Tag: consciousness

As time goes by

As time goes by,

You will loosen your grip on that rock,

The one you always thought was home,

And you will realize that home is not a place,

It’s a state of mind.

Let it go.

As time goes by,

You will learn to see yourself more clearly,

The girl who was always too much of one thing,

And too little of another, was actually

Everything she needed to be.

Let her out.

As time goes by,

You will let the simple things become the big,

And you will allow the big things to become the simple,

And that readjustment will be,

The day you really start to live,

Let it be.

As time goes by,

You will be forced to say goodbye many times,

And your soft little heart will shatter but,

It will still beat and that will bring you,

All the purpose you need.

Let it beat.

As time goes by,

You will stop choosing wealth over peace,

You will stop choosing money over time,

And you will see that the treasures you need,

Are in the smiles and the laughter.

Let them in.

As time goes by,

The moments you remember when your life flashes past,

Are never the awful memories my friend, it’s the joy,

The summer nights, the lazy days with loved ones,

The midnight chats and the morning hugs,

Let them happen.

Let them all happen.

✍🏻 Donna Ashworth

Restoring our feminine 🎁❤️

Beloved Ones,

We are moving into a powerful healing passage triggered by the Moon in Aries, in alignment with the Healer Chiron and the Aurora transmissions that we are embracing again. A time for us to heal, and honor the Divine Feminine within us. The aspect of us that connects from within with All That Is and has ever been, reconnecting us to the love, wisdom, and power that we all carry within and that is often hidden or ignored, following outer sources.

It is now time for us to reconnect to our female essence, allowing it to guide us to our new destination, for She knows the detours we need to take to be where will be for our highest good and that of All.

This passage is ruled by Scorpion energies, inviting us to move inward, as the only way to clear all that is keeping us from embodying higher levels of consciousness. Scorpio is a sign that is precisely about the descension of more love, wisdom, and power, something we can only achieve through stillness, clearing, and conscious integration.

This passage is an important one that introduces us to the energies of 2025, a year of conclusion, and beginnings, and a year that introduces many of you to the next level in your ascension journey: physical emancipation, something we all are working with, as we continue crossing the veils of illusions.

This time is one of deep introspection and liberation. My Guides remark on the importance of working on the embodiment of the female principle at this time, which reminds us that all is within and that all we wish to create, remember, or expand comes from this inner Divine Space.

As you reclaim the female within you, you too reclaim your wisdom, activating your mission as a Divine Feminine Wisdom Keeper, for many of you are here on a mission to retrieve the ancient wisdom of the feminine.

Many of you are descendants of the Aquamarine races coming from the Andromeda portal through Sirius B. Your assistance is key to helping seed the Female Codes now descending upon Earth plane, a mission supported by the auroras and scorpion energies, at a more physical level.

Scorpion frequencies will also assist us in clearing false timelines, programs, and especially our brain complex, from implants, and inserts, especially in the thalamus, and pineal gland, which connect to our thymus and Higher Heart.

Scorpion energies will facilitate this inner work, clearing our eight monadic chakras of false connections, especially false twin flames cords, which we create out of our romanticization of what an authentic twin reunion is, and the magic influences that many use to create energetic and psychic cords to keep us enslaved, energetically, mentally and emotionally, which occurs when we consciously and unconsciously give our power away to fear, and then to others who take advantage of us.

This is a time of great distillation, and stillness, as we adapt, as this Water sign does, to all the changes we are still embodying from the many planetary events, and above all, our God Self transmissions, and continue recalibrating and adapting ourselves to this new energy influx.

With Scorpio and the current Aurora transmissions, we are invited to restore the female, by moving inward and reconnecting with our God Source, without intermediaries, without outer false sources, and without anything that can diminish our power and inner guidance.

The process of Consciousness integration is achieved through the removal of all that no longer serves us, as this is how we allow a Higher Intelligence to manifest through us.

It is only then that all we wish to create, love, abundance, and expansion can occur in our physical reality, for we no longer are attached to false energies and sources that create for us.

During these last months of the year, it is time for us to clear separation, and the soul isolation that comes when we are fragmented from our soul, as we are moving towards an important year for us to conclude cycles, and start moving into physical emancipation, which can only be accomplished when we first let go of who we used to be, and embrace who we are now.

Our personal task at this time is to continue achieving energetic and spiritual sovereignty, being the only ones governing our bodies, minds, hearts, and lives.

May you continue living within Divine Love, Wisdom, and Power, Beloveds.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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Art: Pinterest

Guides transmissions: https://www.nataliaalba.com/p/spirit-guides-transmissions.html

Soul guidance: https://www.nataliaalba.com/p/soul-guidance.html

The gift of enough

The greatest gift anyone could give anyone is for the other to feel worthy, adored and more than enough for all that they are.

This is a gentle reminder that the people you surround yourself with in every direction should feel both uplifting and safe to your mind and heart.

Not confusing, not draining, not controlling, not vague, not calculating, not unreliable, not cold, not dismissive, and not manipulative.

Don’t mess around with the energy you take into your body and being, work wise, friendship wise, and relationship wise.

Life is too short and delicate for these damaging things.

It’s really that simple ..

Victoria Erickson 💫

✨Artwork by Sandra Bierman

Woman Fading Away

𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙈𝙚𝙣 𝘿𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙊𝙧 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙙𝙧𝙖𝙬 (𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙉𝙤, 𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜)⁣

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This has happened to almost every woman. You are dating this promising man who ticks all your boxes. You are messaging back and forth, having conversations that make your heart glow, and this healthy dose of physical attraction is going on. You might have already met for a coffee or two, or he wined and dined you in his favorite restaurant. You are over the moon and slowly but surely fall in love.⁣

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And then, out of the blue, he disappears off the face of the earth. He doesn’t answer your texts and ignores your phone calls. He ghosts you hook, line, and sinker.⁣

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It leaves you wondering, “Did I do something wrong?”⁣

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Let me be clear: if you didn’t throw tantrums, mooned him on the first date, or completely spooked him out by smashing all your fears and shadows in front of his feet in the first conversation, the answer is NO.⁣

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You did not do anything wrong.⁣

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A man’s self-worth comes from his ability to provide happiness for you. When he starts dating you, he wants to feel validated as a good partner, and he does this by trying to please you.⁣

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So a man might woo you and take you to the most romantic places in town. He’ll excel and surpass anything to be captivating, intelligent, funny, and seductive – Mr. Perfect himself! Because your happiness justifies his worth as a potential romantic partner.⁣

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But….

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⁣… men’s brains are not wired like women’s, which are wired to efficiently understand and process deep emotions. As a woman, you can tell super fast how you feel about a relationship. A man’s ability to tune into his feelings is much less adept.⁣

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Long story short? It takes a man longer to figure out how he feels about you, exactly because of his brain… but also because of his heart.⁣

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Men are very protective, almost guarded, of their hearts. Although men are predominantly depicted as the strong sex, they are incredibly vulnerable and have to be treated gently.⁣

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In his world, a guarded heart is a safe heart. It takes care of him, guards him against harm, and always has his best interests in mind.⁣

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On the other hand, it can also become a heart that does not feel as much, is controlling, and won’t let go of its reins. It even can become, due to disappointments in the love department, a selfish and egocentric heart eventually… a hard heart.⁣

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Not consciously, of course. It’s done out of fear of pain, rejection, and not being validated as a good man.⁣

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So what happens next? ⁣

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They disappear. Or withdraw. Yes, there is a significant difference.⁣

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Disappearing is mostly permanent.⁣

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Men disappear while pursuing you when they, out of the blue, have the revelation that they do not want to be long-term with you. They might not be into you all that much, after all. Or they believe their freedom will vanish into thin air and simply refuse to commit. They might even get scared of the direction the fresh connection is heading in. And poofffff…. gone they are.⁣

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Disappearing is the easy way out. Most men who disappear are avoiders. ⁣

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Withdrawing is mostly temporary, and men do this for many reasons.

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According to a man’s logic, he mostly wants to be in control of the relationship and where it is heading, but he is unwilling to share the control. When he feels forced into making a too swift commitment, he might withdraw to be with his feelings and figure out what he wants.⁣

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He is afraid that he is not good enough for you. He only wants to make you the happiest woman on this earth, and when he feels he cannot give you this, even if it’s only a fraction, he might retreat to his cave. It’s better to be ahead of possible rejection, right?⁣

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And he gets tangled up in his emotions. Sometimes, an inside-out beautiful woman can release so many contradictory feelings in a man that he might be overwhelmed by all these sensations. Instead of opening up and communicating, he’ll probably withdraw to process everything at his own pace.⁣

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Men who withdraw are not always avoiders. They are hurt, insecure about their feelings, in doubt, scared, or guarded.⁣

I’m not saying you must be okay when you feel ignored or ghosted.⁣

I’m not saying you must constantly pretzel yourself around all his emotional quirks.⁣

And I’m definitely not saying you must keep waiting for an unavailable guy.⁣

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I simply say that when you feel a mutual, honest connection, giving “your guy” some space to digest, withdraw, and come back stronger and more transparent than before would be constructive.⁣

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Remember that this process in men goes in layers, just like yours. So he will be present and withdraw, be present and withdraw.⁣

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A fantastic man out there will adore you for holding this space for him. And when you find him (or he finds you), he will gladly do the same for you.⁣

Real love is a gift

The truth is, the deeper you know someone, the more exposed their flaws become. It’s not a flaw in itself—it’s simply human nature. As you strip away the surface, you see the cracks, the scars, the rough edges we all try so hard to hide. That’s when the romanticized version of love meets reality. And yes, this is where many relationships falter, where marriages unravel, where friendships fade. The illusion of perfection shatters, and suddenly, you’re confronted with a real person—flawed, complicated, and imperfect.

But this is also where love begins. True love doesn’t exist in the absence of flaws; it exists in the full light of them. Love isn’t just the fluttering of hearts or the comfort of companionship when everything is easy. It’s what happens when things get messy, when life gets hard, when you see someone at their worst and still choose to stand by their side. That’s where the depth of love is revealed. It’s easy to say you love someone when they’re happy and thriving, but the test of love is how you respond when they’re struggling—when they’re out of money, when they’re stressed beyond measure, or even when they’re hungry and cranky. These moments show us the true face of love.

Because love, real love, is not just a feeling. It’s a choice. It’s a commitment, day in and day out, to serve someone, to be present with them, to walk through life with them, even when their imperfections are glaring. Love is patient, not because it’s easy to be patient, but because it understands that growth takes time. Love is kind, even when kindness requires effort and sacrifice. It is deliberate, intentional, and persistent. It doesn’t waver at the first sign of trouble but stands firm, knowing that the journey is worth it.

Yes, love is hard. Love is not the fairy tale we often imagine—it’s much more real, and much more rewarding. Love is pain because it requires vulnerability. It’s sacrifice because it asks you to put someone else’s needs alongside your own. It’s seeing someone’s darkness—their fears, their insecurities, their anger—and choosing not to run away. When you see the worst in someone and still choose to stay, you are practicing a love that defies the easy path.

We are all human, and that means we are all flawed. But love is the choice to look past those flaws, to see the person beneath, and to say, “I see you, in all your complexity, and I still choose you.” This is what makes love powerful, what makes it transformative. It’s not about perfection; it’s about acceptance. It’s about choosing, every day, to show up for someone, even when it’s difficult.

So yes, love is hard. But it’s also beautiful. Because when you choose to love someone despite their flaws, you’re not just offering them love—you’re offering them grace. And in that grace, you both grow, you both heal, and you both become stronger.

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Letting me Go

You chose to let me go,

Ignoring my needs, disregarding my soul.

Your actions spoke louder than words,

Leaving me no choice but to distance and heal.

Don’t come crawling back,

With regretful tears and sorrowful sighs.

You can’t miss what you didn’t value,

What you carelessly discarded, like a fading light.

You’re not entitled to my presence,

After tearing our connection, leaving only silence.

You can’t long for what you broke,

What you shattered, leaving my heart to ache.

Your choices had consequences,

Leaving me no option but to move on.

I won’t be your convenience,

Your emotional crutch, your safety net gone.

Respect my boundaries,

Let me heal without your guilt.

You had your chance,

But chose to let me go, into the night.

I’m moving forward,

Leaving the past, where you’ll remain.

Memories fade,

And I won’t look back.

I’ve found my strength,

My voice, my way.

You’re just a memory,

Fading away.

Closure is mine,

This is goodbye.

A chapter closed,

A new life to apply.

By~ 𝓙𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓷𝓮𝔂 𝓸𝓯 𝓛𝓲𝓯𝓮

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Consideration be4 Leaving

Deciding to leave a relationship or marriage is a deeply personal and often challenging choice. Here are key indicators that may suggest it’s time to consider ending the relationship:

**Immediate Deal-Breakers:**

– Any form of physical or emotional abuse.

– Infidelity without a willingness to address or resolve the issue.

– Substance abuse issues without an effort to seek help.

– Experiences of neglect or abandonment.

– Severe financial exploitation.

**Red Flags:**

– Ongoing dishonesty or manipulation.

– Emotional detachment or unavailability.

– Poor communication and conflict resolution skills.

– Disrespectful behavior or contempt.

– Refusal to address issues or seek assistance.

**Long-Term Signs:**

– Continual feelings of unhappiness or resentment.

– Absence of intimacy or emotional connection.

– A toxic or unfulfilling relationship dynamic.

– A sense of feeling trapped or suffocated.

– Lack of growth or progress in the relationship.

**Personal Indicators:**

– Emotional exhaustion or feeling drained.

– Loss of personal identity or autonomy.

– Persistent unhappiness or lack of fulfillment.

– Unsuccessful attempts to resolve issues.

– Feelings of unsafety or lack of support.

**Marriage-Specific Signs:**

– Irreconcilable differences.

– Diverging values or life goals.

– Absence of mutual respect or trust.

– Chronic conflict or frequent arguments.

– Living as roommates rather than partners.

**When to Leave:**

– If your well-being is at risk.

– After unsuccessful attempts at counseling.

– If boundaries have been set without any change.

– When you feel emotionally detached.

– Upon realizing you deserve a healthier relationship.

**Before Leaving:**

– Consider seeking professional counseling.

– Openly communicate your concerns with your partner.

– Establish and communicate clear boundaries.

– Assess your emotional readiness for such a decision.

– Think about a trial separation as an option.

**After Leaving:**

– Focus on self-care and healing.

– Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist.

– Prioritize personal growth and development.

– Rebuild your sense of identity.

– Reflect on the relationship and learn from the experience.

Making this decision requires careful consideration of your circumstances and well-being.

#fwd

#relationship

Come home to the forest

Come home to the forest

Where time goes slow,

and breath is mellow.

Where thoughts find rest,

and calm comes to nest.

Come home to the woods

to be friends with trees,

and and listen to the breeze.

to wander through trails,

and mend your sails.

Come home to nature

When your heart is hurting,

or your soul needs healing.

When something feels wrong,

or you just need place to belong.

The forest awaits

Come home. Be healed ..

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Bidushee Phukan 🍂

Artist Credit : Leonie Verbrugge

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True love is a gift

It’s easy to flirt,

easy to cheat, and easy to take what you want. 😏

But finding someone who’s truly sincere, honest, and consistent?

That’s rare. 💎

If you’re lucky enough to have that kind of love in your life,

cherish it. Don’t take it for granted. 💖

Don’t play with their heart,

don’t toy with their feelings. 💔

Because in the end, when they’re gone,

you’ll regret every moment you didn’t appreciate them.

True love is a gift,

and once it’s gone, you’ll realize just how precious it was. 🌹

Hold on to the person who chooses you every day,

who stays loyal, and who loves you with all they have. 💑

Don’t make the mistake of letting something so rare slip away.