Solstice

Today is Winter Solstice. At noon, the sun will appear at its lowest altitude above the horizon. The name solstice means “Sun stands still.” In the Northern Hemisphere, the sun hugs closer to the horizon than at any other day during the year, yielding the least amount of daylight annually.

Winter Solstice is the great stillness before the sun’s strength builds, and days grow longer. Worldwide, interpretation of Winter Solstice varies from culture to culture but many cultures have held a recognition of rebirth, involving holidays, festivals, gatherings, rituals or other celebrations around this time.

Winter Solstice is a time to rest and reflect. It’s the fruitful dark from which new life can emerge. The darkness itself is the spiritual cradle into which the sun is reborn. Everything lies dormant in the silent night, a sacred time of rest before the awakening, and the slow build toward longer days.

The longest night is a fruitful time for setting intentions, to be birthed with the newborn sun. The Winter Solstice presses us to consider and reconcile the realities of darkness and light. Albert Camus wrote, “In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.”

In Latin, solstice is made of two words: ‘sol’ meaning “the sun”; and ‘sistere’ meaning “to make stand.” Winter Solstice is one the most powerful points of the year as the axis of the Earth pauses, shifts and moves in the opposite direction. For three days around the solstice event we experience the power of the standstill point and the shift of direction.

The sun standing still is a powerful metaphor for the energy available to us at the Winter Solstice to change the direction of our lives with intention and build on this energy as we enter into the new year. After experiencing the longest night and darkest day, the nights grow shorter and the days grow brighter until the Summer Solstice.

Perhaps today you will be compelled to be still and investigate the parts of yourself you have been hiding in the darkness, and offer them the light of your acknowledgement and acceptance. The shadow is the greatest teacher for how to come to light. Let the sun of your resistance stand still for you to explore the root cause of your own suffering, to take on the personal work necessary to heal a deep wound or repair your relationship with yourself. Consider creating a small ceremony or symbolic act to accompany your new intention and resolve. Light a candle each day to honor the process of your own rebirth.

Albert Schweitzer wrote, “At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.” Winter Solstice is also a time to remember that each of us is a light one to another. Our actions of compassion, care, solidarity, and loving-kindness helps spark the flame of hope within others during one’s darkness.

Jim Palmer

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Winter Solstice

“The winter solstice time is no longer celebrated as it once was, with the understanding that this is a period of descent and rest, of going within our homes, within ourselves and taking in all that we have been through, all that has passed in this full year which is coming to a close… like nature and the animal kingdom around us, this time of hibernation is so necessary for our tired limbs, our burdened minds.

Our modern culture teaches avoidance at a max at this time; alcohol, lights, shopping, overworking, over spending, comfort food and consumerism.

And yet the natural tug to go inwards as nearly all creatures are doing is strong and the weather so bitter that people are left feeling that winter is hard, because for those of us without burning fires and big festive families, it can be lonely and isolating. Whereas in actual fact winter is kind, she points us in her quiet soft way towards our inner self, towards this annual time of peace and reflection, embracing the darkness and forgiving, accepting and loving embracing goodbye the past year.

“Winter takes away the distractions, the buzz, and presents us with the perfect time to rest and withdraw into a womb like love, bringing fire & light to our hearth”.

.. and then, just around the corner the new year will begin again, and like a seed planted deep in the earth, we will all rise with renewed energy once again to dance in the sunlight.

Life is a gift a Happy winter to you all…”

Beautiful words of remembrance by brigitannamcneill

With love

Fiona

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Exquisite painting by Kerry Darlington

Longest day & night

The ancestors of all ancient solar traditions share a similar message about the longest day and night. Here in the northern hemisphere, we are about to experience the longest night and the return of the light. Solstice is an opportunity to embrace all hidden aspects within ourselves. It’s a moment to gather the courage to confront our shadows, illusions, and denials and dive deeper into self-discovery. This is a time for brutal honesty with oneself, free from resistance or expectations. There is nothing to fear in the shadow. The enlightenment we seek is hidden in the very shadows we avoid. We have entered a solar transformational portal, a cocoon of transformation. Just as the worm has no knowledge of its impending glorious transformation into a beautiful butterfly, we, too, are on the brink of our own beautiful metamorphosis.

The ancient ones built sacred sites worldwide to remind us of this important time. I’m certain this time is much more important than we realize. Many ancient sites were built to honor the winter solstice, among other purposes we have yet to remember. In England, the setting sun can be seen between the pillars of Stonehenge. Watch the live celebration here … https://www.youtube.com/live/3zzIJivapL0?si=h6kFXjrAWb1bnowg. In Ireland, a tomb mound called Newgrange, which predates Stonehenge, was built to illuminate the burial chamber for 17 minutes at dawn. In Egypt, the temple of Karnak aligns with the winter solstice. These ancient ones, our ancestors, who built these incredible monuments, did not want us to forget that we are the EARTH, the STARS, and the SUN.

🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼 Many solstice blessings are on their way to you. I am deeply grateful for your generous support of my work. Aluna Joy

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Beautiful Painting by Toshiyuki Enoki

Truths

“I will be truthful with you and you with me, and we will find ourselves in this knowing.

People think that intimacy is about sex.

But intimacy is about truth.

When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them and their response is “you’re safe with me” – that’s intimacy.”

( ✍️ Taylor Jenkins Reid )

Art : Tomasz Alen Kopera

Narcissist Secret Lives

OMG

Let me count the ways

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will always be another secret life going on behind your back.

This is because these people are very empty, and they need stimulation from multiple sources just to face existence. They’ll be doing drugs or pornography. They’ll be stringing multiple partners through flirting and emotional affairs. They will be chasing financial intrigue that occasionally gets them into scams and trouble.

The reason they must flirt with other people is also because they’re seeking to move on to other people who don’t know the games they play.

They know they’ll get bored with you eventually, or you’ll learn to resist their shenanigans. And since being alone would kill them, they begin to groom possible replacements among anyone whom they can charm.

You’ll also notice this habit of making promises to you and then using those promises as a dangling carrot to get compliance from you. If you don’t do what they want, they’ll withdraw the promise.

Sometimes, they’ll deny having promised at all, or they postpone it until you give up. The truth is that they never intended to fulfill it in the first place.

Narcissists have lost all sense of right and wrong. Everything is about satisfying themselves.

When you finally leave, they’ll circle back to you, pretending to be checking on you when actually they’re checking if they still have access.

If you have a child with them, they would weaponise that child to torture you until you cut them off totally or you manage to enforce boundaries with the help of the law.

But the child will be scarred or wasted by the counter parenting and objectification from the narcissist.

Society knows very little about narcissists.

Sometimes, you stay because you fear the pain of letting go until you realize the pain you’re already taking for holding on.

Other times, you think you’re staying for the children until you realize that the narcissist is turning all of them into other small narcissists and broken empaths.

Your solution is to recognize that this person is incapable of peace. They’re only excellent at pretending and confusing you.

You will never have a life until you detach from them and direct your life towards wholeness and emotional stability.

Mother Christmas

At this time of the year, the Winter Solstice, a patriarchal theft by the Church is revealed by the concept of “Father Christmas.” It was stolen from the indigenous shamanic cultures primarily from Siberia and the Nordic countries of Northern Norway, Finland (Lapland), and the Arctic Circle.

Long before Santa and his flying steeds, it was the female reindeer who drew the sleigh of the sun goddess at the Winter Solstice. It was when the pagan traditions of winter were “Christianized” that “Father Christmas” was born.

It was never “Father Christmas” that brought gifts and the return of light at the Winter Solstice—it was “Mother Christmas,” the ancient Deer Mother of old. It was she who once flew through winter’s longest darkest night with the life-giving light of the sun in her horns.

And from the British Isles, Scandinavia, Russia, Siberia, across the land bridge of the Bering Strait, she was a revered spiritual figure associated with fertility, motherhood, regeneration and the rebirth of the sun (the theme of winter solstice).

Her antlers adorned shrines and altars, were buried in ceremonial graves and were worn as shamanic headdresses. Her image was etched in standing stones, woven into ceremonial cloth and clothing, cast in jewelry, painted on drums, and tattooed onto skin.

Reindeer were often shown leaping or flying through the air with neck outstretched and legs flung out fore and aft. Her antlers were frequently depicted as the tree of life, carrying birds, the sun, moon, and stars. And across the northern world, it was the Deer Mother who took flight from the dark of the old year to bring light and life to the new.

Sorry Rudolph, but the male reindeer shed their antlers in the winter, it is only the doe who retains her antlers as she is the one who leads the herds in winter. Ever since the early Neolithic period, the female reindeer was venerated by northern people. She was the “life-giving mother,” the leader of the herds upon which they depended for survival, and they followed the reindeer migrations for milk, food, clothing and shelter.

One of these cultures that honored the “life-giving mother, “the Deer Mother was the Sami.

For the Sami, the indigenous people of the Nordic countries, Beaivi is the name for the Sun Goddess associated with motherhood, the fertility of plants and the reindeer. At Winter Solstice, warm butter (a symbol of the sun) was smeared on doorposts as a sacrifice to Beaivi so that she could gain strength and fly higher and higher into the sky. Beaivi was often shown accompanied by her daughter in an enclosure of reindeer antlers and together they returned green and fertility to the land.

Many other winter goddesses in northern legends were associated with the solstice. They took to the skies led by a bevy of flying animals. One tells of the return of Saule, the Lithuanian and Latvian goddess of the sun. She flew across the heavens in a sleigh pulled by horned reindeer and threw pebbles of amber (symbolizing the sun) into chimneys.

While many historical explorations of the pagan origins of Christmas observe the link between Santa’s garb and the red and white amanita mushroom ingesting shamans, few mention that it was the female shamans who originally wore red and white costumes trimmed with fur, horned headdresses or red felt hats! The ceremonial clothing worn by medicine women healers of Siberia and Lapland, was green and white with a red peaked hat, curled toed boots, reindeer mittens, fur lining and trim.

Considering that most of the shamans in this region were originally women, it is likely that their traditional wear is the true source for Santa’s costume. And it is also very likely that they were the first to take shamanic flight with the reindeer on winter’s darkest night.