Tag: wisdoms

If you’re going to love ❤️

If you’re going to love, love like you mean it. Tell that person you care. Look them in the eyes. Kiss them with passion and a fearlessness that bubbles up from your chest. Don’t stress over what you have right now, and whether it will grow. Don’t be afraid of the way life is imperfect and fragile. Just love.

If you’re going to love, love like tomorrow won’t come. Like this next day, next hour, next second is all you have. Like the person standing in front of you is the best damn thing you’ve ever seen.

If you’re going to love, love like there’s no one else. Like you can’t get enough of their touch, their smile, their laughter mixing with yours. Love like you’ve never even considered a life without them, and believe that they too have wished the same.

If you’re going to love, love like you’ve never been hurt. Like you’ve never experienced the pain of a broken heart, or the dishonesty in someone’s voice. Like you’ve never watched a relationship fall apart, or two people who once had passion for one another fade into strangers.

If you’re going to love, love with a ferocity. Love like it’s all you’re meant to do, because in all honesty, what else is there? Give the person you care for your whole heart. Show them who you are beyond the layers. Get vulnerable. Get messy.

If you’re going to love, love with purpose. Love with all that you have, all that you are. Love, even when the world makes it difficult or says you should give up. Love through your actions, your words, your choices. Choose to love your person, no matter the ups and downs.

If you’re going to love—damn it, love with intention. Don’t half-love. Don’t ‘almost,’ or ‘kind of’ commit. Don’t waste time giving only portions of yourself so you both miss out on the real thing.

If you’re going to love, just do it.

Just love and love and love. And never stop.

– Marisa Donnelly

2gether in Love


When a woman is consistently spoken to with softness and love, she transforms into a new version of herself—one that radiates abundance, confidence, and peace. The simple act of speaking to her kindly can rewire her nervous system, nurture her inner being, and awaken her feminine energy. This transformation, however, doesn’t happen overnight. It requires commitment, patience, and a deep understanding of the intricate layers of her being.

For a man to consistently embody this level of softness is no easy task. It demands immense effort, not only in understanding her but also in confronting his own inner world. As men, we carry traumas, fears, anxieties, and insecurities from childhood. These unresolved wounds can easily resurface in relationships, triggered by seemingly small things. It’s crucial to recognize that these triggers are not the fault of the woman; rather, they are opportunities for growth and healing.

When a man chooses to speak softly and love deeply, even in moments of conflict, he creates a safe space for a woman to heal. He becomes her sanctuary—a place where her soul can rest. This, in turn, begins to heal generational wounds, not just for her but also for their future children. The ripple effect of this love extends far beyond the present moment.

A woman who feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually safe allows her feminine energy to blossom. She begins to trust her intuition, her creativity flows effortlessly, and she steps into her full potential. Her heart, once burdened by unspoken traumas, becomes lighter, and her joy becomes infectious. She doesn’t just exist—she thrives. And when she thrives, so does the relationship.

However, this kind of healing partnership requires a man to be deeply introspective. He must be willing to examine his past, uncover the roots of his pain, and take responsibility for his triggers. It’s not easy to admit that present reactions are shaped by unhealed wounds from the past. Yet, awareness is the first step toward transformation.

When a man embarks on his healing journey, he not only changes himself but also creates a profound shift in the woman he loves. His presence becomes more grounded, his words more intentional, and his actions more aligned with love. She feels this shift, giving her the courage to let her walls down. Together, they co-create a relationship rooted in trust, understanding, and deep emotional intimacy.

Supporting a woman’s healing also means learning to listen without judgment. She doesn’t always need solutions; sometimes, she just needs to be heard. In moments of vulnerability, when she shares her fears and insecurities, a man’s calm and loving response can heal wounds she has carried for years.

Consistency is key. It’s not enough to show softness on good days and withdraw it on hard days. True commitment means showing up with love even in difficult moments. This unwavering presence helps a woman feel secure, and security allows her to rest and rejuvenate fully.

So, dear man, when a woman feels loved and respected, she naturally becomes a magnet for abundance. Her energy shifts, her confidence grows, and her ability to attract positive experiences multiplies. This doesn’t just benefit her—it uplifts the man as well, creating a partnership where both individuals grow and flourish.

When a man takes responsibility for healing his own wounds to support a woman’s growth, he isn’t just healing her—he’s healing himself, their relationship, and future generations. This journey is far from easy, but it is one of the most rewarding paths a man can walk. True love isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, healing, and walking the path of transformation together.

Soul knows it’s truth and it’s worth

Love isn’t all about physical attraction or romance. it’s all about finding your soul in another person’s body… it’s not physical desire you’re feeling inside,.. it’s a craving for tender human touch, genuine affection, mutual intimacy, belonging, and a meaningful, deep, unbreakable connection. Your heart wants more than fleeting passion, it craves mental stimulation, non-sexual warmth and hug, honest, deep and open conversation, and unfiltered vulnerability. You’re truly seeking a profound bond where masculine and feminine energies harmonize effortlessly. It’s not just about sharing a bed with someone, it’s about someone who touches the depths of your soul, ignites your inner fire, and sees you for who you really are. The soul knows its truth and its worth, and it will never settle for anything less than the richness, depth, and fullness it deserves. (My Love for you is not merely physical attraction or infatuation, in fact, I loved you in times past before I even saw you. I think I know you from an unknown time. My soul was yearning for yours for so long and when we met, we fell in love and we both belonged to each other. 🤍❤️‍🔥🖤

Significance of Feathers

The Meaning of Feathers plays a vital role in the belief system of Native people and the ancient ways our ancestors related to the animate and inanimate world.

Feathers are sentient portals of wisdom.

Animism and Shamanism embody the spiritual idea that all natural things within the universe, including birds and their feathers, have a spirit and vibration and are bridges into specific prayers and connections.

The generalized meaning of feathers signified honor & connected the chosen owner with the Creator and the bird the feathers came from. In many traditions, spiritual healers and individuals were awarded feathers by the Creator and the community when they did specific deeds as a reward or when a particular feather was needed to pursue their spiritual quest and work.

I learned from my Elders and teachers that we don’t take a feather that we find on a random walk or from dead animals unless the feather fell from the sky where it carried the vibration of life or appeared following a specifically crafted “feather prayer ceremony” or intention placed in the fire with tobacco.

We do not take; we receive. And to receive, we have to give something first. This is core to our sacred relationship understanding and our way of life.

Feathers are gifts from the birds, the sky, the land, and the Creator.

Feathers can arrive unexpectedly, but only with purpose and a connection to our path and prayers.

Birds were revered as bringers of messages and symbols of change and often symbolized light-hearted freedom, and their feathers have many spiritual, ceremonial & ritual uses. Decorated feathers were sometimes attached to sacred pipes or prayer sticks. In many ancient cultures, the meaning of feathers is inextricably tied to the belief that as spirit guides, birds walk through different stages of life with a person, teaching and guiding them and sometimes protecting them.

The meaning of birds and their feathers are of great significance as they possess supernatural powers that can embody, attach, and influence a person, empowering them with the bird’s powerful traits, attributes, and characteristics.

The following list describes the meanings of some feathers, providing information on the significance of each bird, together with its meaning, attributes, characteristics, and symbolism. Those are not to be taken literally, as the meaning of certain feathers might be different for you or others. The best way to understand their meaning is to ask the feather (in a shamanic journey, prayer, ceremony, vision quest, etc) or to witness how this feather answers your gifts and prayers.

Bluebird:

A feather from a bluebird symbolizes happiness and fulfillment. It can also connect to the throat chakra and our voice.

Crow:

A feather from a crow symbolizes balance, release from past beliefs, skill, and cunning. It connects to ancestors, the magic of the land, and ancient wisdom.

Dove:

A feather from a dove symbolizes love, gentleness, and kindness. It can also represent freedom and liberation in the path of self-awakening.

Eagle:

A feather from an eagle symbolizes great strength, courage, leadership, and prestige. The bald eagle and the golden eagle were considered sacred birds by most tribes.

Falcon:

A feather from a falcon symbolizes soul healing, speed, and movement. It represents the necessity for deep focus and agility.

Hawk:

A feather from a hawk symbolizes guardianship, strength, and far-sightedness. It is connected to Christ’s consciousness and some potent medicine for awakening the Self into Love.

Heron:

A feather from a heron symbolizes patience, grace, and confidence. It can open us to see more clearly and remove confusion.

Hummingbird:

A feather from the hummingbird symbolizes love, beauty, intelligence –

A Spirit Messenger and Stopper of Time, the hummingbird often comes to remind us of the sweetness of life and how to focus our prayers.

Kingfisher:

A feather from a kingfisher symbolizes luck, patience, speed, and agility. It awakens dormant powers in us and invites us to the sacred warriors of the Heart.

Owl:

A feather from an owl symbolizes wisdom, the ability to see things in the dark. As a creature of the night, she knows about silence, agility, and being at ease in the unseen world.

Raven:

A feather from a raven symbolizes creation & knowledge – the Bringer of the Light. Connected to ancient wisdom, the old Gods, it is a feather that can be powerful to carry yet requires deep medicine work experience.

Turkey:

A feather from a turkey symbolizes abundance, pride, and fertility. Turkey is the land caretaker; as such, their feather can help us reconnect to the land, show us how to walk on the land, stay grounded on our path, and guide us on the discovery of the proper sacrifice.

Woodpecker:

A feather from a Woodpecker symbolizes self-discovery, perseverance, and connection to sound (especially the flute) and brings strength to our lives. They can help us stay focused and deepen the work into our own hardwood (mind beliefs, and bones).

Please remember that most bird feathers are protected, and many are illegal to have, so check the local regulations when it comes to the feathers you find for your spiritual work.

Praying for good prayers and good feathers,

Angell Deer

Fairy Tales – Einstein

Albert Einstein said, “If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.” Fairy tales stimulate their imaginations and encourage critical thinking, not to mention presenting them with moral dilemmas, allowing kids to think about right and wrong, thereby learning valuable life lessons!

#fairytale #fairytalevibes #tangled #rapunzel #illustration #maryengelbreitstudios #artists

Wolves & Women

“Wolves and women have much in common. Both share a wild spirit. Women and wolves are instinctual creatures, able to sense the unseen. They are loyal, protective of their packs and their pups. They are wild and beautiful. Both have been hunted and captured. Even in captivity, one can see in the eyes of a woman, or a wolf, the longing to run free, and the determination that should the opportunity arise, whoosh, they will be gone.”

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Art by Debbie Clark

Behavior

Behavior is the purest reflection of the soul, an unfiltered revelation of character. Long before words are spoken, justifications are offered, facades are carefully arranged, and there is action—raw, instinctive, and telling. I do not simply hear what is said; I listen to the silences in between, the inflections that betray intent, and the shifts in energy that accompany every interaction. Tone, body language, and the weight behind one’s words are not trivial details; they are the threads that weave the fabric of authenticity.

Respect is not a performance, nor is it situational. It is a principle, a fundamental measure of a person’s depth. Status, intellect, or achievements cannot compensate for a lack of grace. No matter how valuable someone believes themselves to be, if their manner lacks sincerity, their presence is of little consequence to me. Relationships built on imbalance—where courtesy is conditional, where dignity is disregarded—are doomed to dissonance. I do not entertain them.

There is a profound peace in the company of those who humbly move through life. They do not impose themselves with arrogance or demand reverence through force. Instead, they offer their presence as a quiet strength, understanding that true influence is not wielded through intimidation but through integrity. Their words do not cut—they connect. Their actions do not take—they give. They understand that kindness is not weakness, that patience is not passivity, and that self-awareness is the mark of an evolved mind.

By contrast, those who are careless with their words, erratic in their actions, or blind to the weight of their behavior find no place in my world. There is an undeniable discomfort in the presence of those whose energy is chaotic, whose tongues are sharp with condescension, and whose actions betray a disregard for others. Whether subtle or overt, disrespect is a symptom of a fractured character, and I have neither the inclination nor the obligation to engage with those who cannot offer the bare minimum of decency.

The way people treat others is an unguarded confession of their spirit. It is a mirror reflecting their values, their wounds, and their understanding of the world. I do not need words to know who someone is; their behavior tells me everything. And so, I do not argue, I do not plead, and I do not linger where I am not met with grace. My space, energy, and presence are reserved for those who understand their own weight.

~Katie Kamara

Art by Anna Bocek