Relationship truths

The intentional deceits, continued indiscretions, many known by friends and family who remained silent and or just disappeared.

I’m at peace with not being connected to anyone who doesn’t authentically want to connect with me deeply . That’s a place for one , no thirds , no left overs , no more imbalanced relationships .

One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt.

In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new to fill the void. But there comes a moment, often when it’s too late, that you realize certain people are irreplaceable. The unique essence they bring to your life, the way they understand your soul, and the connection you share cannot be duplicated. No matter how many new faces you meet, the bond you had with that one special person—be it a friend, a partner, or even a mentor—was singular. And losing that connection leaves an imprint that no one else can fill. It’s only when they’re gone that the weight of their absence truly sinks in, and the harsh truth hits: the same person does not come twice in a lifetime.

We often hurt those closest to us without fully realizing the magnitude of the damage. In moments of frustration, anger, or pride, we say things, do things, or fail to do things that cut deeply into the hearts of those who care about us. And we assume that apologies, time, or distance will heal everything, that life will go on, and there will always be another chance to make things right. But what if there isn’t? What if the person you hurt is the one whose presence you’ll never be able to replace? The one whose laughter, whose love, whose companionship was meant to walk with you through life’s trials and joys? The truth is, not everyone is replaceable. Some souls touch ours in ways that forever change us, and to lose them is to lose a piece of ourselves.

Be careful who you hurt.

There’s a reason this warning feels so profound. Hurting someone isn’t just about breaking trust or causing momentary pain; it’s about altering the course of a relationship that may never recover. And while we often think we have time to mend what’s broken, the reality is that sometimes, we don’t. Time doesn’t always heal; sometimes, it only widens the gap between two hearts that once beat in sync. The wounds we inflict in moments of carelessness or neglect can run deeper than we imagine. Words said in haste or actions taken in selfishness have a way of echoing in the minds of those we hurt, long after the moment has passed.

Not everyone will give you another chance. Not everyone will be there waiting for you to come to your senses, to apologize, to grow. Some people, once they’ve been hurt, once they feel betrayed or unloved, will quietly walk away. And when you realize what you’ve lost, it will be too late. The space they occupied in your life will remain, but their presence, their light, their love, will be gone. You’ll search for them in others, but you’ll never find the same soul, the same connection, the same magic.

So, be mindful of your words. Be intentional with your actions. Recognize the people who truly matter in your life and treat them with the care they deserve. Love them fully while they’re still within your reach, because one day, you may realize just how rare they are—and by then, they might be gone. Life is fleeting, and relationships are fragile. Don’t let pride, ego, or carelessness ruin something beautiful.
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Strength

“There is a kind of secret strength.

It lives in you and no one, not even you, knows it’s there.

It lives inside you, waiting for the day it’s needed, waiting for the darkest hour of the darkest night. And then, when you are defeated, when your heart is so broken you don’t know if it can ever be put back together again, it whispers,

“Hello. You don’t know me. But I am here.”

— lain S. Thomas

[ Art • “Gorgon Medusa • Mirror of Memory” by Lilia Osipova ]

As time goes by

As time goes by,

You will loosen your grip on that rock,

The one you always thought was home,

And you will realize that home is not a place,

It’s a state of mind.

Let it go.

As time goes by,

You will learn to see yourself more clearly,

The girl who was always too much of one thing,

And too little of another, was actually

Everything she needed to be.

Let her out.

As time goes by,

You will let the simple things become the big,

And you will allow the big things to become the simple,

And that readjustment will be,

The day you really start to live,

Let it be.

As time goes by,

You will be forced to say goodbye many times,

And your soft little heart will shatter but,

It will still beat and that will bring you,

All the purpose you need.

Let it beat.

As time goes by,

You will stop choosing wealth over peace,

You will stop choosing money over time,

And you will see that the treasures you need,

Are in the smiles and the laughter.

Let them in.

As time goes by,

The moments you remember when your life flashes past,

Are never the awful memories my friend, it’s the joy,

The summer nights, the lazy days with loved ones,

The midnight chats and the morning hugs,

Let them happen.

Let them all happen.

✍🏻 Donna Ashworth

Restoring our feminine 🎁❤️

Beloved Ones,

We are moving into a powerful healing passage triggered by the Moon in Aries, in alignment with the Healer Chiron and the Aurora transmissions that we are embracing again. A time for us to heal, and honor the Divine Feminine within us. The aspect of us that connects from within with All That Is and has ever been, reconnecting us to the love, wisdom, and power that we all carry within and that is often hidden or ignored, following outer sources.

It is now time for us to reconnect to our female essence, allowing it to guide us to our new destination, for She knows the detours we need to take to be where will be for our highest good and that of All.

This passage is ruled by Scorpion energies, inviting us to move inward, as the only way to clear all that is keeping us from embodying higher levels of consciousness. Scorpio is a sign that is precisely about the descension of more love, wisdom, and power, something we can only achieve through stillness, clearing, and conscious integration.

This passage is an important one that introduces us to the energies of 2025, a year of conclusion, and beginnings, and a year that introduces many of you to the next level in your ascension journey: physical emancipation, something we all are working with, as we continue crossing the veils of illusions.

This time is one of deep introspection and liberation. My Guides remark on the importance of working on the embodiment of the female principle at this time, which reminds us that all is within and that all we wish to create, remember, or expand comes from this inner Divine Space.

As you reclaim the female within you, you too reclaim your wisdom, activating your mission as a Divine Feminine Wisdom Keeper, for many of you are here on a mission to retrieve the ancient wisdom of the feminine.

Many of you are descendants of the Aquamarine races coming from the Andromeda portal through Sirius B. Your assistance is key to helping seed the Female Codes now descending upon Earth plane, a mission supported by the auroras and scorpion energies, at a more physical level.

Scorpion frequencies will also assist us in clearing false timelines, programs, and especially our brain complex, from implants, and inserts, especially in the thalamus, and pineal gland, which connect to our thymus and Higher Heart.

Scorpion energies will facilitate this inner work, clearing our eight monadic chakras of false connections, especially false twin flames cords, which we create out of our romanticization of what an authentic twin reunion is, and the magic influences that many use to create energetic and psychic cords to keep us enslaved, energetically, mentally and emotionally, which occurs when we consciously and unconsciously give our power away to fear, and then to others who take advantage of us.

This is a time of great distillation, and stillness, as we adapt, as this Water sign does, to all the changes we are still embodying from the many planetary events, and above all, our God Self transmissions, and continue recalibrating and adapting ourselves to this new energy influx.

With Scorpio and the current Aurora transmissions, we are invited to restore the female, by moving inward and reconnecting with our God Source, without intermediaries, without outer false sources, and without anything that can diminish our power and inner guidance.

The process of Consciousness integration is achieved through the removal of all that no longer serves us, as this is how we allow a Higher Intelligence to manifest through us.

It is only then that all we wish to create, love, abundance, and expansion can occur in our physical reality, for we no longer are attached to false energies and sources that create for us.

During these last months of the year, it is time for us to clear separation, and the soul isolation that comes when we are fragmented from our soul, as we are moving towards an important year for us to conclude cycles, and start moving into physical emancipation, which can only be accomplished when we first let go of who we used to be, and embrace who we are now.

Our personal task at this time is to continue achieving energetic and spiritual sovereignty, being the only ones governing our bodies, minds, hearts, and lives.

May you continue living within Divine Love, Wisdom, and Power, Beloveds.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

nataliaalba.com

Art: Pinterest

Guides transmissions: https://www.nataliaalba.com/p/spirit-guides-transmissions.html

Soul guidance: https://www.nataliaalba.com/p/soul-guidance.html

The gift of enough

The greatest gift anyone could give anyone is for the other to feel worthy, adored and more than enough for all that they are.

This is a gentle reminder that the people you surround yourself with in every direction should feel both uplifting and safe to your mind and heart.

Not confusing, not draining, not controlling, not vague, not calculating, not unreliable, not cold, not dismissive, and not manipulative.

Don’t mess around with the energy you take into your body and being, work wise, friendship wise, and relationship wise.

Life is too short and delicate for these damaging things.

It’s really that simple ..

Victoria Erickson 💫

✨Artwork by Sandra Bierman

Woman Fading Away

𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙈𝙚𝙣 𝘿𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙊𝙧 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙙𝙧𝙖𝙬 (𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙉𝙤, 𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜)⁣

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This has happened to almost every woman. You are dating this promising man who ticks all your boxes. You are messaging back and forth, having conversations that make your heart glow, and this healthy dose of physical attraction is going on. You might have already met for a coffee or two, or he wined and dined you in his favorite restaurant. You are over the moon and slowly but surely fall in love.⁣

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And then, out of the blue, he disappears off the face of the earth. He doesn’t answer your texts and ignores your phone calls. He ghosts you hook, line, and sinker.⁣

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It leaves you wondering, “Did I do something wrong?”⁣

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Let me be clear: if you didn’t throw tantrums, mooned him on the first date, or completely spooked him out by smashing all your fears and shadows in front of his feet in the first conversation, the answer is NO.⁣

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You did not do anything wrong.⁣

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A man’s self-worth comes from his ability to provide happiness for you. When he starts dating you, he wants to feel validated as a good partner, and he does this by trying to please you.⁣

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So a man might woo you and take you to the most romantic places in town. He’ll excel and surpass anything to be captivating, intelligent, funny, and seductive – Mr. Perfect himself! Because your happiness justifies his worth as a potential romantic partner.⁣

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But….

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⁣… men’s brains are not wired like women’s, which are wired to efficiently understand and process deep emotions. As a woman, you can tell super fast how you feel about a relationship. A man’s ability to tune into his feelings is much less adept.⁣

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Long story short? It takes a man longer to figure out how he feels about you, exactly because of his brain… but also because of his heart.⁣

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Men are very protective, almost guarded, of their hearts. Although men are predominantly depicted as the strong sex, they are incredibly vulnerable and have to be treated gently.⁣

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In his world, a guarded heart is a safe heart. It takes care of him, guards him against harm, and always has his best interests in mind.⁣

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On the other hand, it can also become a heart that does not feel as much, is controlling, and won’t let go of its reins. It even can become, due to disappointments in the love department, a selfish and egocentric heart eventually… a hard heart.⁣

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Not consciously, of course. It’s done out of fear of pain, rejection, and not being validated as a good man.⁣

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So what happens next? ⁣

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They disappear. Or withdraw. Yes, there is a significant difference.⁣

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Disappearing is mostly permanent.⁣

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Men disappear while pursuing you when they, out of the blue, have the revelation that they do not want to be long-term with you. They might not be into you all that much, after all. Or they believe their freedom will vanish into thin air and simply refuse to commit. They might even get scared of the direction the fresh connection is heading in. And poofffff…. gone they are.⁣

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Disappearing is the easy way out. Most men who disappear are avoiders. ⁣

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Withdrawing is mostly temporary, and men do this for many reasons.

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According to a man’s logic, he mostly wants to be in control of the relationship and where it is heading, but he is unwilling to share the control. When he feels forced into making a too swift commitment, he might withdraw to be with his feelings and figure out what he wants.⁣

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He is afraid that he is not good enough for you. He only wants to make you the happiest woman on this earth, and when he feels he cannot give you this, even if it’s only a fraction, he might retreat to his cave. It’s better to be ahead of possible rejection, right?⁣

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And he gets tangled up in his emotions. Sometimes, an inside-out beautiful woman can release so many contradictory feelings in a man that he might be overwhelmed by all these sensations. Instead of opening up and communicating, he’ll probably withdraw to process everything at his own pace.⁣

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Men who withdraw are not always avoiders. They are hurt, insecure about their feelings, in doubt, scared, or guarded.⁣

I’m not saying you must be okay when you feel ignored or ghosted.⁣

I’m not saying you must constantly pretzel yourself around all his emotional quirks.⁣

And I’m definitely not saying you must keep waiting for an unavailable guy.⁣

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I simply say that when you feel a mutual, honest connection, giving “your guy” some space to digest, withdraw, and come back stronger and more transparent than before would be constructive.⁣

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Remember that this process in men goes in layers, just like yours. So he will be present and withdraw, be present and withdraw.⁣

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A fantastic man out there will adore you for holding this space for him. And when you find him (or he finds you), he will gladly do the same for you.⁣

Men who withdraw emotionally

𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙈𝙚𝙣 𝘿𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙊𝙧 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙙𝙧𝙖𝙬 (𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙉𝙤, 𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜)⁣

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This has happened to almost every woman. You are dating this promising man who ticks all your boxes. You are messaging back and forth, having conversations that make your heart glow, and this healthy dose of physical attraction is going on. You might have already met for a coffee or two, or he wined and dined you in his favorite restaurant. You are over the moon and slowly but surely fall in love.⁣

⁣

And then, out of the blue, he disappears off the face of the earth. He doesn’t answer your texts and ignores your phone calls. He ghosts you hook, line, and sinker.⁣

⁣

It leaves you wondering, “Did I do something wrong?”⁣

⁣

Let me be clear: if you didn’t throw tantrums, mooned him on the first date, or completely spooked him out by smashing all your fears and shadows in front of his feet in the first conversation, the answer is NO.⁣

⁣

You did not do anything wrong.⁣

⁣

A man’s self-worth comes from his ability to provide happiness for you. When he starts dating you, he wants to feel validated as a good partner, and he does this by trying to please you.⁣

⁣

So a man might woo you and take you to the most romantic places in town. He’ll excel and surpass anything to be captivating, intelligent, funny, and seductive – Mr. Perfect himself! Because your happiness justifies his worth as a potential romantic partner.⁣

⁣

But….

⁣

⁣… men’s brains are not wired like women’s, which are wired to efficiently understand and process deep emotions. As a woman, you can tell super fast how you feel about a relationship. A man’s ability to tune into his feelings is much less adept.⁣

⁣

Long story short? It takes a man longer to figure out how he feels about you, exactly because of his brain… but also because of his heart.⁣

⁣

Men are very protective, almost guarded, of their hearts. Although men are predominantly depicted as the strong sex, they are incredibly vulnerable and have to be treated gently.⁣

⁣

In his world, a guarded heart is a safe heart. It takes care of him, guards him against harm, and always has his best interests in mind.⁣

⁣

On the other hand, it can also become a heart that does not feel as much, is controlling, and won’t let go of its reins. It even can become, due to disappointments in the love department, a selfish and egocentric heart eventually… a hard heart.⁣

⁣

Not consciously, of course. It’s done out of fear of pain, rejection, and not being validated as a good man.⁣

⁣

So what happens next? ⁣

⁣

They disappear. Or withdraw. Yes, there is a significant difference.⁣

⁣

Disappearing is mostly permanent.⁣

⁣

Men disappear while pursuing you when they, out of the blue, have the revelation that they do not want to be long-term with you. They might not be into you all that much, after all. Or they believe their freedom will vanish into thin air and simply refuse to commit. They might even get scared of the direction the fresh connection is heading in. And poofffff…. gone they are.⁣

⁣

Disappearing is the easy way out. Most men who disappear are avoiders. ⁣

⁣

Withdrawing is mostly temporary, and men do this for many reasons.

⁣

According to a man’s logic, he mostly wants to be in control of the relationship and where it is heading, but he is unwilling to share the control. When he feels forced into making a too swift commitment, he might withdraw to be with his feelings and figure out what he wants.⁣

⁣

He is afraid that he is not good enough for you. He only wants to make you the happiest woman on this earth, and when he feels he cannot give you this, even if it’s only a fraction, he might retreat to his cave. It’s better to be ahead of possible rejection, right?⁣

⁣

And he gets tangled up in his emotions. Sometimes, an inside-out beautiful woman can release so many contradictory feelings in a man that he might be overwhelmed by all these sensations. Instead of opening up and communicating, he’ll probably withdraw to process everything at his own pace.⁣

⁣

Men who withdraw are not always avoiders. They are hurt, insecure about their feelings, in doubt, scared, or guarded.⁣

I’m not saying you must be okay when you feel ignored or ghosted.⁣

I’m not saying you must constantly pretzel yourself around all his emotional quirks.⁣

And I’m definitely not saying you must keep waiting for an unavailable guy.⁣

⁣

I simply say that when you feel a mutual, honest connection, giving “your guy” some space to digest, withdraw, and come back stronger and more transparent than before would be constructive.⁣

⁣

Remember that this process in men goes in layers, just like yours. So he will be present and withdraw, be present and withdraw.⁣

⁣

A fantastic man out there will adore you for holding this space for him. And when you find him (or he finds you), he will gladly do the same for you.⁣

Real love is a gift

The truth is, the deeper you know someone, the more exposed their flaws become. It’s not a flaw in itself—it’s simply human nature. As you strip away the surface, you see the cracks, the scars, the rough edges we all try so hard to hide. That’s when the romanticized version of love meets reality. And yes, this is where many relationships falter, where marriages unravel, where friendships fade. The illusion of perfection shatters, and suddenly, you’re confronted with a real person—flawed, complicated, and imperfect.

But this is also where love begins. True love doesn’t exist in the absence of flaws; it exists in the full light of them. Love isn’t just the fluttering of hearts or the comfort of companionship when everything is easy. It’s what happens when things get messy, when life gets hard, when you see someone at their worst and still choose to stand by their side. That’s where the depth of love is revealed. It’s easy to say you love someone when they’re happy and thriving, but the test of love is how you respond when they’re struggling—when they’re out of money, when they’re stressed beyond measure, or even when they’re hungry and cranky. These moments show us the true face of love.

Because love, real love, is not just a feeling. It’s a choice. It’s a commitment, day in and day out, to serve someone, to be present with them, to walk through life with them, even when their imperfections are glaring. Love is patient, not because it’s easy to be patient, but because it understands that growth takes time. Love is kind, even when kindness requires effort and sacrifice. It is deliberate, intentional, and persistent. It doesn’t waver at the first sign of trouble but stands firm, knowing that the journey is worth it.

Yes, love is hard. Love is not the fairy tale we often imagine—it’s much more real, and much more rewarding. Love is pain because it requires vulnerability. It’s sacrifice because it asks you to put someone else’s needs alongside your own. It’s seeing someone’s darkness—their fears, their insecurities, their anger—and choosing not to run away. When you see the worst in someone and still choose to stay, you are practicing a love that defies the easy path.

We are all human, and that means we are all flawed. But love is the choice to look past those flaws, to see the person beneath, and to say, “I see you, in all your complexity, and I still choose you.” This is what makes love powerful, what makes it transformative. It’s not about perfection; it’s about acceptance. It’s about choosing, every day, to show up for someone, even when it’s difficult.

So yes, love is hard. But it’s also beautiful. Because when you choose to love someone despite their flaws, you’re not just offering them love—you’re offering them grace. And in that grace, you both grow, you both heal, and you both become stronger.

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Wake up : we are all the same

Christ consciousness is not about religion, Jesus did not want people to create a religion dedicated to him, he wanted to teach people to be like him – an awakened being who radiates unconditional love and raises the frequency of this world.

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🌈 Is God and the secret of our enlightenment hidden in our DNA? Are these the truths the ascended masters are trying to teach us?

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You have mastery in your DNA. You own the tools that the greatest masters of this planet have. Did you know that? Look back to the past. Who is your favorite master in history? Remember that they are a Human! Some might say, No. They were superhuman beings. One of them was even the son of God. Absolutely, and didn’t he say you were too? Didn’t he make an effort to tell you how strong you are? They are only Humans who can activate the tools in their spiritual toolbox… just like you have. You are him. Now what about you? You can say, I can’t do this. I can never become a master, because that is far beyond me. Well, now that’s your free choice, right? Since that’s what we’re talking about, like so many times. Man decides for himself what he wants to be, how big he wants to be. This is the puzzle before you; You have the ability to discover your role in the cosmos… or to choose not to discover…

Kryon

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Reaching the Level of the Messiah

Initiation – Transcending – DNA Changes – Embodied Rays – Energetic Change

1—Physical Mastery No Mastery of Physical Abilities Original Innate Ray Unnoticeable

2—Emotional Mastery No Mastery of Emotional Habits Original Innate Ray Unnoticeable

3—Mental Body Mastery No Mental Body Mastery The Original Innate Ray Is Unnoticeable

4—Renunciation or Crucifixion Spiritual path takes precedence None Original Innate Ray Unnoticeable

5—Liberation from Blindness New-found Awareness and Orientation No Original Innate Ray Unnoticeable

6—Physical Ascension Unconscious and Astral merge None All Monad Incarnate Lightbody activated

7—Physical Transcendence New Chakra system is born None Entire Monad Incarnate Total 11 Chakras

8—Transcending Solar Laws The cocoon personality is integrated. Strands 3–8 are connected Entire Monad Incarnates Heart becomes 3 Chakras

9—Transcending Universal Laws 7 Universal law transcending 9th strand connects Entire Monad Embodies Lightbody and Aura expands

10—Sorcerer Birth, Structure and Wisdom are integrated 10th strand is connected 1st, 2nd and 3rd Ray monads are embodied and merged Lightbody and Aura expand

11—Seacher Harmony, Passion, and Creativity are integrated 11th strand connects 4th, 5th, and 6th Ray monads are embodied and merged Lightbody and Aura expand

12—Cosmic Ascension • Information is integrated with others

• All physical subplanes are combined 12th strand is connected 7. Ray monad is embodied and merged with 1-6 • Lightbody and Aura expand

• The Auric Field turns Magenta.

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To bring Earth and humanity to the 5th dimension and to a star state would require 1% of the population, or 60 million people, to have reached the “Christ” level. Of this number, 20% or 12 million will embody the “Vibrational Servant” state, 10% or 6 million will embody the “Enlightenment” state, and 5% or 3 million will embody the “Independence” state. These numbers will create the vibrational pyramid that will elevate humanity to the 5th dimension.”

Cosmic Hierarchy via Karen Danrich

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You can all be a master. You can all live as a Christ. You can live as an ascended being who has overcome death. You all have this potential for immortality. You have even more potential because you have the knowledge about it.

Ramtha

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When you truly understand that there is no teacher to teach you, no savior to save you, no guru to tell you what to do, you will have to do everything yourself.

Life itself is a teacher.

Wisdom is not in the books; The beginning of wisdom is self-education.

No more teacher, no student, no leader, no guide, no master, no savior…

You yourself are both a student and a teacher; that is, you are the master, the guide, the leader.

You are everything! And understanding this is change!

J Krishnamurti

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Don’t look for your savior outside. Your Savior Master sleeps deep within his own Self. Only you can awaken it and set it free. Everyone holds the Christ Consciousness.

You just need to realize it.

Yılm@z Özgen

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