Tag: wisdoms

Healing begins within : Focus on You đź™Śđź’Ż

Heal First.. Do your shadow work.. Focus on YOU. Then you will align with your person and your souls purpose. This goes for ALL of us, we all must heal from our traumas and work towards finding our higher self. 💙🙌✨️ 💫

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Men with a mother wound often leave women emotionally wrecked. Their inner conflict—craving love but rejecting it—pulls women in, only to push them away, leaving the women holding the weight of wounds they didn’t create and cannot heal.

These women end up feeling confused, inadequate, and deeply hurt, questioning what they could’ve done differently. But the truth is, they were never meant to “fix” him. His pain isn’t their responsibility, yet they pay the price: abandonment, rejection, and emotional chaos.

When you try to save him, you sacrifice yourself. You pour your love into a bottomless pit, hoping it will be enough. It never is. Because the healing he needs can only come from within—through his willingness to face his wounds, not through your endless efforts to soothe them.

The hardest truth to accept is this: You can love him deeply, but you cannot save him. Loving him at the expense of yourself isn’t love—it’s self-abandonment. And while you’re busy trying to save him, you’re losing the very woman he needs: the whole, healed version of you.

Ask yourself: Is your love for him worth losing yourself? Because the cost of staying isn’t just heartbreak—it’s forgetting your worth in the process. The only way forward is to release the belief that it’s your job to fix him and reclaim your power. Only then can you stop the cycle and heal from the wreckage he left behind.

Healing starts with you choosing yourself. Let him choose to heal—or not—but don’t carry his pain as your own.

Swift & Powerful Energies

“Swift-Flowing Energy”

The Hathors, through Peggy Black

During these times of great change on your planet, imagine there is a strong, rapid-moving river of energy. This dynamic and powerful energy current that is washing over your planet is moving through all aspects of life, bathing every cell and atom of the body with a frequency of transformation and evolution.

When you surrender to this rapid-flowing current of transformation you move with it, you become a part of it, like a small twig that floats upon the surface of the water.

Yet if you cling to the shores of old patterns, old familiar emotions, old dysfunctional behaviors, you will be battered and will tire. If you fight the energy current or doubt its power, you will be overwhelmed.

The best and most conscious manner to deal with this incredible energy that is gifted to humanity is to bravely trust the flow and embrace the movement and changes that are taking place. Surrender into trust. Drop into a place within your being that offers you flexibility of all that is transpiring. Surrender to the flow.

As a guardian of light, you are most powerful and effective when you maintain a high frequency vibration. You are more fully connected with divine source and guided to the places and people that are ready and willing to shift. You will offer a vibration which will trigger awareness in others, a vibration which will anchor a new expanded consciousness. You will offer a life raft to those who are willing to trust their divine natures and surrender to the essence that they are magnificent beings of divine light.

#1 Toxicologist : Products causing infertility & harming children – Diary of a CEO

Awareness of this , began as a new Mom and “acid rain” , nutrition

was important . Of course I had no idea of misinformation, or

lack of truthful education .

I know I’m sensitive to many things, and I try to control adversity

in foods and products .. it has been totally lame for over 4 years .

Certainly , flawed rentals contributed to my inability to totally

delve into my stuff in total and adapt my needs to reality .

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Soul Connection

“A soul connection is a resonance between two people who respond to the essential beauty of each other’s individual natures, behind their facades, and who connect on this deeper level.

This kind of mutual recognition provides the catalyst for a potent alchemy. It is a sacred alliance whose purpose is to help both partners discover and realize their deepest potentials.”

— John Welwood

Strength

I’ve spent so much of my life being the strong one—the one who keeps it together when everything feels like it’s falling apart, the one who pushes through even when the weight feels unbearable.

I’m so used to wearing that strength like armor that I almost forget what it feels like to be soft, to let my guard down. That’s why being treated with kindness means more than words can express. It’s not about needing someone to save me—I can handle the hard stuff—but feeling safe enough to be vulnerable, even for a moment.

When you’re used to carrying so much, even the smallest acts of gentleness feel like a reminder that I don’t have to be strong all the time, that it’s okay to rest. And sometimes, that’s exactly what I need.

~Mj Blossoms ~ Writer’s Blossoms

~ Art by Barley Bisher

Love is exquisitely brutal at times – Khalil Gibran

When asked about love, the master responded . . .

When love beckons to you, follow her,
Though her ways are hard and steep.
And when her wings enfold you, yield to her,
Though the sword hidden among her pinions may wound you.
And when she speaks to you believe in her,
Though her voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall she crucify you.
Even as she is for your growth so is she for your pruning.
Even as she ascends to your height and
caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall she descend to your roots and
shake them in their clinging to the earth.
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Like sheaves of corn she gathers you unto herself.
She threshes you to make you naked.
She sifts you to free you from your husks.
She grinds you to whiteness.
She kneads you until you are pliant;
And then she assigns you to her sacred fire,
that you may become sacred bread for her sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you
that you may know the secrets of your heart,
and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only
love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness
and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh,
but not all of your laughter,
and weep, but not all of your tears.
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Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say,
“Love is in my heart,” but rather,
“I am in the heart of Love.”
And think not you can direct the course of love,
for love, if it finds you worthy,
directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires,
let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook
that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart
and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate on love’s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the
beloved in your heart
and a song of praise upon your lips.

Trusting /Loving Self

Trusting the Universe was one of the hardest lessons I had to learn. Trusting in the unknown. Trusting humanity and trusting myself.

Trusting the universe is trusting in the unknown. We are so programmed to control our lives and every aspect of it. Many times I have been asked by my spiritual team, “Don’t you trust us?” When I really questioned the validity of their presence in my life. I let go of the control and accepted their influence to witness miracle after miracle. Because of these miracles, I trust the universe explicitly.

Trusting others… I have a very dear friend that I can talk 100% all things Universe with. He asked me about trusting myself. I said I trust myself but I do not trust others. He said poignantly, if you don’t trust others then you do not trust yourself, for we are ALL One. I had to sit with that in deep reflection to understand it for myself. Trusting in others is a healing energy and lesson I have had to master, it’s a work in progress to unfurl the pain and heal the parts of me that do not trust others.

Trusting myself. This one is huge. I have had to set personal boundaries for myself and really see the human in the mirror. I haven’t liked or loved myself pretty much most of my life. It has taken extreme loss, grief, to and a half years of crying to let go of the programmed person I was to accept this beautiful new version. Mastering self love has been monumental on this healing journey. I no longer see a just a body, I see an embodied soul full of gratitude and love.

Elevating / Birthing Rising New Energy

“2025 Is the Birth of New Energy Rising”

by Lee Harris

Many years ago (and they’ve maintained this), my guides the Z’s have said that from 2025 onwards, we will see more evidence of new ways of Being in the world. Even if there’s still a fight going on in certain areas or certain groups, we will see an increasing amount of evidence of new ways of being and living on Earth. We will start to see more of them. They will start to take their place more, and it will be a slow increase over the years, as we move towards that becoming more normal.

What that means is more and more of us will be taking our place now and creating our new future. You might be creating a very personal new future for yourself, doing something with people you love or your family, or redefining how you live with your friends – whatever it looks like. But many of you are here to also be a wayshower and to lead.

2025 onwards, human evolution – not just technological evolution – will be visible. And of course, humans and technology are interacting a lot more than ever before, but this is about

human consciousness evolution – conscious ways of being on the planet that are separate to technological advances. They may work with them, but they are consciousness-led, not technology-led. It’s going to be very interesting to see that play out.

But many of you might be getting yourselves ready for the biggest year of your life in terms of what you have contributed to the world. And again, what you contribute to the world – you might be someone who hundreds of thousands of people know. You might be someone who 10 people are highly impacted by. The numbers don’t matter. Some of us are built for scale, some aren’t, but it’s all the same job.

We’re all doing the same consciousness-seeding and learning with each other and sharing. We’re all offering consciousness to each other and receiving it as we go. So 2025, birth of new energy rising, which explains why there’s this big push at the end of the year for so many of us energetically.

~ From Lee Harris’ Energy Update for December 2024, at https://www.leeharrisenergy.com/december-2024-energy-update

Challenges met in 2024

Dear wonderful starseeds,

This has been a time of wonder and transition for so many of you—a journey filled with highs and lows. The path has not been an easy one, and yet here we are, nearing the close of not just another year but the end of a significant chapter: the transformative period from 2020 to 2024. As this special time winds down, many of us are feeling the energetic shifts of restructuring and reflection.

This process can bring up questions about what needs to change or be reconsidered, and that can feel overwhelming. Please remember, though, that you are capable of navigating this. Yes, change can feel daunting, but it holds the promise of leading you to a more empowered and joyful version of yourself.

It has been a challenging year, and the finish line is in sight. Through it all, please don’t forget to love yourself. You are so deeply worthy. Your presence here gives this world its meaning. While Gaia would endure without us, she cherishes her children. Together, we are helping guide the consciousness of this planet back to its celestial origins.

You are on your own beautiful soul journey. Trust it, honor it, and know that you are exactly where you are meant to be. With love, warmth, and a reminder to keep moving forward—you’ve got this. You will be okay.

With love and hugs,

AQ