Tag: relationships
Childhood Emotional Neglect
Attachment Trauma
Togetherness- Khalil Gibran
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.”
– Khalil Gibran,
The Prophet
[Image: Romeo and Juliet on the Balcony (1886) by Swedish painter Julius Kronberg (1850–1921).]
The Smart Witch by Elizabeth

Nervous Systems – Shared in marriage
Suppressing themself / disconnect/ trauma – Gabor Mate’
Professional advice was detached parenting … NO. It’s attachment
Finding the right partner
Low emotional intelligence in partner causes disease
Dad : Emotionally Immature
The Danger of Forcing Love
It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth.
A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That’s the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don’t force yourself on anyone.
Don’t keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option.
Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you!
Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you.
You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.
You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can’t see the right person for your life.
Sometimes We may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people’s life and act accordingly. It’s not pride, it is self respect
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