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Responsive Women

A WOMAN’S BEHAVIOR IN A RELATIONSHIP

If a woman behaves like a child, it’s because she’s with a real man. She feels safe.

If a woman behaves like a mother, it’s because she’s with a boy. She feels like she has to raise him up.

If a woman behaves like a man, she’s with a weak man. She’s been forced to step in and be the leader.

If a woman behaves anxious and in need of constant reassurance, it’s because she’s with an unfaithful man. She doesn’t have trust issues. It’s him who has loyalty issues.

If a woman behaves unsettled and always feels like quitting the relationship, it’s because she’s with an unprotective man. He leaves her to fight against the people in his life instead of shielding her and their union.

If a woman is always overworking, she’s with a lazy man. She feels financially exposed and she’s trying to make up for the difference.

The point is that a woman’s behaviour is often a reflection of the energy she’s receiving from her man.

Does every woman have their own growing to do with or without a man? Yes, of course.

Even so, a relationship can turn a woman into someone she’s not.

Even when a woman has done her growth and inner work, she could still become very dysfunctional if she’s with the wrong man.

Because of this, before you diagnose yourself with depression or anxiety or declare yourself unfit for love, check the type of men you’ve been dealing with.

What role have they been casting you into? A good woman is not just submissive. She’s also responsive.

Always confirm if your stressful behaviour is truly coming from you, or if it’s just a response.

Remember

One day you’ll remember all those times I tried to talk to you and you didn’t listen.

You’ll remember how many times I told you your attitude hurt me and you ignored me.

You’ll remember I let you know you were losing me and you didn’t believe it.

You’ll remember all the good I did for you and you didn’t appreciate it..

You’ll remember the times I folded up to save our relationship, even when you weren’t right.

You’ll remember my kisses, my caresses, my laugh, my details, my look, my way of taking care of you, take care of you and tell you: I love you, while I touched your face, you’ll remember my jokes, my pickiness and even all that you called toxicity in me, for not accepting your mistakes.

I made you a priority and I wasn’t a priority for you.

Now you’ll have to deal with my silence and my absence, because once you stop asking for attention and you don’t try to talk anymore, it’s because you’ve already given up and don’t plan to fight anymore…

And you think you love me your way, but I no longer want that absurd way of loving.

You’ll remember everything I did to stay and everything you did to make me leave and you’ll miss me..

Craig Childress PsyD – Forensic Psychologist

Forensic psychologists are in violation of four – 4 – ethical Standards of the American Psychological Association.

They don’t know the necessary knowledge – that’s a violation of Standard 2.01 Boundaries of Competence.

Because they don’t know the necessary knowledge, they don’t apply the established knowledge of the discipline as the bases for their professional judgments – that’s a violation of Standard 2.04 Bases for Scientific & Professional Judgments.

Because they don’t know or apply the necessary knowledge as the bases for their professional judgments (violations to Standards 2.01 & 2.04), their opinions contained in their reports and recommendations are NOT based on information sufficient to substantiate their findings – a violation of Standard 9.01 Bases for Assessment.

Applying the DSM-5 as the bases for professional judgments is a reasonable step for a doctor to take to avoid the foreseeable harm that could result from misdiagnosis if no professional level diagnosis is made – in violation of Standard 3.04 Avoiding Harm.

That is four – 4 – ethical violations where there should be zero.

In addition, the forensic psychologists are routinely failing in their duty to protect on two grounds:

1) failure to protect the child from psychological child abuse (DSM-5 V995.51) by the allied parent,

2) failure to protect the targeted parent from spousal psychological abuse of the allied parent using the child (and the child’s induced pathology) as the spousal abuse weapon.

From Cornell Law School: “Negligence is the failure to behave with the level of care that a reasonable person would have exercised under the same circumstances. Either a person’s actions or omissions of actions can be found negligent. The omission of actions is considered negligent only when the person had a duty to act.”

Forensic psychologists are ignorant. Google ignorance: “lack of knowledge or information.”

Patients are educating the forensic psychologists regarding what the pathology is because the forensic psychologists lack knowledge and information – they are ignorant by definition of the English language.

Forensic psychologists are ignorant, incompetent, and unethical… and they don’t care. Where are the licensing boards enforcing ethical standards? Nowhere to be seen.

Why is that?

If they change, they admit their prior ignorance, incompetence, unethical practice, and negligent failure in their duty to protect obligations.

If they don’t change, then they CONTINUE their ignorant, incompetent, and unethical malpractice, and they continue their negligent failure to protect children from child abuse and their parents from spousal abuse.

Forensic custody evaluations are “dangerous” and “harmful to children”, they “lack scientific or legal value” and their “defective reports” result in “potentially disastrous consequences for parents and children” (NY Blue-Ribbon Commission on Forensic Custody Evaluations, 2021).

Forensic custody evaluations need to be entirely eliminated from the family courts (NY Blue-Ribbon Commission on Forensic Custody Evaluations, 2021) and clinical diagnostic assessments of the child and family pathology need to be routinely conducted to the appropriate differential diagnoses for each parent.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist

WA 61538481 – CA 18857

Born Pure

YOU WERE BORN PURE

Don’t Let the World Convince You Otherwise.

Before the guilt,

Before the shame,

Before the world placed its projections on your name—

You were pure.

Radiant.

Unstained.

Overflowing with God’s breath.

You didn’t enter this world broken.

You weren’t born into sin.

You were born into forgetting.

And even that forgetting is part of the return.

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” – Jeremiah 1:5

You were never separate.

You were never unworthy.

You were never too far gone.

The world taught you otherwise.

Taught you to feel ashamed for being too much, too sensitive, too alive.

Taught you to dim your light, mistrust your voice,

and fear the very God who formed you in love.

But all of that was programming.

Layers on top of truth.

And now?

Now you’re peeling it back.

Your Innocence Was Never Lost—Only Buried

They told you to carry guilt.

But guilt can’t touch the soul.

Your essence is untouched.

Your spirit is unblemished.

Yes, you made mistakes.

Yes, you wandered.

Yes, you forgot.

But none of that changed the truth:

You were made in the image of God.

And God doesn’t make junk.

“You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” – Song of Songs 4:7

This Is the Return

Not to perfection.

To wholeness.

To remembrance.

To the original light you’ve always carried.

You’re not here to earn your worth.

You’re here to embody it.

To walk as the living temple you are.

To cleanse the mirror and finally see yourself as God has always seen you.

FINAL WORD: YOU ARE STILL PURE

Not because you’ve never fallen—

but because no fall can erase your design.

The dirt isn’t who you are.

The wounds aren’t who you are.

The labels, the trauma, the projections—none of that defines you.

God’s fingerprint is still on your soul.

And it never fades.

So lift your head.

Strip the shame.

Walk in the knowing:

“I was born of light.

And light I remain.”

It’s not too late.

It never was.

You were always worthy.

You were always His.

And you were always pure.

Men & Therapy

Men don’t seek counseling… they seek new women.

Not healing. Not accountability. Not inner work. Just a fresh start with someone who doesn’t know the script yet. Someone who hasn’t seen behind the curtain. Someone they can impress with the same charm, the same story, the same false humility—because she hasn’t learned how deep the damage goes. Yet.

Instead of going to therapy, they go back to being “that guy.”

Instead of owning the pain they caused, they gaslight the memory of it.

Instead of rebuilding what they broke, they rebuild their image in someone else’s eyes.

Because healing requires honesty. Growth demands discomfort. Accountability asks for vulnerability. And some men would rather protect their ego than do the uncomfortable work of unpacking their trauma, their pride, their insecurities, and the patterns they keep blaming on “crazy exes.”

So they ghost the woman who knew the truth…

And charm the one who doesn’t.

They don’t want growth, they want a reset.

Not to change—just to relocate the lie.

But here’s the thing: you can run from your past, but it catches up in your patterns. You can get a new girl, a new number, a new city—but if the same version of you shows up, the story will end the same. Because unhealed men ruin new hearts.

Ladies, never take it personally when a man skips over healing and moves on quickly. That’s not a reflection of your worth. That’s a sign of how deep his avoidance runs. He didn’t choose her because she’s better—he chose her because she doesn’t yet require what you did: growth, honesty, emotional maturity.

Let him lie in peace. Let him pretend. Because that cycle only repeats until he finally meets himself. And that moment? Can’t be avoided forever.

And for the men reading this—go to therapy.

Heal so your love doesn’t become someone else’s lesson.

Do the work so your next relationship isn’t just a rerun in a different outfit.

The truth will always require more from you than a lie. But the truth will set you free.

All planets are in rare 3 week alignment of progress/ forward

Between now and May 4, the cosmos offers something rare: every planet in the sky is in direct motion.

That means the energy that normally slows things down—those emotional detours, unexpected delays, or moments that pull you back into old stories—has lifted. This is one of the clearest windows for progress, healing, and forward motion you will feel all year.

You may notice that the weight in your chest feels lighter. You might feel a sudden rush of motivation to do something you’ve been avoiding. A text you’ve written and deleted more than once might finally get sent. A decision you were unsure about may suddenly feel obvious. A door that once seemed closed might swing open—and this time, you’re ready to walk through it.

Tasks that felt overwhelming just a week ago might now feel doable. Conversations that used to feel scary may now feel safe. You could hear from someone unexpectedly. You could wake up with the clarity you were missing. This is how forward energy begins—it builds quietly, then moves fast.

Now is the time to set crystal-clear intentions. Write down what you really want—not the version that feels acceptable, but the one that feels true. Describe the relationship, the job, the home, the lifestyle. Picture it clearly. Speak it out loud. Let yourself feel what it would be like to live it, because that feeling is part of how you call it in.

If you are focused on your career or purpose, this is an excellent time to make a bold move. You might apply for a role that once felt out of reach. You may finally launch that creative idea that’s been sitting in your notes. You might talk to someone who can help you take the next step. Even the smallest action now carries momentum.

If you are thinking about love, this is also a powerful shift. Communication feels easier. Emotions feel closer to the surface in the best way. You may reach out to someone, or someone may reach out to you. Words that were hard to say before may come through with ease now—and they land differently. You speak from truth. You listen with openness. And this changes everything.

If you are in a relationship, you may feel a shift in connection. Conversations may go deeper. Shared dreams begin to feel more possible. The two of you may feel more in sync. Maybe you finally talk about something that’s been lingering in the background. Maybe you just enjoy each other more, with less pressure and more presence.

If there has been tension or silence between you, this energy softens the edges. One moment of honesty can repair what felt broken. One act of care can remind you what love really feels like when it flows both ways. You may remember why you chose each other in the first place—and you may choose each other again, from a deeper place.

If you are single, this is where your magnetism begins to rise. You are attracting from a new place now. The kinds of people who used to catch your attention may feel different. You no longer want the chase, the chaos, the mixed signals. You want peace. You want presence. You want someone who sees you clearly and chooses you fully.

Someone may show up with energy that feels calm, steady, and safe. A new connection might begin in a way that feels soft but strong—no guessing, no games, just a sense of mutual interest and ease. You may also feel drawn to someone you already know, now seeing them in a different light. Either way, the love you’re beginning to call in matches the version of you who finally knows what they deserve.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, money, and self-worth, is also moving forward again after her retrograde. This is a huge part of why things feel different. Her energy helps you reconnect with joy, with pleasure, with your own reflection. You might want to change your look, update your space, or simply move through your day with more confidence. You might feel inspired to create again. You might finally look in the mirror and see someone you love looking back.

Financial energy starts to flow again, too. Delays lift. You may receive news about money, a job offer, a new project, or something that helps you feel more secure. When you stop questioning your worth, the Universe stops testing it. You no longer try to prove your value—you embody it, and everything around you begins to shift in response.

This is also a powerful time to walk away from what no longer feels right. You don’t need to revisit the same conversations. You don’t need to explain yourself to people who refuse to hear you. You’re allowed to close the door on the versions of yourself who kept saying yes just to keep the peace. That’s no longer your story. You are choosing your future, your peace, and your alignment.

What once felt too hard to let go of now feels like something you’re ready to outgrow. You can do it with love. You can do it with softness. But you can still do it completely.

This energy is clear. It supports action, it supports healing, and it supports beginning again.

Manifestation is strong right now because your heart is finally aligned with your actions. You want what you want for the right reasons now—not because you need validation, but because you are ready to live your truth. The Universe hears that. It sees the shift in you. And it responds.

You may notice signs everywhere—names, numbers, music, chance meetings, full-circle moments. These aren’t accidents. These are signals that your energy is speaking louder than it ever has before. And now, it is time to listen.

This is your window. Say yes to the dream that scares you. Make the call. Apply for the thing. Write the words. Open the message. Take the walk. Start the process. Leave the pattern. Trust the nudge. Step into the moment.

Everything you want is already in motion. And you are exactly where you need to be to receive it. ~ Alex Myles ❤️

Completion of timeline review

We’ve just completed a timeline review.

Many of you may have noticed that old people from your past are suddenly reappearing in your awareness, along with other seemingly random occurrences. On top of that, we’re experiencing a continued surge of energy, with a mini climax arriving tomorrow.

This energy is intensifying subconscious flooding, particularly connected to paternal, maternal, and inner child wounds, processed through themes of material security, belonging, and safety (or the lack thereof) surfacing your deepest triggers in ways that might feel overwhelming.

Many will be experiencing intense emotions such as rage, anger, doom, anxiety, and more all tied to unresolved root issues manifesting physically through the feet, knees, legs, hips, bowels, lower back, blood, teeth, and the immune system.

Whilst There’s a strong desire to be close to friends and family, the paradox is that their opposing wounds are inadvertently triggering your own subconscious flooding. This can lead to the urge to “hermit” or to run, hide, and isolate.

This is a very intense period of subconscious projection within this energy. It will feel like all is well on the surface, but beneath that, the world soul is walking through the very reality it has created. Your body is recalibrating through deep fatigue, while the energies continue whispering, urging you to release the resistances that are keeping the inner cauldron boiling.

Usually, these intense restarts boil down to just a few core issues, rooted in duality and 3D/4D consciousness, that can no longer survive the new broadband frequency you are now mentally, emotionally, physically, and energetically dialing into creating a landscape of big choices ahead as timelines collapse and energy builds toward another climax tomorrow.

You’ve got this.

Much love,

AQ ~ Alexander Quinn – Starseed

The Dance of healed polarities ❤️🌹

“The feminine cannot, will not surrender

To the wounded masculine…

A man who criticizes her

Belittles

Dishonours

Controls

Manipulates

Abuses

Or attacks her

Her own inner masculine will not allow it

He will rise fiercely to the forefront

To stand guard

To do the job himself

The feminine can and will only surrender

To the divine masculine…

A man who is devoted to her

Elevates

Honours

Cherishes

Supports

And protects her

A man with boundaries

Presence

Direction

Integrity

Accountability

And humility

In this space

She will feel him penetrating her very essence…

Her body

Her mind

Her heart

Her soul

And she will feel safe…

Safe enough to surrender

This is the natural law

This is the dance of healed polarities

This is surrender…

To Love”

Written by Gemma Star

Raising the bar – Moms & Dads

Dads deserve to be held to the same standard as moms.

Showing up isn’t “extra.”

Being present isn’t “helping.”

Being an active father isn’t a bonus, it’s the bare minimum.

We don’t get a standing ovation for changing diapers or rocking our babies to sleep.

We don’t get applause for knowing our kids’ routines, their doctors, their favorite snacks, their school schedules.

That’s just called being a parent.

And it should be the same for dads.

Fatherhood isn’t babysitting.

It isn’t part-time.

It’s full-time. All in. Every single day.

Because our kids deserve two parents who are fully present. Not one doing it all while the other gets praised for showing up once in a while.

Let’s raise the bar.