Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Loosing Them

Reality check: Losing them wasn’t a loss. It was a win. If they cheated, treated you like shit, consistently lied, or made you feel like you weren’t enough, be thankful they’re no longer in your life. For their departure marked the end of a toxic cycle, a liberation from the shackles of emotional abuse, and a reprieve from the constant heartache.

Remember, you didn’t lose a loved one; you gained a life free from the suffocating grip of their negativity. You broke free from the prison of their manipulation, and stepped into the sunlight of self-love and self-worth. Their absence is not a void, but a space waiting to be filled with positivity, growth, and authentic connections.

Don’t mourn the loss of someone who never deserved you; celebrate the victory of your own resilience and strength. You survived their darkness, and now you can thrive in the light of your own brilliance. Keep moving forward, and never look back at what was never meant to be. You are worthy of love, care, and respect – and now you have the chance to give it to yourself.🌹🌹🌹🌹

Forgiving

This is how you forgive the person who broke your heart.

You forgive them by giving yourself time to heal. This doesn’t happen all at once. This doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a slow progression. You take two steps forward and four steps back. Sometimes it won’t make sense. But you grow a bit stronger, a bit more resilient, every single day. Even if you don’t always see it.

You forgive them by focusing on yourself. Stop pouring your energy into toxicity. You unplug. You unfollow. Practice self-care. Reread your favorite books and go out with your best friends, laughing and remembering how good things can be when you surround yourself with positivity. Tell your broken heart it’s okay to take a break to remember how to smile again.

You forgive them by removing yourself from the situation. The longer you dwell in it, in the heartache, the more it festers. It’s difficult, but you have to leave it alone. Honor your emotions. Honor your feelings. But don’t keep circling back. Don’t keep obsessing over what occurred. Imagine it like a balloon. Let it float away. Tell it goodbye. It can’t hurt you now.

You forgive them by accepting what they did. That doesn’t mean the pain is erased. That doesn’t mean you suddenly think it’s okay or you’ve let them off the hook. It doesn’t mean they aren’t responsible for their actions or that you’ve forgotten what happened. It just means accepting what’s done is done. It means admitting there is no rewind button. You can only move forward.

You forgive them by regaining your life. Because there is so much more than just one person who broke your heart.

I honor that being honest and truthful are vitally important, and forgiveness is not just, in some cases .

Don’t force it

DON’T FORCE IT

Don’t force him to do anything, don’t pressure him to give you a place in his life, don’t condition him so that he is thoughtful….

Don’t beg him for caresses, or a furtive kiss, or hold your hand, don’t make him give you explanations when something has you dissatisfied.

Don’t insinuate how much you would like him to surprise you with a rose, don’t show him that it hurts that he doesn’t tell you how beautiful you look…

Don’t tell him to treat you with tact and affection, that he saddens you when he stops talking to you, when he hangs up the phone, when he is not gentlemanly, or to dedicate songs, or romantic lyrics to you…

Don’t commit him to supporting you in your difficult times, in your sorrows or when you have a broken heart, don’t ask him for a hug, much less let him know what you need.

Don’t die to hear him tell you: I love you, I need you, when he is no longer born to do it,

Do you know why?…

-Because whoever loves you sincerely, will not take care of you telling him anything, or asking him, or reminding him of the special dates.

The right man, the man who is for you, your exclusive, of your time and your life, the one that destiny has brought you for an indefinite time, will do all that and more to see you and make you happy if he really feels for you something real, unique… and never, but never will ever make you humble yourself and step on your dignity waiting for a “I love you”.

Whoever is the right piece, will fit into your soul and will choose you every day to love you infinitely, he will procure you, he will respect you, you will not need to do something extraordinary, he will love you for the fact of being you, with all your virtues and all the mistakes.

Alone, do not despair, do not open the door to anyone without deserving it, there is that great love, which will come and heal every wound and every tear, to turn it into an excessive cry of happiness… there you will know and say…

It was worth the wait.

Not here to Rehabilitate anyone 💯

That negates , the person you try to help from lessons and experiences

that heal and empower themselves and that’s major evolution .

One reason , I began to blog was because I’d reach this point of needing

my space , my peace , my continued healing journey and evolution .

YOU ARE NOT A REHABILITATION CENTER FOR A MAN WHO WAS POORLY RAISED.

It’s not your job to fix him, mold him, or teach him to act like a grown man.

You need a partner, not a project.

If he brings chaos, disrespect, or immature behavior, walk away.

His issues aren’t yours to solve.

If his own parents couldn’t raise him right, it’s unrealistic to think you can.

A real partner already has self respect, maturity, and responsibility.

You deserve peace and support, not a burden.

✍Chris Perry

🎨Vasily Treadiakovsky

Endings could be …

Often, when a woman ends a long-term relationship, the man’s first thoughts are:

She must have found someone else” or “How could she just leave after all these years?”

What many men don’t consider are the countless nights she went to bed feeling worthless because of his disrespect or broken promises to change.

They don’t remember all the times she stood by his side when no one else did, or how she prayed for him to become a better person.

They don’t think about how she always put everyone else’s needs before her own.

They don’t acknowledge how her friends and family urged her to leave, yet she stayed.

No, all that many men can focus on is, “How could she just walk away?”

The truth is, women don’t suddenly wake up one day and decide to leave.

A man’s actions, his words, and the way he makes her feel gradually add up, and eventually, the burden becomes too heavy to bear.

When she stops expressing her frustrations, stops pushing you to understand her perspective, it’s not because she’s given in ~ it’s because she’s planning her way out of the toxic situation.

She didn’t leave to find someone else;

SHE LEFT TO REDISCOVER HERSELF

Stay strong to all the women building the courage to know your worth, 🥀🌷

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Transformative & Revolutionary Pluto

THE TRANSFORMATIVE AND REVOLUTIONARY PLUTO–AQUARIUS ENERGY ✨ NOVEMBER 19, 2024 AND BEYOND ✨

Dear friends, this week on Tuesday November 19 2024 a remarkable energetic cosmic shift occurs: the dwarf planet Pluto moves into the energy of Aquarius. Why is this transition so important? Let’s find out.

In Greek mythology, the distant planet Pluto has always been connected to Hades, the god of the underworld, and other hidden and mysterious powers. Energetically speaking, Pluto emanates the frequencies of reinvention, destruction, and revolution. It represents the dissolution and the shedding of the old so that new structures can be born and take shape.

Located in the outer edge of our solar system, this little mysterious planet sends its energies to Earth in subtle yet deep ways, affecting us all individually and collectively. Pluto has a slow orbit around the sun, and it is for this reason that Pluto tends to stay for a long time within a particular sign, usually between 12 to 20 years. After a year of going back and forth, Pluto is finally entering Aquarius for good, as it will stay in the Water-Bearing sign for the next two decades: 2024-2044. This is truly the dawning of a new age, as we get ready for fallen empires, rebellion, and a new vision for the world.

Interestingly, the last time Pluto was in Aquarius was from 1778 to 1798, a time in history that was filled with world events towards independence and revolution, a time that favored the people over the dominant power systems. Now in 2024, that same energy is coming back again. As Pluto moves back into Aquarius, the Pluto-Aquarius energetic synergy will begin to affect our societies in a big way. We will be re-examining our political and economical power structures and question if they truly support our divinely-guided human evolution.

Most likely, many old ideas will have to change in favor of new philosophies and higher perspectives. This process will not only affect us at the collective level, but will also take place at the individual level, in which our personal consciousness will evolve as we take a more heart- and soul-centered view of our magical journey through the cosmos.

We will all feel an inner call to collective action and a need to transform our own lives as Pluto shifts into Aquarius. The ways in which your own journey will change will depend on your own personal history and your soul’s journey. However, big changes will be taking place in humanity during the next 20 years. At the individual level, this process will be reflected as inner changes in our belief systems, transmuting old outdated perspectives about ourselves into higher points of view which include the truth about our multidimensional existence and our role in the cosmic wheel of evolution.

When Pluto enters Aquarius, this energetic combination usually brings advancement and transformative changes in science as well. These can be reflected in advanced healthcare technologies, artificial intelligence, robotics, data management, the internet, and new digital systems of power. We may be facing a rebirth of the digital age. We could also see new inventions extending human life far beyond its current expectancy.

Technology, as you know, can be used to create more enriching and comfortable living situations for the benefit of mankind, or for the generation of more population/society control. However, collectivity speaking, this transition brings an expansion in global consciousness and a broader understanding of humanity as an integral part of the cosmos. The periods in which Pluto’s and Aquarius’ energies have coincided have always ended up creating new structures that favored the collective rather than the individual. But the old structures of power may not be willing to release control that easily, but that will have to be seen during the next 20 years.

At the more personal level, Pluto moving into Aquarius will create a shift towards rebellion, and a need to break away from the old and outdated standard (and stagnant) ways of living. We are moving towards lifestyles that reflect who we truly are: multidimensional beings having an earthly experience. Our consciousness expansion during this period will allow us to intellectually take us into the next step in human evolution. The road from Homo sapiens to Homo galacticus has begun.

Individually, we will undergo a process of death and rebirth during the next 20 years, like a Phoenix rising from the ashes. Pluto brings into our earthly environment an energy that will burn the old, and Aquarius the water for the new seeds to grow.

The changes that the Pluto-Aquarius transition will bring may be experienced peacefully by some of you, but they can also be rather sudden and chaotic for others. As our consciousness expands and our knowledge about ourselves deepens, our belief structures will have to inevitably need to be reshaped. This process takes time, knowledge, and patience, as these new incoming Pluto-Aquarius light codes will be working non-stop for the next 20 years.

How will these energies be affecting us as individuals during the next 20 years? Let’s look at the likely changes that our energetic, physical, and emotional bodies will be experiencing under this 20 year process of deep cosmic metamorphosis.

Beyond the important transformations that societies will experience during the upcoming 20 years, we, individually, will also undergo massive changes. The Pluto-Aquarius energies will be present in the cosmic background every single day for 20 years, triggering small but significant changes within our energy fields day and night. And even though this alchemical energy will be available to all on Earth, it will take each and every one of us to intentionally choose deep transformation, healing, and evolution.

Many of you have been going through this process of inner transformations for many years, and are already aware of the bioenergetic dynamics of this process. We are the “first big wave” of humans leading the awakening process. As the Pluto-Aquarius energies continue to flow during the next years, more and more people will join this process of becoming more aware of their multidimensional essence and existence.

As we move deeper into this energetic metamorphosis, our energy fields and physical bodies will inevitably undergo changes. All these changes are aimed at one main objective: regaining our divinely given power. This process will entail the removal of ancient layers of fears and blockages that have kept us in a state of victimhood for years. We will be dismantling outdated belief systems that have been keeping us separated and living in a polarized state, and will be building new systems and networks that will lead us into a state of integration, embracing the good and the bad, the shadow and the light, reaching a higher spiritual perspective of our place in the cosmos.

For this to take place, however, we need to change internally first. Our consciousness will need to undergo first an expansion and cosmic reconnection. The lightcodes of the Pluto-Aquarius synergy will mainly work on three energy centers/chakras: the crown chakra that will assist with our nervous system upgrade and recalibration together with the skeletal system; the throat chakra which will help us communicate our new truth to the world and create new networks; and the solar plexus chakra that will reconnect our lower self with a new empowered higher self.

As our energy fields become adjusted to these new frequencies and our energy centers expand along our knowledge of the process, new changes at the molecular level within our cells will also take place. Our DNA, a reservoir of an incredible amount of information, will also undergo an awakening: new sections of our DNA will become more energetically active to allow our bodies to hold more light within our system and in turn help us maintain a higher frequency state.

The length and depth of this amazing transformation will depend on many personal factors. This is quite an personalized journey, and the amount of time we each need for this transformation and healing is quite variable. We all have different emotional stories/issues and barriers to heal within ourselves. The key during this process is to have patience, dedication, and above all a deep love for ourselves. The current younger generations will go into this process much easily, as their energy fields are already resonating with this evolutionary process. The more mature generations will need a little more work, patience, and understanding of the process.

The 3D to 5D Activations Library I was guided to create can be a wonderful resource of light codes transmissions for this upcoming journey. As we approach this initial Pluto-Aquarius transition, you may work with all the transmissions in Level I, which include the “Soul’s Journey Alignment” activation. These basic activations will assist you to find a more solid energetic ground as you move forward during this initial period of regeneration and transformations. The “Cord Cutting” transmission in the Perennial section could also be a beneficial tool for releasing old attachments as we move through this transition. I’ll be adding a new Pluto-Aquarius activation to the library in the coming days, stay tuned:

LEVEL I: BASIC ALIGNMENTS

We are truly entering a new chapter in our human evolutionary journey. The years 2024-2044 will mark the rebirth of a new human cosmic consciousness, a new state of being towards a more unified and integrated version of ourselves. The dismantling of the old systems may feel threatening, but eventually new structures will arise from the ashes for a more promising and enlightened future.

Meanwhile, the day-to-day alchemical process continues within each of us, with the Pluto-Aquarius energy accompanying and molding us for a long time. Let’s welcome this new chapter of inner and outer transformations, and allow Divine timing to continue moving the parts of this amazing cosmic clock. Have a wonderful journey. Much love 💖

WE ARE ONE ♡

Diego E. Berman 2024Ⓒ

http://www.diegoberman.com

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Anger

ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏꜱᴛ ᴅᴀɴɢᴇʀᴏᴜꜱ ᴀɴɢᴇʀ ɪꜱ ʙᴜɪʟᴛ ɪɴꜱɪᴅᴇ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ʜᴇᴀʀᴛ.

🌟 It’s the quiet ones. The helpers. The ones who forgive, again and again.

🌟 It’s the ones who swallow their pain to keep the peace.

🌟 It’s the ones who wear a smile even when their soul is screaming.

But here’s the thing about good hearts: they can only take so much.

💔 That anger? It’s like a ticking time bomb.

💔 It’s the years of being overlooked, dismissed, and hurt.

💔 It’s the silent sacrifices that go unnoticed, unappreciated.

When a good heart finally erupts, it’s not just anger. It’s a volcanic explosion of every betrayal, every heartbreak, every moment of silent suffering.

⚡ Beware the anger of a good heart. It’s not born out of hate, but out of a desperate need to protect what remains.

⚡ It’s a cry for justice, for recognition, for a chance to be heard and healed.

⚡ And when that anger speaks, the world should listen.

So to those who carry this silent rage, know this:

❤️ Your anger is valid.

❤️ Your pain is seen.

❤️ Your voice matters.

Use that anger, not to destroy, but to rebuild. To carve out the respect, the love, the understanding you deserve.

And remember, even a good heart has the right to roar. 🗣️🌿

Words and image © Amanda Weston