Indeed it is . I prefer celibacy over the casual sexual exchange that’s been in vogue for decades .
I read it is like being in bed with 7 different people if the energy of those past experiences into your new partner unless it’s cleared .
I used to think it was just the previous relationship, just 1 but this newer info makes sense .
Sacred sex and honorable relationships mean more , certainly after the marriage that was a transaction for him , nothing more .
I have had issues with time all my life . The past was revisited when I was completely knocked out of the cycle of life via psychiatry, Big Pharma and supported by an X who wanted to split .
The eviction again touched on those experiences of childhood which were the ” bullets” used psychologically by X for the win . I had years of non existent reality , huge chunks of lost time that were relived in trauma . Lots of time focused on healing .
Bam , hit again by a business associate.
More time lost , and healing continued after nearly loosing my life , but I accepted Divine’s warning . Rest , sleep , honor thyself , reflect and heal . That is my present ; but doesn’t time keep on slipping into the future ?
Time is a present 🎁
Grateful to be here! At present 🎁
The Illusion of Time: Reclaiming the Present
Alan Watts captures a profound truth: our culture is obsessed with the constructs of past and future, often at the expense of the present moment. We chase memories, replay regrets, and fixate on plans, while the only real experience—the now—slips through our grasp.
Think about a family dinner. Instead of savoring the food and laughter, someone scrolls through their phone, reminiscing about old photos or planning tomorrow’s meeting. The richness of connection is lost. Or consider someone jogging through a park, headphones in, lost in a playlist. They miss the symphony of birds, the crispness of the air, and the beauty of the moment unfolding around them.
Even in conversations, we’re often distracted, crafting responses instead of truly listening. Why? Because we’re tethered to what was or what might be, rarely anchored in what is.
Watts reminds us that life exists only in the present. When we surrender the illusion of time, we reconnect with reality—whether it’s feeling gratitude for a sunrise, immersing ourselves in music, or sharing an unguarded laugh with a friend.
Reality is not yesterday or tomorrow. It is here. Now. Embrace it, and discover the joy of truly living. 🙂
Neglect was more common than abuse .. but yes it was a very scary ,
singular , responsible childhood… I did not know a lot and so, I credit
God , and my internal radar that protected me . I had no memory of
the horror of being orally raped , just an intuitive sense of right and wrong
wrong .. I detested lies, had little trust in my Mom being involved
in all that’s required of motherhood .
The travesty is the knowledge, late into the relationship with a partner
in marriage , that hears all my stories , my childhood traumas, and
unhealed places which X weaponized , enhanced the experience ,all
under the ” influence ” of psychiatry and Big Pharma’s toxic and
addictive death grip ..
I am Blessed to have survived this cruelty .🙏🏼
‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse …’ But for us, alienated parents, that silence isn’t peaceful—it’s unnatural. It’s not supposed to be this way. Our children have been unjustifiably, most cruelly, denied a relationship with us, and the quiet reminds us of their absence. The pain is real and heightened on nights like this. I know from personal experience that Christmas can be an extremely tough time for an alienated parent. The sense of loss is heightened, and you can easily get caught in an emotional loop. You have to deal with not seeing the children and maybe even having your presents rejected or returned. Whilst I cannot make your children come back during the festive season or cure the absence of their presence and laughter, I’m here to help you manage these feelings and find your inner strength. I help many parents, like you, cope far better with the challenges that we face. You can learn to re-frame the way that you experience alienation, changing the way you think, feel and act. I will be working on this with my current clients and anyone else who wants to join my program or coaching. You can shift your perspective and regain a sense of peace, not just for the holidays but moving forward. Reach out for support. If not me, then those close to you who can support you when you need it. Take care, Charlie.
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The toxic family system is like all toxic systems— it runs only when people play very specific roles. And at the same time, give up their Self identity.
In healthy families, there’s interdependence— where each member relies on and supports each other. But, they also have individualism, or the space to fully be themselves.
In the toxic family system, when someone starts getting emotionally healthy, friction is creating. Fear and anxiety comes up in other members. “If this person is changing, what does that mean for me.” And if they’re interacting in new ways, what does that mean about the ways I interact now?”
This creates many emotional triggers. The healthy person might hear “oh you’re too good for us now” or “boundaries are ridiculous” or “in my day we didn’t go to therapy and I turned out fine.” These are all shame based statements. A sign that person is feeling unworthy, confused, and *most likely* scared.
It’s helpful as you heal to remember that generations before you had almost zero education on generational trauma. Many people in their 60s, 70s, and 80s, never had the chance to be self aware. And what will become more and more clear to you is most people really are children in adult bodies. Focus on what you can control: you.
If you’re breaking the cycle, expect to trigger people around you. Expect to not always be supported. It can hurt, but you’re doing this for you. And you’re no longer a child needing their approval.
Reminder: if you’re a cycle breaker and you’re looking for community @selfhealers.circle opens Jan 2nd. Spaces are limited so if you *know* you want to join, comment “WAITLIST” then check your DM. We only open this 3 times a year. Next chance to join will be in May #selfhealers
Until the late 1980s, doctors often performed surgeries on infants with minimal to no anesthesia thinking they were not capable of experiencing pain. It was only in 1987 that research proved babies do react to pain and so the medical practice had changed.
You Excrete Gold Through Your Skin and Hair:
The human body contains trace amounts of gold. The average human body of about 150 pounds (68 kg) contains about .2 milligrams of gold, most of which is found in our bloodstream.
Unfortunately, it’s not enough to make you rich. It happens on such a microscopic level that it’s impossible to notice or collect.
Ultimately, this gold is naturally released through bodily processes like sweating, shedding skin cells, and hair growth.
The gold in your body plays no significant biological role but is present alongside other essential trace elements. Still, the idea that your body is constantly releasing specks of one of Earth’s most coveted metals is a fascinating and unexpected quirk of human biology
To The Ascending LightWorker Collective
A high-frequency energy is entering the planet , unblocking , healing, and raising internal vibrations. It will accelerate manifestations. Ascending self is a multidimensional being , capable of effortlessly moving between dimensions. No external portal is needed as everything is already within .
Give yourself time and trust in existing abilities . If there is resistance towards your purpose and goals, avoid taking immediate action. Your Intuition will always alert and guide you to be in divine timing with all that is required , When feeling vibrationally confident reality will shift to reflect that higher vibration. Seeking within, confronting more shadows if need be to remain positive for all that is to come .
Faith and peace reside within the heart space , not outside of it , consciously aware of the inner world taking shape , trusting inner guidance. Starseeds are here for a particular reason and purpose , allowing love to guide , no longer fear.
The collective ascending have gone through multiple awakenings, outgrowing the past version of self and entering a new ascension phase. This new version of self will exude positive vibes, love, success, health, happiness, now attracting the light minded and good-hearted in others .
The true self is limitless and possess a captivating aura. You are your own healer, protector and muse. Learning to love and accept self as is , no apologies needed . You are a beloved spark of divine love on this planet , to bring needed goodness and light. What is meant for you will now synchronistically flow effortlessly throughout . Doors will begin to open in preparation for 2025 global and ascension restructures .
As a Starseed you are also an advanced empath, you are a messenger of light . Your life here will be one of love and healing self , this means you are also healing others consciously you are a source of creative light. Not everyone will like or understand you, this is always the inner self work , others can’t and won’t always understand In new earth energy , and this is ok , we it is all about being genuine and authentic regardless of all others’ opinions. Outside validation will only lead to major dissatisfaction and disappointments.
High frequency Portals of light are opening before the end of this year, bringing blessings into life. Set your intentions high for 2025 with firm belief that they will come true as your wishes, dreams, and desires now manifest more rapidly. Fresh energy will bring in new perspectives, shifting clarity and focus towards your desires.
2024 has been intense and challenging for some. Now aligning with the divine energies and removing low density and negativity from life . Self’s natural state of being is internal peace, excitement, love, joy, gratitude, and abundance.
The years 2014-2024 were a 10 year major transformational period in preparation for ascension in new earth energy .
In 2024 revelations brought awareness of what no longer served the ascending path. Healing, cleansing, and releasing followed for soul evolution and growth. Those not on a conscious journey, not interested in their purpose, and choosing to remain in victimhood will highly likley struggle in new earth reality , the collective mainstream individuals who refuse necessary changes will possibly face challenges in the universal and planetary vibrations of 2025 , it is deeply based in truth awareness, lower frequency energies are not compatible with new earth’s higher frequencies
Universal 9 year represents the accumulation of all numbers , Its emphasis is in closures and endings , This also applies to our past versions . Those continuing to cause harm to others and in this world moving forward will face difficulties.
In the universal year 9 , ascending souls will experience new beginnings, abundance, and joy on this planet . The ascending who heal and no longer tolerate dysfunction will undergo rapid DNA accelerations and attract those at similar evolutionary vibrations in alignment.
The old world energy is undergoing a major slow-motion collapse, with a sense of suspension in time. However, it is about to accelerate, leading to a sudden and significant break in turning points . The ascending self will no longer allow fear to deceive moving forward. There will be a strong focus in staying centered and feeling protected and safe from the outer world .
2024 , the 2 conscious worlds completley divided , new earth is the embodiment of alignment ,truth and gravitating towards what vibrationally resonates . The ascending are preparing for a new era of light next year and possibly one of the biggest shifts of their exisiting ascending reality , Ascending souls are a big part of the Ascension Transition Team. Expect the unexpected , opening up to allow miracles to effortlessly happen .
A prominent and significant shift is happening in the energy of this planet, to prepare us for new earth 2025 energies everything that is based in fear and false truths is being exposed and eradicated , the truth and light will always prevail in this global age of Aquarius ,
The collective consciousness is going through a mass global conscious awakening, many more ascending souls are awakening to deeper and profound Truths.
The old ways of being are breaking and crumbling down, we will witness the entire 3D matrix system begin to shut down, ascending souls are collectively uniting and manifesting a new earth energy that is deeply based in love and truth. Because of this collectively we are accelerating the ascension earth timelines , things are going to change and come in to our ascending realities a lot sooner than expected .
In loving and devoted Ascension service .
by Ascension Lightworkers .
THE MATRIX IS NOT JUST A MOVIE—IT’S AN INTRODUCTION TO ESOTERIC KNOWLEDGE
“The world you perceive is an illusion, a mental construct designed to confine you and obscure your true potential.”
The Matrix is far more than a science-fiction narrative; it is a reflection of humanity’s spiritual journey and an urgent call to awaken from the invisible chains that bind us. Drawing on ancient metaphysical traditions, from Plato’s allegory of the cave to the concept of Māyā in Hindu philosophy, the film serves as a guide to self-realization, a metaphor for transcending the illusions that govern our existence.
Packed with symbols, archetypes, and esoteric messages, The Matrix invites us on a transformative adventure that transcends fiction.
THE CALL TO AWAKENING
The red pill and blue pill scene is no mere plot device; it is the first test of initiation. This pivotal choice represents the universal challenge of free will: the blue pill signifies the comfort of ignorance, while the red pill symbolizes the painful but liberating truth. To take the red pill is to embrace higher knowledge and step onto the path of enlightenment, relinquishing old certainties in favor of a broader reality.
This awakening unfolds in distinct phases of initiation:
1️⃣ The Initial Doubt
Just like Neo, the seeker begins to sense that something is fundamentally wrong with the world. This doubt—this nagging feeling that reality is not as it seems—is the seed of spiritual awakening.
Carl Jung reminds us:
“Man does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
This phase compels us to confront our shadows, unearth hidden fears, and question the beliefs that have silently shaped our lives.
2️⃣ Confronting the Truth
The seeker comes to realize that the material world is a façade, a projection designed to keep them enslaved. In The Matrix, this is embodied by the digital construct itself—a carefully orchestrated illusion meant to pacify humanity.
This parallels ancient teachings about the Māyā of Hinduism or the Gnostic concept of the Demiurge, both of which describe a deceptive force that keeps souls trapped in ignorance.
3️⃣ Symbolic Death
Neo’s unplugging from the matrix is a symbolic death—a critical step in all spiritual initiations.
This death represents the dissolution of the ego: the old self, with its attachments and illusions, must “die” for the true self to emerge.
As Joseph Campbell writes in The Hero with a Thousand Faces:
“Initiation is a descent into the unknown, where the old world is destroyed so that the new can emerge.”
This stage is painful yet transformative, a necessary breaking of the old to make way for the new.
4️⃣ Mastering the Real
As Neo learns to bend the rules of the matrix, he steps into his power as a creator of reality.
This final stage of initiation reveals a profound truth: consciousness is the architect of experience. By transcending fear, limitation, and illusion, the seeker becomes fully awakened, capable of shaping their destiny.
THE MATRIX AS A COLLECTIVE ILLUSION
The matrix is not just a computer simulation—it is the metaphorical prison in which we all live. It represents the societal beliefs, fears, and conditioning that hold us captive, much like the shadows in Plato’s cave or the constructs described in Eastern and Gnostic philosophies.
We are surrounded by this matrix every day. It is the projection of external forces—technology, cultural norms, media, and systems of power—designed to keep us asleep to our true nature.
As Morpheus tells Neo:
“The matrix is everywhere. It is all around us. You see it when you look out your window, or when you turn on your television. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.”
The truth is that we, too, live in a matrix: a mental and spiritual construct designed to limit our potential.
BREAKING FREE FROM THE MATRIX
To escape the matrix is to reclaim your power as a conscious being. Here’s how the initiation process helps you transcend illusion:
Self-Knowledge
As Socrates said:
“Know thyself, and you will know the universe.”
Understanding that you are the creator of your reality is the first step to liberation.
Transcending Fear
Morpheus explains that the matrix is powered by fear. By transcending fear, you free yourself from its grip and step into your authentic power.
Awakening Consciousness
Realizing that you are not your thoughts, beliefs, or body is the ultimate key. As Eckhart Tolle writes in The Power of Now:
“True freedom lies in the realization that you are not your mind.”
This awakening shifts your perspective from victim to creator, allowing you to see the world as a reflection of your consciousness.
CHOOSING THE RED PILL EVERY DAY
The choice between the red and blue pill is not a one-time decision—it is a daily practice. Every moment offers a choice: to stay asleep in the comfort of illusion or to face the truth, no matter how uncomfortable.
The journey of awakening is not easy, but it is profoundly rewarding. By stepping out of the matrix, you align with your true essence and reclaim your creative power.
THE PATH TO FREEDOM
Look around you. The matrix is everywhere. It is in the systems that seek to control you, the beliefs that limit you, and the fears that paralyze you. But liberation is possible. By embarking on the journey of initiation, you can dismantle the illusions and step into the fullness of your potential.
Remember:
You are not your conditioning.
You are not your fears.
You are infinite consciousness, capable of shaping your reality.
The choice is yours. Will you take the red pill? Will you awaken to the truth and step into your power? The journey is challenging, but it leads to a life of authenticity, freedom, and boundless possibility.
The matrix may be powerful, but the truth within you is more powerful still. Trust in your inner light, and break free. The time to awaken is now.
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