Tag: wisdoms

Thank you for teacher ๐Ÿ™Œ

I choose to remember you

Not by how you hurt me

But by how you taught me to heal

Not by how you left me

But by how you taught me to never abandon myself

Not by how you broke me

But by how you taught me to rebuild myself

Not by how you dimmed my light

But by how you helped me to shine

Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort

But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone

Not by how you left me feeling weak

But by how you taught me what it means to be strong

Not by how you tried to control me

But by how you taught me to be free

Not by who you told me who I was

But by how you taught me to define myself

And above all

I choose to remember you

Not by how you were unable to love me

But by how you taught me

To love myself.

Words by: Tahlia Hunter

Gaslighting

โ€œWomen have been driven mad, “gaslighted,” for centuries by the refutation of our experience and our instincts in a culture which validates only male experience. The truth of our bodies and our minds has been mystified to us. We therefore have a primary obligation to each other: not to undermine each others’ sense of reality for the sake of expediency; not to gaslight each other. …

Women have often felt insane when cleaving to the truth of our experience. Our future depends on the sanity of each of us, and we have a profound stake, beyond the personal, in the project of describing our reality as candidly and fully as we can to each other.โ€

โ€• Adrienne Rich, “On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978”

Parent of my Parent

โšœ Fear of Your Parents’ Old Age โšœ

“There is a break in the family history, where the ages accumulate and overlap, and the natural order makes no sense: itโ€™s when the child becomes the parent of their parent.”

Itโ€™s when the father grows older and begins to move as if he were walking through fog. Slowly, slowly, imprecisely.

Itโ€™s when one of the parents who once held your hand firmly when you were little no longer wants to be alone.

Itโ€™s when the father, once strong and unbeatable, weakens and takes two breaths before rising from his seat.

Itโ€™s when the father, who once commanded and ordered, now only sighs, only groans, and searches for where the door and window areโ€”every hallway now feels distant.

Itโ€™s when one of the parents, once willing and hardworking, struggles to dress themselves and forgets to take their medication.

And we, as their children, will do nothing but accept that we are responsible for that life.

The life that gave birth to us depends on our life to die in peace.

Every child is the parent of their parent’s death. Perhaps the old age of a father or mother is, curiously, the final pregnancy.

Our last lesson. An opportunity to return the care and love they gave us for decades.

And just as we adapted our homes to care for our babies, blocking power outlets and setting up playpens, we will now rearrange the furniture for our parents.

The first transformation happens in the bathroom. We will be the parents of our parents, the ones who now install a grab bar in the shower.

The grab bar is emblematic. The grab bar is symbolic. The grab bar inaugurates the “unsteadiness of the waters.”

Because the shower, simple and refreshing, now becomes a storm for the old feet of our protectors.

We cannot leave them for even a moment.

The home of someone who cares for their parents will have grab bars along the walls. And our arms will extend in the form of railings.

Aging is walking while holding onto objects; aging is even climbing stairs without steps. We will be strangers in our own homes. We will observe every detail with fear and unfamiliarity, with doubt and concern.

We will be architects, designers, frustrated engineers. How did we not foresee that our parents would get sick and need us?

We will regret the sofas, the statues, and the spiral staircase. We will regret all the obstacles and the carpet.

Happy is the child who becomes the parent of their parent before their death, and unfortunate is the child who only appears at the funeral and doesn’t say goodbye a little each day.

My friend *Joseph Klein accompanied his father until his final moments.

In the hospital, the nurse was maneuvering to move him from the bed to the stretcher, trying to change the sheets when Joe shouted from his seat: Let me help you. He gathered his strength and, for the first time, took his father into his arms. He placed his father’s face against his chest.

He cradled his father, consumed by cancer: small, wrinkled, fragile, trembling. He held him for a long time, the time equivalent to his childhood, the time equivalent to his adolescence, a long time, an endless time. By Your Side Nothing Hurts

Rocking his father back and forth. Caressing his father. Calming his father. And he said softly:

โšœ I’m here, I’m here, Dad! “What a father wants to hear at the end of his life is that his child is there.”

I love you, Dad, wherever you are, I always think of you, I will never forget you…

If you want your wife to โ€ฆ.

๐—œ๐—™ ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ ๐—ช๐—”๐—ก๐—ง ๐—” ๐—ช๐—œ๐—™๐—˜, ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜๐—ก ๐—•๐—˜ ๐—” ๐—›๐—จ๐—ฆ๐—•๐—”๐—ก๐——

1. If you want your wife to make love to you often, then take care of her heart. You cannot mistreat your wife and hurt her then expect great and frequent sex.

2. If you want your wife to respect you, then you have to do respectable and admirable things. You cannot dishonour her and shame her then expect her to excuse your gross misbehavior with a blanket respect. She can’t submit to torture.

3. If you want your wife to feel safe with you and open up to you, then you have to stop emotionally and physically abusing her. You cannot instil fear and wonder why she protects herself from you.

4. If you want your wife to enjoy intimacy with you, then you have to maintain oral and body hygiene. You cannot expect your wife to enjoy kissing you and playing with your penis yet you smell of sweat, you don’t shower, don’t brush your teeth and smell of cigarette, weed or alcohol.

5. If you want your wife to stop complaining, then you need to stop repeating the same wrongs. She complains because she has to call you out when you do wrong since she believes you can be better.

6. If you want your wife to be financially transparent with you and to stop making financial decisions behind your back, then you need to start showing financial responsibility. As long as you keep being reckless, she will save and invest without your knowledge to protect her future and that of the children.

7. If you want your wife to brag about you to people, then do things that make her proud. She cannot pretend that you are a great man yet you are not.

8. If you want your wife to stop nagging and being moody, then you need to make time to spend with her and make her feel special. A woman nags and becomes grumpy when she feels neglected. A loved up wife glows.

9. If you want your wife to stop fighting your friends, then you need to stop surrounding yourself with the wrong friends and allowing your friends to pull you away from your family. You wife is just protecting you.

10. If you want your wife to be proud to be your wife, then you have to do things that make her say “Yes” to you daily. Don’t expect her to be satisfied with the title of wife just because she wears your ring, has a marriage certificate or has your child/children.

11. If you want your wife to help you and support you, then you need to have a vision and share it with her. A woman can only be a helper to a man who knows where he is going and gives her room to build with him.

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Corrects history bout women

Isnโ€™t it odd that once upon a time in Europe a woman could be killed for making potions from the plants around her.

Isnโ€™t it insane that once upon a time wise women were burnt or drowned for helping birth babies, knowing their herbs, gathering in groups of more than two, being outside alone, being strong, being beautiful, being ugly, being different, being sexual, being non sexual or touching a nettle, smelling a rose or drinking wild teas.

Isnโ€™t it madness that a woman who knew her body, her mind and her heart was cast aside as evil, as a sinner and her life taken away.

Women, do not let the ancestral memory of this that is held in your make up, in your bones and blood hold you back. Rise dear sweet sisters, rise so that our daughters and daughters daughters donโ€™t have to wonder when we lost our tongues and denied our hearts.

Grow a new tongue, invite the wolf in, awaken the witch and dance under the moon. Embrace your heart, your womb, your gut and your wisdom.

โ€ข

Magical words of remembrance from Brigit Anna McNeill

With love

Fiona

http://www.earthmonk.guru

Beautiful painting by Autumn Skye ART

New Earth

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

Starseed Symptoms Due To 5d Awakening and DNA Activations , The Ascension evolutionary process is rapidly accelerating, along with New higher earth energies, The ascending are all experiencing these changes in their own unique ways and in their own natural timing.

Ascension is a fast pace motion into higher conscious realms and it is for ever changing automatically as we go , embodying expansive light creation within the human self . As the ascendingโ€™s evolutionary process of awakening takes place , the self reaches a point where things feel more joyous, and peaceful within, feelings of source love energy light and extreme wonder.

This is Selfโ€™s meld and activation into divinity consciousness . Feeling whole , complete , liberated from false structures , living in truth , consciously aware of Akashic and ascension light team embodiment , the conscious meld of the entourage of all the selves combined .

Fully accepting,integrating and understanding the Self is made up of not one but of many. Recognising the power house of multi dimensional aspects within .Reaching this level of consciousness brings in higher awareness , that the self can not feel alone whether in human company or not . Feeling and cognising the multidimensional embodiment of the expansive self .

Some ascending at this time may be

Feeling In an intense pressure cooker energy within. This is the modification of adjusting to higher vibrational levels and is a temporary state of being as the self adapts and adjusts to new versions .

Clearing Old patterns, behaviours and beliefs are coming to the surface in this next 17th October full moon in Aries , many ascending will be highly sensitive to the extreme and intense energies now activating and filtering into the planet . There will be many changes occurring within and at an accelerated rate , feelings of disorientation not knowing where self is at this time , feelings of inertia and a sense of feeling out of place in the outer world . The ascending are no longer in the 3D illusions, having well and truly moved on and into much higher realms of conscious awareness .

Unusual aches and pains throughout different parts of the physical body may be felt .The physical is purifying and releasing blocked energies that once vibrated in 3D levels Recalibration is taking place as the ascending now vibrate in much higher conscious dimensions.

Individuals going through Ascension might be waking up between 2 and 5 a.m., a time when intense dream activity and subconscious processes are taking place unfolding in the deeper recesses of the mental planes. Less sleep through out is required as self continues to ascend.

Starseed Ascending individuals are balancing the Earth changes and this activates the awakening in many others. Heightened activity is occurring during deeper sleeping phases. Rest periods allows for integration, recovery from the adjustment process, and readiness for the next evolutionary phases.

The ascending may be experiencing Heightened sensitivities to surroundings. Crowds, noise, foods, TV, other human voices and various other stimulations are becoming barely tolerable. Sensory overwhelm may be occurring due to the intense energies of this next full moon resulting in an overstimulated system for a time . This is helping self to recognise the changes that may now need to take place .

Many ascending at this time are experiencing a restful ascension phase . Listening closely to the physical needs at this time as Constant down loads of Universal information and knowledge are integrated into the ascending being .

Some may be experiencing a higher intolerance for lower vibrational people places and situations that reflect the 3D nature, whether in conversations, dramas , dysfunctions , materialism , attitudes, societal structures, social media content , healing modalities, spiritual diverse beliefs in outer structures, political views , poor global leadership structure etc, etc

The break down of Density based vibrational structures temporarily manifest as physical discomforts throughout indicating what is in misalignment with higher energies. This recognition propels the self towards moving away from lower energies made up of chaos , turmoil , negativity , illusions and dysfunction, higher self is now guiding the conscious self towards progressing forward in new earth energies based in truthful perspectives of higher self and conscious human living.

Some of the ascending collective may be experiencing a loss of appetite at this time . The physical body is adjusting to higher states of vibrational being. An increased craving for purified water at this time may also be apparent . Water assists greatly in stabilising the humans auric fields and activates the increases in consciousness.

For others there may be sudden disappearances of friends, connections family members , past aligned activities, habits, jobs and residences. The self is evolving beyond what was once familiar , people and surroundings will change in accordance to conscious vibrational alignment . New Earth will highlight all that is not real as well as all that is real and truthful , this change in awareness will modify the physical internal structures accordingly .

During ascension processes at all levels There will be days when self may be eating more frequently while on other days not eating for extended periods. Alongside feelings of low blood sugar attacks, weight gain or loss may occur as the body requires a significant amount of fuel for the ascension processes currently under way. Emotionally there may be experiences of the yo-yo effect , feelings of ups and downs The self examination of individual emotions serve as a powerful release outlet, allowing for a profound clearing process to take place .

The ascending in various stages at times can temporarily feel that they are almost going insane, or think they maybe developing a mental disorder , possibly attempting to work it out in a linear way by focusing on personality labels according to 3D perspectives and this will never work . Ascending self can not be found in text books , chapters , labels etc accepting that the self is experiencing a multitude of changes in complex layers and levels of the self , experiencing several conscious dimensions at once , expanding rapidly in conscious awareness and knowing .

Plans may suddenly change in mid-stream and go in a completely different and unexpected direction during this time .This is a time of soul conscious awareness , higher perspectives help in balancing out internal energies. The soul is the embodiment of sovereign creation and knows the direction self needs to take . This is expansion energy activating within as the conscious self is guided into new conscious earth living . This buildup of full moon energy is breaking self free from stagnant comfort zones , choices and lower vibrations.

During this time the Self may also feel a strong desire to return Home, sensing that everything is coming to an end, and there is no longer a feeling of belonging in the outer world. These feelings indicate a return to Source Light energy , it is the conclusion of old and outdated cycles. Each ascending individual is reshaping the New Earth . Past self contracts and restraints such as karma, are no longer binding , this is the liberation from outdated constraints and self limitations.

Ascension stages may also bring on anxiety and panic episodes for ego self-expression and clearing. Behaviour shifts signal a move away from survival mode. Dizziness and flu-like symptoms may arise from energy shifts, emotional releases, and DNA changes. Physical symptoms like muscle spasms, tingling sensations, and rapid hair/nail growth may also occur.

Increased dreaming activity and intense full moon energy signify deep purging and consciousness shifts. Energetic changes include ringing in the ears, heart palpitations, and skin reactions related to emotional releases. Weight fluctuations and memory lapses can also manifest during this transformative process.

The Fifth-dimensional shift allows individuals to express their unique gifts and fulfill their higher purpose in the evolving New Earth reality, marking a shift towards higher consciousness and divine alignment.

Everything in new earth energy is available to the ascending self . New self version is adjusting to the heightened self awareness and potential , this is breaking down past barriers as the self consciously expands into the quantum fields of infinite possibilities.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension

Service . By Ascension Lightworkers ยฉ๏ธ

Perception -Diane Yevonne Nichols

When Your Own Perception is Wrong

Our perception shapes how we experience the world. Itโ€™s the lens through which we interpret events, people, and even ourselves. However, this lens is not always clear. Sometimes, our own perception can be skewed, leading us to form incorrect conclusions or beliefs.

One common cause of flawed perception is cognitive biases. These are mental shortcuts that help us process information quickly but can distort reality. For example, the confirmation bias leads us to pay attention only to information that supports what we already believe, ignoring anything that contradicts it. Similarly, negativity bias makes us focus more on negative experiences than positive ones, causing us to feel overly pessimistic.

Additionally, emotionsplay a huge role in distorting perception. When we are stressed or anxious, we may see problems where none exist, or interpret neutral situations as threatening. In these moments, we might misjudge others’ intentions or overestimate the severity of a problem.

Social influences also contribute. Cultural norms, peer pressure, or societal expectations can shape the way we view ourselves and the world. This can lead to unrealistic self-criticism or a distorted understanding of success and happiness.

Recognizing when our perception is wrong can be challenging, but itโ€™s essential for personal growth. Practicing self-awareness and seeking diverse perspectives can help. We can also rely on trusted friends or professionals to provide feedback that challenges our viewpoints, helping us see things more clearly.

Ultimately, acknowledging the fallibility of our own perception is the first step toward greater understanding and a more balanced view of life.

Holy Time of Soul Making

Soul-making is an ongoing process of the heart, mind and soul. To make our soul, we are constantly engaged with the outer world.

The soul can only be created through deep contemplation and the deconstruction of our socially constructed views about the world around and who are meant to be in this world.

This sacred process of soul-making is not necessarily connected to the Soul that we are born with. It is connected to who we are being in the world and how we let our convictions lead the way.

Because in these challenging times we must rise and be soul-makers. Intentional soul-makers. Purposeful soul-makers. Because to make our soul we are challenged to constantly confront the established paradoxes that often stand against progress and the ennoblement of our human nature.

I am a poet. I am a metaphors maker. I am a soul-makers on a mission to invite my fellow human beings to dig deep and bring forth their power and courage to stand against the wave of misinformation that ravages our planet.

Because I want to stand in the company of soul-deep women, and men. I want to be in the company of humans that reject superficiality, consumerism and mediocrity. None of us was born to stay small and burdened with labels meant to squeeze our voice.

Beloved human, letโ€™s look deeper within and gather to have Soul Deep Conversations. There are so many issues to be involved with. What wound in the world calls you? What bothers you so deeply? What suffering in the world do you have a solution for?

I am with you, soul-makers of the world. Letโ€™s speak up. Letโ€™s not allow the liars to continue their destruction of what we hold sacred. Letโ€™s vote them out. Let us not allow indifference to keep us away from what is wrong in this world. Let us not give in to apathy and doubt.

Because if we do, we will wake up one day and it will be too late. The dark forces are working hard to shadow us with the fear of others. History repeats itself if we are not vigilant. If we are not paying attention. If we are not informed. If we allow our minds and hearts to be filled with soul killing activities.

Let us reject superficiality. Mediocrity. Social illiteracy. Let us reject cultural dogma. Let us read poetry. Literature. Philosophy and anthropology.

Let us look deep into our own soul archaeology and make our souls in alignment with Truth, Kindness, Compassion and Generosity.

I count on you, dear Human Beings. It is not too late. It is not too late.

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Reflections by Archaeology for the Woman’s Soul

Corina Andronache

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