Tag: wisdoms

Don’t let her down

Fall for a woman who makes you uncomfortable.
One who feels completely at home,
in her own skin
and in her own company.
One who’s familiar with her faults
and is always a flight risk.
It’s much harder to hit moving targets,
especially the ones learning on the run—
always learning,
always running.
Fall for a woman who has a list of books
she’s promised herself to read.
And one who knows where to leave
her teeth marks on you.
One who has a fire in her belly
and a passion to fuel it.

Fall for a woman so beautiful inside
that you can’t help but stare at who she is.
Fall for a woman who’s multidimensional.
Who has levels, and layers,
and dark corners,
and curves you must explore.
Fall for her intricacies
and her strange ways.
Do not fall only for her looks;
fall for what the rest of the world continues
to overlook.

Fall for someone better than you
someone who will work with you
in lockstep.
When you find her,
fall all the way.
And let her know it’s safe to do the same.
Then,
no matter what,
don’t let her down.

J. Raymond
“Don’t Let Her Down” From Spades.
Signed Books and Framed Poems are now available.

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The Couple – Growth over Stagnation

YOU WILL VIBRATE UP OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

Everything is maintained and held together by frequency

Frequencies act as a magnet and a gravitational force that pulls other similar frequencies together

Imagine every object, place, thought, emotion , intention has a invisible number attached to it that denotes it frequency

Your relationship also has a frequency number that is holding it together like glue

Toxicity has a very low vibrational frequency number( let’s denote it is 0-300hz)

In the toxic frequencies , your relationship is held together by fear, lust , low self-worth , jealousy, stress , survival, lack of self- love

Thus for as long as you remain in these frequencies the relationship will be held together

Yet the moment one person in the relationship starts to heal and grow which raises their frequency above the 300hz range, the relationship will begin to fall apart

There is no magnet holding them together anymore because one person vibrates higher than the relationship

Thus the Universe will begin to seperate them by attracting events that pull them apart

The partner with the lower frequencies will always try to lower the frequency of the partner who’s vibrating above the relationship just so they can stay connected

Thus at this point, which is one the hardest choices you will have make is between your growth or your relationship

If you suppress yourself to maintain the relationship , you will have won the battle(relationship) yet lost the war(spiritual evolution) thus you will feel the frequencies of defeat on a consistent basis

You will then blame the partner for your hindrances yet it was your choice all along to sacrifice your own elevation

You fear being alone and leaving all you know behind you to delve into the unknown

This very fear is what keeps you locked into the lower frequencies, which keeps you locked into your low vibrational relationship

You have to learn to choose your spiritual growth no matter what without guilt because it’s the only thing you get to take with you to the next life

And if you have the courage to choose growth over your relationship then it will be replaced by a higher- vibrational partner who will desire to grow with you

You have to first believe you deserve better and then the Universe will serve it

You didn’t come here to be trapped in relationships and connections that limit your full potential just because you spent time and had good moments together

The caterpillar knows once it evolves into a butterfly it can no longer hang with caterpillars

It would be unwise for the caterpillar to say “Hey I’m going to remain a caterpillar forever just so I’ll never have to leave you”

The pain you feel in these relationships stems from the fact that you have wings now and you won’t even fly to new heights

Thus you spend all your energy trying to get the other caterpillars to turn into butterfly with you before you take off

Life evolves each caterpillar in their own timing , it is not your job to try to evolve the other caterpillars or wait for them

Some caterpillars take lifetimes to evolve and you would be wasting your whole life waiting and trying to force them

You are not a bad person because you want to fly off as soon as you get your wings

If it is aligned for them , they will fly with you when they’ve been through enough experiences to want to evolve themselves

Let them go so that you can ascend into the higher frequencies of Divine Love, Bliss, Prosperity, and Abundance

YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOUR GROWTH OVER STAGNATION!!!

YOU DESERVE TO FLY AS HIGH AS YOU CAN!!!

YOU DESERVE TO ATTRACT HIGH-VIBRATIONAL RELATIONSHIPS!!!

Davonte Sheard

Artist: Alive Laverty “The couple”

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Upgrades

The next vast upgrades have begun, with the release of more maximum potent solar flares, as spinning Metatron’s Cubes are activated in all all 33 vertebra of our spine and all 15 chakras, our entire energy systems, all 12 bodies and new 12 strands of DNA in our new Solar Lightbodies.

Plus, at the very same time, the highest octaves of sound, especially our soul chords and signature tunes, which now become audible again, as our vibrational frequencies rise with our consciousness levels.

This is huge.

It continues the crystalline liquidation process.

More tomorrow.

Judith Kusel

http://www.judithkusel.com

Photo: Devinat Art; Galactic Federation.

Long term relationships

Leaving a long-term relationship, especially one that was toxic, can feel like navigating through a storm. But in the midst of those turbulent emotions, it’s important to recognize the immense courage it takes to take that first step towards healing and growth.

It’s natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions – sadness, anger, confusion, and maybe even relief. All these feelings are valid, and it’s okay to experience them fully. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. You have friends, family, and possibly even professional support to lean on during this challenging time.

Moving on from a toxic relationship isn’t just about leaving behind what’s harmful; it’s also about reclaiming your sense of self-worth and rediscovering your own identity outside of that toxic dynamic. It’s about recognizing your own value and realizing that you deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness.

In the days ahead, be gentle with yourself. Allow yourself the time and space to grieve the loss of what could have been and to process the emotions that come with it. Take each day as it comes, and celebrate the small victories along the way – whether it’s rediscovering an old hobby, spending time with loved ones, or simply finding moments of peace and joy in the present.

As you journey forward, know that brighter days are ahead. You have the strength and resilience to create a life that’s filled with love, positivity, and fulfillment. Keep moving forward, one step at a time, and trust that the path ahead holds endless possibilities for growth and happiness. You’re worthy of all the love and happiness in the world.

_Beulah

Lifting Up

“What is the point of a relationship if not to grant two people the very private privilege to uplift one another every day? To illuminate the qualities in each other that are diamonds of shimmering beauty. To appreciate wholeheartedly. To accept unconditionally. And to love eternally, even in moments of dislike. I’m not here to grant you the extraordinary love you never had for yourself. I’m here, on my own accord, to love you.”

— Kamand Kojouri

Artist: Encoded Frequenxy

Erotic Creators

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Valued Relationships

When your partner comes to you about something you did wrong, it shows that they value the relationship and want to address any issues that may arise. Instead of avoiding confrontation or harboring resentment, they choose to communicate with you openly and honestly.

This kind of behavior is a healthy sign in a relationship because it demonstrates a willingness to work through challenges together. It shows that both partners are invested in the well-being of the relationship and are committed to making it stronger.

By acknowledging and addressing the mistake, you have the opportunity to learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. It allows for open dialogue, understanding, and the chance to find a resolution. This process not only helps to resolve the immediate issue but also strengthens the bond between you and your partner.

Emotional maturity plays a significant role in this scenario. It involves being able to handle constructive criticism and recognizing that it is not a personal attack. Instead, it is an opportunity for personal and relational growth. Emotional maturity allows you to approach the situation with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to take responsibility for your actions.

Commitment is another important aspect of handling such situations. It means being committed to the relationship and its success, even when faced with challenges. It involves a dedication to working through difficulties, finding solutions, and growing together. When both partners are committed to making things work, the relationship becomes stronger and more resilient.

Love is the foundation that underlies the entire process. It is the driving force behind the desire to communicate, resolve conflicts, and stay together. Love encompasses understanding, forgiveness, and the willingness to put in the effort required to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

In summary,when your partner brings up something you did wrong, it should be seen as a positive sign rather than a personal attack. It demonstrates that they value the relationship, have emotional maturity, are committed to making things work, and ultimately, love you. Embracing these qualities can lead to a stronger and more fulfilling partnership.

~Zugwai

Water Girl

“Scottish legend holds that there are women – grand, ethereal, magical women – who live in the depths of the sea. They appear as seals, but are really selkie – half woman, half seal, able to shed their skin to dance under the moon and commune with the stars.

I believe that all women are selkie.

We are all made of land and sea.

We all dive deep, run hard, dance free. Until we lose our skin.

When a selkie loses her skin or stays too long on land, she dries up, dries out. Her dreams become brittle, her relations become dusty, her fierce will and wild inner flame grow dim. The moist heat of her soul goes cool and dries to a flake.

Sound familiar?

Let me tell you something. It’s not just you. And it’s not just now.

It’s an epidemic, happening to millions for women for hundreds of years. Only it seems to be amping up in the western hemisphere, and in this generation, as we put our masculine “land force” ahead of our feminine “water depth.”

We work hard, try harder. We push, we prove, we produce.

If at first we don’t succeed, we force it.

And we think. A lot.

We spend inordinate amounts of time trying to think our way out of a situation that feels too small, too demanding, too “not right.”

What am I doing wrong? Why aren’t I happy? How can I fix this? What is wrong with me? Where can I turn? What have I left undone? What can I try next? How ‘bout this? Or this? Or this?

Thinking, forcing, pushing, proving, producing? They are all masculine energies. And they’re awesome energies, once we have a soul-fed direction in which to apply them. But we’ve been leading with the masculine energy of life so long, and so consistently, we’ve become prettier versions of men.

You, me, our sisters, our friends, our tribe…most of us are men with lovelier shapes. We’ve crawled on land and stayed too long, and forgotten who we really are, and from what depths we come from.

The Divine Feminine has been calling you for years. Down, down, in the watery depths of your soul, her voice cries out like a siren song. She wants you – us – to find balance, to swim the depths of psyche and dance on the beach of ordinary life. She wants us to use the feminine principles of listening, intuiting, receiving, feeling, dreaming and divining. She wants us to LEAD WITH THE FEMININE, to heal the patriarchy inside ourselves, to restore balance, to revive our soul skin, to keep our lives juicy.

You, sister, are one of us. Where is your skin so we can recognize you? In what condition is it? How can we help you find it, nourish it, oil it, don it, love it, belong to it?”

– Angi Sullins

[Image: Water Girl by Nendili • http://www.deviantart.com]

The Smart Witch by Elizabeth

How to open a Woman

It’s not WHERE a man touches his woman as much as HOW he touches her that makes her feel safe.

It’s not HOW he touches her as WHY he’s touching her that causes her to open.

It’s not WHY he’s touching her as much as WHO he has chosen to be and how he has chosen to live in the moments, hours, days and weeks leading up to touching her.

It’s not his TOUCH that matters as much as the energy of his INTENT.

And when all of these are aligned it’s not a touch needed to make her shudder, but a word, a breath or even just his gaze.

This is not a dream, a myth or an impossibly romantic fantasy of a man – it is the potential inherent in every man. It requires that he dare to own and live the magnificence of his potential, to show up in the world with the courage to fulfill his responsibilities, keep his word, overcome challenges and abandon his excuses.

There is no METHOD that conquers the world, it’s the CHOICE to fulfill one’s potential. And there is no TECHNIQUE that opens a woman, it’s the ENERGY of his intention.

~Graham R White

Rebel Lion

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