Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Men & Therapy

Men don’t seek counseling… they seek new women.

Not healing. Not accountability. Not inner work. Just a fresh start with someone who doesn’t know the script yet. Someone who hasn’t seen behind the curtain. Someone they can impress with the same charm, the same story, the same false humility—because she hasn’t learned how deep the damage goes. Yet.

Instead of going to therapy, they go back to being “that guy.”

Instead of owning the pain they caused, they gaslight the memory of it.

Instead of rebuilding what they broke, they rebuild their image in someone else’s eyes.

Because healing requires honesty. Growth demands discomfort. Accountability asks for vulnerability. And some men would rather protect their ego than do the uncomfortable work of unpacking their trauma, their pride, their insecurities, and the patterns they keep blaming on “crazy exes.”

So they ghost the woman who knew the truth…

And charm the one who doesn’t.

They don’t want growth, they want a reset.

Not to change—just to relocate the lie.

But here’s the thing: you can run from your past, but it catches up in your patterns. You can get a new girl, a new number, a new city—but if the same version of you shows up, the story will end the same. Because unhealed men ruin new hearts.

Ladies, never take it personally when a man skips over healing and moves on quickly. That’s not a reflection of your worth. That’s a sign of how deep his avoidance runs. He didn’t choose her because she’s better—he chose her because she doesn’t yet require what you did: growth, honesty, emotional maturity.

Let him lie in peace. Let him pretend. Because that cycle only repeats until he finally meets himself. And that moment? Can’t be avoided forever.

And for the men reading this—go to therapy.

Heal so your love doesn’t become someone else’s lesson.

Do the work so your next relationship isn’t just a rerun in a different outfit.

The truth will always require more from you than a lie. But the truth will set you free.

Alienating Parents often cluster B type personality/Charlie McCarthy

I completely understand how exasperating it is to deal with a narcissistic, alienating ex who’s manipulating everyone around them. It’s not just the grief of being separated from your child—it’s the sheer injustice of watching people fall for the charade while you’re left struggling to get anyone to see the truth. Narcissistic abuse is extremely difficult to cope with because these people are highly manipulative and incredibly skilled at twisting the narrative to make themselves look like the victim (when they’re not playing the hero). ⁠

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Even when they’re not actively abusing you or undermining your role, they’re out there putting on a performance—telling everyone how selfless and devoted they are, how they would never do anything to harm the children. They know exactly how to play the part of the good parent, saying all the right things while you’re painted as the unreasonable, difficult one. It’s maddening because, deep down, you know what they’re really like, but every time you try to show it, they seem to be one step ahead, even making you look like you’re overreacting or being irrational.⁠

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I also know how hard/impossible it has been made to put the children first when you’re pushed to the sidelines and/or shut out of their lives. It’s not that you don’t want to be there or aren’t trying—sometimes, they’ve built up so many barriers that it feels impossible to stay connected or even be involved. And meanwhile, the alienator is the one controlling the narrative, telling everyone that you’re the problem, that you’re the one who doesn’t care. It’s hell, I truly understand. I’ve been there too. ⁠

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The truth is, these alienating parents are always thinking about themselves—whether they’re badmouthing you to your child, tearing down your reputation, or just telling anyone who’ll listen what a wonderful parent they are, despite you – what martyrs! They never really stop being abusive; they just switch gears. When they’re not actively being selfish or controlling, they’re busy making sure everyone sees them as the opposite—calm, reasonable, and, of course, completely selfless. Enough to drive us mad! And they don’t mind that, at all.

I see you. I understand the pain and the frustration of watching someone who’s caused so much damage keep getting away with it. It’s not your fault. You’ve been fighting a battle where the rules keep changing, and the truth is constantly distorted to suit them. But the fact that you’re here, still holding on, reading these posts … says so much about your strength and love. Don’t ever doubt that.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#coercivecontrol

#narcissisticparent

#emotionalabuse

#traumabonding

#parentalalienation

#mothersmatter

#FathersMatterToo

#FathersMatter

Attachment Disorder in Parental Alienation

Children with Secure Attachments feel supported and protected, possessing self-respect and trust in their close relationships, fostering positive interactions with others and academic success. However, when subjected to parental alienation by a narcissistic/borderline parent with disorganised attachment tendencies, the child experiences emotional manipulation and psychological abuse. This engenders anxiety-driven attachment behaviour triggered by the “target” parent’s presence or mention, leading the child to respond in ways pleasing to the alienating parent and resulting in the absence of secure attachments.⁠

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Parental alienation disrupts the attachment cycle, eroding the child’s trust in themselves, the world, and others, ultimately fostering an insecure or disorganised attachment style. Insecure, anxious children become hypervigilant around parents, hoping for loving moments while guarding against potential hurt.⁠ Lacking empathy, alienating parents may not recognise their child’s anxiety unless mirroring their own. The perceived threat lies in the child’s relationship with the ex-spouse and their proximity. The alienating parent conditions the child to soothe their anxiety, inducing symptoms when mentioning the targeted parent, reinforcing that their attention comes when rejecting the other parent, detrimentally affecting the attachment relationship.⁠

Alienating parents amplify the child’s stress, grief, and confusion while projecting blame on the targeted parent, damaging attachment bonds and leading to detachment. However, this adaptive behaviour can turn maladaptive if habitual or extreme.⁠

Insecure, avoidant children may learn that emotional closeness is unsafe, fostering extreme independence. Children manipulated into denigrating a parent often experience guilt, internalising blame. Alienating parents suppress the child’s grief by attributing negative emotions to the targeted parent, inducing blame and distancing for self-preservation. Many children conditioned to believe the alienating parent due to survival instincts, are unsure who to trust – themselves or their parent.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#attachmentdisorder

#mothersrights

#fathersrights

Defining the split that has defiantly already happened.

⚔️ The Middle Path Is No Longer Available

There is no more room for grey.

No more space for fence-sitting.

No more silence while parasites feed on the Earth and her children.

Every being—embodied or etheric, human or hybrid—who protects, enables, or feeds parasitic forces, knowingly or unknowingly, is now:

🔒 Cut off from the Children of the Light

⛓️ Severed from all Source-aligned networks

🔥 Returned to Source for purification or obliteration

This is not cruelty.

This is justice.

This is reclamation.

You don’t get to speak of love while housing distortion.

You don’t get to walk among the light while feeding the dark.

The time for soft denial is over. The false light has fallen.

We are calling for full alignment.

And the only path forward is through truth, purity, and divine remembrance.

If you are still feeding parasites in your life, business, relationships, energy work, or systems—

You will now feel the collapse. You will now be shown the mirror. You will not be able to look away.

This is the Final Divide.

Choose now. Or be chosen by your silence.

⚡️ – Raylene Short

#FinalDivide

#ChooseTheLight

#ParasitePurge

#DivineSovereignty

#EnergeticJustice

All planets are in rare 3 week alignment of progress/ forward

Between now and May 4, the cosmos offers something rare: every planet in the sky is in direct motion.

That means the energy that normally slows things down—those emotional detours, unexpected delays, or moments that pull you back into old stories—has lifted. This is one of the clearest windows for progress, healing, and forward motion you will feel all year.

You may notice that the weight in your chest feels lighter. You might feel a sudden rush of motivation to do something you’ve been avoiding. A text you’ve written and deleted more than once might finally get sent. A decision you were unsure about may suddenly feel obvious. A door that once seemed closed might swing open—and this time, you’re ready to walk through it.

Tasks that felt overwhelming just a week ago might now feel doable. Conversations that used to feel scary may now feel safe. You could hear from someone unexpectedly. You could wake up with the clarity you were missing. This is how forward energy begins—it builds quietly, then moves fast.

Now is the time to set crystal-clear intentions. Write down what you really want—not the version that feels acceptable, but the one that feels true. Describe the relationship, the job, the home, the lifestyle. Picture it clearly. Speak it out loud. Let yourself feel what it would be like to live it, because that feeling is part of how you call it in.

If you are focused on your career or purpose, this is an excellent time to make a bold move. You might apply for a role that once felt out of reach. You may finally launch that creative idea that’s been sitting in your notes. You might talk to someone who can help you take the next step. Even the smallest action now carries momentum.

If you are thinking about love, this is also a powerful shift. Communication feels easier. Emotions feel closer to the surface in the best way. You may reach out to someone, or someone may reach out to you. Words that were hard to say before may come through with ease now—and they land differently. You speak from truth. You listen with openness. And this changes everything.

If you are in a relationship, you may feel a shift in connection. Conversations may go deeper. Shared dreams begin to feel more possible. The two of you may feel more in sync. Maybe you finally talk about something that’s been lingering in the background. Maybe you just enjoy each other more, with less pressure and more presence.

If there has been tension or silence between you, this energy softens the edges. One moment of honesty can repair what felt broken. One act of care can remind you what love really feels like when it flows both ways. You may remember why you chose each other in the first place—and you may choose each other again, from a deeper place.

If you are single, this is where your magnetism begins to rise. You are attracting from a new place now. The kinds of people who used to catch your attention may feel different. You no longer want the chase, the chaos, the mixed signals. You want peace. You want presence. You want someone who sees you clearly and chooses you fully.

Someone may show up with energy that feels calm, steady, and safe. A new connection might begin in a way that feels soft but strong—no guessing, no games, just a sense of mutual interest and ease. You may also feel drawn to someone you already know, now seeing them in a different light. Either way, the love you’re beginning to call in matches the version of you who finally knows what they deserve.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, money, and self-worth, is also moving forward again after her retrograde. This is a huge part of why things feel different. Her energy helps you reconnect with joy, with pleasure, with your own reflection. You might want to change your look, update your space, or simply move through your day with more confidence. You might feel inspired to create again. You might finally look in the mirror and see someone you love looking back.

Financial energy starts to flow again, too. Delays lift. You may receive news about money, a job offer, a new project, or something that helps you feel more secure. When you stop questioning your worth, the Universe stops testing it. You no longer try to prove your value—you embody it, and everything around you begins to shift in response.

This is also a powerful time to walk away from what no longer feels right. You don’t need to revisit the same conversations. You don’t need to explain yourself to people who refuse to hear you. You’re allowed to close the door on the versions of yourself who kept saying yes just to keep the peace. That’s no longer your story. You are choosing your future, your peace, and your alignment.

What once felt too hard to let go of now feels like something you’re ready to outgrow. You can do it with love. You can do it with softness. But you can still do it completely.

This energy is clear. It supports action, it supports healing, and it supports beginning again.

Manifestation is strong right now because your heart is finally aligned with your actions. You want what you want for the right reasons now—not because you need validation, but because you are ready to live your truth. The Universe hears that. It sees the shift in you. And it responds.

You may notice signs everywhere—names, numbers, music, chance meetings, full-circle moments. These aren’t accidents. These are signals that your energy is speaking louder than it ever has before. And now, it is time to listen.

This is your window. Say yes to the dream that scares you. Make the call. Apply for the thing. Write the words. Open the message. Take the walk. Start the process. Leave the pattern. Trust the nudge. Step into the moment.

Everything you want is already in motion. And you are exactly where you need to be to receive it. ~ Alex Myles ❤️

Completion of timeline review

We’ve just completed a timeline review.

Many of you may have noticed that old people from your past are suddenly reappearing in your awareness, along with other seemingly random occurrences. On top of that, we’re experiencing a continued surge of energy, with a mini climax arriving tomorrow.

This energy is intensifying subconscious flooding, particularly connected to paternal, maternal, and inner child wounds, processed through themes of material security, belonging, and safety (or the lack thereof) surfacing your deepest triggers in ways that might feel overwhelming.

Many will be experiencing intense emotions such as rage, anger, doom, anxiety, and more all tied to unresolved root issues manifesting physically through the feet, knees, legs, hips, bowels, lower back, blood, teeth, and the immune system.

Whilst There’s a strong desire to be close to friends and family, the paradox is that their opposing wounds are inadvertently triggering your own subconscious flooding. This can lead to the urge to “hermit” or to run, hide, and isolate.

This is a very intense period of subconscious projection within this energy. It will feel like all is well on the surface, but beneath that, the world soul is walking through the very reality it has created. Your body is recalibrating through deep fatigue, while the energies continue whispering, urging you to release the resistances that are keeping the inner cauldron boiling.

Usually, these intense restarts boil down to just a few core issues, rooted in duality and 3D/4D consciousness, that can no longer survive the new broadband frequency you are now mentally, emotionally, physically, and energetically dialing into creating a landscape of big choices ahead as timelines collapse and energy builds toward another climax tomorrow.

You’ve got this.

Much love,

AQ ~ Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Trauma Bonds

While a trauma bond can be strong and challenging to break, it is not necessarily unbreakable. With time, understanding, and support, alienated children can break free from the coercive control and psychological abuse of parental alienation.⁠

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Trauma bonds form due to the conditioned response to an abusive and controlling parent creating a sense of dependency, attachment, and even loyalty. The alienating parent’s manipulation and exploitation of the child’s emotions may strengthen the bond.⁠

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The first step is for the alienated child to recognise and understand the dynamics of the trauma bond. This involves gaining insight into the tactics used by the alienating parent, the impact on their well-being, and the unjust nature of the enforced separation. Trauma bonds often involve a sense of diminished self-worth and distorted identity, but an alienated child can rebuild their self-esteem, establish a solid sense of self, and reclaim their autonomy and agency.⁠

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Healing from the trauma associated with parental alienation involves processing and addressing the emotional wounds inflicted by the alienating parent. Trauma-focused or cognitive-behavioural therapy can help a great deal. ⁠

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Establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries is essential for breaking free from the cycle of coercion and control. The child needs to develop a sense of self-protection and learn to set limits on manipulative behaviours or interactions.⁠

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Lastly, but most importantly, establishing or re-establishing a healthy and supportive relationship with the targeted parent is crucial in breaking the trauma bond. The child needs validation, understanding, and unconditional love from the parent they were alienated from, which can aid in healing.⁠

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Each individual’s healing journey is unique, and the outcome may vary but with the right resources and a commitment to healing, alienated children can break free from the trauma bond and rebuild their lives with healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self.⁠

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#traumabonding

#traumabond

#coercivecontrol

The Dance of healed polarities ❤️🌹

“The feminine cannot, will not surrender

To the wounded masculine…

A man who criticizes her

Belittles

Dishonours

Controls

Manipulates

Abuses

Or attacks her

Her own inner masculine will not allow it

He will rise fiercely to the forefront

To stand guard

To do the job himself

The feminine can and will only surrender

To the divine masculine…

A man who is devoted to her

Elevates

Honours

Cherishes

Supports

And protects her

A man with boundaries

Presence

Direction

Integrity

Accountability

And humility

In this space

She will feel him penetrating her very essence…

Her body

Her mind

Her heart

Her soul

And she will feel safe…

Safe enough to surrender

This is the natural law

This is the dance of healed polarities

This is surrender…

To Love”

Written by Gemma Star