Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Mary was NOT Passive

“Mary is not passive. The image we’ve been shown has truth in it, but it is a limited truth. I derived great comfort in the fact that Mary was an earthly mother, that she went through a pregnancy as a teenage mother, that she had known homelessness, that she had borne at least one child. She had witnessed that child’s suffering and death, she knew the depths of a mother’s sorrow. ⁠⁠But Mary’s passivity may be all we’ve allowed ourselves to see. A woman rising up against authority, a woman strong and fearless, a ferocious woman, an independent woman, a heroic woman, a physically courageous woman – to have seen Mary this way would not have served the social order…⁠⁠This is a Mary we need now, a fierce Mary, a terrific Mary, a fearsome Mary, a protectress who does not allow her children to be hunted, tortured, murdered and devoured.” ~ China Galland 
Art: Sue Boardman ”Our Lady of Fierce Compassion”

No surrender to Wounded Masculine

The feminine cannot, will not surrender To the wounded masculine …
A man who criticizes herBelittles Dishonours ControlsManipulates Abuses Or attacks her 
Her own inner masculine will not allow it He will rise fiercely to the forefront To stand guard To do the job himself
The feminine can and will only surrender To the divine masculine …
A man who is devoted to her Elevates Honours CherishesSupports And protects her
A man with boundariesPresence DirectionIntegrity AccountabilityAnd humility
In this space She will feel him penetrating her very essence…
Her body Her mindHer heartHer soul
And she will feel safe …Safe enough to surrender 
This is the natural law This is the dance of healed polarities
This is surrender …To love
~ Karen Star ❤

Deepest Work is Darkest

The deepest work is usually the darkest.
A brave woman, a wisening woman, will develop the poorest psychic land, for if she builds only on the best land of her psyche, she will have for a view the least of what she is.
So do not be afraid to investigate the worst. It only guarantees increase of soul power through fresh insights and opportunities for re-visioning one’s life and self anew.
It is in this psychic kind of land development that Wild Woman shines. She is not afraid of the darkest dark,in fact she can see in the dark.
~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes,
Photo: Spring by Phoenix Chan
Archaeology for the Woman’s Soul
#souldeepconversations  #WomenUnlabeled   #souldeepwoman

3 Wise Women

My newest work, “Triba Magia” which translates to “The Three Wise Women”, or “The Three Magi”, which started with a question: 
What if the Zoroastrian mages in the Bible who were following the Star of Bethlehem had been women?
Challenging perspectives of both history and mythos visually is something that consumes me as an artist. I search for the hidden ways our souls use to define our worlds. So often an image speaks to us deeply without words and fills our consciousness with “truths” based on the prejudices associated with those images. 
While this doesn’t look like a typical depiction of searching for the Christ child, in my spirit it is exactly what I feel it would look like had the wise men been women. In my deeper soul, knowing that there were women seeking Jesus beyond and before men. Women supported Jesus throughout his ministry, and were an integral (if scantily mentioned) part of the early church. 
Artistically, the three birds allude to the trinity within us of Maiden, Mother and Crone, reflecting the three figures themselves. The bare trees represent as figuratively “not yet bearing fruit” because all of the world is waiting for His birth. And of course, the “Star” of Bethlehem which is the astrological conjunction the mages knew as the sign of this historical event. I chose the colors of autumn to winter allowing the timeframe to fit the period of just before the winter solstice, when light returns to the world anew.
I am offering this as a card this year, and also as a limited edition print, which can be found here:
Cards – https://etsy.me/3IlsK0q
8X10 – https://etsy.me/2ZWlIy1

Not Holding Space for Narcisst Distortion by Kim

It’s not our mission in life to hold space for someone’s toxic and abusive behaviors.
This doesn’t help us and it doesn’t help the toxic person.
Instead, we teach them that their seeming positive traits make up for their abuse, giving them no motivation to change.
And if you’re dealing with a narcissist, no amount of self-sacrifice will make a difference.  
Recovery includes learning–perhaps while still trying to function within the relationship–that this sort of behavior pattern likely means change is next to impossible and your efforts to maintain this disruptive relationship will likely never bear fruit for long. 
It means recognizing that, despite your repeated attempts to change yourself or the narcissist, the primary change that’s happening is the loss of your own sense of self, independence, and vitality.
In other words, you are sacrificing yourself in the relationship, not for some greater future reward, but for NOTHING.   Your efforts to maintain the relationship are effectively allowing a dysfunctional person to continue to be dysfunctional, but without suffering the natural consequences of his or her dysfunction (which would be perhaps the first step in their own healing, if it were possible).
Instead, YOU are suffering for them—enabling their continued dysfunction, even while enduring their abuse.  You’ve been acting as a buffer between your abusive partner and reality, and all the rest is just the collateral damage from your own well-meaning, but pointless, self-sacrifice.
This can be a hard pill to swallow because it effectively means giving up hope on both the relationship AND your abusive partner.  Once you’ve realized, however, that the person you thought you loved was merely a phantom conjured up by your abuser in an effort to “hook” you through your heart and manipulate you–THEN your radical acceptance of the truth about your partner puts you one step out the door.
☑️ If you’re just starting on your journey and you’re feeling discouraged, I really want to recommend the 14-day free course to you. Because this will start helping you unpack everything, giving you your life and your hope back.
Grab yours here and begin healing your life in gentle and doable ways:
👉 https://bit.ly/BeginnersRoadmap
Always thinking of you.  Xo
Kim

Jab : Help with smell after COVID

Smell dysfunction following C19 infection? Hearing and reading reports that ALA helps resolve it in days. Alpha-lipoic acid is available at health food stores or online and shown to stop patients from smelling #smoke, #rotteneggs, etc., or from loss of smell. 
“Conclusions: The results indicate that alpha-lipoic acid may be helpful in patients with olfactory loss after upper respiratory tract infection.”
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12439184/

New Earth is established

💖🌟NEW EARTH IS ESTABLISHED AND READY. TRUST THE PROCESS, WE ARE NEARLY THERELOVE YOU ALL!🌟💖
Standby.THE ONLY THING NEEDED TO ACTIVATE THIS PROCESS OF ASCENSION IS LOVE AND COMPASSION FOR ALL BEINGS ON THIS PLANET, THEN THE COSMIC FORCES WILL DO THE REST FOR YOU!
The Great Shift Is Upon Us NowThe time of your shift into the fifth dimension is getting closer and closer. You are feeling it in your physical body as well as in your emotional and mental manifestations. You are ready for this magnificent ascension.
The love that is coming towards you will feel like an ocean of love, which will move through the crystal cities, and into each and every heart center of Gaia’s citizens.
It will be a time of celebration for all, as you are all ready for this amazing journey into the fifth dimension.Each one is coming home to the great central sun of creation, which is your source of life and creation and manifests itself in many different levels of consciousness.
The great central sun offers all beings a different perspective on reality. In order to see it from a higher level of awareness, you have to raise your vibration to the level where this new perspective is visible to you.In order to do this, you are being prepared for ascension into the fifth dimension.
Once there, new perspectives on reality will surface in many different ways. They will give you a better understanding of your true self and your origins in creation.
You are part of a greater whole.
This event is actually the final one, but it will not be noticed by a few people on the planet.
You are just about to live an experience that has never happened on earth.
It will be a day in which you are no longer on earth, but discarnate, and aware of the 5th-dimensional transition.
At that moment, you will realize that the world as you know it, has come to an end, and it was the end of all things.
You will see many colored waves covering the whole planet. There will be no destruction.
After these waves subside, a new dawn will arrive and a new era begin for those who are awake and aware at that time.
Do not expect any kind of communication during this transition. All 3d communications will cease to exist at that time.
These changes are coming in a flash and will happen in the blink of an eye.
During this process, there will be a shift in consciousness, as we go from one dimension to another.
We must prepare for this event by preparing ourselves mentally and also physically.
If you are not prepared, you can still be affected by these changes, as they are transforming our planet and the magnetic grid.
As the magneto-sphere is re-calibrated, so will our bodies be altered and transformed into 5th-dimensional bodies.
The most important thing you can do to prepare yourself is to release all fear, as fear will block you from receiving these new frequencies of light that are about to flood our planet.
On the day of the event, many people will experience symptoms such as:
1. Dehydration2. Dizziness3. Increased Colds4. Hearing Things5. Ringing In The Ears6. Intense Anxiety7. Hot Flashes8. Dry Mouth9. Rashes10. Extreme Fatigue11. Cold Hands And Feet12. Nausea13. Sore Throat14. Headaches
The final event of ascension will cause the earth to be transformed into a new planet.
It will become a planet of love and peace.
We will be able to fly again.
Many souls are preparing themselves for this great day.
The magnetic pole is shifting, and the planet is preparing for the change.
Light forces have been working for years to heal the planet from its past history of alien invasions and dark forces’ manipulation.
They have cleared out all reptilian and other lower dimensional beings from our solar system. It is a time for celebration!
Ascension is here! We are going to be returning to the fifth dimension.
Finally, a huge wave of pure love and light will hit earth. It will be so powerful that all of humanity will feel it, and even parts of the planet that are not activated to the higher frequencies of love and light will be affected.
The wave will be so big that it will take at least three days before it is completely gone, and for some people, it could take even longer.
This is true ascension, where we will go from a carbon-based form to a crystalline form in this lifetime.
The dream is over, my friends; we have done it. Now we can fly free in our light bodies and return to the source.
Ascension is as simple as a child’s game for those who know how to play it; the only thing needed to activate this process of ascension is love and compassion for yourself and all beings on this planet, then the cosmic forces will do the rest for you!
We love you dearly.We are here with you.We are your family of light.
A’HOThanks toAurora Ray💘
Nova Maxx💙🧞‍♂️🙏

Cutting cords , ties to Shadow deserve to be severed


You are allowed to leave relationships. You are allowed to leave a relationship with any person, mother, father, sibling, child, boss, friend or romantic partner who is manipulating and abusing you. You have the right to protect yourself and remove these people from your life.  
Life is miserable when you live in perpetual states of confusion, fear and trying surviving on relentless hope. This is not love. Whoever is making you feel these ways is not loving you. 
 If anyone tells you that you should not cut ties with family because “life is short,” you must hold the mindset that the exact reason you did cut ties is because your life is absolutely too short to allow yourself to be continually abused by your family or any other toxic relationship in your life. You have a much better life to live.

By Sherrie

Awoke Masculine vs Parasitic Attachment


The awoken masculine energy is one of the most beautiful things on this or any other planet.

But first. Before it realizes its truth.

It will betray. Hurt. Play. And discard the feminine as if nothing.

In the distorted clouds of what it knows

it will run from the power of the love it had never previously felt or known

And after it pushes away and discards the feminine, between numbing, crying and distracting — everything will slowly dawn.

Regardless of how hard it tries to hide from the love it feels unworthy of.

It will realize

Jigsaw piece by jigsaw piece —

— That the feminine is the only one that that ever truly cared. Truly loved. Truly seen. The masculine.

And the regret will hit like a train full of lead hitting a mountain the size of a planet.

The truth of who the feminine is will show itself though the divine

Numbers and symbols and dreams.

In realization after realization

Sign after sign

Who the feminine has always been

Intentions of pure love

Not just in this life.

In every life

– a kaleidoscope of infinity –

Different faces. Same people.

Feeling lost and helpless, the masculine will delve deeper into the depths of isolation – ripping open the passageways and sealed shut areas of the heart – discovering and realising what has always mattered most.

What had always been there.

A love beyond time and space

Lost in a self sabotaged darkness it chose over the feminine. It will regret. Scream. Cry. As it realizes its own stubbornness and ego destroyed the most beautiful thing it had ever known.

Something pure. Something it lost hope in existing.

And eventually.

It will seek. Tired of its cycles and patterns. Tired of its hiding from its truth.

It will remember the guidance of the feminine.

It will treasure. Every. Word.

It’s reverence – the apology it cannot yet express.

Where it once felt prideful and dismissive and confused.

It will acknowledge the blindness to the wisdom the feminine gave so selflessly

And in a wave of truth —- it won’t take for granted anymore.

What it initially feared within the depths of forever love

It will rise to.

Step by step.

Finding it’s worth

sitting with its traumas and belief systems that caused it to treat people with such coldness and cause so much pain

It will realise that forgiveness starts with self

With doing better

With understanding followed by action

And from within that newfound worth an incorruptible strength will bloom

The masculine will understand where it went wrong. How it was dominated by ego and pride, lust and appearances.

It will realize how all its priorities were in all of the wrong places.

How it was always trying to please everyone except who truly mattered.

In its quest for the truth — strength will keep rising— becoming innate and from the heart

Shedded layer by shedded layer — conviction will unlock as it chops away that which never never mattered or served, the superficial , the parisites and leeches it once listened to — taking back it’s power from a life that now seems alien—

—- It will begin to know no bounds.

It will fight for what it knows to be it’s true north – through any obstacle, any toxicity, any impurity that it was once a slave to.

It will break free of generational cycles slicing away anything that is in the way of the chance for forgiveness and unity with the feminine with it’s gleaming and pure sword of truth

doing what it must to return home

It will understand it’s birthright

A warrior.

Not a slave.

It will shed. It will change. In the name of what it has recognized to be home.

It will see no greater treasure than what it once pushed away and overlooked.

Not the status it once clung to. Or the opinions of others it chose over the feminine

And when it does step up. Owning its truth.

Reaching out. Despite it’s greatest fear of Rejection.

It won’t be the same person.

It will honor and protect the guidance and expansion of its feminine

It will be faithful.

Powerful.

And support the brilliance of the feminine by being the person the masculine always was to begin with.

A beautiful expression of the divine.

A warrior of love.

– by Matthew Cullen