Don’t settle

Never beg someone to remain in your life.

Never chase someone who doesn’t want to be chased.

If someone doesn’t see your value or your worth, let them go…

If they won’t give you the basics or the way they make you feel gets ignored, walk away.

Because you’re worth so much more than what they’re giving you.

You deserve the right kind of love, not one that you feel like you’re settling for.

Someone who makes you feel special, and that you mean something to them.

Not someone who leaves you hanging, and wondering when you’ll hear from them next, or when you’ll get to spend time together with them again…

Wait for someone who knows your worth.

Wait for someone who can’t wait to spend time with you so much that they make time for you.

Wait for someone who enjoys staying up all night just talking with you.

Someone who when they say wants to be a team with you, genuinely means it.

Someone who will cherish and look after your heart.

Because you are worthy of someone like this.

You are worthy of someone making you feel amazing.

Because you are worth it!

Wait for this person, and don’t settle for less than you deserve…

~ Mark

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Bravery Strong WomanArising – lRavenwolf

I wouldn’t really say that I’m the bravest soul out there.

In fact, there’s been a lot of times when I didn’t know what tomorrow would bring or where I was headed in life..

And that was very unsettling to me sometimes.

I’d pretend that I was okay with change and the unknown, but the truth was that it scared me to death.

I knew where I wanted to end up and who I wanted to be, but it was the path ahead that remained unknown.

I learned something along the way, though.

Bravery isn’t the absence of fear, but the decision to keep going despite being afraid..

And that’s exactly where I’m at.

I want to keep growing, evolving and becoming a better person..

I can see all the people saying I can’t change or focusing on all the things that I’ve done wrong and the bad choices I’ve made.

They’ll say that I can’t change, I won’t be able to accomplish my goals..

And what I’ve learned is that they don’t know me at all.

They’re too afraid to step outside their comfort zone and be brave in the ways that I’m choosing..

So they can’t fathom what I want and who I’ll become..

Because they’ll stay safe in their little worlds putting me down and criticizing me.

Let them.

I don’t need anyone’s permission and approval to find my wings and become the best version of myself.

They can have their empty dreams of material things and lackluster nights spent doing the same things over and over..

Never changing anything but the car they’re driving or the clothes they’re wearing.

I’m not here for such small dreams.

I want more.

I need more.

And one day, when I’ve finally figured out where I’m headed and well on my way to happiness and fulfillment..

I’ll just look back at the ones who never really believed in me at all.

“You said I couldn’t, right?”

I’ll just smile with pride..

“Watch me now.”

And I’ll never look back,

Because my dreams never had expirations…

and me?

I will keep proving to myself..

That each and every day,

I can be brave, strong and free,

Becoming more and more,

The person I’ve worked so hard to become.

|ravenwolf

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Plenty Love

“Dear Human:

You’ve got it all wrong.

You didn’t come here to master unconditional love. This is where you came from and where you’ll return.

You came here to learn personal love.

Universal love.

Messy love.

Sweaty Love.

Crazy love.

Broken love.

Whole love.

Infused with divinity.

Lived through the grace of stumbling.

Demonstrated through the beauty of… messing up.

Often.

You didn’t come here to be perfect, you already are.

You came here to be gorgeously human. Flawed and fabulous.

And rising again into remembering.

But unconditional love? Stop telling that story.

Love in truth doesn’t need any adjectives.

It doesn’t require modifiers.

It doesn’t require the condition of perfection.

It only asks you to show up.

And do your best.

That you stay present and feel fully.

That you shine and fly and laugh and cry and hurt and heal and fall and get back up and play and work and live and die as YOU.

Its enough.

It’s Plenty.”

– Courtney A. Walsh

Love is not enough

Love is not enough for a successful marriage. Love can be deceiving and may not be a reliable qualification for marriage. Love may bring happiness, but it does not necessarily provide the tools and skills needed to make a marriage work.

A successful marriage requires knowledge and understanding about how to live and commit to your partner. Understanding how to navigate the challenges of a committed relationship is a crucial element for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

Love can make us believe that we can overcome any obstacles in a relationship. However, the reality is that many divorced individuals were once deeply in love with their partners. This challenges the notion that love is what keeps a marriage together. Love alone does not guarantee success in marriage. While love brings happiness, it lacks the necessary ingredients to sustain a marriage. Knowledge is what truly makes a marriage work.

Many people enter into marriage solely based on their feelings of love, without considering the practical aspects and challenges of living with someone. Our culture places a strong emphasis on emotions, leading us to make impulsive commitments without considering the practical aspects of a long-term commitment.

To protect and sustain a marriage, individuals need to acquire knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment. This knowledge may include understanding effective communication, conflict resolution, compromise, and the ability to adapt to change. By possessing this knowledge, individuals can better equip themselves to build and maintain a successful marriage.

In conclusion, love is not the sole determinant of a successful marriage. Instead, knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a committed relationship is crucial for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

~Zugwai

(Inspiration from Dr Myles Munroe)

Encouragement

“One of the most beautiful gifts in the world is the gift of encouragement.

When someone encourages you, that person helps you over a threshold you might otherwise never have crossed on your own. There are times of great uncertainty in every life. Left alone at such a time, you feel dishevelment and confusion like gravity.

When a friend comes with words of encouragement, a light and lightness visit you and you begin to find the stairs and the door out of the dark.

The sense of encouragement you feel from the friend is not simply her words or gestures; it is rather her whole presence enfolding you and helping you find the concealed door. The encouraging presence manages to understand you and put herself in your shoes. There is no judgment but words of relief and release.”

✍️ John O’Donohue

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Out of comfort zones : Solar & Stellar Photons – Gillian MacBeth-Louthan

“Solar and Stellar Photons”

By Gillian MacBeth-Louthan

There are Profound and Intense Energies Happening at this time … The Energies that come forth are moving at millions of miles per second, coming forth from deep space and supernovas that turn into white holes. The stellar white hole pours itself forward into the center of our Sun’s Heart. These energies have no consciousness, they only have a mission to move throughout the cosmos and deposit their truths into living beings via the solar and stellar photons.

Humans are a hybrid being, composed of earth and stardust that came forth from deep space. These energies that come forth pouring into the human heart do so at the request of the universe; remember Divinity always reaches its Destination. Earth moves forward into more whitecaps of light penetrating the cell membranes of all livingness, moving our DNA towards a biological revival.

The dispersion of these energies as living photons of light come forth as interstellar rays with no physical barricades of any kind, dispersing their molecular intent into all areas of life from our secret moods to the ‘mean-girl weather patterns’ we have been experiencing. These energies are demanding and make you look at what you do not want to see. Like a personal trainer, they demand more of you than you think you’re capable of giving.

Each human being has an Achilles heel of sorts. These living photons of supercharged-light penetrate our inner Achilles heel deep, like an Immaculate Cosmic Conception. These incoming Cosmic bursts (in the form of CMEs, Solar Flares, etc.) will take you out of your comfort zone, making you look at genres that you never thought you would engage; bringing forth deep cellular memories of what needs to be completed in your earth journey.

(From Gillian’s newsletter for May 2024, on her website at thequantumawakening)

Vulnerability

The path to intimacy begins in the heart, and that requires surrender to vulnerability.

“An evolved woman wants a man who understands that intimacy is more than just sex.”

In order to truly love a man, a woman must feel and know his heart.

This can be an issue because boys are often raised to see vulnerability as a weakness (nothing could be further from the truth).

As a result, they grow up to become men who guard their hearts, closing them off from experiencing full and deep intimacy.

Vulnerability requires a great deal of courage (a masculine attribute), which comes from the Latin word ‘cor,’ meaning heart. Contrary to popular belief, the courage to live (and act) from the heart is a sign of bravery and masculinity.

And there is nothing an evolved woman loves more than a masculine man.

~Adina

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Discernment

“Tuning”

A Message from the Angels, through Ann Albers

So many times upon your planet Earth, you find yourself looking at the behavior of others and feeling your own vibration shift. You see someone acting angrily and find yourself upset or sad. You see someone you love suffering and feel anxiety arise from within. You see a happy child or smiling dog, and it is hard not to feel good, if only for a moment. The majority of you are easily influenced by the vibrations of others.

In days past, we often spoke of this phenomenon as “taking on” the energy of another. Now that you are learning more about your power of focus and how to tune your energy field, we can explain the dynamic of energetic interactions to you more accurately.

In truth, you don’t ever truly “take on” another person’s energy. No one can assert their energy into your field, no matter how strongly they desire your agreement. No one can dump “toxic” energy into your field, nor can anyone truly rob you of your own energy. Neither can anyone really “make” you happy. These are old paradigms based on passing one’s trash or treasure to one another! In reality, you are the tuner of your own reality, and you will always experience what you tune into.

Here is where human interactions become tricky. Someone with a very strong positive or negative energy can easily command your attention. You love motivational speakers, happy children, and enthusiastic puppies. Their often-high vibration makes it very easy for you to feel good. They provide a strong positive focus that resonates with your inner spirit.

Likewise, many of your singers and musicians have the power to inspire beautiful feelings within you. They are so attuned to the emotion or energy in their work that you can easily “vibe” with them and feel what they are feeling. They make it easy to tune into an emotion you desire. Many of you can listen to the same song repeatedly because your “happy tune” is like a “tuning fork” that makes it easy for you to focus on a happy vibration.

Tuning is also why you become so upset around people who are unkind, dishonest, or spewing anger. Of course, you know that these are not soulful behaviors, and we wouldn’t expect you to enjoy them. Given the choice, most of you would rather not be around them. But what upsets you, dear ones, is not the behavior itself but rather the disconnection it inspires within you.

If you were so strongly practiced in maintaining your connection to your own inner loving spirit, then even the most unthinkable souls would not be able to sway you. Instead, you would have a moment of compassion for these folks, tune them out, turn away, or ignore their nonsense and continue living in your own loving and happy vibration. In plain terms, you wouldn’t let their antics ruin your day.

Imagine you are out with friends, having a fantastic conversation, laughing, and sharing a good meal. You are all feeling wonderful. Suddenly, you hear an angry person in the restaurant or cafe complaining loudly about the world or someone in their life. At first, you try to ignore them. You might even feel compassion or shake your head in disbelief. You would likely turn back to the pleasant conversation with your friends.

However, this person clearly wants attention. They are making a point, and they want everyone to hear it. Their desire for attention and validation is so strong, that if your desire for a peaceful and happy evening is not stronger, you may find yourself giving in, tuning into their energy, and becoming upset.

You might say that his person ruined your evening and made you upset, but in truth, dear ones, what is upsetting you deeply is that you have innocently allowed this individual to command and control your attention. They have compelled your focus and, therefore, your vibration! Although you didn’t mean to, you have innocently allowed them to demand that you focus on them, In so doing, you enter the vibration of upset, and you get angry, too.

We know that, at first, it isn’t easy to maintain your connection to love and good feelings when someone around you is strongly negative, nasty, angry, or down. It is easy to feel cheerful when life and the people around you make it easy. It takes much more “mental muscle” to feel good when life and the people around you are not making it easy on you. Nonetheless, the more you practice, the easier it becomes, and the more you take charge of your own vibration.

So, in this example, suppose you start to notice yourself becoming upset at this individual’s ranting. In the moment you notice, you have a choice. Do I want to let this person command my attention, or do I want to choose how I focus? You might have to get a little creative. You might look at your food and comment about the delicious dinner. You might take a moment to give thanks that you are having a better evening than this poor soul. You might even make a little joke that this person never learned to use their “inside voice.” If you’re feeling very connected with love, you might even stop your conversation to have a moment of prayer for this person or to imagine them surrounded by soothing light. As you can see, there are many more options available than simply allowing them to ruin your evening.

A tougher example is when you watch someone you care about, who is not making the healthiest and happiest choices. They command your attention quite innocently because you love them. You want them to be happy and healthy and to know they are loved. Nonetheless, dear ones, you cannot control another person’s point of focus any more than they can control yours.

You can, however, raise your own vibration. You can permit yourself to enjoy life even before they are able to do so. In a vibration of caring for yourself and permitting yourself to be happy, the most loving words will flow through you to them, and the most inspired and truly helpful actions will arise from within.

So, rather than worrying about “taking on” energy or “polluting” someone else’s space, begin to think in terms of tuning. The strongest energy in the room usually commands your attention, but once you realize it is your attention to choose, you can start to choose love more often. You can choose to turn away from bad behavior. You can choose to witness the good in another as surely as a parent knows the good in their child even when the child is not exhibiting good behavior.

You are the masters of your own tuning and even the most negative, nasty, and upsetting individuals do not have the power to control your mind if you don’t let them. Practice, dear ones, makes it so much easier to choose your own point of focus.

One better feeling thought at a time. One small choice to focus on anything that soothes. One small moment at a time, you are learning to take back your God-given right to choose your focus and to feel the love that is always around you, even when others are not making it easy.

We know your world is riled up right now. It won’t remain that way forever. However, it is a good time to practice taking control of your own thoughts, your own focus, and your own feelings because even with the angry energies flying around you, you have the capacity to be in the world but not of it, and to live in your own happy reality, no matter what others choose.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.

~ The Angels

https://www.visionsofheaven.com/AAngels/newsletter_2024_0504.html

Grand Awakening

“What is the significance and purpose of the Grand Awakening?”

As you know, Earth lifetimes are about experiencing the range of emotions as you are connecting in with each other, forgetting who you truly are, but seeing each other as human. Seeing each other as brothers and sisters. Seeing each other as neighbors, co-workers. Seeing each other as different countries, different alliances, different languages. You have forgotten who you truly are, which is still all part of us, and as we have said before, you’re all part of Source at the same time, because you’re everything. Because at a soul level frequency signature, you still come (as we all have and all are) as Source love energy— the energy frequency that is observing itself and observing all experiences. And while you feel like you’re independent, while you feel like you’re on your own personal soul mission and journey, you’re doing it truly for the collective of all. So when one heals, you heal them all, as you have healed from your unique experiences, from accumulation of all other life experiences and all triggers and traumas and emotional responses and reactions.

We say to you, the Grand Awakening isn’t merely about noticing these control systems, it is to remember that your soul is here on a mission and a purpose.

(part of the message from the book “So, there’s THAT !”)

Remember Me

“When you remember me,

it means that you have carried

something of who I am with you,

that I have left some mark

of who I am on who you are.

It means that you can summon me

back to your mind even though

countless years and miles may stand

between us.

It means that if we meet again,

you will know me.

It means that even after I die,

you can still see my face

and hear my voice

and speak to me in your heart.

For as long as you remember me,

I am never entirely lost.”

🌙 Frederick Buechner

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