Tag: wisdoms

Invisible Trauma The Psychology of Parentification Binding Empaths

Wow , did this hit home! I come into a lot of folks who grew up as I did

being in charge and not knowing how. By age 18, I was very tired of having

near full charge of siblings , due to Mom’s working 11pm to 7am ..Alone

in the house with younger kids.. I tried to stay away from home at an early

age , but for years , younger brother tagging along . Some highly aggressive

occurrences red flagged his behavior, but I did not have a lot of reference

but it grew and grew , and finally it reached a point of no return .

Expected to be the responsible one in marriage , left little time for nurture.

After my Xanax breakdown, I felt very vulnerable , and at risk, with

concerns about stability as quickly as possible and mother our sons .

That necessitated trying to normalize and try to stabilize our foundation

thus pleasing X was very necessary .

I did not feel strong enough to go on with out him, feared him and his

retaliations. This developed into Parentification of our eldest , who

Deserved his childhood . Each of our sons deserved better .

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Madness, Utopia and Revolt: An Interview With Sasha Warren – Mad In America

Sasha Warren founded Of Unsound Mind to trace the histories of psychiatry and its connection to policing and prisons.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2024/06/madness-utopia-and-revolt-an-interview-with-sasha-warren/

Coach Mantas- on Current Energy

Close your eyes for a moment and envision a world where every desire of your heart is being orchestrated by a benevolent and loving Universe. Feel the energy of possibility, the thrill of anticipation, and the warmth of hope enveloping you. This is not a distant dream but a profound truth waiting to unfold in your life. The Universe is preparing to bless you in ways that will leave you in awe, filling your heart with gratitude and joy.

Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it. The challenges you have faced, the dreams you have nurtured, and the quiet prayers you have whispered have all been heard. The Universe is always listening, always aligning, and always working towards your highest good. Trust in this divine process, knowing that each step you have taken has led you to this moment of imminent transformation.

This month holds extraordinary potential. As you affirm Yes to the Universe, you are opening yourself to a flood of blessings and opportunities that are ready to manifest in your life. Picture yourself standing at the edge of a beautiful, expansive horizon, the sun rising with brilliant hues of orange and gold. This horizon represents your future, a future filled with endless possibilities and boundless blessings. The light of the new day is symbolic of the new beginnings awaiting you.

In these days ahead, stay attuned to the signs and synchronicities that the Universe places in your path. These gentle nudges and whispers are guiding you toward your highest destiny. They may come in the form of a serendipitous encounter, an unexpected opportunity, or a sudden burst of inspiration. Be open to receiving these gifts with an open heart and a willing spirit. The more you align with the flow of the Universe, the more effortlessly these blessings will come to you.

Remember, the Universe responds to the energy you put out into the world. By affirming Yes, you are sending a powerful message that you are ready and willing to receive all the goodness that is coming your way. Embrace this affirmative stance with enthusiasm and unwavering faith. Your positive energy will act as a magnet, drawing in the miraculous events and opportunities that are meant for you.

Take a moment each day to connect with your inner self. In the stillness, listen to the whispers of your soul, the gentle guidance that is always there, leading you towards your highest good. Meditate on the feeling of abundance, joy, and fulfillment. Visualize your dreams as already realized, and feel the emotions associated with those achievements. This practice will not only strengthen your belief in the positive outcomes but also align your vibration with the frequency of abundance.

Surround yourself with positivity and inspiration. Engage with people who uplift you, activities that invigorate you, and thoughts that empower you. Your environment plays a crucial role in shaping your reality. By immersing yourself in a supportive and encouraging atmosphere, you are creating fertile ground for the seeds of your dreams to grow and flourish.

As the month progresses, maintain an attitude of gratitude. Even before the blessings manifest, express thanks for the wonderful things that are on their way. Gratitude amplifies your positive energy and reinforces your connection to the abundant flow of the Universe. Each time you acknowledge the good in your life, you are inviting more of it to come forth.

Finally, have faith in the timing of the Universe. While you may not see immediate results, trust that everything is unfolding perfectly. The Universe operates with divine precision, and what is meant for you will never miss you. Hold onto your dreams with patience and perseverance, knowing that the best is yet to come.

So, as you stand on the brink of this transformative month, affirm Yes with all your heart. Embrace the journey with excitement and trust. The Universe is about to do something amazing in your life, and you are ready to receive it. Believe in the magic of this moment, and watch as your life unfolds in ways more beautiful and miraculous than you could have ever imagined ❤️‍🔥

Balance being Restored Universally

This past solstice has brought humanity to a tipping point in our evolution. But we are not growing beyond what we have been. We are returning to the original divine frequency, our unique God frequency, that is our soul’s eternal birthright.

***The next step we take is to enter a world where the distorted ego begins to be treated as a disease. Greed over the well-being of humanity will be treated as a crime. We are beginning to see this happening all around us. The growing cracks in the system are visible to most now. The birthing of oneness and unity within our diversity for a collective community is beginning its birth process. It is time. We are so ready.

In the mean time, a resistance is growing and it may look like the “controllers” in the world are winning for a time, but they will not suceed. They will try to devalue or erase the sacred so as to have power over it, control it, abuse it, and silence all those who see it as such. They will not be successful. Our spiritual liberation is growing in the hearts in the collective. This cannot be stopped. The Universe demands balance, and a self-leveling process is now accelerating. It will feel messy and uncertain.

The world stage has been peeled back to reveal only two remaining sides. It does not matter what country you live in, or religion you follow, or your economic or social status, or the color of your skin… etc. The past world is coming down to an epic healing of these two last core issues. This issue is the chasm created between those who over take and those who over give. These two sides are a battle that has been played out since the beginning of time, space, and dimension. The balance is returning.

One side is the entitled controllers, blamers, and abusers. These are the ones who feel an unquenchable lack within and unimaginable shame for this lack. It feels good to them to take. They seek those they can take from and those who have what they think they do not. They can never heal this lack by taking from others. Of course, their lack is their illusion.

The other side is the heart-centered, unconditional, sentient beings who know well their Godhood within. They live by the code that what we give is what we receive; how we give is how we receive; when we give is when we receive. It feels good to be of service to others. These ones are drawn to those who they feel they can help realize their Godhood but will deplete and drain themselves in the process. Of course, this is their illusion as well.

Most of us have echoes of both sides within us, and the outer world is now mirroring the two sides at their extreme on the world stage. Now, the trick is to learn to quit over taking and quit over giving. The universe is constantly working to maintain balance in the physical and the spiritual worlds. This happens within and without in the collective humanity, the solar system, the universe, and beyond.

But the fact is both sides need healing. Both sides must find the balance between overtaking and the overgiving within oneself. But this will be played on the world stage for a while, as we can already see. I am comforted knowing that each will heal in time. And the world never stays out of balance for long. As things begin to heat up around the world, remember that great balancing is coming into play now. It can create a mess if you’re attached to either extreme.

Things have shifted dramatically since the eclipse in April 2024 and now again on this past solstice. Things are going very deep now. We will have more breakthroughs and rise up out of the blinding dust storm of polarization.

We are coming out from under all the illusions we have accepted as “truth” about ourselves. Serious alone time is crucial for us now. We are getting to know our true selves again. I am so glad I have taken the last couple of years to be totally alone with myself. This time is not changing us but restoring us to who we were originally before we fell into dense physicality on Earth. We are going back to source while staying in our bodies. What a trip! Source is asking us to introduce ourselves to our original selves and to get to know that beautiful, divine, innocent soul once again.

Dear Creator,

Help us return to Universal Balance.

As Above, so Below…

From Within and Without…

With Ease and Grace…

With Love and Compassion…

For Ourselves and all Others.

So Be It.

🌹❤️🌹

~ Aluna Joy Yaxkin ❤️

Sharing this message freely with gratitude from my heart, but Heart Donations are always appreciated. Thank you so much.

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PS … Egypt is set for October 1-12, 2025. Details will be released in August, so if you are interested in joining us, save the date.

Amazing image by permission from Mike Jefferies photography. Solstice sunrise on Glastonybury Tor.

Time

“Time is actually a constant symphony of superimposed vibrations that never end, but are a continuum, which interact creating the basis of reality, and giving shape to the particles. It is the frequency network that vibrates behind the laws of physics, and its body expands like metaphysics. Today, the middle point between the two is quantum physics. The universe of infinite probabilities has nothing to do with the accounting of events, but with the construction of them, in something called Eternal Present, in which there is no division between what happened, happens and will happen.”