Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Wait for the right one

There’s no perfect person out there waiting to be found by you. But there’s certainly those who are much better for you than others. My hope is that you choose the one who lights up when they see you and hugs you tightly when you need it most. And most of all, I hope you choose the person who gives you the support and freedom you need to fully express yourself so that you never have to suppress who you are and pretend to be anyone you re not.

~ Jillian Turecki

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Parental Alienation – Getting out Alive / Charlie McCready

I lived through and overcame what we commonly call “parental alienation.” Mine was (on the scale through mild and moderate) in the severe range. I endured lies, constant criticism, emotional and financial abuse, damaged property, and work suffering under the weight of the stress. For over 10 years of a so-called marriage, I faced a living nightmare. Many of us feel we can tolerate it for the sake of our children. Even if we anticipate that the madness will escalate if we leave, most of us have no idea just how far an alienating parent is prepared to go until it’s actually happening. Nor do many of us realise the weaponising and parentifying of our children may have been going on for some time already, and worse, our children are enmeshed, and don’t know they’re being psychologically manipulated and abused, and that what’s going on is disordered pathogenic parenting from the parent coercively controlling them, turning them against us. It’s heartbreaking to witness the extent of their psychological ‘splitting’ and cognitive dissonance – where they cope by viewing one parent as all good, the victim/hero, an the other as all bad, bearing the full weight of the projection and blame. It’s hard to cope with the lies, false narratives and terrible loss to ourselves, and our children (who do not even realise their loss). ⁠

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Alienating a child from a parent is psychological abuse. Alienators—whether mothers, fathers, or other family members—are abusive, destroying the natural attachment bond between a loving parent and their child. To those of you reading this because you or someone you love is enduring this tremendously challenging and needless ordeal: it can be overcome – you can survive. I did, and you can too. Focus on the present, not the past; on love, not loss. Nurturing your own well-being is essential, not only for you but also for your children. Alienated children sometimes carry a terrible burden of doubt, guilt or shame, even grief when they find out what’s actually happened. Seeing you happy, healthy, and thriving, with healthy boundaries, offers them relief and shows them the way back to a loving parent.

Whether you’re in contact with your children or not, you can get through this—and doing so is a gift both to yourself and to them. I’m here to help. My coaching is dedicated to supporting alienated mothers, fathers (sometimes with supportive partners joining us, too). Please do reach out if you’d like to learn more about the coaching I offer.

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Tell me where it hurts

I know you don’t feel safe right now.

I know it feels like the world is shifting beneath you, faster than the time it takes to find your feet.

I know how uncertain everything feels to you and how much pain you are carrying.

I could tell you that it will get better soon, that you can close your eyes and magically return to that place where everything felt okay, that from here on out it’s going to be an easy ride.

But I won’t tell you any of that because it would be a lie, and I would never lie to you.

The truth is I don’t know if it gets better soon and returning isn’t much of an option now you’ve seen what you’ve seen, now you’ve lived what you’ve lived, now you’ve lost what you’ve lost.

What I can tell you is that you are not alone. That I am right here with you and I will hold your hand for as long as it takes for you to steady yourself and as you learn how to move those feet forwards again.

It’s not easy, this life.

Some days come along and knock you down harder than you’ve ever been knocked down before. And then another comes by and does the same, and you wonder how you ever managed to get up the first time.

And it hurts. It really, really hurts.

Tell me where it hurts.

Tell me, everything. I’m listening.

Give me your language for each of your pains, your unending griefs, your tired aches. Show me your wounds and let them breathe. Allow your heart to crack wide open as you sift through its broken walls to see what still fits and if new pieces have been made.

Does any of it still fit? Has your heart changed shape and size? Does it sound the same as it beats and bleeds and bleeds?

Do you know your heart?

I don’t have easy answers for you, answers never did come easy for me, but I’ll sit with you in the questions for as long as you need; those deep unanswerable questions that live in my bones and carry me home.

So take all the time you need, love. I’m here. I’m right here with you.

( ✍️ Sarah Mariann Martland )

Art : Divmon – ‘The Power of Friendship’

Women

Women are the heart and spine of a pulsating earth at the center of the universe.

We are the mothers, the grandmothers, the great-grandmothers, the creative minds in a universe which often fails to see the contributions we make.

We are the homemakers, the nurturers, the artisans of the magical weave which blankets all of life.

We are the cooks, the maids, the CEO’s the entrepreneurs, the poets, the dancers, the singers, the song.

We nurse the babies and teach them to stand, to walk and to flourish.

We are the listening ear, the wisdom bearers, the backbone to the family.

We are the shoulders of countless men who long for comfort, support or just a dose of tenderness.

We are the goddesses who in the blink of an eye can captivate with a smile or a touch.

We are the warriors who attempt to bring reason in a society often run by angry men.

We are the inspiration, the strength, the fortitude when others are waning.

We are the whispers in the wind who pray for those we love and many we don’t.

We are nurses and caretakers who kiss the wounds and heal the hurts, who parent the parents when their time in the sun is setting.

We are the inventors, the bridge to what is yet to come.

We are the roots which flourish even in a drought.

We light the world with love and feed those who hunger and thirst for nourishment.

Women are spinners and weavers; we are the ones who spin the threads and weave them into meaning and pattern.

We create those threads out of our own substance, pulling the strong, fine fibers out of our own hearts and wombs.

It’s time to make some new threads… time to strengthen the frayed wild edges of our own being and then weave ourselves back into the fabric of our culture.

Once we know the patterns for weaving the world; we can piece them together again.

Women can heal and remake the world.

This is what women do.

We are women, beautiful, bold, bodacious, bombastic, bawdy, brilliant and bountiful in our resilience.

We are the vine which bears the fruit and seeds all of earth, the light which ignites the universe.

Happy International Women’s Day, to all of you wondrous women !

Much love and respect for you all…. on this day and every day.

💝🌹💖🌷💗🌹💝

Art : Mundo de Arin

The Reckoning of Sovery

The Reckoning of Sovereignty

March 8 Mayan astrology

Cib holds the past. Edznab ensures the past does not hold you.

Imagine standing before an elder who knows everything about you—not just who you are now, but who you’ve been before, the choices you’ve made across lifetimes, the patterns you’ve inherited from your ancestors. This elder is not here to comfort you. They are here to test you. To see if you’re ready to own your truth, to stand fully in your power, to cut away anything that keeps you from clarity.

This is Edznab.

It is not a soft energy. It does not wait for you to feel ready. It moves like a blade through illusion, a flash of lightning that reveals exactly what you need to see. It does not ask if you want to know the truth. It simply shows you. And once you see it, there is no going back.

Today is about decisions. Edznab does not dwell in emotion or overthinking. It values precision. It values discipline. It asks you to act—not out of fear or impulse, but from a place of certainty.

Something in your life is ready to shift. You already know what it is.

🫣How This Energy Moves Through the World

• People will be more blunt. Expect directness, even from those who usually soften their words.

• Quick endings. If something has been on the edge of ending—a job, a relationship, a habit—today may be the breaking point.

• No patience for inefficiency. Conversations, projects, and decisions will move fast. Anything that drags or feels unclear may be cut short.

• Challenges that force clarity. If you’ve been avoiding a decision, today may push you into making it.

The world is sharpening itself today. You may feel it in others, in conversations, even in small, everyday interactions.

🫣What Makes This Day Hard

• The truth is non-negotiable. If you’re not ready to face something, today will still bring it forward.

• Letting go can feel uncomfortable. Even when you know it’s right, finality is not always easy.

• Decisions feel permanent. What is cut today does not easily return.

🤔The Gift of This Energy

• Clarity replaces confusion. There’s no more guessing—you know what needs to happen.

• Freedom from unnecessary weight. Whether it’s emotional baggage or something external, letting go brings relief.

• A sharper, stronger path forward. What remains after today is what truly belongs in your life.

The Power of This Day

Edznab does not linger. It comes, it reveals, and it moves on.

If you stand in this energy today, it is because you are ready.

The choice is yours. The blade is steady.

What will you do with the truth that has been revealed?

We all have cancer

This. DNA based Bioresonance scans I run on even the healthiest clients consistently show presence of cancer cells, likely due to constant environmental toxicity. The body’s natural defense, immune surveillance, relies on the immune system (NK cells, T cells, macrophages) and tumor suppressor genes (like p53) to eliminate abnormal cells. Apoptosis further removes damaged cells. However, factors like stress, aging, and environmental exposures can weaken these defenses. COVID shots have been reported to suppress p53 genes, potentially disrupting the body’s ability to prevent cancer. But if you lead a healthy lifestyle and stay away from toxic injections, your body takes care of it for the most part. Frequency therapy also can be very effective at keeping any such issues at bay.

Do not eat these

Discard immediately if you recognize any of these in yours or a loved one’s kitchen. It’s the easiest act of love you can do for them today.

A French study in PLOS Medicine examined the impact of emulsifiers—food additives used to improve texture and extend shelf life—on cancer risk.

Researchers analyzed data from 92,000 adults over nearly 7 years and found that certain emulsifiers significantly increased cancer risk:

Mono & diglycerides of fatty acids (E471)—found in processed baked goods, margarine, and ice cream—were linked to:

15% higher risk of overall cancer

24% higher risk of breast cancer

46% higher risk of prostate cancer

Carrageenan (E407 & E407a)—a thickening agent in dairy alternatives, deli meats, and plant-based products—was linked to:

32% higher risk of breast cancer.

Cancer is complex and multifactorial, but one thing is certain: the food we eat plays a massive role in shaping our long-term health. Cutting out ultra-processed foods and focusing on whole, nutrient-dense foods is one of the most powerful steps you can take to reduce disease risk.

Thank you to my friend Food Babe for this image + bringing awareness to this critical issue. Don’t miss our podcast conversation, airing soon!