Tag: wisdoms

Don’t feed the parental Alienator – Charlie McCarthy

When alienated parents react and become outraged, and heartbroken by the loss of their child and the injustice they face, it’s perfectly understandable, and natural. However, continually dwelling on these negative emotions and allowing them to consume our energy can be detrimental to our emotional well-being.

The quote by Emily Maroutian about ‘paying’ attention to what we focus on, serves as a reminder. While it’s crucial to acknowledge and process our emotions, dwelling on them excessively can perpetuate the cycle of pain and hinder our ability to heal. Instead, it’s beneficial to redirect energy towards self-care, seeking support, and taking proactive steps to address the situation constructively. By shifting attention towards personal growth, healing, and finding ways to reconnect with their child, as and when that’s possible, we can create a healthier space for ourselves and increase the chances of eventual resolution and reconciliation.

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Loniless

“Loneliness is not just the absence of people. It’s the absence of purpose, the absence of meaning. “When you find yourself in a world where everything seems alienated and distant, where every connection is shallow and every meeting of understanding is met with indifference, you realize that true loneliness is not being alone, but feeling alone in a world that no longer makes sense.”

—Murakami

Across the great divide

“…Conflict engenders fire, the fire of affects and emotions, and like every other fire it has two aspects: that of burning and that of creating light.

On the one hand, emotion is the alchemical fire whose warmth brings everything into existence and whose heat burns all superfluities to ashes.

But on the other hand, emotion is the moment when steel meets flint and a spark is struck forth, for emotion is the chief source of consciousness.

There is no change from darkness to light or from inertia to movement without emotion.”

— Carl Jung

[ Art • “Across the Great Divide” by Anthony Clarkson ]

Psychiatric labels alter how people receive you !

Duh 🤪

What they saw and heard was trauma and the side effects of toxic medications within a high conflict , intimate partner violence that was and is malignant .

His continued abuse financially, highly manipulative is going to have to be addressed , legally and finally .

www.madinamerica.com/2024/11/researchers-psychiatric-diagnosis-changes-the-way-people-view-you/

In the mist of hate ….

“My dear, In the midst of hate, I found there was, within me, an invincible love. In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile. In the midst of chaos, I found there was, within me, an invincible calm. I realized, through it all, that…In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.”

– Albert Camus

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Vin Diesel : How he treated his partner in separation 🙌🤩

Actor Vin Diesel broke up with his partner after three years, but when they separated, he didn’t take her out of their home. He left the marital house to her and moved to live nearby.

Not only that, he also requested that all monthly bills—internet, phone, and electricity—be sent to him for payment. He completely rejected any form of communication that would interfere or publicize anything about their separation.

After six years, his partner had an accident while returning from a shopping trip…

Diesel stood by her side and donated his blood to her. When she recovered, they got back together. 💙

In summary: either we live together in love with pure and humble hearts, or we separate, but love and respect remain between us. We keep our precious memories and respect each other no matter what happens.

Credits: Memes Virales

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Moon Eyed People – Cherokee stories

The Cherokee and Moon-eyed People Folklore

The Cherokee are a Native American tribe originally from the southeastern United States, primarily Georgia, North Carolina, Tennessee, and Alabama. They were forcibly relocated to Oklahoma during the Trail of Tears in the 1830s. The Cherokee have a rich culture and history, with their own language, syllabary, and traditions.

The “Moon-Eyed People” is a term that appears in Cherokee legend and folklore. According to stories, the Moon-Eyed People were a mysterious, pale-skinned race that inhabited the region before the Cherokee arrived. They were said to have been tall, with long hair and eyes that “shone like the moon.” Some accounts describe them as peaceful and advanced, with knowledge of astronomy and architecture.

While the existence of the Moon-Eyed People is not supported by scientific evidence, some theories suggest they might have been inspired by:

1. Early European explorers or settlers.

2. Another Native American tribe with distinct physical characteristics.

3. A mythical or metaphorical representation of the Cherokee’s connection to the land and their ancestors.

It’s important to note that the Cherokee legends about the Moon-Eyed People are an integral part of their cultural heritage and should be respected and appreciated as such.

Adult Children of Narcissist being narcissistic – Parenting the parent

I read or listened to a provider who said our children begin to treat us ( targeted parent ) as the targeted parent was treated by our parents !!

That hit me hard 😢😢

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Man bungling his life

It is often tragic to see how blatantly a man bungles his own life and the lives of others yet remains totally incapable of seeing how much the whole tragedy originates in himself, and how he continually feeds it and keeps it going. Not consciously, of course—for consciously he is engaged in bewailing and cursing a faithless world that recedes further and further into the distance. Rather, it is an unconscious factor which spins the illusions that veil his world. And what is being spun is a cocoon, which in the end will completely envelop him.

C.G. Jung, Aion (Collected Works 9ii)

Artwork from C.G. Jung’s The Red Book (Liber Novus)