.
In wholeness.
In freedom.

The places where you are caught in dishonesty..
shame..
fear..
addiction..
we grieve and rage over.

We see your pain and we see your power.
We miss you.
We love you.
We can’t wait for you to come home.

For the men who have..
thank you so much.
Please call your brothers..
start men’s circles..
show them the manuals.

Tell them of what you gave up.
Of your brokenness and acceptance.
Of what it truly means to take up the mantle of protector.

Please.

There aren’t enough fathers..
resources and leaders for men to sit at the feet of.

The women have tried.
We can’t do it.

The restoration must come from within the Masculine.
The Feminine cannot mother grown men into wholeness.

We cannot strap men to our backs and walk.

We tried.
We bow out.
Not gracefully.

But in mournful acceptance nonetheless.
And we will wait for you to burst free from the shackles patriarchy has placed on you.

We pray.
We pray.
We pray.

For the Great Remembrance.

~Shade Ashani

Artist: Dorina Costras

Healing My Broken Story: The Power of Compassionate Relationship – Mad In America

Richard was more than a therapist; he was a faithful witness to my spiritual transformation. His faith in me is the sturdy banister I hold on to as I move forward. Richard was more than a therapist; he was a faithful witness to my spiritual transformation.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/09/healing-broken-story-compassionate-relationship/

Treating Some Common Issues in Couples Therapy – Dale M. KushnerDale M. Kushner

Psychotherapist Melinda Bailey discusses the treatment of common issues she has encountered in couples therapy.
— Read on dalemkushner.com/blog/treating-common-issues-couples-therapy/