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Awaken Women

Dear Men.

Once you finally meet and Awakened Woman

You cannot speak to her with the same

Condescending words you used on Females

in the past.

She won’t yell. argue , entertain your

ego,or tolerate your negative energy

like your ex’s once did.

She will just dismiss your ass and

Find a Soulful man who’s more on

her cosmic level..

If you choose to Love ❤️ an Awakened Woman,

understand that you are entering into new, radical and challenging territory.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, you cannot stay asleep.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, every part of your Soul will be aroused, not just your sexual organs or even your heart.

Frankly, if you prefer a normal life, stick with a normal girl.

If you want a tame life, seek only a woman who has allowed herself to be tamed.

If you only want to dip your toe into the flowing waters of Shakti, stay with the safe, tamed woman who has not yet plunged into the wildness of the Sacred Feminine ocean.

It is comfortable to love a woman who has not yet activated her inner sacred powers, because she does not push your buttons.

She will not challenge you.

She will not press you into becoming your highest Self.

She will not awaken the forgotten and numbed-out parts of your Spirit that urge you to remember that there is more to your Life here than this.

She will not look into your weary eyes and send a lightning bolt of Truth through your body, jolting you awake and stirring long-lost desires for Soul Love within you.

A safe, unawakened woman will be wonderfully satisfying and soothing to your ego, heart, and body. She will walk quietly beside you and make you feel needed, responsible, like you are fulfilling your manly role.

If this is enough for you then accept it, love her with all your heart, remain faithful to her and thank her daily for the gift of her mild, unthreatening feminine presence in your life.

If this is not enough for you – if your heart, body and spirit is only craving the ‘other kind of woman’, the Wild One – then know that you are on the cusp of Soul-Shifting transformation.

Know that you are making a serious choice with karmic consequences.

If you choose to step into the aura and body of a woman whose spiritual fires are blazing, you are accepting that you need a certain level of danger and risk in order to grow.

Once you begin to love a woman of this nature, you must accept total responsibility for the life-changes that will then ensue.

Your life will not be sleepily comfortable all the time. Your life will not allow you to stay stuck in old ruts and stagnant routines. Your life will take on a radically-new flavour and scent. You will be ignited by the presence of the Wild Feminine, and it will begin to send electric shockwaves of spiritual Light through your entire chakra system, attuning you to the Call of the Divine.

Choosing to be sexually and romantically-intimate with an awakened woman takes masculine courage to walk fearlessly into the Unknown. But it will reap rewards beyond your mind’s comprehension.

She will take you into undiscovered worlds of mystery and magic.

She will lead you, mesmerised and half-drunk with love, into the wild forests of sensual ecstasy and wonder.

She will show you sacred skies so full and burning with stars that you will start to wonder if you are still living on the same planet that you were born on.

She will break and tear you open so that your fierce, passionate heart drives you half-mad with longing. You will want to consume and penetrate her on every level so that your Masculine Essence can consume and penetrate the world – illuminating the Universe with your devoted Love.

She will see you like you’ve never been seen before.

She will trust you.

She will appreciate you.

She will acknowledge your efforts to make her happy.

She will value everything good that you do, and everything good that you are.

She will not run from your darkness, because your darkness does not scare her.

She will embrace, kiss, caress and love you back to Life. She will speak words that your Soul understands. She will not punish you for your mistakes.

It is a monumental risk to love an awakened woman, because there is suddenly no place to hide. She sees everything, therefore she can love you with a depth and presence that your heart and body have yearned for so hard, so long, so fiercely…that you wonder whether you have actually been alive for all the time that she has been away.

Loving a woman like this is a choice you make to start living with your Soul on fire.

Your life will never be the same again once you’ve invited her energy in.

Take this risk on yourself, or step back, stay with the normal girl and accept a different, safer, more comfortable and somewhat calmer life.

Just make sure that if you choose the latter, you don’t spend the rest of your days with your eyes looking back over your shoulder, straining to see once again the hazy vision of Feminine Mystery that has now disappeared from view.

She has long gone..spiralling back up to the Stars, the distant Galaxies and the Heavens…from where She came.

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Creator Writer Author ✍️

Mike Harrigan.

All Rights Reserved

I Am.

You Are.

We Are.

Oneness.

Universal Consciousness..

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Mother Hunger

“Mother Hunger” by Kelly McDaniel is a powerful book that explores the concept of mother hunger and its impact on individuals’ lives. The book delves into the psychological and emotional effects of unmet maternal needs, offering insights and guidance for healing and growth.

Here are some key lessons from the book

1. The Significance of Mothering: “Mother Hunger” underscores the importance of the mother-child relationship in shaping a person’s emotional and psychological well-being. McDaniel emphasizes how the absence of nurturing, attuned maternal care can lead to profound emotional wounds that persist into adulthood.

2. Understanding Attachment: The book delves into attachment theory and how early experiences with caregivers, particularly mothers, influence an individual’s attachment style and interpersonal relationships throughout life. Recognizing one’s attachment style can provide insight into patterns of behavior and help facilitate healing and growth.

3. Healing from Childhood Wounds: McDaniel offers insights and strategies for healing the wounds caused by unmet maternal needs. This may involve acknowledging and grieving the absence of nurturing care, developing self-compassion, and seeking out supportive relationships and therapeutic interventions.

4. Breaking Generational Patterns: “Mother Hunger” highlights the intergenerational transmission of maternal deprivation and the importance of breaking free from unhealthy family dynamics. By addressing unresolved maternal needs, individuals can prevent the perpetuation of harmful patterns in their own relationships and families.

5. Self-Compassion and Self-Care: Learning to practice self-compassion and prioritize self-care is crucial for individuals who have experienced maternal deprivation. By nurturing oneself and attending to one’s own needs, individuals can begin to fill the void left by unmet maternal needs and cultivate a sense of inner security and well-being.

6. Finding Alternative Sources of Nurturance: While the ideal mother-child bond may be lacking for some individuals, “Mother Hunger” encourages readers to seek out alternative sources of nurturance and support. This may include forming close relationships with friends, mentors, or therapeutic allies who can provide the empathy and validation needed for healing.

7. The Power of Awareness and Reflection: Increasing awareness of one’s experiences and feelings surrounding maternal deprivation is an essential step in the healing process. Through reflection and introspection, individuals can gain insight into how their early experiences continue to shape their lives and relationships, empowering them to make conscious choices for healing and growth.

8. Creating a New Narrative: Ultimately, “Mother Hunger” invites readers to reframe their understanding of themselves and their experiences. By recognizing the impact of maternal deprivation while also acknowledging their own resilience and capacity for growth, individuals can begin to create a new narrative that honors their journey toward healing and wholeness.

“Mother Hunger” offers valuable insights and guidance for individuals who have experienced the effects of unmet maternal needs. By understanding the impact of mother hunger and taking proactive steps towards healing and growth, individuals can find greater fulfillment, self-compassion, and healthier relationships in their lives.

Book: https://amzn.to/3TxH10J

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Claim her, Receive him ❤️

To the Masculine: hold her. You have the opportunity to heal a father wound, a society wound, a former partner wound. Hold her in your arms, in your strength, in your unwavering presence. You will need to do this again and again and again. Don’t get frustrated. Don’t close. Please. Feel your Love for her. Not trying to save her. Attune to how incredibly strong your woman is, and honor her little girl whose needs weren’t met. She is grappling with this right now. You holding her with unconditional Love and safety is healing her entire nervous system because you’re helping her to imprint something new. Yes, your presence is that powerful. Claim her.

⚜️🦋

To the Feminine: let him hold you. As you breathe in his arms, keep softening your body. I know it wants to stay closed because that feels safer, but try, slowly, to open. Feel how safe you are, even if it’s just for this moment. Feel his strength and devotion to you and your healing. Yes, it is safe to soften into him. He’s got you. He wants you. Don’t think about the what ifs, stay in the now, with him. Allow your body to speak to him. Soften, open, and make contact with him. Acknowledge his devotion with your touch. He sees you, as you are, and is saying “yes” to all of you. Take that in. This is what you’ve always wanted, it’s here, don’t miss it. Receive it. Receive him.

Source: Jessica Fara

Vulnerability & Authentic

VULNERABILITY & AUTHENTICITY:

– “I’ve been creating a negative story in my head about you, and I think it’s been getting in the way of our connection. Can I share with you what’s been happening inside me?”

– “I need for us to slow down our physical intimacy until I feel more connected with you in other ways.”

– “I feel so seen by you. I can’t imagine a more beautiful feeling in the world, than being here with you now.”

– “I’m feeling a lot of appreciation for you. I love your mannerisms and the way you do things. Some of my favourite things are…”

– “I expected something from you that I didn’t tell you about, and then I held it against you. You didn’t deserve that.”

– “I overstepped my own boundaries with you, and I felt resentful about it without talking about it. I’m sorry for the distance this has created between us.”

– “I’m afraid of what it means for us to connect the way we have been connecting. Instead of talking to you about my concerns, I pulled away from you. I don’t want to do that anymore – I want to try something new with you.”

– “I have had past experiences where it didn’t feel safe for me to share what I need and desire. Could you help me to keep remembering that it IS safe with you?

– “I’ve been saying yes to us spending more time together, even though I’m not fully available for that. I wasn’t sure that I could say no without you leaving. Could we slow things down, and still keep what we have? I cherish what we have.”

– “I want to spend more time with you, but I’ve been afraid of what would happen if I let you see how much I desire to be with you.”

– Words by Serdar Hararovich

Here’s the thing…

Vulnerability is by definition challenging. There is no shame in struggling to communicate in these ways, which most of us do.

With reverence for the power of true intimacy, we can choose to learn how to cultivate this art. Cultivating the art of communicating authentically, vulnerably and openly is the practice of a lifetime – one that opens up the gateway to deep, soulful intimacy.

Artwork: Unknown

Dear Men

A woman who knows how to love herself is an Unstoppable Force… ❤️ 🌹 👸 ⚔️ ❤️

Dear Men.

How to Love a Woman Who Knows Exactly

How to be Loved~🌹

If you have found a woman (or man!) who knows exactly how to be loved, don’t run away.

If she intimidates you, tell her. She will laugh ~ a real, genuine laugh ~ with surprise, and you will immediately feel more comfortable.

You must realize that the qualities some would call “demanding” or “high maintenance” are simply confidence. This woman will not settle for anything less than the love she deserves; she expects to receive love in equal measure to that which she freely offers.

A woman who knows exactly how to be loved is “pushy.” She is fierce. She is lovably, infuriatingly stubborn. Love her for it. (What else could you do?)

Love her as she loves herself and as she might love you: without reservations.

She is the free spirit dancing on stage. She is the stranger who holds eye contact far longer than normal. She is the wild one who chooses when ~ and if ~ to approach. She is the quiet one whose heart yet burns with self-knowing.

Does she know everything?

No. She knows nothing at all. She knows that she knows nothing.

Only, she knows what she needs.

This woman ~ this unabashedly open, introspective being ~ might seem fearless.

Is she afraid?

Yes. She is as scared of love and heartbreak, as vulnerable as everyone else.

And still, she embraces it all.

The walls she builds are of straw ~ in the face of passion they quickly burn.

She will tell you exactly how she needs to be loved because she knows this. You will not need any other how-to’s; after all, who could better instruct you than your lover herself?

If you listen carefully, you shouldn’t be too confused. She will probably repeat herself often and might write verses on “how to love a woman who knows exactly how to be loved.”

She is a letter-writer, a note-leaver, a poem-sharer. She loves to understand the world through words ~ not least of all herself.

She loves for the world to understand her through words.

Now, do you know how to be loved?

Do you know what you need?

A woman who knows exactly how to be loved will want to know. She will ask you these questions and be surprised when you cannot answer as quickly as she.

Ask for her patience as you take time to think

about it.

Finally, if you want to know how to love a woman who knows exactly how to be loved, go ask her.

She will tell you all you need to know.

Creator and Author.✍️

Mike Harrigan.

I Am.

You Are.

We Are.

Oneness.

Global Consciousness..

🔥🕎🔯🕉️ 🔥

💎 ❤️💚💙💜❤️ 💎

♀️☯️♂️

💞♏♌💞

❤️ 🌟 🌎🌍🌏🌟 ❤️