i’m not sure if things get better or if we just learn to live with the pain. maybe numbness and resilience intersect somewhere.
but I do know this. the view while we are drowning is different from the view while we are swimming –
that’s why we always wait for one more day.
because my love, one day can change in a thousand ways.
and I guess that’s kind of what hope feels like.
hard and beautiful at the same time.
~ ‘one more day’ by ullie-kaye ~ Ullie Kaye Poetry
~ Art Unknown
“we must bring
our own light
to the
darkness.
nobody is going
to do it
for us.”
“We Must”
Charles Bukowski 💫
We are approaching a period of time when relationships are ready to go through a major redesign. The current paradigm isn’t working. People are unsatisfied in love; people don’t know how to make relationships work.
And, believe it or not, this isn’t a bad thing. Because when systems break-down, that’s when they change. I believe that’s what’s happening in the area of intimate partnership. The break-down is forcing us to move towards conscious love.
So what exactly is a conscious relationship?
It’s a romantic relationship in which both partners feel committed to a sense of purpose, and that purpose is growth. Individual growth. Collective growth as a couple. Growth that makes the world a better place.
As of now, most people get into relationships to satisfy their own personal needs. This might work for a few years, but eventually the relationship fails us, and we end up unsatisfied as a result.
But when two people come together with the intention of growth, the relationship strives towards something much greater than gratification. The partnership becomes a journey of evolution, and the two individuals have an opportunity to expand more than they could alone. Deep satisfaction and long-term fulfillment arise as a result.
So if you’re someone who feels called to take your experience of romantic love to the next level, below are four qualities that characterize what being a conscious couple is all about. Welcome to the path of the conscious relationship. This is next-level love …
1. The conscious couple is not attached to the outcome of the relationship – growth comes first.
Not being attached to the outcome of the relationship does not mean you don’t care what happens! It also doesn’t mean that you don’t have fantasies about how the relationship will turn out.
What it means is: you’re more committed to the experience of growth than you are to making the relationship “work.”
The reality is, we’re here to grow. Physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. When growth stops, we automatically feel like something’s gone wrong. Because it has. Without growth, we aren’t fulfilling our soul’s purpose.
Unfortunately, relationships today tend to stifle growth more than enhance it. This is one of the main reasons we’re failing at romantic love.
We want our partners to act in a certain way, we repress ourselves to please others, and soon enough, we feel small, oppressed and puzzled about who we’ve become. This, inevitably, makes the relationship feel like a cage that we want to break out of. But the unfortunate truth is: we’ve caged ourselves.
The conscious couple values growth more than anything else because they know this is the secret to keeping the relationship alive. Even though growth is scary (because it takes us into the unknown), the couple is willing to strive towards expansion, even at the risk of out-growing the relationship. Because of this, the relationship maintains a natural feeling of aliveness, and love between the couple does, too.
2. Each person in the relationship is committed to owning their s#*t.
Conscious couples know that we all have wounds from the past, and they understand that these wounds will inevitably be triggered, especially in a relationship. In other words, they expect to feel abandoned, trapped, rejected, overlooked and any other shitty feeling that arises when we bond closely with another person.
Most of us still believe that relationships should only feel good, and when bad feelings surface, something has gone terribly wrong. What we fail to see in this situation is that these shitty feelings stem from our own faulty patterning! These issues are not caused by our partners; they’re caused by our beliefs.
The conscious couple is willing to look at their past and current issues in relationships because they know that by facing these beliefs systems, they can evolve into a new relationship-reality. Dysfunctional patterns will dissolve, but only when we take responsibility for them, first.
3. All feelings are welcome and no internal process is condemned.
In a conscious relationship, there’s room to feel anything. Not only that, there’s room to express those feelings and fantasies to your partner. This is edgy territory… it’s not easy to do. But it’s also one of the most healing things we can experience in a partnership.
It’s rare to be completely honest about who you are, and to stretch yourself to let your partner do the same. You may not like what you hear; in fact, it may trigger the hell out of you. But you’re willing to be triggered if it means your partner can be authentic.
Like I already said, we’re used to molding and changing ourselves to please people we love because we don’t want them to stop loving us! This stifles the love out of our connections.
The only option is radical honesty: revealing parts of ourselves that are hard to share, and letting our partners do the same. This leads to feeling known, seen and truly understood — a combination that will automatically enhance your love.
4. The relationship is a place to practice love.
Love, ultimately, is a practice. A practice of acceptance, being present, forgiveness, and stretching your heart into vulnerable territories.
Sometimes we treat love like it’s a destination. We want that peak feeling all the time, and when it’s not there, we’re not satisfied with what the relationship has become. In my mind, this is missing the whole point of love.
Love is a journey and an exploration. It’s showing up for all varied nuances of your relationship and asking yourself, What would love do here?” The answer will be different every time, and because of this, you’ll get to grow in ways you never have before!
The conscious couple is fiercely committed to being the embodiment of love. And through their devotion and practice, love shows up in their lives and relationship in ways they would’ve never imagined before.
– Shelly Bullard
It has been far too common for women to be dismissed by authorities who could intervene .
You have arrived at the beginning point of a new era. You do not have any inkling of the depth or profundity of what is about to take place. The only thing we can tell you at this point is to live in a continual and complete state of surrender. There are things which will occur which you will not understand, but be assured that it is all in divine order. Morning has arrived: the morning of a new day, the morning of a new Earth. This is the time of the fulfillment. It is that time which was spoken of as the separation of the sheep and the goats. A new Earth is emerging; one based on love, compassion, justice, freedom and equality. There are those who will remain on the old Earth dominated by fear, hatred, injustice, anger and war, facing the setting sun in the west and the ensuing darkness which is a reflection of their consciousness. And there will be those who will face the rising sun in the east of a new day and a new earth – based on service to others. There will be accelerating and dramatic events in the near future but for the most part this will be a gradual process. For a time it will be chaotic and initially during this transition you will be able to bounce between the two realities. But the time is coming when that will no longer be possible. When the separation is complete, the two Earths will no longer even be aware of each other. Each will live out their lives and create their worlds as a reflection of their level of consciousness. As for now, live a simple, quiet, discerning life. Allow the rising sun to fill your mind and heart, purify your spirit and nourish your soul. Be ready to embrace all who turn from the west to the east as they feel the warmth of the rising sun at their backs. But know that those who remain in fear, hatred, anger and service to self are there by soul choice; a reflection of their consciousness. This is their soul curriculum for the time being.
~ Michael Lightweaver
Hello, you must be Dante. I’ll be your tour guide.
I’ll be taking you around to see the various ‘homes of the stars’ on our descent into Hell. Feel free to take pictures, our residents don’t mind tourists, but please keep your hands and arms inside your personal vehicle at all times.
You’ll notice off to the right as we enter the first gateway, our wonderful collection of flying monkeys. The First Level of Hell is known for having the highest quality of flying monkeys in all the demonic regions.
Flying monkeys are quite well-disciplined and they are extremely effective in swarms, but they are equally able to work independently as tormentors if needed – and they’re quite savage.
You may believe you know of flying monkeys from your former life in the family courts, but you haven’t actually met actual flying monkeys. You weren’t the target of the monkeys – just of the demons.
The flying monkeys are well-disciplined, they only attack the targets that the Master directs them to attack, and you’re not a target of their Master’s.
Hell has had its higher-order demons assigned to you – the flying monkeys are for those who try to help you, who try to stop the demons from doing their demonic stuff to you.
Everyone becomes afraid to help you because they don’t want to trigger the flying monkeys to attack. The role of the flying monkeys is to isolate you from rescue.
All the prosecutors and judges – and their families – became targets for the vile, degrading, and disturbing threats of the Maga-monkeys… that you don’t see.
You only see it if you’re the target.
When the Master signaled his faithful monkeys to attack the Haitian immigrants in Ohio, the Maga-monkeys directed their savage attacks on them. It’s targeted.
By Historical parallel process, the prototype flying monkeys were the Brownshirt SA of Ernst Röhm – the Storm Troopers. In the current iteration, it’s the Proud Boys who serve as the core of the threat, but monkeys don’t need much organization, they easily function independently and in small groups.
The nice thing about the flying monkey minions of Hell is that they’re both disciplined and undisciplined – they’ll wait for indications from their Master – and – once indications are received they work on their own and know what to do.
They’ll even coordinate with other flying monkey-troops if given the opportunity, and our flying monkeys from Hell are some of the most savage you’ll find anywhere.
Any questions before we move on? As you can see, they’re quite excited. They truly do love their works of cruelty, and they can’t wait to get going now that the gates have been opened.
The Master likes revenge. The Master likes his monkeys. Fly, my pretties… fly…
Well, come along, there’s more to see.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist,
WA 61538481 – CA 18857
Jamie Raskin
The constitutionality of Trump disqualification.
This posted 8 months ago and makes perfect sense .
It’s not going to be to as I say and not as I do forever
GreatCosmicMothersUnite 