Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Man

Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.

Written by Osho

Artist Unknown

The “ Funk”

I know of the funk and proudly have kept the faith in extreme challenges , resulting in not allowing the ” funk ” to take me but so far downward .

I’m more aware of the energy around me , the energy of being targeted , the ancestral cellular inheritance that with experience and knowledge of what had been cyclic now healed ! Never to adversely impact the lineage and certainly leaving a better , legacy of truth ( light) and healing ❤️‍🩹

This time of year is sweet and I enjoy the slower pace and have mourned deeply the lost years with our 2 sons with November birthdays , Thanksgiving and the excitement of Christmas holidays .

Unfortunately I had 5 very long and intense years to watch the deteriorating of anything sacred about celebrations . Asking for his presence when he stated he wanted to go in August . Apparently still ” high” from a weeks trip to the beach and his new love he wanted to begin his happy 😃.

His happy never got past that and many situations were experienced in her effort to retaliate publicly, showing her power and dominance over me .

Well she had her own experience and lessons in the 20 years they cohabitated and I am quite sure I will never allow that energy in my life again nor collapse if it’s coming at me .

It’s a toxic well of drama and trauma, that I haven’t drank out of for over a decade .

Trying to hold that past energy of patriarchal dominance was rejected time and again while together and my body bore that out . However , I did not have medical professionals who knew what to do and it was game on with the legal eagles to whom winning is everything .

Justice is a Universal energy and it’s being served due to continued desires to retain status quo , and silence the dead mother .

While that’s very painful , there’s been no positive movement forward and releasing this lightens the load each family member carries.

Laying those burdens down 👍🐸💯

Healing Our Wounded Child : Facts

With practice, we can see that our wounded child is not only us. Our wounded child may represent several generations. Our mother may have suffered throughout her life. Our father may have suffered. Perhaps our parents weren’t able to look after the wounded child in themselves. 

So when we’re embracing the wounded child in us, we are embracing all the wounded children in our past generations. This practice is not a practice for ourselves alone, but for numberless generations of ancestors and descendants.

~ Thich Nhat Hahn

Art Work Restless slumber by Adam Oehlers