Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Grown Women & Solitude

A grown woman will sometimes choose solitude—

Not out of coldness or distance, but as an act of deep self-preservation. It’s a choice that comes from experience, from weathering storms of drama, noise, and emotional chaos. She’s learned, often the hard way, that her peace is sacred, and sometimes the bravest thing she can do is step away to protect it.

When she pulls back, it’s not because she doesn’t care. In fact, it’s because she cares deeply—about her own well-being, her healing, and the fragile parts of her soul that still need tenderness. She knows now that not everyone deserves a front-row seat in her life, especially those who drain her energy or disturb her calm. Her solitude is her sanctuary—a soft, quiet place where she can breathe freely, think clearly, and gently rebuild the pieces of herself that the world has tried to break.

Choosing herself isn’t selfish; it’s survival. It’s wisdom earned through pain and resilience. In those quiet moments, she’s not shutting people out—she’s letting herself in. She’s creating a sacred space where her heart can rest, her mind can find clarity, and her spirit can gather the strength to face the world again, but this time on her own terms.

So if you notice her growing silent, don’t mistake it for indifference or weakness. That silence is a powerful act of self-love. It’s her way of saying, “My peace is non-negotiable. I will not sacrifice it for anything or anyone.” And that kind of strength—quiet, steady, and unshakeable—deserves nothing but respect.

To every woman who has learned to honor her boundaries and protect her peace: you are powerful, you are wise, and you are worthy of every ounce of the sanctuary you create for yourself. 💛

©️Kimberly Smith

Art by Kat Fedora

Enablers of Alienation via Narcissist -Charlie McCready

The alienating parent often seeks to create a support system comprised of people who enable, support and reinforce their behaviour. These enablers are like a cheerleading team, and they play a significant role in perpetuating the alienation. Here’s how this dynamic typically works:

The key enablers are willingly blind to the negative actions of the alienating parent. They demonstrate unwavering loyalty, refusing to acknowledge any wrongdoing.

Enablers consciously choose to ignore signs of manipulation or mistreatment. They might witness the alienating parent’s behaviour but deliberately turn a blind eye, allowing the alienation to continue unchecked.

Enablers are often submissive and easily controlled by the alienating parent. They may fear repercussions if they resist or question the alienator’s actions, leading them to comply passively.

Enablers might lack critical thinking skills or be naive, making them susceptible to the alienating parent’s persuasive tactics. They unquestioningly accept the distorted narrative presented by the alienator.

Crucially, enablers do not challenge the alienating parent’s agenda. They refrain from interfering even when they suspect that the alienator’s actions are harmful.

Enablers serve as cheerleaders, and their support reinforces the alienator’s belief that their actions are justified, making it increasingly difficult for the targeted parent and the alienated child to break free from the cycle of manipulation.

These enablers create a toxic echo chamber around the alienating parent, but why do they do it? Enablers support the alienating parent due to loyalty, fear, or manipulation, often gaining a sense of belonging, protection, or approval in return for their unquestioning allegiance.

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