Walk like a Goddess

Walk like a goddess

Even if you feel shy

Even if your bum jiggles

And your belly wiggles

Walk like a goddess

Even if your boobs are sagging

And your thighs are bagging

Hold your head up high

As you pass them by

Breathe deeply

Lengthen your spine

Imagine stars

falling

around

you

At every foot-fall

Be divine

Walk like a goddess

Cast the burden of your self-doubt

Away

like a cloak of shadows

And you’ll feel Fine!

~ Rebekah Myers, Walk Like A Goddess

copyright © by Rebekah Myers, 9/10/2021

Art: Tyler Feder, “Persephone”

@tylerfeder

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Super Nova Ascension Portal

Entering a Supernova Ascension Portal!

A deeper and more profound level of our divine purpose and work on earth is now birthing through us. But with it, a very ancient but also expansive cosmic level of detox is coming as well. This has been triggered by a star (sun) that has gone supernova in a distant galaxy in the Pinwheel Galaxy near the Big Dipper. Astronomers can already see this light. This light is reaching us now from 21 million light-years away. (For perspective… One light year is about 6 trillion miles long!) If we can see this light here and now, it also means we are being pummeled with new frequencies we have never felt before. Information, codes and memories from this star are flooding our earth and our bodies. The timing of this is auspicious, as on June 3rd, we are about to enter into the next 20 Core Day Ascension Portal Process magnified by incoming stellar frequencies. This is a Phoenix like cycle where the past must die away as we are reborn.

Cecilia Fenn posts about this supernova star. “If we are sensitive, we may have been feeling this major download of information as an “overload” of “stuff”. We may feel overwhelmed and unable to “keep up” because on the higher levels there is so much information flooding our record keeping systems. Secondly, we may also feel the “emotions” of the dying star as sadness, feelings of wanting to let go as well as feelings of joy as the light goes out into the Cosmos.”

The now late Tina Turner once said …. “We can turn our poison into medicine!” This is the cycle where we have a great opportunity to turn our lives into living medicine! We have been working diligently on letting go of out dated programs and beliefs. We have been rearranging our lives, our relationships and our service in the world. We are almost through the deepest part of the hard and exhausting work phase. Those who have had the courage to face their deepest shadows, over and over again, will be greatly rewarded. For this deep work will make this next phase much easier to navigate.

We all have a deeper wisdom and truth living within us now. Our intuition and gut instincts have become extremely refined. We are based more in unity than in division. We are loving more and fighting less. We are becoming more conscious of where we use our energy. We are feeding the light more than ever, and we are starving the darkness by our active inattention. We are already experiencing a deeper heart centered service arising on our work, and we are seeing this expanded heart service in our recent pilgrimages.

There will be those around us that have not had the grace and privilege to access their deep shadow work phase as yet. We should always lend a hand, or a shoulder, for those that are struggling. It’s time to show up, not to fix them, or to heal them, or to even advise them, but to HEAR THEM and let them know that this time is not forever. Put your loving compassion and wisdom to work when the situation arises. What we do for others, we do for everyone and for ourselves as well.

On June 3 (also the full moon) through June 22, 2023, we are entering the next 20 Core Day Ascension Portal Process — a Phoenix cycle, which will birth us into the future, but also detox us of our past. We must die to the past before we can be reborn in the future. We will grieve the past but also celebrate the present. This will be greatly accelerated and deepened by the light particles coming from the exploding star in the Pinwheel galaxy. What happens in the universe also happens within us. We are becoming a super nova! We have already feeling this. It is going to get deeper.

During the 20 Core Day Ascension Portal Process, humanity will travel through a cosmic chakra system, our kundalini system in time. These core days reprogram our very core and build new foundations. This time is powerful and deeply activating as we merge the past, present and future. This time is more powerful than the equinox, or a Class X magnitude solar flare. These days burn through us continuously for 20 days straight.

These 20 core days are center column of the modern day Mayan calendar. These days represents the spinal column of the human body, but also core of the Earth running from north to south. This triggers a deep transformation in our lives. This is our lives, traveling through time, through the center of a tube torus, like going through a black hole in the universe, through the eye of the needle, to be birthed into something brand new. We enter as a caterpillar but emerge out the other side as a butterfly, anchored in next higher frequency.

On these 20 days, that repeat every 260 days, we are greatly assisted by the cosmos with finely tuned frequencies designed just for this transfiguration process. Our inner work will be much more effective in upgrading our frequencies and thus empowering our spiritual and physical lives. It takes 20 days of our focus to recreate ourselves and anchor into the next higher frequency. It also can take 20 days of focus to re-pattern old habits or release outdated programs.

Our ascension process is a step by step process. It awakens us to the truth of our divinity, and our God given natural abilities. These 20 Core Days burn through all the illusions like a holy fire. They cleanse and purify our chakras of our past and present mis-creations and begin to create a new foundation for our future.

This cosmic energy descends to Earth from the great central sun and Great Creator / Hunab Ku. We can only guess at what the supernova Star energy is adding to this process. Every 260 days, these energies return over and over, but each time in an ever ascending and more powerful frequency. These 20 days will be pivotal and unique each time we go through this process. We will be pushed beyond our comfort zones, and discover we have no reserve energy to control the things that are not going forward with us. Yet, the Core days, if worked with conscious intent, can help anchor and manifest new frequencies into form.

These 20 powerful days are beginning on 6/3/2023. We are being asked to absorb this trial by holy fire, by raising our frequencies to contain more energy and light than ever before. We will be asked to discover a new equilibrium and anchor our higher self’s orientation point. It is a time to become self-empowered and protected guided by our inner truth, and not get distracted by crumbling old programs.

There will be 5 pulses of energy that will burn though 5 Mayan chakras: the crown, throat, heart, solar plexus and root chakras. Each pulse will contain 4 days each, and each day holds one of the 4 directions (east, north, west and south).

What happens during these 20 days is this. Fresh cosmic energy, coming from the great central sun, begins to descend into our physical body starting at our crown chakra. At the same time, newly upgraded energy, coming from the core of the Earth, begins to rise up into our physical body beginning at our root chakra. This process is very much like when a lightning bolt strikes the Earth. When a lightning bolt descends from the sky, the Earth’s energy also reaches up to meet the descending bolt. This merging point of descending cosmic energy, and the rising earthy energy, reach each other at a very powerful center point. . . our HEARTS! The heart is the center of centers. The holy of holies.

Then the new cosmic energy descending from the great central sun will continue down through our chakras until it is grounded within our physical body and anchored into the core of the Earth. Our ascending physical earth energy will also pass up through our heart and rise up through our crown and beyond until it reaches and anchors to the great central sun. We are literally building a bridge between heaven and earth through our human form.

Suggestions on how to work with

20 Core Day Ascension Portal Process.

The beginning of most traditional Mayan ceremonies begins with calling in, and sending love, to 7 cardinal points. Seven is also linked to the Pleiades and also from which this sacred cycle information came to indigenous cultures in the first place.

We can start each day with honoring these 7 directions at sunrise, with great love and humility.

Send your heart to Great Creator of all Life, to the Great Central Sun, to Hunab Ku and to Mother Earth…

Uk’ux Kaj – Heart of the Heavens

Uk’ux Ulew – Heart of the Earth

Then send your heart to the 4 Directions. (The directions as we know them, do not exist in other dimensions, or in outer space. But they are a necessity on planet earth. )

Relab’al Q’ij (East) FIRE – East is the heart of Life.

Uqajib’al Q’ij (West) WIND – West is the heart of the Spirit World.

Relab’al Kaq’iq’, (North) WATER – North is the Heart of Wisdom.

Uxkut Ulew, (South) EARTH – South is the heart of the material world / universal Earth.

Finish by sending your heart to the center in your own heart.

Heart of the Hearts, Heart of the center.

THE PULSES

The FIRST PULSE will be from 6/3 – 6/6/2023.

These are the days of 4 IMIX, 5 IK, 6 AKBAL and 7 KAN. This first phase will activate your crown chakra, from the Great Central SUN, and your root chakra, from the core of the EARTH. These days will initiate a great ocean of creation, breathe life into this process, release an immense wisdom from the depths of our inner temple, and plant a seed for the intent of this process. This begins the process of merging heaven and Earth within. If we are paying attention, we could experience flashes of enlightened consciousness, and we may feel quite elevated.

The SECOND PULSE will be from 6/7-6/10/2023.

These are the days of 8 CHICCHAN, 9 CIMI, 10 MANIK and 11 LAMAT. This second phase will activate our throat chakra from the descending cosmic energy, and activate your solar plexus from the elevating energy from the core of the Earth. These four days begin collecting foundational wisdom. We will begin to let go, like a death of the past, and align with pure healing creation activating and transducing wisdom into a useable form. We exit the mental world and enter the world of spirit.

The THIRD PULSE will be from 6/11 – 6/14/2023.

These are the days of 12 MULUC, 13 OC, 1 CHUEN and 2 EB. This third phase will activate our center point, our HEART, now in balance between the cosmos and the Earth. These days are initiated with the energy of the cosmic moon of creation. Information is refined through spirit in a way to make it accessible. Some deeper issues may be triggered with emotions and heightened sensitivity. We can either destroy or create within the vastness of the heart. It will begin a starting over process. Health will need attention.

The FOURTH PULSE will be from 6/15 – 6/18, 2023.

These are the days of 3 BEN, 4 IX, 5 MEN and 6 CIB. This fourth phase will now activate your solar plexus from the descending energies of the great central sun. It will also activate your throat chakra through the elevating energies from core of the Earth. These four days will begin with an activation called the pillars of light. It is where the Earth’s energy will begin to knit together with the energy from the great central sun. This phase will also be embedded with shamanic-like wisdom that is timeless. We will have access to higher forms of natural forces from the cosmos, and we will be able to anchor it into a more usable form on Earth. This is also where the real work will really start to kick in. Complex human relationships could feel unwieldy as we soar with broader vision and clarity about our service in the world. We will gain new boundaries that rise to a higher standard. This will trigger a more honest self-confidence, assisting us with being comfortable with authority figures without giving up personal power. During these days, we can learn to foster true community if focused upon.

The FIFTH PULSE and final phase will be from 6/19 – 6/22/2023.

These are the days of 7 CABAN, 8 ETZNAB, 9 CAUAC and 10 AHAU. This fifth phase will activate your root chakra from the descending energies of great central sun. It will also activate your crown chakra with the elevating energies from core of the Earth. These four days are the highest frequency of all 20 day signs, and they offer the most evolution, but they can also trigger the deepest work. Progressive and controversial creations could be birthed with strong convictions, but the challenge will be to hold it together. We might need space to face many new things that are reflecting back in the world mirror to us. If your focus is on community, we can develop cooperation skills instead of it having to be limited to self-interest vs self-sacrifice. Lightning flash clarity can come regarding accessing your own inner truth. We may be able to receive wisdom from physical or ethereal sources. We could be disappointed with unrealistic expectations triggered by our refined idealism. These are four very spiritual days where purification will rise to the forefront and even trigger our inner healer.

We have now absorbed the codes of the whole of creation, in a short amount of time, only 20 days. We may need to take some time to breathe and let it all anchor within. Don’t try to force yourself to understand anything at first, because when you do, you push the wisdom away. The need to understand comes from ego and the mind. Just allow the new frequencies to settle into your body, while the Great Central Sun and the core of the Earth anchor inside of you. Once you gain some time past these 20 days, you can look back and understand where you have grown and what transpired in these powerful days.

Keep in mind that these 20 core days could be viewed from many perspectives. There are layers within layers, and cycles within cycles, within infinite spherical time. This is only the front page of a huge book of knowledge that we all have access to. Keep your eyes and heart open. This is the energy we all walk though together.

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🌟 Egyptian Oils and the Ascension Portal.

If you have already ordered your pure Egyptian Oils, here is how to work these 20 days with the intent to merge the ascending energy, from the core of the Earth, with the descending energy, from the great central sun, into your heart in the most balanced possible way while still in a human space suit.

FIRST PULSE

For the ascending Root Chakra use Red Amber Oil.

(And / or with)

For the descending Crystal Chakra use Sakkara Flower Oil.

SECOND PULSE

For the ascending Solar Plexus Chakra use Jasmine Oil.

(And / or with)

For the descending Intergalactic / Divine Source Chakra use Golden Oil.

THIRD PULSE

For the ascending Heart Chakra use Rose Oil.

(And / or with)

For the descending Galactic / Star Gate Chakra use Frankincense Oil.

FOURTH PULSE

For the ascending Throat Chakra use Amber Cashmere Oil.

(And / or with)

For the descending Earth / Universal Chakra use Nile Flower Oil.

FIFTH PHASE (final phase)

For the ascending Crown Chakra use Lotus Oil

(And / or with)

For the descending Higher Self / Soul Star Chakra use Papyrus Oil.

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Child Abuse – Courts – Therapist Great Change Ahead – Childress PsyD

José Barros: “As for my vitae, if that matters to you, I’ve been a judge dealing with these cases for 9 years… I just deal with cases of domestic violence and child abuse everyday in my line of work for 9 years. Just today I had 3 of such IPV allegations cases to deal with.”

José Barros: “What I’ve said is that I’ve worked with 2 clinical psychologists in some cases where there was suspicion of pathogenic parenting, but that I can’t work with them in all such cases because those clinicians are not always available to work with the court. And they do not use Dr. Childress work because they don’t know it.”

This would be my advice to a judge in our legal system.

Your Honor, professional psychology is failing the Court – substantially failing. Professional psychology is failing the child and parent – and – professional psychology is failing in is obligation to the Court.

Because of that, judges are left making fateful decisions for the child without the proper or accurate mental health information regarding child abuse in the family.

The type of child abuse, psychological child abuse by a narcissistic-borderline-dark personality parent is subtle and immensely manipulative, Machiavellian levels of manipulation.

Do you know what a psychopath is? That’s a dangerously manipulative human. Add that to narcissistic personality pathology, the absence of empathy, the capacity for cruelty. To this toxic mix of pathology, add extreme manipulation… that’s the Dark Triad.

Add sadism for the Dark Tetrad. These personalities are the core of evil (Book et al.,

Book, A., Visser, B.A., and Volk, A.A. (2015). Unpacking ‘‘evil’’: Claiming the core of the Dark Triad. Personality and Individual Differences 73 (2015) 29–38.

Book, A., Visser, B.A., Blais, J., Hosker-Field, A., and Methot-Jones, T. (2016). Unpacking more “evil”: What is at the core of the dark tetrad? Personality and Individual Differences, 90, 269-272.

They are in the family courts. If you don’t see them… it’s only because they’ve escaped your view.

Children don’t reject parents – ever. If a child is rejecting a parent… there’s child abuse by one parent or the other. If, as a judge, you are not making a decision about which parent is abusive, you are participating in the child abuse by not protecting the child.

Leaving the child with an abusive parent allows the abuse to continue – that’s true of physical abuse – sexual abuse – neglect abuse – and psychological abuse. If you don’t protect the child, the child will be abused.

Protect the child from which parent? That’s the decision in every case of severe attachment pathology displayed by the child – which parent is placed on restricted access, which parent is abusing the child?

One of them is. That is the ONLY cause of severe attachment pathology. If you, as a judge, do not separate the child from one parent, the abusive parent, then you allow the child abuse to continue to the destruction of the child’s life.

All cases – 100% of the time when there is severe attachment pathology displayed by the child – one parent or the other is abusing the child because that’s the only thing that causes severe attachment pathology.

Which parent is the only diagnostic question.

Judges are not trained to identify (diagnose) pathology of this depth and nature – psychopathic – narcissistic – borderline – sadistic – is not proven at trial, it’s revealed in a proper clinical diagnostic assessment.

The pathology in the family courts is my world – psychology – trauma psychology and child abuse. The courts are not getting the proper information from professional psychology.

Who should diagnose the child abuse? All psychologists who work with the pathology.

There are three dangerous pathologies, suicide, homicide, and abuse (child, spousal, elder). Whenever a mental health professional encounters a dangerous pathology (suicide, homicide, abuse) duty to protect obligations require – require – that the mental health professional (all of them) conduct a proper risk assessment for the nature of the danger (suicide, homicide, abuse) or ensure that a proper risk assessment is conducted.

They all have that obligation – each and every one. If you are not getting a clear diagnosis of child abuse by one parent or the other, the doctors, the mental health professionals, are failing in their duty to protect obligations to the child – and they are failing in their professional obligations to the Court to inform the Court when there is child abuse present,

Because they are ignorant – incompetent – lazy – and unethical.

They are ignorant of knowledge they need to know to be competent. It’s not my job to teach them, it’s their job to already know. The knowledge I’m talking about is from the 1960s – Applied Behavioral Analysis, behavior-chains, stimulus control – from the 1970s – family systems, cross-generational coalition, emotional cutoff – from the 1980s – attachment, breach-and-repair.

They are lazy. If they don’t know as much as Dr. Childress, why not? Are they just lazy? Must be, or don’t they think they need to know any knowledge for what they do?

Is that acceptable to you, your Honor? Are lazy, ignorant, incompetent psychologists acceptable to you? It’s not to me. This is child abuse. They need to know what they’re doing… or they need to go work somewhere else.

That’s the standard I was trained to at Children’s Hospital. That’s the standard I train my interns and post-docs to. Competence means to know everything – everything – about the pathology and then read journals to stay current.

Is that too much to expect? No.

When possible child abuse is a considered diagnosis – which is it when a child rejects a parent – our diagnosis needs to be accurate 100% of the time. The consequences for the child of misdiagnosing child abuse are too severe.

My diagnosis is always correct – 100% of the time. Do you know why? Because misdiagnosis hurts people… a lot. I was trained as a pediatric psychologist at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, I worked as a pediatric psychologist on the medical treatment teams. That’s the standard of the medical doctors at Children’s Hospital – their diagnosis is accurate 100% of the time. That’s the standard I was trained to.

If I don’t know, I say “I don’t know” then I identify the information I need to know to know, and I obtain that information so I know.

When possible child abuse is a considered diagnosis, our diagnosis has to be accurate 100% of the time. My diagnosis is accurate 100% of the time because that’s what my child needs – so that’s what my child receives.

I’m not an expert, your Honor, not where I come from. I’m basic competence. I’m the floor, not the ceiling. If they don’t known as much as Dr. Childress, why not?

They’re just lazy.

Don’t try to teach a pig to sing, it just frustrates you and annoys the pig.

All psychologists have required – mandatory – ethical obligations to be competent (Standard 2.01) and to apply the established scientific and professional knowledge as the bases for their judgments (Standard 2.04) and they don’t care – they are unethical – lazy – ignorant – and incompetent.

Those psychologists that appear in your court – all of them – are lazy, unethical, ignorant, and incompetent. Is that acceptable to you, your Honor? It’s not acceptable to me.

I review their reports. That’s my consulting practice now. I make my living off of their ignorance, incompetence, and unethical practice. Where are the licensing boards? Nowhere to be seen. Why is that?

I may be reviewing the reports you receive from the psychologists in a matter. I will be applying the scientifically established knowledge of professional psychology to the information I review – I don’t have an “opinion” I apply knowledge.

I don’t have any “new theory” – I apply knowledge – attachment (Bowlby & others) – family systems (Minuchin & others) – personality disorders (Beck & others) – complex trauma and child abuse (van der Kolk & others) – child development (Tronick & others) – DSM-5 diagnostic systems (American Psychiatric Association).

I’m a clinical psychologist. I apply knowledge, I don’t create it. I’m not an expert, I’m basic competence. I’m not the ceiling, I’m the floor.

If they don’t know as much as Dr. Childress, why not?

2.03 Maintaining Competence
Psychologists undertake ongoing efforts to develop and maintain their competence.

It’s not my job to teach them, it’s their job to already know. It’s my job to hold them accountable… because my children need competence.

This is child abuse by one parent or the other. Which parent is the only question. They have duty to protect obligations. They are failing the child, failing the parent, and failing the Court.

I’ll be going after their licenses for their unethical and negligent malpractice, I document it in each line-by-line review I conduct on their reports. They report the symptom data, I apply the established knowledge – that reveals.

It’s not my job to teach them, it’s my job to get competent professionals for the Court. The failure is in psychology, in my people. This is my pathology, I’m a trauma psychologist out of foster care, this is the trans-generational transmission of trauma from the parent to the child, mediated by the personality pathology of the parent, the remnant of their unresolved trauma.

In all cases of severe attachment pathology surrounding child custody conflict, the diagnosis is child abuse – that’s the only thing that causes severe attachment pathology, the only question is… which parent?

Targeted Parent Abusive: Either the targeted parent is abusing the child, thereby creating the child’s attachment pathology to that parent (a 2-person attribution of causality).

Allied Parent Abusive: Or the allied parent is psychologically abusing the child (DSM-5 V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse) by creating a shared (induced) persecutory delusion and false (factitious; artificially created) attachment pathology in the child for the secondary gain of manipulating the Court’s decisions regarding child custody, and for meeting the pathological parent’s own emotional and psychological needs (a 3-person attribution of causality)

In all cases of severe attachment pathology surrounding custody conflict, a proper risk assessment needs to be conducted to the appropriate differential diagnosis for each parent.

I have no “new theory” – I apply knowledge, I don’t create it. They have obligations to the child, to the parent, to the Court. They are failing.

We need to not fail. The problem is us, professional psychology. Standards need to return. This is child abuse, we have duty to protect obligations. Competence is required, it’s not optional – Standard 2.01, Standard 2.04, Standard 2.03.

Your Honor, in every case of severe attachment pathology, if you are not protecting the child from one parent or the other… you are not protecting the child and the child is being abused.

If you do protect the child… and you’re wrong in identifying which parent, then you are not protecting the child and the child is being abused.

Your decision is immense. You need an accurate diagnosis returned from a proper risk assessment – by the psychologists – that’s our job. We are currently failing.

I’m working on that. My children need it and I have a duty to protect them… so I do.

If you’re a psychologist in the family courts, you need to be the best there is. This is child abuse. Know where you are. Know your obligations.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

Free- Current Energies

We are being freed on multiple levels now, deeply subconscious programming, cords, attachments to the old matrix of the 3D.

I was shown this a few days ago profoundly.

The cosmic energies now pouring in and directed by the company of heavens and the Golden Rainbow Fires are sweeping through our heads dismantling all which has ever been programned in there, or put in there, or attrached itself there without our permission throughout all lifetimes on earth.

I was shown a blinding white-golden Ankh and this being put in energetically into our heads and then dissolving all of these into the purest Godforce Light. The Ankh was always used as a tuning fork, a cosmic energy conductor, and in many other ways, we have forgotten about. This is working intensely with full and higher activation of our pineal, pituitary, hypothalmus and the the Ka gland above our heads, linking to our soul stars.

This is happening so that we are now literally being tuned into the higher dimensional frequency bands, stand fully in truth of who and what we are in truth, as the keys and codes within our higher soul selves are activated.

It enables us to access our higgest soul potential, without outside interverence from the old systems etc. no matter how hard some try to keep the status quo.

Of course souls have free will and choice. Some are choosing to remain unconscious.

A great transmutation is happening and is unprecedented.

Mother Mary is holding the immaculate conception of our new Lightbody form in her heart and soul for the whole of humanity. A rebirth in Divine Love and with Divine Love.

I AM THAT I AM!

Judith Kusel

http://www.judithkusel.com

Photo: Daniel Holeman

Choose YOU

Whenever someone acts cruelly, make a point to do something nice for yourself to neutralize it.

They’re giving you the silent treatment? Instead of waiting by your phone with a white-knuckle grip, make plans with friends, go see a movie, take a daycay, visit a family member, or go to the zoo.

Did they suddenly stop love-bombing you and went cold? So what? You can love-bomb yourself. Take yourself to a fancy dinner and order a glass of champagne. Deliver flowers to yourself. Take yourself to the salon and get your hair styled the way you like it.

Do they want you to feel small and ashamed? Instead of cowering under their glare or giving them the satisfaction, give them the ultimate Rhianna look of disgust. Look them in the eye and say, “And??”

These are all things I’ve done in past toxic relationships when I stopped jumping through hoops, auditioning for approval, and trying to make someone see how special I was.

But do you know what the ultimate power move is? Leaving. Cutting the anchor and sailing away.

It might not happen the same day or overnight, but it’s time to stop sacrificing your dignity for someone who doesn’t even deserve your attention.

Choose YOU.

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If you’re struggling with a relationship that’s making you sick, both physically and spiritually, the THRIVE program can help.

The true beauty of THRIVE is that it can be completed whether or not you’ve detached from toxic relationships. You may even reach a point where you are no longer terrified by the prospect of leaving your abusive or toxic relationships for good.

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Always thinking of you,

Kim xo

Light

“Those who understand the value of light have once sat in the darkest rooms. Those of greatest faith have once lived during trials when the angels were silent. Those who have found their calling have once lived in unimaginable emptiness. The most loving have been cruelly betrayed. Many who now live in abundance once had nothing. For these souls, the world was once a terrible place, not a home. In truth, the greatest have many times been the least.

These souls are alchemists. They have asked to die in their old traumatized selves and resurrect new ones. They know the darkness but give it no energy. They have become what they themselves once needed most. Light, and they know that’s how all the suffering will stop.” – Eden Atlantis ❤️

Shame

“The butterfly does not look back at the caterpillar in shame,

Just as you should not look back at your past in shame.

Your past was part of your own transformation.”

~ Anthony Gucciardi

~ Art Credit to Ali Oppy

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