Tag: Children
Adult Children of Narcissistic parent
The love of his children ; narcissistic reality .
Mothering
I married an adult.. getting pregnant was not planned but a very beautiful gift for myself.. I was treated like the enemy , and blamed . I noted the detached fathering , the non interest before and after .. I didn’t plan to mother ex , but to nurture ..I consider his favorite quote , ” growing up is optional, growing old is mandatory ” .. Looking back afforded me the opportunity to note his none growth and non maturation ..
I believe in each family member having a place at the table , and to be heard and valued , but in the marriage I found myself in, I lean towards the kids should have been a priority by ex and myself .. his growth is up to him, and he just never got that .
Navigating Estrangement
The flow of natural love is destroyed by the parent who creates the Child Psychological Abuse , targeting the other parent , just for the win . The parent who is not interested in truths , only the shadow of deception, and destruction , ignoring the healthiest , the healing that is liberating .
I do feel I have taken responsibility, and I have been challenged many ways , for this closure to become a reality . Of course the most difficult challenge has been the continuing blame that affects our children from their Dad , who dodges truth and responsibility his whole life .
Alexithymia & Childhood Trauma: Unraveling The Mysterious Connection – Neuroscience News
Researchers reveal an alarming correlation between alexithymia (difficulty in identifying and describing emotions) and various forms of child maltreatment.
— Read on neurosciencenews.com/alexithymia-childhood-trauma-23408/
98 arrested for child sexual abuse
Another gift , was this news and I know there will be more
Secrets the Narcissist does not want you to know
The gifts of this New Moon are pouring in , and I slept through the day , to find librating , professional advice .
My need to enlarge the print , has me run out of page space, so sometimes I just draft it and come back later..
Trusting I can do that later.. there’s more gifts to come poring in , and I’m excepting them , owing and releasing… 22 million families affected by this behavior is 22 million too many .It has been normalized and we will connect the dots that end this Child Psychological Abuse .
Happy New Moon in ♌️
Disordered Pathogenic Parenting – Charlie Mc Cready
As they grow older and gain more life experience, the alienated child may start to question the narrative that has been imposed upon them and realise the manipulation and control tactics employed by one of their parents (typically it’s a parent). They may become aware of the discrepancies between the image of the targeted parent presented by the alienating parent and the reality they observe themselves. This is why it’s so important we do all we can to remain non-reactive, calm, loving … as I cover in many of my posts.
This realisation can be a gradual process, sparked by various factors such as interactions with the targeted parent, exposure to different perspectives, or their own inner reflection. As the child starts to critically analyze the situation, they may begin to see the patterns of emotional manipulation, denigration, and falsehoods employed by the alienating parent. They may recognise the parent’s ulterior motives, such as jealousy, vengeance, or a desire for control.
Becoming aware of the disordered parenting of the alienating parent can be a transformative and emotionally challenging experience for the child. It may evoke a range of emotions, including anger, confusion, and a deep sense of betrayal. However, this awareness can also be a catalyst for personal growth and healing as the child begins to reclaim their own voice and establish their own identity independent of the alienating parent’s influence. It opens the door to the possibility of reconnecting with the targeted parent and developing healthier relationships based on truth, understanding, and mutual respect.
Hold on, my friends. Stay strong. Stay loving. Strive to be happy.
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Charlie Mc Cready- 22 Million Parents are targeted by Parental Alienation
According to social psychologist Jennifer Harman and her co-authors, about 22 million American parents have been the victims of behaviours that lead to parental alienation, and she urges psychological, legal and child custodial disciplines to recognise it as a form of both child abuse and intimate partner violence.
Parental alienation disrupts family dynamics and has severe psychological implications for both parents and children. The alienating behaviours perpetrated by one parental figure against the other lead to a psychological condition known as parental alienation (PA). In PA, the child aligns strongly with the alienating parent and rejects the relationship with the alienated parent without any legitimate justification. Researchers have identified thousands of alienating behaviours, which have been classified as a serious form of family violence, causing harm to both children and the targeted parent.
Recent polls have revealed that parents who feel alienated from their children are more prevalent than previously estimated. Notably, 6.7% of the alienated parents identified in the aforementioned poll had children who were moderately to severely alienated, affecting at least 1.3% of the entire U.S. population. The prevalence of parental alienation, though challenging to estimate due to the need for comprehensive family history assessments, clearly indicates that the issue is widespread and warrants attention from researchers and practitioners. These statistics underscore the urgency of addressing this issue, developing effective interventions, and supporting families to prevent and mitigate the devastating effects of parental alienation.
I agree with this quote from Harman: She says: “We have to stop denying this exists … You have to treat an alienated parent like an abused person. You have to treat the child like an abused child. You take the child out of that abusive environment. You get treatment for the abusive parent, and you put the child in a safe environment — the healthier parent.”
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