Love , your way .

Maybe someday, just the right person will arrive and love you the way you wanted.

They will actually see the real value in you, respect you, appreciate everything unique about you, and not just claim to love you but instead show it through their action, making you feel important every day.

Such love makes you feel acceptable and comfortable. You won’t have to change yourself or continually strive for their validation. Instead, they will accept you for who you are, with all your strengths and weaknesses.

They’ll be there in all happy and sad moments.

This person will bring joy and serenity to your life, proving to you that real love has no room for drama or complications.

It is just simplicity – understanding each other and simply wanting the best out of each other.

Till that time comes, hold yourself on high and don’t get hopeless. Right time plus right person equals making worth all the wait.

That is why, you got to hold on to hope – true love does exist and would find you when you most badly need it.

Neena Gupta.

โ“’ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

Do not fear my memory

When I am gone, do not fear my memory.

Do not be afraid to speak my name or look through old photographs.

Do not be scared to play old videos so that you might hear my voice and see me laughing.

Do not be wary of visiting my favourite places or eating my favourite foods or singing along to my favourite songs.

I know it will hurt. Those memories will remind you that I am gone.

They will stab at you like a knife in an open, gaping wound. Raw, excruciating pain.

But after a while the knife will become less sharp, the wound will become less open and the pain will become less raw.

And those memories will remind you that I was here.

That I lived.

Do not reduce my life to my death.

Speak my name, hear my voice, sing my favourite songs and visit my favourite places.

Because thatโ€™s how I can stay alive a little.

Right here with you ๐Ÿงก

******

Becky Hemsley 2022

Beautiful image by Juli Scalzi

Black Spikes – Solar Flares

UPDATE โ€ผ๏ธ

Multiple charts on the Schumann are showing spiking.

We are also having multiple M class flares.

I am definitely hearing that rumbling in my left ear today โ€“ โ€“ itโ€™s especially uneven and loud.

And we are still having a radiation storm.

So, rest when you need to.

Stay hydrated.

Try to keep your frequency high and loving.

Pray/meditate

I would avoid conflicts during these volatile times and conserve my energy.

Donโ€™t forget about the heart/brain coherence meditation available at the top of the page in a video

Be kind to your wee little selves and take care of yourself as best you can.โค๏ธ

Be kind to others.

I had an amazing and awesome experience with Godโ€˜s love this morning and yet, I find that my patience and my temper seem to be a bit short today.

Something is going on out there, I got thrown off of Facebook in the middle of doing this post and had to come back and do it again. Something is still wonky out there lol ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜„๏ฟผ

We are being molded and made by the events and energies and powers of the day โ€“ โ€“ just donโ€™t let it make us into anything we donโ€™t want to be.

Much much love to you all.โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

2:37 PM EST, 11/1/24 ๏ฟผ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™

Addictive Personalities – Terry Miller

The idea of addictive personalities is genuinely important and complex, affecting individuals and families in various ways. People with addictive personality disorders often struggle with impulsive behaviors and find it difficult to show self-control when faced with immediate satisfaction opportunities. This difficulty in delaying gratification can lead to actions that defy social norms as a way of rebelling against conformity.

There are many factors that contribute to the development of addictive personalities, such as chronic stress, history of trauma, mental health issues, and a family background of addiction. These underlying issues can create vulnerabilities that may predispose individuals to addictive behaviors. It is crucial to address these root causes in order to effectively treat addictive personalities and prevent negative outcomes.

Treatment for addictive personalities typically involves different therapy approaches like talk therapy, family counseling, and support groups. Cognitive-behavioral therapy is often used to help individuals learn coping mechanisms, recognize triggers, and develop healthier habits. Sometimes, medication may be prescribed to manage underlying conditions like depression that may coexist with addictive tendencies.

Personal experiences with addiction within one’s family can greatly influence an individual’s perspective on and understanding of addiction. My own history of my biological father battling alcoholism and an older brother struggling with substance abuse sheds light on the destructive impact of addiction on families. The loss of my brother emphasizes the harsh reality of addiction’s dangers and underscores the need for effective prevention and intervention strategies.

The prevalence of drug addiction and the resulting losses within families and communities are truly worrying. The easy availability of drugs in various settings presents a significant challenge in combating the ongoing addiction crisis. Seeing the pain and devastation caused by drug overdoses highlights the urgent need for united efforts to address this complex issue.

Witnessing the toll addiction takes on individuals and families, leading to strained relationships, emotional turmoil, and deep grief, is saddening. Substance abuse can erode trust, communication, and mutual support within families, often causing irreparable harm. It’s important for individuals to recognize signs of addiction in themselves or their loved ones and take proactive steps to seek help and support.

Engaging in open and honest conversations with individuals struggling with addiction is crucial in providing them with the necessary support and encouragement to seek treatment. Expressing love, care, and willingness to help can make a significant difference in motivating individuals to confront their addiction and embark on the journey to recovery. Setting boundaries and showing tough love when needed is also important to protect oneself from the emotional toll of assisting someone with addiction.

Ultimately, fostering a culture of unconditional love, empathy, and support within families and communities can create a nurturing environment that promotes healing and recovery for individuals dealing with addiction. By raising awareness, educating others, and advocating for effective prevention and treatment measures, we can work together to address the pervasive issue of addiction and minimize its devastating impact on individuals, families, and society as a whole.