I could not comprehend putting our sons in daycare . We did church Mother’s Day out , a half day program until kindergarten
Tag: consciousness
Sacrifices in relationships
Fathers Sons Lessons
Reactive Abuse
Touching my wound exposes the giver , I no longer accept that energy
We must forgive those we feel have wronged us, not because they deserve to be forgiven but because we love ourselves so much we don’t want to keep paying for the injustice…when someone can touch a wound and it no longer hurts you then you know you have truly forgiven.
Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements

Rest in reality – Current Energy
All is proceeding according to plan even as appearances often indicate otherwise. Long held concepts of right and wrong, good and bad, along with man made rules of correctness regarding every aspect of life are being questioned in the hearts and minds of increasingly more individuals.
You are now in a time that has been predicted, prayed for, and desired for thousands of years. You chose and were allowed to be on earth at this powerful time in order to participate in earth’s ascension process but because the three dimensional energy of earth is so dense most of you were unaware of your intention and began to align with earth’s three dimensional belief system.
The ascension process is happening but even some who are aware of it continue to hold concepts of how it should look and manifest–“Beings from other planets will come, save us, and change everything. World events are proving that the ascension process has not yet begun…”etc. Let go of any and all concepts you may still have with regard to the ascension process. The human mind which interprets mainly from a third dimensional level is unable to fully comprehend the ascension process or understand how the high resonating energies accompanying it are affecting everything and everyone.
Ideas and ways of living that reflect previous states of consciousness will become less relevant in many minds and begin to disappear automatically adding Light energy to earth’s collective consciousness. Many of those unwilling or unable to accept new ideas and change are lashing out at everyone and everything they believe to be responsible for ruining the world (as they know it). It is important to understand that good human-hood is no more real than bad human-hood because both are material concepts of spiritual reality.
Those spiritually prepared but who steadfastly refuse to accept anything other than what they have come to believe is reality often must learn what they are ready to learn the hard way through physical, emotional, or mental wake up calls. Many commonly held beliefs are going to come into question this year as increasingly more embrace spiritual empowerment and begin to think for themselves. The ascension process is a reality regardless of whether or not it is known, believed, or resisted.
The third dimension is the lowest rung of a very high dimensional ladder even as most consider human consciousness to be the epitome of intelligence and wisdom. Humans became increasingly stuck in density when over time and through ignorance of their true nature, they believed, lived, and continued to create their outer world from states of consciousness polluted with beliefs of duality, separation, and two powers.
All life is the one and only life, that of God/Divine Consciousness/Source and the game of pretending anything other than that is over. It has gone on too long and increasingly more souls are tired of playing this game. Pain, suffering, lack, limitation etc. etc. have never been reality and only seem to be so because they have been the experiences of the majority throughout hundreds of lifetimes creating personal programming and a collective consciousness unaware of anything other than what can be seen, heard, tasted, touched, and smelled.
Never doubt that you are a Divine Being, embodying the fullness of Divine Consciousness regardless of any appearances or situations that would indicate otherwise. Stop attempting to figure everything out through limited three dimensional knowledge because finite human minds are incapable of aligning with and comprehending the infinite. Divine Consciousness is, always has, and will infinitely continue expressing and revealing ITself but those choosing to live with constant noise and outer distractions cannot hear the still, small voice always flowing from within and so believe it does not exist.
You and only you can choose spiritual evolution because you have free will. A person can play three dimensional games and fritter away many lifetimes while doing it. They can choose to live as a ghost for while, or even refuse to incarnate in order to experience their needed earth lessons. However, the high resonating energies pouring to earth at this particular time are such that those who do not take advantage of them will find themselves left in old energy.
Creator Consciousness is every person’s consciousness because there is only One Consciousness. Through ignorance and over time most have allowed their individualized Divine consciousness to become filled with beliefs of separation, duality, and two powers which allows material forms of these beliefs to manifest outwardly leaving the person to believe that they are a victim of outside forces. The world has reached a readiness to move beyond the bondage that these beliefs create but leaving behind the familiar even if or when it is painful is difficult because these old energies are known and most fear the unknown.
Try not to get overly involved in the news and images of war and suffering. Be aware of it, but remember that spiritual reality underlies every appearance. The old world consciousness is collapsing and its death throes are manifesting as situations that are often destructive and painful. Never forget that every person incarnates with a contract that they and their Guides have put together pre-birth regarding experiences deemed necessary for further learning and spiritual growth.
Do what you are guided to do when situations large or small arise while always recognizing the Divinity of everyone involved. A smile, a kind word, needed support, a listening ear, petting a lonely dog, and always acknowledging the Divine Light shining from every person’s eyes regardless of their state of consciousness. This is Light work and is what you came to do. Even the simplest of activities done with spiritual awareness add Light energy to earth’s collective and can actually lift or heal another if they are receptive.
Whatever you give energy to feeds and continues it. Every war on drugs, cancer or disease, war on this or that simply draws attention to and adds energy to the issue allowing it to stay alive and well in the collective. Your work as a spiritually awakened person is to live from your highest level of truth and as you do this, more will be given. This does not mean burying your head in the sand while shouting “God is all” but rather means re-interpreting appearances–being in the world, but not of it.
It is an intense and difficult time for many as long held and seemingly innocent concepts and beliefs begin to crumble but the old must fall away in order for higher and more real forms of these same things (laws, beliefs, health care, military, government ) to manifest. The world is in the midst of giving birth and the birth pangs will continue for awhile yet.
Not everyone is spiritually ready to understand what is happening to them and the world. Offer honest practical guidance when asked but do not attempt to inform, change, or force your knowledge on another in the belief that you are “saving” them. Every person has Guides and a Higher Self and in some form or another is on their evolutionary path. Secretly and silently acknowledge the Divine nature of every person and then go about your business. Those ready for truth will be drawn to you at the right time and it is usually someone you least expect to be interested in truth.
Rest in reality, Be rather than do, and trust that all is proceeding according to plan.
We are the Arcturian Group
via Marilyn Raffaele
published on onenessofall.com
Marilyn Raffaele © 2024
( Originally posted by Mary Long ❤️)

How to be more open ❤️💯
“How to Be More Open”
The Celestial White Beings through Natalie Glasson
We deliver into your soul and your essence so that you may remember fully, the truth that you hold and the truth that is present for you to deliver in your current reality.
Every being holds a different version of the truth. This is appropriate and necessary. It allows a greater picture to be formed, far greater than has ever been experienced before on the Earth.
We are entering into new territory with new understandings. Some of you may say that you have remembrance of times when your spiritual awareness and your abilities were far greater than they are now, and the vibration of the Earth was far higher and quicker than it is now. That may be true because we are not necessarily judging the ascension of the earth by the speed of its vibration or even the volume of understanding and remembrance that is present within the minds of many.
We are actually recognising the awakening that is occurring. There is a greater awakening occurring. What we mean by this is that there is an awakening occurring, within so many people, greater than we have ever experienced before. This is something that has not been experienced on the Earth; a mass awakening that begins slowly, but then will quicken in speed.
Today we have come forth to speak with you about being open. We begin this discussion by asking, what does it mean to be open? The joyous thing is that each of you will give a different answer.
Maybe you can think to yourself, what does it mean to me to be open and what does it mean to be more open?
We, the Celestial White Beings have existed upon the earth and there are aspects of our soul group that are still upon the earth now. For us to be open is to have a relaxed nature within your being – a flowing nature where your energies are able to flow easily and effortlessly – without blocks or boundaries or limitations.
This means you are able to express yourself easily, and flowing…or in a flowing nature. You are able to receive easily. You are able to connect with yourself especially, to understand self, to accept and appreciate self, to nurture and love self. Also, to do the same for others – to understand others, to nurture, to respect, to love others, and of course the world around you.
Then you begin this experience of connection – connection with self and connection with others. You also begin this experience of a flowing nature. As you give, so you receive.
This allows for a very relaxed energy, a soft energy within your body and your being. It allows you, with this relaxed soft energy, to be more open to be more present with yourself and your reality, as well as the exchanges and transformations that are taking place within your being and around you.
It is a wonderful experience to be more open; to be more connected, to have that flow, to have an exchange, a softness of energy within your being. It means that judgments fall away and resistance falls away. It means that you are present, fully present, in your reality.
For us, the Celestial White Beings, this is what it means to be open and to be more open, or to experience a greater openness. It is being present. It can be challenging to be present when there is chaos. There is resistance, there is unhappiness, distrust in the world, even doubt, and also within your own being.
If you can focus upon these areas of openness that we have discussed, you enter into a space of being present. Then you begin to recognise what is truly the truth, in other words, what truly matters. What is important. What is necessary. What is most impactful. What requires to be let go and what requires to be energised.
You enter, in a sense, into another reality – another reality of yourself where you are fully present with yourself and others. This is when the spiritual abilities and the spiritual tools, the spiritual understanding that remember yourself owning and embodying. They are able to flow instantly into your being and you are able to collect them and use them in your reality.
We invite you, in the coming days, to recognise where you can be more open and how that impacts your reality. Where you can bring in the gentle soft energy to your body, you can release the tension, the strain, the stress. That can simply be achieved by breathing or focusing upon love surrounding you.
We, the Celestial White Beings, don’t necessarily want to offer a practice today because we feel that each of you have practices that you adore, that you love to do that work for you, and so we invite you to utilise those as you enter into a space of being more open. To follow your own inner guidance as to how to have the softer gentle energy in your body. The flow, the exchange, the connection and the being present, that you enter into.
Note, that if you try to be present without the soft energy in your body and your being, the flow, the connection, the exchange, it might be challenging. But if you adopt those energies, even if only for an intention of doing so, you’ll find that you enter into a space where you are more present naturally and automatically.
To some extent, although we say that spiritual growth is about perseverance and practice, it is also about allowing things to happen automatically. When you enter into an alignment and you are in that connection…you’re in that space of being connected, aligned, centered…things automatically appear, manifest within your being.
Spiritual growth doesn’t have to be challenging or hard. In actual fact, it doesn’t require that much effort, especially when you are allowing yourself to be in an alignment.
When we think of being open, we are thinking of entering into that space of alignment with self, with the Creator, with guides. When you are in that space and when you can remain in that space, even if only for a few moments, you can allow transformation and shifts to take place.
We, the Celestial White Beings, invite you to contemplate this – to explore it – to add your own understanding and to remind yourself of the practices that will help you enter into this space that we speak of.
We love you dearly. We are the Celestial White Beings. Thank you.
(For a video of this channeled message: https://omna.org/how-to-be-more-open-by-celestial-white-beings/?mc_cid=202fa1a5fb&mc_eid=2477fb0de2mc_cid=202fa1a5fb&mc_eid=2477fb0de2)
(Originally posted by Pam Younghans ❤️)
Artist unknown ❤️

Men
There is a group of men on this planet
who’s preparing to explode all previously held notions of what ‘being a man on Earth’ means. Most of them have been treading a gently opening path of growth and change for many years. They are aware that they are ‘different’ at a core level. They are hyper-aware that they do not seem to fit into established or traditional roles, inhabited by their own fathers, and forefathers.
In many ways, these men have been
standing alone since childhood.
These are men that have always been vibrating at a deep level of higher consciousness, but they have not always been able to see it that way. Early on in this lifetime, they were born with a new directive that began ‘awakening’ them right from the beginning. These men have always been conscious that they were different. They were conscious of being pulled in directions that they did not fully understand, but being only shown one way of living ‘as a man’, continued to mould themselves into roles and relationships that were prescribed for them by culture and society.
These men always wanted to succeed. They always wanted to live up to their potential as potent wands of creative energy. They knew they had engines full of power and intelligence, fuelled up and ready to drive them into a purposeful life in the world. Some of them lived from this source of energy and power with recognisable success, and this was something that they could proudly tell their fathers. For a few moments, they could relax and know that their father approved of them; they were a ‘good boy’, a worthy man. This gave them a few more years of oxygen, a few more years of capability to keep being alive, despite the gnawing ache in their bones, the growing psychic sensitivity to being out in the ‘normal’ world, the inability to move with the herd, and feel satisfied with what all other men seemed to be content with.
Some of these men have never felt a sense of being a success. Some of them were so sensitive, so spiritually anchored even from birth, that they ‘failed’ to reach the established societal goalposts almost from the beginning. Feeling an almost intangible alienation from everything they saw their friends, brothers, fathers, uncles and even admired role-models doing…some of these men may even have ‘dropped out’ of the net, sabotaged their own inner creative fire, numbed themselves to their spiritual acuity and extreme sensitivity.
Obviously, many of the routes to doing this ‘dropping out’ involve what can become addictive behaviours; drugs & alcohol, non-emotionally or spiritually present sex, over-working or refusing to work, hiding and numbing within relationships or marriages that are not growth-inspired.
Most of these men – these actual pioneers of a new chapter in masculine energy evolution – have veered in-between these two extreme states. None of them have ever found what their deepest Soul-knowing would describe as ‘home’.
The New Age has arrived, and with it, some tolerable life-choice options for men like this who don’t fit into the old patterns. Being ‘on a spiritual path’ has become a theme that can give some of these men permission to go and ‘just be’; to find themselves and escape the toxicity, the unbearable noise, the cacophony of voices that scream at them daily to achieve, conquer, strengthen, make money and more money no matter what human & natural destruction ensues, to dominate with ruthlessness and no heart, to crush all that lies in the way of owning everything at the expense of everyone.
No wonder they crave escape and a sunshine-covered beach full of feminine wonder and bliss. Or a cave, where hermit-like, they sit and commune with the higher freedoms of their depleted spirits. No wonder they run for the hills, maybe even rejecting intimate relationships and sexual interaction, in the name of pursuing God, of pursuing a real objective, of pursuing their hearts.
These men need a time-out from all this pressure to be what they never were in the first place.
They need a time-out from their father’s voice in their head.
They need to detox, to recover, to re-align.
They need to be….alone.
And yet in the nothingness, in the aloneness, in the silence, in the playful immersion into nature, in the blissful escape – in whatever form it takes in their lives – these men have come to feel that their existential restlessness – the one they have had since childhood – has not been alleviated.
In fact, it may have even increased in recent months and weeks.
There is something that they must do. Something that they must embody, rise up to, explode through, penetrate, seed creative potential to.
It involves their hearts, they know that much, because their hearts are on fire with…what is it? Is it passion? Is it desire? Is it urgency? Is it love?
It involves their spirits, they know that much, because recently there has been such a call to Spirit, so much synchronicity, so much divine alignment in their lives…it is definitely Spirit moving.
Are they capable of taking this risk, this jump?
Right into the heart of their beautiful, mighty, pulsating soul’s mission?
Their minds do not know what to do. Nothing is being laid out or revealed as concrete evidence. There are no guarantees, and whatever it is that is leading these men is so far away from the landscape of what their father has ever risked his heart or reputation for, that it almost makes these men want to curl up and die. Just stay in the comfort zone forever – even if that comfort zone looks like a New Age paradise.
What these men may, or may not, know – is that the Goddess pantheon is with them, so deeply, so profoundly, so revolutionarily, that they will not have to wonder about the pros and cons of taking a risk on themselves for much longer.
All of these men who will resonate with the energy of these words have been touched by the hand of the Goddess, and the resurrection of high feminine consciousness.
Some of these men have been re-initiated into the ancient temples of the divine feminine and ignited into new active sacred purpose.
What the Goddess knows is that there is work to do, and that these men have been in-filled with new source-codes of direction.
The new directions for these men – those who have a contract to return to uphold the altar of the sacred feminine – are directions that involve taking their hearts into new territories. In some ways, they are risking it all, because they now have to stand up and be seen as the true warriors of love that they are.
And this means, demonstrating that love in active purpose, in creative, meaningful, applied ways. It means being in relationships that are not allowing them to avoid the healing power of sacred intimacy – intimacy that requires their depth and their presence.
This sacred purpose is not about running.
It is about staying.
It is about showing up, opening up, growing up and stepping up.
It is about moving into all the voids, all the empty spaces, all the terrifyingly uncharted plains of existence that these men’s fathers, and fathers before them, could not reach into.
It is about finally coming home to the unheard, un-noticed, un-witnessed, even un-loved, parts of themselves – and being admired, appreciated, welcomed and trusted for their spiritual uniqueness.
All of these rare and deeply needed men are being held by the Great Goddess, and contacted by the Great Gods, and their emissaries.
This is their time.
This is the time of total trust being
extended to the pioneers of
the new masculine paradigm.
Written by Sophie Bashford ❤️

Powerful X-Class Flare
✨ **X-Class Super Flare and Proton Storm:
The Earth Alliance** ✨
🌟 **A Space Weather Update
for the Starseeds of Earth**
By Michael Love
🌍 Great Ones,
🚀 Here we go again, but this time it’s super massive! As we head into another super galactic weekend, solar activity is going wild!
🌟 Beginning in the early hours of Friday, a tremendous X-class flare blasted off the sun, sending a massive intergalactic shockwave that literally shook our Solar System. The large halo debris cloud released by this flare is already smashing the planet with super exotic particles!
☀️ The Earth Alliance reports this was one of the most powerful flares in years. Sounds familiar, right? The last X-flare, and even the one before that, were also touted as the most potent in years. Today’s flare, an X3.4-class explosion from just behind the sun’s southwestern limb, seems to have originated from the departing sunspot AR3575. This wasn’t just an explosion; it was a colossal cosmic event. Further analysis suggests the blast was closer to an X7 class. The Earth Alliance believes that if it hadn’t been obscured by the sun’s edge and had been directed towards Earth, it could have been lights out!.
🌀 Why is this important? Beyond the potential for impacts on Earth’s infrastructure, the real focus is on humanity’s ascension. The guardian races, including the Pleiadians, are closely monitoring the recent surge in solar and cosmic energy. They say that the Grand Solar Flash is imminent and is a pivotal moment in humanity’s ascension. The Pleiadians go on to say, This super flash could happen any moment now and It’s not a matter of if but when the energy levels reach high enough, and when everything aligns just right, this grand event will occur. This is why we watch!
In the hours following today’s X Flare, solar protons, energized by the flare, are traveling along magnetic field lines from the sunspot back to our planet, creating a powerful radiation storm that’s still intensifying, possibly reaching an S3 category soon.
🌈 Strong ascension symptom reports are coming in from around the world this afternoon as Earth’s Starseeds are working hard to integrate this latest light influx into their being. Many are discussing the crazy time and reality shifts that are occurring now. If you are sensitive to energy, you are aware that things have shifted dramatically on earth and in the cosmos! Be assured it is a positive shift as benevolent guardian races work to elevate this entire realm and its inhabitants into the 2nd harmonic universe, which includes the 4th, 5th, and 6th dimensions.
💡 This powerful light might jolt your system, but don’t worry. The best way to ease these intense ascension symptoms is to rest. Even a short nap allows this divine light to integrate into your cells, awakening you as a new being vibrating at a higher frequency than before. Alongside this, consuming light, raw energy foods, drinking plenty of pure water, grounding yourself in nature, meditating, and keeping crystals nearby will help channel this energy through your body and into the Earth.
🌀 We say, Let there be light!
📝 Feel free to share your ascension symptoms and experiences.
🚀 Godspeed,
Michael and the Pleiadians
🔗 **RESOURCES**:
📡 Monitor the situation live on our [Space Weather Tools Page](https://5dearthproject.com/space-weather-tools/).
📚 Check out our new Pleiadian books at [Sacred Light Publishing](https://www.sacredlightpublishing.com/books/).
💎 Recommended source for monatomic Andara Crystals: [Andara Enterprise](https://www.andaraenterprise.com/shop/).

Whom Should I Be Loyal To? — Choosing Between Our Parents and Our Partner
Many couples grapple with the challenge of one partner’s parents exerting a significant influence in their lives, often resulting in compromises being imposed on the other. Whether it’s decisions related to leisure time, parenting choices, or even seemingly trivial matters like how to serve holiday soup, it’s often the mother-in-law or father-in-law who takes charge.
— Read on esztersweeklyelephant.substack.com/p/whom-should-i-be-loyal-to-choosing-between-our-parents-and-our-partner-60d1cd9b4a27
