Betrayal

LOVE DIES WHEN YOU ARE BETRAYED.

My friends ask me, “How did you make him forget you so fast?”

How can I stop loving you if you were my whole life?

How come I never mentioned your name again?

Within two seconds, the answer is:

Love dies when you are betrayed—when you are stabbed in the back, admiration for that person turns to dust.

Beautiful memories rot when you discover their true face. When you see their falseness, love turns into disgust as every lie is revealed.

You become so disappointed that you go from loving to despising.

Love can survive absence, distance, death, sickness, even poverty.

But it cannot survive betrayal, lies, doubts, distrust, or deep disappointment.

Resist

In a time of hate

Love is an act of resistance.

In a time of fear

Faith is an act of resistance.

In a time of misinformation

Education is an act of resistance.

In a time of poor leadership

Community is an act of resistance.

In a time like this

joy is an act of resistance.

Resist. Resist. Resist.

By Loryn Brantz 🌹

Spreed kindness on your way …

Camille – Visionary , Died in a mental hospital

Born in 1864, died in 1943—forgotten by the world, left to languish in a mental hospital.

What was her story?

She came to Paris to study art at a time when the prestigious École des Beaux-Arts was open only to men. Undeterred, she joined studios that welcomed women. There, she met and became the lover of the celebrated sculptor Auguste Rodin. Their relationship was one of fiery passion and shared artistry—they created side by side, their collaborative genius preserved in works housed today in the Rodin Museum and Musée d’Orsay.

But Rodin, already entangled in a long-standing relationship with another woman, eventually left Camille. As his reputation soared, hers plummeted. She was scorned, shunned, and dismissed—not just as a lover but as an artist. Alone, distrusting, and out of favor, she struggled to sell her works.

Adding to her isolation, her brother, the renowned poet and diplomat Paul Claudel, played a pivotal role in her downfall. Camille, seen as “too modern” and a source of familial shame, was forcibly institutionalized by her family. For 30 years, she fought to explain the injustice of her confinement, writing anguished letters to friends and family, pleading for release. Her clarity and heartbreak resonate in these preserved writings.

On October 19, 1943, Camille Claudel died of malnutrition in a French hospital. No family members attended her funeral, and her body was buried in a common grave.

Decades later, the world has finally recognized her brilliance. Her legacy has been restored: her sculptures now stand proudly beside Rodin’s, and a museum near Paris is dedicated entirely to her work.

Camille Claudel is no longer forgotten. She is honored as the visionary she always was.

Robert Reich

Friends,

I want to talk today about the media’s coverage of the Trump-Vance-Musk coup.

I’m not referring to coverage by the bonkers right-wing media of Rupert Murdoch’s Fox News and its imitators.

I’m referring to the U.S. mainstream media — The New York Times, The Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, The Atlantic, The New Yorker, National Public Radio — and the mainstream media abroad, such as the BBC and The Guardian.

By not calling it a coup, the mainstream media is failing to communicate the gravity of what is occurring.

Thursday’s opinion by The New York Times’ editorial board offers a pathetic example. It concedes that Trump and his top associates “are stress-testing the Constitution, and the nation, to a degree not seen since the Civil War” but then asks: “Are we in a constitutional crisis yet?” and answers that what Trump is doing “should be taken as a flashing warning sign.”

Warning sign?

Elon Musk’s meddling into the machinery of government is a part of the coup. Musk and his muskrats have no legal right to break into the federal payments system or any of the other sensitive data systems they’re invading, for which they continue to gather computer code.

This data is the lifeblood of our government. It is used to pay Social Security and Medicare. It measures inflation and jobs. Americans have entrusted our private information to professional civil servants who are bound by law to use it only for the purposes to which it is intended. In the wrong hands, without legal authority, it could be used to control or mislead Americans.

By failing to use the term “coup,” the media have also underplayed the Trump-Vance-Musk regime’s freeze on practically all federal funding — suggesting this is a normal part of the pull-and-tug of politics. It is not. Congress has the sole authority to appropriate money. The freeze is illegal and unconstitutional.

By not calling it a coup, the media have also permitted Americans to view the regime’s refusal to follow the orders of the federal courts as a political response, albeit an extreme one, to judicial rulings that are at odds with what a president wants.

There is nothing about the regime’s refusal to be bound by the courts that places it within the boundaries of acceptable politics. Our system of government gives the federal judiciary final say about whether actions of the executive are legal and constitutional. Refusal to be bound by federal court rulings shows how rogue this regime truly is.

Earlier this week, a federal judge excoriated the regime for failing to comply with “the plain text” of an edict the judge issued last month to release billions of dollars in federal grants. Vice President JD Vance, presumably in response, declared that “judges aren’t allowed to control the executive’s legitimate power.”

Vance graduated from the same law school I did. He knows he’s speaking out of his derriere.

In sum, the regime’s disregard for laws and constitutional provisions surrounding access to private data, impoundment of funds appropriated by Congress, and refusal to be bound by judicial orders amount to a takeover of our democracy by a handful of men who have no legal authority to do so.

If this is not a coup d’etat, I don’t know what is.

The mainstream media must call this what it is. In doing so, they would not be “taking sides” in a political dispute. They would be accurately describing the dire emergency America now faces.

Unless Americans see it and understand the whole of it for what it is rather than piecemeal stories that “flood the zone,” Americans cannot possibly respond to the whole of it. The regime is undertaking so many outrageous initiatives that the big picture cannot be seen without it being described clearly and simply.

Unless Americans understand that this is indeed a coup that’s wildly illegal and fundamentally unconstitutional — not just because that happens to be the opinion of constitutional scholars or professors of law, or the views of Trump’s political opponents, but because it is objectively and in reality a coup — Americans cannot rise up as the clear majority we are, and demand that democracy be restored.

What are your thoughts?

I love her 😍

“I fell in love with her courage, her sincerity, and her flaming self respect. And it’s these things I’d believe in, even if the whole world indulged in wild suspicions that she wasn’t all she should be.

I love her, and that’s the beginning and end

of everything.”

“You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and

most beautiful person I have ever known, and even that is an understatement.”

— F. Scott Fitzgerald

[art by distilled_future]

Used/Abused by Narcissist

STRANGE BUT TRUTH 💔

You didn’t lose the love of your life; you broke free from the chains of a predator who drained your joy, strength, and identity.

A narcissist isn’t your soul mate—they’re a master manipulator hiding behind a carefully crafted mask. The person you see at the end of the relationship, the one who discarded you without empathy, is who they’ve been all along.

Their charm, their “magic,” their love-bombing—all of it was a performance. False promises and shallow words disguised their real agenda: to control, exploit, and feed off your emotional energy while breaking down your confidence.

What you endured wasn’t love—it was a calculated game of power. Gaslighting, criticism, and emotional manipulation weren’t acts of affection but weapons used to keep you doubting yourself. Their betrayals weren’t mistakes; they were deliberate moves to hold you captive in their cycle of abuse.

But here’s the powerful truth: You didn’t lose a family member—you escaped a nightmare.

Walking away from that toxic cycle took unimaginable strength. Breaking free from someone who pretends to love but thrives on control isn’t easy, but you did it. And now, you’re standing in the light of freedom, no longer bound to their lies.

Healing begins when you accept this: you weren’t loved, you were used. But that does not define your worth or your future.

You were created for real love, genuine connection, and a life filled with joy, authenticity, and peace.

You are worthy of being truly seen, deeply heard, and genuinely valued. Never settle for less than the love and respect you deserve. Real love isn’t a game or manipulation—it’s kind, patient, and true.

As you heal, remember this:

You’ve reclaimed your life, and the right people, the right love, and the right future are waiting for you.