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It’s been professionally stated that the Alienator is narcissistic

Narcissism is a personality disorder. There are different types of narcissists including malignant, covert/vulnerable, noble, and classical. When the narcissistic person is enraged or their ego wounded, they react angrily, vengefully, and arrogantly … they have a lack of empathy, and they’re grandiose and superior, but at their core, they are insecure, fearful, hypersensitive, and desperately need validation from the outside world, it’s a bottomless pit. Unfortunately, they do terrible damage along the way. They also come across as confident, charismatic, and charming. They often become successful– they don’t care who they hurt to get where they want to be. These people tend to get into powerful positions – leadership positions. As an alienating parent, they want all the control. They want to eliminate the competition. They don’t care for anyone but themselves.

The noble narcissists do some good in the world and they want to be praised for it – they’ll put their name on a building, start a charity, donate funds. On the other end of the scale is the malignant narcissist – almost like a psychopath (coercive, manipulative, exploitative, even dangerous). It’s unfortunate when these people become our bosses or our partners in life. The covert/vulnerable narcissist plays the contemptuous victim role – someone (the target parent) hurt them, it’s never their fault, they are angry for their predicament because they’re better than others. The classical narcissist is the grandiose, show-off type – look at me, look at me! It’s incredibly challenging to live with, separate or divorce from a narcissist because they are out for revenge. Their ego is damaged, and their insecurities triggered. Narcissists break the rules, tear up contracts, and courts don’t pay attention if we say ‘They behaved badly; they’re narcissists’, and it can backfire on us. Narcissism isn’t greatly recognised as abuse in family courts, but they’ll be the uncompromising parent who wants to win at all costs by destroying the other parent and taking custody of the children, with little regard for the pain and suffering this will cause the children.

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