Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Insecure Attachment & Alienated Children – Charlie McCready

Insecure attachment and parental alienation are deeply intertwined and illuminate the profound impact of emotional manipulation on children. In contrast to estrangement, where rejection may be rooted in valid reasons, parental alienation involves the unjustified, coerced rejection of a parent who was once loved and has never stopped loving their child. In situations of psychological abuse, children, out of fear and the instinctual drive for survival, may gravitate towards the seemingly stronger, albeit abusive, parent, seeking safety in the very source of their distress. This is sometimes referred to as ‘identification with the aggressor’. This is an attachment disorder involving cognitive dissonance and ‘splitting’, and it exploits the child’s fundamental need for love, care, and security, leading to severe emotional consequences.

Insecure attachment refers to a pattern of relational behaviour in which a child, due to inconsistent caregiving or a lack of emotional responsiveness from caregivers, develops difficulties in forming secure, trusting relationships, and this, in cases of ‘parental alienation’ will specifically be the ‘target’ rejected parent. Insecure attachment in a child often results from inconsistent or neglectful parenting, where a child’s basic emotional and physical needs are not consistently met. Again, this will stem from alienating behaviours in their ‘aligned’ parent. Insecurely attached children may exhibit clingy or avoidant behaviour, struggle with self-esteem and self-worth, and have difficulties regulating their emotions.

An alienated/psychologically abused child who has experienced the accompanying insecure attachment will benefit from a great deal of empathy and perhaps also counselling and support groups. The child needs to feel safe in relationships and in the world, rebuilding trust and the ability to develop secure attachments while healing from the effects of parental alienation.

#charliemccready

Remembering – Milton Foster

Something deep is stirring across the planet right now… and many are feeling it , even if they can’t quite explain it.

The Earth is shifting…

not just in frequency , but in memory.

Ancient codes buried beneath the surface are reawakening… and the pressure of that return is being felt in our bodies , our relationships, and our emotions.

You might be feeling overwhelmed…

tired for no reason…

suddenly remembering old pain…

or feeling the urge to walk away from things that once felt safe. That’s not failure… that’s alignment in motion.

The masculine and feminine energies

are trying to rebalance within us.

The masks are falling. The false timelines are cracking. And the soul is stepping forward in ways we’re not always prepared for.

The Earth is not dying…

she’s remembering. And through her , so are we.

If you’ve felt like breaking down lately…

if your heart has felt tender or raw…

if you’re questioning everything and craving something real… just know… You’re not alone. You’re part of the shift.

Take care of your body. Rest.

Disconnect when needed.

Create beauty. This isn’t just an energy wave… it’s a global soul activation.

We were born for this.

And we’re rising together.

ZF 🔥

~ Zachary Fisher

Alienated Child – Charlie McCready

The alienated child unconsciously aligns with the parent who is presenting themselves as being good, loving, protective, ‘the only one’. The child then consciously rejects the apparently ‘bad’ parent. Despite how it might appear, this is agonising, traumatic, confusing, and upsetting to them, and yet all the anger and negativity induced is projected onto the ‘target’ parent. It’s quite easy to manipulate this alienation (denigration, judgement, emotional cut-off and/or actual no contact) when that child only hears only one side of the story, over and over again. It’s a horror story, a fiction they come to believe is real. The triangulation/alienation keeps the truth out of bounds and censored, and the ‘target’ parent becomes the monster in the story, a creation of the alienating parent’s imagination and disordered pathology. , The rejection of a loving parent by the alienating child is a coping mechanism. They ‘split’ – good, bad – and think they hate the ‘bad’ parent, and love the ‘good’ parent. This child is terrified of being abandoned by the parent who has inflicted forced compliance and shared persecutory delusions on their child, telling the child they’re the only parent … it’s trauma bonding, similar to Stockholm syndrome, and it is, of course, emotional and psychological abuse. To re-establish any relationship with the rejected parent, that child basically needs to find the courage (because of induced shame, guilt, fear, confusion, anger … the whole parental alienator’s toxic pathology) to hear the other side of the story. In many cases, it might be a story that the target parent is unable to tell if it causes more pain to that child. Often it is better to close the book on the past. It depends on the child and situation. You have to ‘read’ them to see how much they would benefit from hearing anything from previous chapters. It’s painful for any of us – our alienated children being no exception – to find out we’ve been duped, controlled, manipulated, emotionally abused deprived of the love and nurture of a loving, available parent, and believing them to be something they are not. If and when your alienated child reaches out, keep your words in the present tense, and loving, turning the page on the past, and focussing on creating a better future moving forwards.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#alienatedparent

#traumabonding

#coparentingwithanarcissist

Be the light 6/6 Stabilizing Passage

let us unify our Hearts within Divine Love and Unity for All who are open to receive Love , healing, restoration , and harmony.

Let us dedicate a moment today to

open our Hearts/Soul Portals,

acting as bridges , for those who are yet transiting between worlds.

Let us connect to the Heart of the Universe , go outside and amplify the healing angelic energies received at this time, through our Heart portal , with our chosen amplifier crystal , seeing , anchoring , and expanding the Love for All.

Let us send our love and healing light in our unique way to All Living Forms of Consciousness , the elementals , and All who are willing to heal and move into higher levels of Consciousness, alive or non-incarnated beings and forms of consicousness who are willing to transcend the three-dimensional realms and move into the Soul levels, removing all astral links and stepping into the soul dimensions, becoming whole with their soul fragments.

Let us ask for All Souls and forms of consciousness that are ready to take this quantum leap to embrace forgiveness and move forward into the God Worlds.

Let us be the living portals, and

New Earth’s Anchors for All who need to transcend to a harmonic dimension, holding the light through compassionate witnessing for All who are willing to see who they are, coming back Home.

Today and always, let us act as light beacons, pillars, anchors, and stabilizers for those who are remembering, transcending, and BEcoming in this or any other illumined dimension the LoveLight beings that they are.

Thank you for your unique contribution to help restore our beloved planet and assist All who are willing to ascend.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

nataliaalba.com

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