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Craig Childress PsyD Resources
Resources.
You need resources to support you.
This pathology tries to destabilize you in every way possible. You need support. You have support. Let’s talk about that over coffee and crumpets this Sunday, 8:00 Pacific on Facebook Live.
I’ll talk about booklets and handouts. I’ll talk about what Dorcy does and what I do, we do different things to the same purpose, restoring you and your kids back to normal.
I’ll talk to you about your path moving forward – treatment not custody. You’re in the leadership position. You’re the healthier parent. The other parent is leading the family to destruction. The child is giving you the problem because you can solve it.
So let’s do that. Let’s solve it.
It starts with a plan. Let’s get your feet under you and develop a plan. It’s always the same pattern. Some of you are in the narcissistic-dad pattern, that has a higher spousal abuse feel. Some of you are in the borderline-mom pattern, that pattern has higher anxiety and false allegations.
But it’s pattern. You do this, it does that. It fights about everything. Everything. Set your ground. Make it fight about what YOU want to fight about – treatment not custody.
You need mental health support. So let’s set about getting you that. You’re going to have to be smarter than your mental health people. Sorry. That should never happen but it has happened here. We’re fixing that.
But we don’t want to lose your children as the plane we’re flying is being fixed. Twenty years from now, everything is fixed. That doesn’t help you now today.
Let’s talk about resources you can bring to your battle with the mental health people and broken systems. Start by shifting the ground you stand on from custody to treatment – you want a written treatment plan, for that you’ll need a diagnosis – the treatment for cancer is different than the treatment for diabetes.
Is there a shared persecutory delusion, also called an induced persecutory delusion. It’s a real thing. Melanie Greenham explains it all in our articles available on ResearchGate. You have resources.
How do you use them to best effect? Let’s talk about that this Sunday over coffee, 8:00am Pacific on Facebook Live. I love the Internet.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857
The marriage , the union, lacking basics with NP…never suspecting
Narcissist game – One up
Always and Forever / Right . ..
Sleep – Skilled at cutting off…GAWD this was his normal..
Dad would call the Narcissist as a “ shit stirrer”. 9 traits of a Narcissist
Psychologists can Lead Shift to Recovery-Oriented Mental Healthcare
Psychologists are uniquely positioned to drive transformational change by promoting recovery-oriented care and socially just practices, championing the rights of both patients and staff.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/06/psychologists-can-transform-our-mental-healthcare-system-by-advocating-for-recovery-oriented-care/
Q&A: How Can We See ADHD From Another Angle, and What Can We Do For Our Kids? – Mad In America
I understand this.. Based on 9 weeks with our middle son , his teacher wanted him on medication for ADD , or ADHD , and added he’d always be an average kid .
I suggested with 30 plus kids , she couldn’t possibly know our son , but I did try the RX , used to ” calm” the child .
” Kiddie Cocaine “.. I dumped it in the toilet , after 1 week, seeing our son’s adverse reaction, in fact he was altered deeply .
Teachers are not doctors. General Practitioners are not trained to do this ..
GPs are in-fact taught by the drug reps on medications , having no education usually but what the chemical company wants them to know but to sell the product .
We all want to help our kids, and finding the right key to unlock a child’s gifts is a matter of time, patience, trial, and error.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/06/qa-how-can-we-see-adhd-from-another-angle-and-what-can-we-do-for-our-kids/
Ascension
No 1. from Signs You Are Raising Your Vibrations…by: Sabrina Reber with commentary by Ascension Symptoms.
“1. You are aware of the term ascension. You understand that ascension is the process of integrating more LIGHT from your higher soul into your physical being through the process of meditation and ego/shadow work. Ascension requires us to SPIRITULIZE our lower being – taking dominion over our ego/shadow consciousness, which keeps us stuck in repetitive cycles of negative, unconscious, reactive, karmic behaviors. In essence, ascension is the activation and integration of our very on Christ Consciousness which is the consciousness of our higher soul that resides in a higher vibrating dimension within our energy fields. Ascension requires us to transmute the darkness within our lower selves/physical selves so we can raise the vibrational frequencies of our emotional, mental and physical energetic bodies so we can merge with the very high vibrating energies of our spiritual bodies where our higher souls/God selves reside.”
Ascension Symptoms:- This is essentially true. Our “Christ” or “Christed consciousness” is not a specific Christian experience or even connection. To be “christed” means to be “christened” or anointed, kristos. Its root meaning is close to “kris-hna” the Indo-Aryan god. c.900 BC Krishna was born of a virgin with a star in the East signalling his coming. just as a tyrant slaughtered thousands of infants trying to kill the new born king. He was a teacher in the temple and a healer who performed miracles, was crucified and resurrected from death.
Mithra pre-dates Krishna in some respects, although they share the divinity of elevated beings who Ascend to Heaven, even as they live also as human beings who heal and are carriers of the Light within.
Christ, Crux, Cruciform, all bear connected meanings – of a Cross. But you have to ask: Do you need to be crucified to attain Ascension? What does the Cross mean?
On one level, it is the crossroads of every human’s choice: to follow Light or Dark. On another level, it is one’s Freedom to follow “The Way of Heaven” which is actually to follow the Middle Path to attain Liberation.
Mithra was a Persian God circa 1200 BC, born of a virgin on December 25th, died for 3 days and was resurrected. The same basic story that came out of Constantine’s “Christianity’s” Council of Nicea in 325 AD had existed for thousands of years.
Mithra’s birthday became Jesus’s birthday. Christians took over a cave-temple dedicated to Mithra in Rome on the Vatican Hill, making it the seat of the Catholic Church. The Mithraic high priest’s title, Pater Patrum, soon became the title for the bishop of Rome, Papa or Pope.
Sunday was the sacred day for Mithraists because he was a Sun God. H. G. Wells pointed out that many phrases used by Paul for Jesus were the same as those used by the followers of Mithra. The Liturgy of Mithra is the Liturgy of Jesus.
So if you want to Ascend and be “Christed”, realize you are entering one of the most ancient beliefs about what happens when you become, or are, Divine. You Ascend. You come to a Universal understanding about religions. You become one with Stars. You surpass the restrictions of your born-into belief system, and come to realize you are part of an ancient cycle stretching deep into prehistory and long before the world, as we know it, existed. ~Ascension Symptoms

How a narcissistic shows love ?
I accepted that I disappointed him with my pregnancy 3 months after we wed.
But in listening I recall his ego , and note he never really did engage .
My car went down a bank, and I called him..” call a tow truck “.
He wasn’t a note write, hugger, or gift giver ..
I had to ask repeatedly for things .
Nope it wasn’t something that triggered these with holding traits .
I have NO idea why he married me and held so many secrets and with held affection, just skimming the surface .
