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A good man

When a man is good;

He never allows his flaws to destroy his family.

He never disrespects the mother of his children.

He never lets his weaknesses tear down his home.

He never allows his anger to burn down the bridges of love.

He never permits his fears to dictate his decisions.

He never enables his ego to silence his heart.

He never lets his pride get in the way of forgiveness.

He never allows his doubts to overshadow his faith.

Instead, he chooses to be a rock, a shelter, and a safe haven.

He chooses to be a guiding light, a beacon of hope, and a source of strength.

He chooses to love, to honor, and to respect.

He chooses to protect, to provide, and to nurture.

He chooses to be a good man, a good husband, and a good father.

Remember, family is a treasure…

Man with purpose

When entering a relationship, a woman should always ask about the purpose of the man she is considering. A man without vision is like a ship lost at sea—drifting aimlessly, reacting to every wave, and never setting a clear course. Without purpose, he will move through life without direction, unable to provide stability or leadership in a relationship.

A man will either chase you, find you, or walk beside you, but in all these cases, he must have a purpose for you. He must know why you are in his life, beyond fleeting desires or surface-level attractions. If he does not, he will treat you as just another passing moment rather than as a significant presence in his journey.

There are many types of men, and their purposes in relationships vary. Some seek comfort, a place to rest from the world’s burdens. Others seek physical satisfaction, driven by temporary passion. Some desire emotional security, looking for someone to heal the wounds they cannot tend to themselves. And then there are those who seek power, control, or validation through relationships, using love as a means to an end.

But the purpose of a man should not be limited to acquiring material wealth, buying cars, building homes, or achieving success in business. These are mere outcomes, not true purpose. A man’s purpose should be infinite—it should transcend his own needs and contribute to something far greater than himself. His purpose should be a force that nurtures, builds, and elevates everything around him.

A man with true purpose does not see a relationship as a way to simply fulfill his personal needs. Instead, he sees it as an opportunity to grow, to support, and to co-create something meaningful. He understands that his role is not just to take but to give, to cherish, and to build something lasting. His presence should bring peace, clarity, and strength to the woman beside him, not confusion or instability.

When a man is aligned with his purpose, everything else in his life flourishes—his work, his relationships, and even his personal growth. He does not wander aimlessly or fall into destructive patterns. Instead, he leads with conviction, knowing that his mission is greater than himself.

For a woman, it is crucial to recognize whether a man’s purpose aligns with her own values and vision. Does he see her as a companion in his journey, or merely as a convenience? Is he building something meaningful, or just existing without direction? The answers to these questions will determine whether the relationship is one of depth or one of mere survival.

A man with purpose will never make a woman feel like an option. He will never leave her questioning where she stands. Instead, his actions will reflect a deep sense of responsibility, care, and unwavering commitment. He will not just promise; he will prove his purpose through his consistency, his vision, and his ability to create a life where both partners thrive.

A woman should never settle for a man who does not have a higher calling. A man without purpose will inevitably lead both himself and his relationship into chaos. But a man with vision, discipline, and a true sense of purpose will create a foundation that is unshakable—a love that is not just about existing but about evolving, creating, and leaving a lasting impact.

So, when you enter a relationship, do not just ask how he feels about you—ask what he is building, what he stands for, and what his soul is devoted to. Because a man with a purpose is not just a lover; he is a force that transforms everything he touches.

– Abhikesh

Hit & Run Love – Osho

“Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.”

– Osho

Man who lies to himself

“A man who lies to himself, and believes his own lies becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in anyone else, and he ends up losing respect for himself and for others. When he has no respect for anyone, he can no longer love, and, in order to divert himself, having no love in him, he yields to his impulses, indulges in the lowest forms of pleasure, and behaves in the end like an animal. And it all comes from lying – lying to others and to yourself.”

✍️FYODOR DOSTOEVSKY

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A man’s job

A man’s job is to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can’t feel safe with you if you’re not leading properly.

A man’s job is to create a safe space for his woman emotionally, mentally, and physically. When he nurtures this environment, she feels secure and can trust in his presence. It’s not about being perfect, but about being reliable and intentional in how he shows up.

A man’s job is to communicate clearly and honestly. A woman needs to feel that she can trust his words and intentions. When a man leads with truth and openness, it sets a foundation of trust and respect that strengthens their bond.

A man’s job is to provide emotional stability. His calm and composed demeanor can anchor a woman when life gets overwhelming. By maintaining his emotional balance, he becomes a source of strength and comfort, allowing her to feel safe enough to be vulnerable.

A man’s job is to show affection and appreciation consistently. Women thrive on the little things that a man does to make her feel valued. Simple acts of kindness, compliments, and gestures of love reinforce her sense of security and emotional connection.

A man’s job is to handle conflicts with maturity. How he navigates disagreements sets the tone for the relationship’s overall health. By approaching conflicts with patience and a willingness to understand, he demonstrates respect for her feelings and fosters harmony.

A man’s job is to be a protector, not just physically but emotionally. Protecting her heart by being mindful of his actions and words is crucial. When a man prioritizes her emotional safety, she feels cherished and respected.

A man’s job is to lead with love and compassion. His energy and intentions impact the relationship’s emotional climate. By consistently choosing kindness, empathy, and care, he sets the standard for how they interact and grow together.

A man’s job is to inspire his woman to be her best self. His encouragement, belief in her dreams, and support in her endeavors empower her to reach new heights. By being her biggest cheerleader, he builds a partnership where both can flourish.

A man’s job is to remain consistent in his actions and promises. Consistency builds trust, and trust is the backbone of any strong relationship. When a man stands by his word, he creates a sense of stability that allows her to relax and fully open her heart.

A man’s job is to be present. Quality time, genuine listening, and undivided attention are powerful ways he can show up for her. Presence is more than physical proximity; it’s about being fully engaged in the moment, making her feel valued and seen.

  • Abhikesh

When man looses a good woman

A MAN THAT LOSES A GOOD WOMAN

will always feel a void in his life, I don’t care what these weak red pill men have to say.

A man that loses his woman, because he’s unable to defeat his pride, ego, sexual desires, & childhood trauma, is lost!

You lost a woman who was truly loyal to you because you couldn’t battle the darkness within your mind!

You lost the only person who truly loved you because you allowed a weak man to teach you that you were the prize.

I don’t give a DAMN about what a weak man has to say; love that woman or lose that woman and live a lifetime with regret because when a GOOD woman leaves you, she isn’t coming back!!

If your not going to keep it REAL, at least keep it REALISTIC.