“Being at peace means that you no longer have the need to prove anything to anyone.
You don’t need outside validation, you don’t need to tell your side of the story anymore, even when you hear a dozen rumors that tell an untrue version.
You used to guard your heart, but now you guard your peace, because you know your peace is worth more than proving yourself to anyone.”
( ✍️ Stephanie Bennett-Henry )
Art : Cherry Apple
Men don’t cheat because of what you lack—they cheat because of who they are. You could be the most loving, caring, and supportive partner, but if a man has it in him to be unfaithful, he will be, no matter what you do.
A woman could give her all—emotionally, mentally, and physically—and still get played because cheating isn’t about the partner; it’s about the cheater’s morals, self-control, and respect for the relationship. A man who truly values and respects you will never make you feel like you have to prove your worth to keep him loyal. He won’t step out just because times get tough, the excitement fades, or another opportunity presents itself. He’ll stay committed because he knows the importance of trust and cherishes what he has.
Loyalty isn’t something you should have to beg for. A man who genuinely loves and values you will never put you in a position to question your worth over his lack of discipline. The right man won’t risk losing a good woman for a moment of weakness. His loyalty won’t depend on how well you treat him—it will be a reflection of the standards he holds for himself.
The child you once were does not disappear. They do not fade into the past like an old photograph or dissolve with the passage of time. They live within you still woven into your fears, your longings, your habits of self-protection. They are there in the way your body tenses at a raised voice, in the way you hesitate before asking for what you need, in the ache you feel when love seems just out of reach.
Healing is not about leaving this child behind. It is about turning toward them with the love and presence they were once denied.
Trauma is not just what happened to us it is what did not happen. It is the touch that never came, the safety that was absent, the soothing voice that never told us, You are enough just as you are. When we experience wounding at a young age, we do not just lose a moment in time. We lose trust, we lose connection, we lose the full expression of who we were meant to be. The child learns to survive, to adapt, to become small, quiet, or pleasing anything to maintain attachment. And so, they remain trapped in us, frozen in time, waiting for someone to come back for them.
But no one is coming except you.
Healing is not about discarding the past, as if we could simply will ourselves into a new story. It is about remembering. Not in the sense of reliving pain endlessly, but in the sense of reclaiming what was lost. To truly heal, we must become the very presence our younger selves longed for. We must speak to them gently, hold them in their sorrow, let them grieve the love they never received.
We do not heal by rejecting the child within us. We heal by turning toward them and saying:
“I see you. I know how much it hurt. I know how alone you felt. But I am here now. You are no longer abandoned. You are no longer unseen. You are safe with me.”
This is the work: to break the cycle of self-abandonment. To stop running from the echoes of our past and instead meet them with tenderness. Healing does not mean forgetting it means integrating. It means that the child who once felt unworthy of love is finally given the love they always deserved. It means that the pain that once defined us becomes the doorway to our deepest wisdom.
And so, the question is not whether the child within us still exists. The question is whether we will have the courage to go back for them.
Connected By Nature
Altar Of Earth
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We are in a state of deep purging now on all levels, as we access the higher dimensions, and our light quotients rise more, we will find that old miladies, old shadows and triggers, suddenly appear out of the seeming blue.
I was reading a classic about ascension, in which it states, that everytime your consciousness rises and your whole systems are rising in frequency, this will happen. This is why all the great masters often spent 40 days and nights in caves, in silence and fasting. etc., for they knew that every single shadow will appear and show themselves, every single aspect of you. When they fully embraced that shadow, and the lessons in mastery they brought, they then started accessing even higher degrees of cosmic knowledge, had intense moments of experiencing unity and oneness, and are reborn in much higher ways, each one according to their own unique soul’s calling. They emerged stronger, wiser, more loving and compassionate, illumined than ever before and had gained in power and wisdom.
We cannot do this today and retreat in a cave for so long, or rather most of us cannot, and this why we tend to struggle to go through these intense changes. Yet the only way, is the way through.
Add to this mother earth is going through the very same, and humanity as a whole, whether they are aware of it, or not. The shadows are emerging everywhere, and this is meant to be. It has to, for we now need to consciously choose the repeat the same or not. The more we block those shadows or deny them, the longer it takes to ascend.
Yet at the same time, the split between the New and the old is widening to such a degree, that it becomes a total split and a total lifting off into the new. This is a process of enlightenment in itself.
The only way forward is to go deeper within, for this is what the masters knew.
The true portals lie within you, your heart and soul.
For love now embraces the shadows, thanks them for the service they render, and this brings balance, inner harmony and greater insight and vision. It will repeat itself until we are totally ascended into the new.
Yes, we all grow weary and weak, me too. Yet, what I know for sure, that in such times, especially now, we are being carried through. And one day, in the not so far distant future, we will look back to this time, as a time of immense soul growth in ways, even our souls before they were born, could not even imagine!
Love, Light, Wisdom and Joy!
Judith Kusel
Photo: @DeepDiverQ
Dark MAGA
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If you’re a little confused about what Musk is trying to achieve with DOGE, here’s the breakdown:
Elon Musk and Peter Thiel cofounded a company that became PayPal.
Other executives at PayPal went on to found or lead other huge tech companies including YouTube, LinkedIn, Reddit, Affirm, and many VC firms.
This group became known as the PayPal mafia because they basically controlled Silicon Valley.
Peter Thiel mentored a young JD Vance and helped him get set up in his first VC firm.
Peter Thiel and the PayPal mafia funded JD Vance’s successful Senate run. Amazing because he had absolutely zero political experience.
Thiel and Musk all but forced Trump to choose JD Vance as VP in exchange for funding his presidential campaign.
The three of them, plus a lot of other tech billionaires subscribe to an ideology called the Dark Enlightenment espoused by this super weird, creepy dude: Curtis Yarvin aka Mencius Moldbug.
Yarvin preaches that the media and academia represent “The Cathedral” that secretly controls power and must be dismantled.
He advocates for a corporate run, monarchy, led by a CEO-Dictator.
Says that Democracy is an “outdated software” and openly opposes it and that:
– Government agencies should be dismantled and The U.S. should be broken up into “patchworks” controlled by tech oligarchs.
– That the elite tech billionaires should rule because they have the intelligence to “fix” society
– That the “masses are asses” too dumb to govern themselves.
The strategy is to gut the government via R.A.G.E – Retire All Govt Employees to make government incapable of operating.
Then to replace government with private corporations.
To eliminate elections because they are “obsolete”
To use distraction and chaos to prevent public resistance.
Trump is their useful tool to be disposed of as soon as they can wrest control.
This is why Elon wears a black MAGA hat. They are not Trump supporters, they are “Dark MAGA”
This isn’t a hypothetical. The plan is already in motion:
– Musk, Thiel, and their network are actively dismantling democratic institutions.
– JD Vance, the “MAGA heir,” is being positioned to help implement this transition.
– The public is too distracted to realize what’s happening.
– If successful, democracy in America will be permanently replaced by a corporate-run authoritarian state.
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That’s it. Now that you understand that you can see how everything that’s happening fits within that lens.
Now the only question is what do we do about it?
That’s my Dark Ted Talk. Thanks for listening.
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~ Jon Sneider
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Feeling calm , peaceful .
” Thy Will be Done ”
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