Countering by NPD

Countering when used frequently can be an abuse tactic. It is not just simply disagreeing with someone – it is chronically opposing someone’s thoughts, emotions, perceptions, excitement — whatever the subject is. Narcissists use countering to keep you walking on eggshells, exhausted, silenced, and constantly on the defense. You don’t have to defend yourself or ask for permission for the right to exist. ♥️💯

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Symptoms of Awakening

Starseed Symptoms Due To
Awakening & DNA Activation

Know that although our evolutionary process is rapidly accelerating, along with the New higher energies, we are all experiencing these changes in our own way and in our own time, according to who we are. And generally speaking, our ascension process relates to how we each run our own individual energy, and what our beliefs and experiences are (in other words, how we vibrate).These things can be changed and will also change automatically as we clear and embody more light within ourselves.

May your evolutionary process be joyous, peaceful and filled with light and wonder!

Feeling as though you are in a pressure cooker or in intense energy;feeling stress. Remember, you are adjusting to a higher vibration and you will eventually adjust. Old patterns, behaviors and beliefs are also being pushed to the surface. There is a lot going on inside of you!

A feeling of disorientation; not knowing where you are; a loss of a sense of place. You are not in 3D anymore, as you have moved or in the process of moving into the higher realms.

Unusual aches and pains throughout different parts of your body. You are purifying and releasing blocked energy vibrating at 3D while you are vibrating in a higher dimension.

Waking at night between 2 and 4 a.m. Much is going on in your dream state. You can’t be there for long lengths of time and need a break. Also, more highly evolved individuals spend more time on the Earth plane, and you are highly evolving.

Periods of deep sleeping. You are resting from all the acclimating and are integrating, as well as building up for the next phase.

Heightened sensitivities to your surroundings. Crowds, noise, foods, TV, other human voices and various other stimulations are barely tolerable. You also overwhelm very easily and become easily overstimulated. You are tuning up!

You don’t feel like doing anything. You are in a rest period. Your body knows what it needs.

An intolerance for lower vibrational things (of the 3D) reflected in conversations, attitudes, societal structures, healing modalities, etc.

They literally make you feel “sick” inside. You are in a higher vibration and your energies are no longer in alignment. You are being “pushed” to move forward.

A loss of desire for food. Your body is adjusting to a new, higher state of being. Also, part of you does not want to be here anymore.

A sudden disappearance of friends, activities, habits, jobs and residences. You are evolving beyond what you used to be, and these people and surroundings no longer match your vibration. The New will soon arrive and feel so-o-o-o much better!

You absolutely cannot do certain things anymore. When you try to do your usual routine and activities, it feels downright awful. Same as above.

Days of extreme fatigue. Your body is losing density and going through intense restructuring.

A need to eat often along with what feels like attacks of low blood sugar. Weight gain. You are requiring an enormous amount of fuel for this ascension process.

Experiencing emotional ups and downs; weeping. Our emotions are our outlet for release, and we releasing a lot.

A wanting to go Home, as if everything is OVER and you don’t belong here anymore. We are returning to Source. Everything IS over. (But many of us are staying to experience and create the New World). Also, our old contracts have been completed.

Feeling you are going insane, or must be developing a mental illness of some sort. You are rapidly experiencing several dimensions and greatly opening. Much is available to you now. You are just not used to it. Your awareness has been heightened and your barriers are gone.

Anxiety and panic. Your ego is losing much of itself and is afraid. Your system is also on overload. Things are happening to you that you may not understand. You are also losing behavior patterns of a lower vibration that you developed for survival in 3D. This may make you feel vulnerable and powerless. These patterns and behaviors you are losing are not needed in the higher realms.

Depression. The outer world may not be in alignment with the New, higher vibrational you. It doesn’t feel so good out there. You are also releasing.

Vivid, wild and sometimes violent dreams. You are releasing many, many lifetimes of lower vibrational energy. Many are now reporting that they are experiencing beautiful dreams.

Your plans suddenly change in mid-stream and go in a completely different direction. Your soul is balancing out your energy. It usually feels GREAT in this new direction, as your soul knows more than you do! It is breaking your “rut” choices and vibration.

You have created a situation that seems like your worst nightmare, with many “worst nightmare” aspects to it. Your soul is guiding you into “stretching” into aspects of yourself where you were lacking, or into “toning down” aspects where you had an overabundance. Your energy is just balancing itself. Finding your way to peace through this situation is the test you have set up for yourself. This is YOUR journey, and your soul would not have set it up if you weren’t ready. You are the one who finds your wayout and you will. Looking back, you will have gratitude for the experienceand be a different person.

Dizziness – Occurs due to being ungrounded. This can happen when you have just cleared an emotional block and the body has not yet completely embraced its new frequency. Eating grounding foods like meat and potatoes will help.

Flu-like symptoms – Fevers that are temporary often accompanied by sweating, aching bones and joints.

Red rash – Small fears that erupt and can occur on any part of the body. This happens when there is an issue up to be released and you are squelching it because you don’t want to rock the boat or make a scene. The little blisters represent your inner child’s anger and not being allowed to express.

Ringing in the ears – This can drive you to distraction, but these sounds are just you picking up frequency changes.

Heart palpitations – As you clear old issues your heart opens. This opening is experienced as a racing heart. Only lasts a few seconds.

No, you are not having a heart attack. The heart must also rebalance itself after an emotional release.

Vibrating of the physical body – This is especially disconcerting.
Many of you may think that you are being abducted since this usually happens at night and is a part of the process of being moved back and forth to and from the ships. In this case, it is not. It is simply the body adjusting to DNA upgrades that occur after emotional clearing.

Muscle spasms – These spasms can be intense and many are felt in the upper back. They are caused by emotional imbalances that occur when you take on the emotional burden of others in order to be accepted and loved. These will decrease as you learn new behaviors that support allowing others to feel their pain without rescuing them.

Tingling in arms, hands, and feet – More DNA changes due to energy centers clearing and realigning.

Tiredness/Needing to sleep – DNA changes. Your body needs rest to integrate the changes occurring at the cellular level. I recommend that you adjust your schedule to accommodate an afternoon nap. Make it a priority. You will find that you are more productive afterwards.

Faster hair/nail growth – Since the activation of the Compassion hormone in November 1996, more protein is being used in the body. Protein is used by the high heart in the transmutation of lower chakra emotions into compassion. Compassion is the emotion that changes your DNA. A by-product of this is that your hair and nails grow faster.

Weight gain- This occurs because many fears that have been held in check are coming up to be integrated. When this happens the inner child moves to protect itself by putting on armor. This armor will be released when the fear is integrated. As a result, many experience weight fluctuation.

Frequent memory lapses – This can be a real irritation. Understand that it is partially due to the magnetic grid wobbling and also to the shifting occurring in the brain.

”This Fifth World that we are entering means that each person must use their gifts of birth to accomplish their missions in life, and this is the contribution that each one is obliged to offer. Everyone has a place on the Great Medicine Wheel of Truth.”

~ Mary Long ❤

published on consciousreminder.com

Hate Crime: PA Child Abuse

It’s sad so many encourage Parental Alienation with their silence and tacit approval. If you watch in silence you are part of the problem. I’ve personally seen the pain this causes to both the children and the target parent. The damage these malicious parents do to families, friendships and lives is horrible. Just because it doesn’t affect you doesn’t mean silence is okay. Would you sit in silence as a man beats a woman?!?! Then why sit in silence as these abusive parents damage so many lives?

PAS is child abuse.

Pisces Loves Reciprocation2

Pisces & Pisces Rising

Love the romance. Love the infatuation. Love the way you look in their eyes.

When a Pisces loves you, they will never give up hope on you. When a Pisces loves you, they will never let you forget why they believe in you. When a Pisces loves you, they’ll swim circles around your heart and soothe any ache with their whimsical ways.

To love a Pisces is to love the intoxication of their presence. To love a Pisces is to let yourself be tended to. To love a Pisces is to let your vulnerability rise to the surface to meet their own. 

Pisces needs to be needed, but not controlled. Trying to hold on to a fish is foolish. Pisces needs to move, to flow, and to follow the currents of the day. Trying to limit this mystical creature to only one pond would be a shame of the highest order. To crush the dreams of a Pisces unleashes the howling cry of a forlorn mermaid. 

Harsh, bitter notes of betrayal can bellow from the depths of these seas. Better to let the free roam freely and to stand back in awe of all the places Pisces can travel. At once. With great grace. With great compassion. With great abandon. With great love for you and all other beings its heart belongs to. 

Holy Union

We will all be feeling something magical in the air as the vibrant Full Moon in Leo, which is ruled by the Sun, occurs on the same day as an extremely rare and magical alignment between Mars and Venus – the ‘power couple’ of astrology.

This is the second celestial meeting of a triple conjunction for these two intensely loved-up planets, the first took place in July, 2021 and the third and final meeting of this phase will be on March 6, 2022.

Mars, the God of war, motivation, sex, determination and passion emanates masculine energy, while Venus, Goddess of love, beauty, attraction, romance, values, desire and creativity is the essence of feminine energy. The duo will be dancing together, moving close to one another, heating passions and causing sparks to fly, until early April.

This is a meeting of the divine masculine and divine feminine energies, so don’t be surprised if soul connections merge and suddenly become deeper and more harmonious over the next few weeks or if a new romance suddenly ignites. This can also be the balancing of the divine masculine and feminine energies within ourselves, so it is possible we could go through a huge internal recalibration and energy shift during this time.

As Mars is the God of War we may be feeling the need to gently go to war with ourselves, and confront anything we know is out of alignment, isn’t healthy or is not serving our highest good. We will be looking to the future and considering our long term happiness, aspirations and commitments. This will be a time for fully recognising where we need to make change and to understand that the comfort zones we have created may not actually feel that comfortable in reality.

We will also be realising how we have often valued others far higher than we have valued ourselves and put in far more effort than we have received back. Reciprocation is essential for healthy relationships, and sometimes we have to take a step back in our dynamics so that we make space to receive and at other times we have to make a move forward to give more and fight for what we love and desire. This energy will help us recognise where some relationships thrive with ebb and flow in natural synchrony, with an intuitive knowing of when to give and when to receive without force, and also where we have no option but to distance and give way.

The moon in Leo compliments Venus & Mars’ sensual energies perfectly, as Leo also radiates compassion, creativity, pleasure, love, fearlessness, strength and romance.

Leos prefer to express themselves from the heart and speak without filter, remaining true to their authentic selves. Therefore, this is a time to embody the lion-heart energy and to feel proud of our emotions and feelings and ability to communicate openly and vulnerably. It also encourages us to let people know what they mean to us, rather than allowing foolish pride to hold us back and withholding how we feel.

The shadow side to this cosmic energy is that we may be feeling unappreciated, with the need to externally seek attention and approval, and our emotions could become so intense we may even be a little reactive and on the dramatic side. We can overcome this by indulging in essential self-care to remind ourselves how valuable, worthy and precious we are and to reaffirm that we can find all the validation and love we need internally.

Leo energy illuminates the mixed feelings we have between wanting to courageously declare what we would like to manifest in our lives, and tripping over our ego because our lion-esque pride gets in the way – mainly due to the fear of rejection. We may feel pulled between doing what the mind thinks it wants and what the heart deeply craves. We will also become aware of how we are often be held back by outdated beliefs of how we are expected to show up in the world, rather than expressing ourselves freely, completely and uniquely.

While we might feel compelled to proclaim our desires and needs, we may also find there’s a self-sabotaging voice in our head that wants us to avoid deep and intimate connection that could make us feel vulnerable and emotionally exposed. We may notice our mind often tricks us into believing we aren’t good enough and we can easily jump to the wrong conclusions, reaffirming false, limiting beliefs we hold about ourselves. This is the voice that prefers us to remain in our ‘often uncomfortable’ comfort zone, where familiarity feels safe.

Despite the fact we might momentarily feel apprehensive, and possibly self-conscious, the recent Venus retrograde will have left us fully in our glow up, as it helped us feel empowered, confident, worthy and with new awareness that we deserve far more than what we have been previously settled for. It is likely we will experience major breakthroughs with our self-esteem and self-confidence, and be ready to lead from our heart centre and share our innermost emotions during this Full Moon.

We will be facing our fears and courageously making a committed effort to show those we care about what they mean to us, and to speak more openly about what has long been playing on our minds. If we have been hiding our true emotions, we will find it almost impossible to deny how we feel, and between now and March 6th we will all be feeling the need to break open and finally speak our raw truth.

We may feel an overwhelming desire to alter aspects of our lives, and fortunately we will be feeling magnetic, charismatic, and with the ability to effortlessly and almost instantly attract whatever, or whoever, is in alignment. The intentions we have been setting, particularly regarding our closest relationships, are about to become a reality, so expect epiphanies, new insights and even sudden revelations that could deliver the change we have been hoping and waiting for.

Leo’s positive and high vibrational energy will help us boldly manifest our creative goals and turn hobbies and interests into careers that we feel passionate about and proud of. Our imagination will be running wild, and we will feel far more motivated, innovative, driven and inspired than we have in a long time. As there are currently no planets retrograde, this is a phase of forward moving energy, and it is the optimum time to take productive steps towards making our wildest creative dreams become a reality.

The Moon also squares the north and south nodes, Taurus and Scorpio, relating to the journey we have taken so far and where our destined path is heading. This means that whatever is predestined for our future could become clearly visible during this Full Moon, and we get an extremely rare glimpse into what the future holds. It could also mean we receive unexpected news or a new opportunity to alter our lives and receive abundance in ways we may have only previously dreamt about.

The Full Moon rises between Leo’s brightest stars, Algieba and Regulus, and they will both be visible on either side of the moon. This cosmic energy brings magical energy, so make a wish on the evening of this Full Moon, and be open to extraordinary blessings and an abundance of miracles.

Insights by & Image shared via Alex Myles

Current Energies

The energies now are churning up
so much which needs to released and forgiven once and for all so that we can return to the very heart and soul of unconditional love and unity.
As long as there is anger, fear, resentment, those deep festering wounds, we are are in dis-ease and thus attract more dis-ease into our lives as well as stress.
As with our new lightbody forms, our central nervous systems are getting more sensitive to negative energy in any form or way, as our pineal and pituitary glands are reawakened to the highest degree.
I have had moments in the last week, where so much of the Feminine side, the left side of my body suddenly came up, and thus deep Mother healing, but also the Female lines before me, and all I ever was in past lives, especially persecution and that this entailed of the Divine Feminine.
She is back with immense love. I was transmitting the Holy Sophia yesterday, as one of my lessons for my ongoing White Flame of Illumination course, and it was profound.
It was all about the deepest dying onto the old, and being reborn in the Mother’s womb, and indeed being reborn in and with pure love, and thus into the highest state of Love and Unity, as the Divine Feminine Wisdom, then reveals itself in the deepest sense.
Here is the Forgiveness Decree again, and you say this aloud three times, standing with shoulders back, as if commanding an army. It is very powerful. You can do this as often as you like. Note that you may be surprised at what soul memory banks it does open and what needs to be forgiven and released, to free your soul and others, so that you can fully ascend into the New Earth and New Golden Age, without tethers and bonds, hooks and ties pulling you down or in any form still attaching you to the 3D.
Forgiveness Decree

I forgive everyone who has ever hurt or harmed me,
Consciously or unconsciously
In this life or any other.
In every plane, level or dimension known or unknown.
I offer them Grace.

I ask for forgiveness for anyone I have ever hurt or harmed,
Consciously or unconsciously
In this life or any other.
In every plane, level or dimension known or unknown.
I ask for Grace.

I forgive myself for anything I have ever done to hurt or harm myself and another, consciously or unconsciously
In this life or any other
In this universe or any other.
In every plane, level or dimension known or unknown.
I accept Grace.
I am free.
All chains and restrictions fall from me.
I stand in my power as a master.
(Courtesy of Diana Cooper. I am a trained Teacher of the Diana Cooper School of Angels and Ascension)

Judith Kusel ❤
http://www.judithkusel.com

Photo Credit: Daniel B. Holeman