Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Intensity

“They will call you “”crazy”” because you are, because you were born with the gift of seeing things differently and that scares them.”

They’re going to call you “intense” because you are, because you were born with the value well placed to allow yourself to feel it all fully and that intimidates them.

They’re going to call you “selfish” because that’s right, because you found out that you’re the most important thing in your life and that doesn’t suit them.

You’re going to be called in many ways, with many judgments, for a long time, but stay firm on yourself and what you want, and I promise you one day they’re going to call you to say, “thank you for existing.”

-Frida Kahlo

Julia Roberts – Moved on

Julia Robert’s once said: One day, they’ll realize what they had in you. They’ll see the depth of your heart, the strength in your spirit, and the value they once overlooked. But by then, you’ll be someone far beyond what they could have ever imagined. You will have grown—into someone who no longer seeks their approval, no longer waits to be chosen, no longer needs their recognition to feel whole.

The space they left, the moments they dismissed you, the times they made you feel invisible—they were all silent gifts in disguise. Because in their absence, you found yourself. You learned to appreciate your own worth, to stand tall without needing anyone else to confirm your value. You built a life that is full, rich, and complete—not because of them, but because of you.

And when they finally wake up to what they lost, it won’t matter anymore. Their regret will be theirs to carry, not yours to fix. You’ll have moved on—not out of spite, but because life called you forward, and you answered. You won’t need closure or apologies. You’ll just know, deep in your soul, that your worth was never dependent on their ability to see it.

By the time they recognize who you were, you’ll be long gone—thriving, at peace, and completely unshaken by the realization they took too long to have.

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Celebrating 🙌

Stayed in , celebrating with phone calls and visits with varied Pisces friends and a visit as well .

All is well with my soul !

So I made dinner ; my only meal today !

I know my liver is stoked !!!

I sliced a filet and slowly pan fried adding

coconut amino’s and salt .

I sautéed onions in butter until most butter was cooked through.

And a nice salad , 3 cucumber !

Paul Newman , Caesar Dressing .

It was delicious❤️

the link below is a Beatles song… an invitation on this Pisces New Moon , to celebrate for the revelations that clear out the shadow with light & love ❤️

Thank You for hanging out with me 🙏🤩💯

https://youtu.be/MC2bNPOPKIU?si=XbP29bqlymceduOx

Good Woman

Every man hopes to have a good woman by his side, but many don’t realize that women with genuine hearts come with real, powerful emotions.

They feel everything deeply, love with intensity, and give their whole heart to the people they care about.

A good woman is loyal to the core, but her tender heart means she can also become frustrated, hurt,

or emotional when something doesn’t feel right.

This isn’t a sign of weakness

it’s simply because she cares so deeply.

Sure, she might have her moody days, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, it’s a rare, precious kind of love.

It’s a love you won’t find anywhere else.

Value it.

Just you & Yourself

i grew up getting my feelings always invalidated and judge, i learned to be independent. i learned to suffer alone without having to rest on a shoulder. i learned how to wipes my own tears without helping of other. i grew up being listener; but never the listened one. the comforter never the comforted, the healer but never been healed. People aren’t always going to be there for you just as they promised to, so learn to stand up alone. at the end of the day, it’s just you & yourself.

She doesn’t work

Yep, My wife doesn’t work.

Convo between a husband (M) and a psychologist (P):

P: What do you do for a living, Mr. Rogers?

M: I am an accountant in a bank…

P: And your wife?

M: She doesn’t work. She’s a stay-at-home mom.

P: Who prepares breakfast for your family?

M: My wife, since she doesn’t work.

P: What time does your wife wake up in the morning?

M: She wakes up very early since things have to be organized. She prepares lunches for the children, she makes sure they are well dressed and combed, that they have eaten, brushed their teeth and collected all their school belongings. She wakes up with the baby, changes his diaper and breastfeeds him.

P: How do your children get to school?

M: My wife drives them to school, since she doesn’t work.

P: After driving the children to school, what does she do?

M: She goes to the supermarket to buy groceries or she does shopping for the house. Sometimes she forgets something and has to do the whole trip again with the crying baby. Once she returns home, she has to feed and breastfeed the baby, change his diaper and prepare him for a nap, clean the house and do the laundry. You know, since she doesn’t work.

P: In the evening, when you come back from the office, what do you do?

M: I’m resting, of course. I’m exhausted from my long day of work at the bank.

P: What does your wife do in the evening?

M: She cooks dinner, serves us food, washes the dishes, cleans the house and walks the dog. After helping the children with their homework, she gets them ready for bed and checks that they have brushed their teeth. Then she changes the baby’s diaper and breastfeeds him again. When she is in bed, she wakes up regularly to breastfeed and change diapers as needed, since she does not have to get up to go to work.

This is the daily routine of many women around the world. It starts at dawn and continues until the wee hours of the morning… and it’s called “don’t work”?!

Being a stay-at-home mom may not require a degree, but it is an essential family role!

Appreciate your wife, your mother, your grandmother, your aunt, your sister or your daughter… because their sacrifices are priceless.

Someone asked me…

“Are you a working woman, or are you just a stay-at-home mom?” »

I answered :

I am a woman who works at home, 24 hours a day…

I am a mother,

I’m a woman,

I am a girl,

I am an alarm clock,

I am the cook,

I am the housekeeper,

I am the mistress of the house,

I’m the waitress,

I am the nurse,

I am a nurse,

I am a manual worker,

I am a security guard,

I am the advisor,

I am the comforter,

I don’t have any time off,

I work day and night,

I am still on duty,

I don’t get paid and…

Even then, I often hear the phrase:

“But what do you do all day?” »

In tribute to all women who dedicate their lives to the well-being of their families.

To share with all the beautiful women in your life. #momlife #strongmomlife #love

Spring

Very slowly Spring sidles in.

She steps cautiously, as Winter

isn’t quite done yet.

Maybe there will be one last finale.

She bides her time, not wanting

to steal the show.

She has lifted the sun slightly,

not that you would notice immediately,

but the extra light is almost tangible.

The blossom remains tight in

the bud, almost ready to pop.

The daffodils have followed the

arrival of the hardy snowdrops,

who had little fear of Winter.

They are getting ready for their

grand show in March.

To my delight the birds are returning

their cheerful chortling in unison.

And my heart is feeling lifted,

Almost, as if, I am ready to be born again.

I’m nearing the end of the tunnel ..

I’m bursting with anticipation

for the glorious entrance of Spring ..

C.E. Coombes 🌼 Serendipity Corner

Artist Credit: Jo Grundy