Why Narcissist give the worst gifts

Absolutely true . One year he gave me a very nice watch ; my best friend had been gifted one … he followed that pattern.

Blue suitcase set , portable dishwasher , I really don’t recall unique of thoughtful gifts . I anticipated grandchildren and asked for a rocking chair ; received a glider/rocker. .

Sadly he was too occupied in his own world to green anything personally going on in mine .

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Signs of manipulation

15 SIGNS YOU’RE BEING MANIPULATED:

1. They never apologize, even when they know they’re wrong.

2. They always make excuses or give empty promises.

3. They use your weaknesses against you.

4. They prioritize others but treat you like an option.

5. They try to control you.

6. They use guilt trips.

7. They twist your words to benefit themselves.

8. They shut down and get defensive instead of talking.

9. They project their feelings onto you.

10. They gaslight you to create self-doubt.

11. They give you the silent treatment.

12. They lie constantly.

13. They leave you feeling crazy and confused.

14. They always make you feel like you’re walking on eggshells.

15. They always play the victim.

Recognizing these signs is the first step to taking back control. You deserve respect, kindness, and healthy relationships.

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Marriage – A sacred bond πŸ’―

As a man, protecting your wife from your parents and siblings is essential, but in the context of your marriage, your wife must come first. It is your primary responsibility to shield her from toxic individuals, even if they happen to be your family members.

As a husband, it is your home and your wife. Do not stand by and watch as others create tension within it. If you allow them to break your home, the same people will eventually use your failure against you.

Marriage is a sacred bond, and as a man, you must place your wife at the center of your priorities. When you marry, you commit to creating a life together, and that means protecting that life from any threats, no matter where they come from.

Your role as a man is not just to love your wife but also to ensure her emotional and mental well-being. This includes standing up for her when she is mistreated, even by those closest to you.

Many men struggle to balance loyalty between their family of origin and their wife. However, you must understand that your loyalty now primarily lies with the family you are building with your spouse.

As a husband, protecting your wife does not mean disrespecting your family. It means setting healthy boundaries that ensure mutual respect and harmony. A strong man knows how to communicate these boundaries with firmness and love.

Failing to defend your wife in the face of toxic behaviors from your family sends a message that she cannot rely on you. Over time, this can erode trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage.

Toxic behaviors, such as constant criticism, interference, or manipulation, should not be tolerated from anyone, regardless of their relation to you. As a man, love for your family does not justify letting them harm your marriage.

It is your responsibility to ensure that your home is a sanctuary of peace for your wife. She should feel safe, valued, and cherished within your relationship, free from unnecessary conflicts or judgments.

Remember that your parents and siblings may not always understand or agree with your decisions, but that does not mean their opinions should dictate your marriage. As the leader of your home, you must stand with your wife as an equal partner.

By protecting your wife from harmful dynamics, you are also setting a powerful example for future generations. Your children, if you have them, will learn what a healthy and respectful marriage looks like.

As a man, a successful marriage requires unity. Stand with your wife, face challenges together, and make it clear to the world that your bond is unbreakable. The strength of your marriage depends on your ability to prioritize and protect it.

– Abhikesh

144 Cells

144,000 Light Warriors

144 Eternal Cells

ASCENSION :

🧬 Unlocking/Upgrade πŸ”“

Instant Awakening, Upgrade/Revealed bandwidth of light (abilities, truth, knowledge etc covered by the Veil), Chakra Portals getting aligned and unblocked, Soul retrieval, Healing, Expansion, Elevation, Quantum Entanglement with Cosmos. . . Everything is instantly solved… Light codes from space, X-flares 🌞, πŸŒ™, πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈπŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ

πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š and we’re(us and Gaia) getting assistance from empty space alot of light code blast, solar flares and moon retrogrades getting way intense now days. Divine Will/Time has come!πŸ€— As earth/Gaia already in 5D and originals getting integrated.

– Carbon body>Crystalline/Krystol>Plasmic>SSS Rank stuff πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Stay focused πŸ’š

Awakening :

Realising you’re beyond what you thought/indoctrination/body/relations/procession/position. Awareness of beyond Gross/Matrix/ 3D/4D(main,12th D total), Experience the reality beyond what previously as if you’re been like looking at the world through a keyhole. May have Multiple Awakening in a lifetime. Breakthrough to new dimensions within oneself.

Spirituality | Light Warriors:

Finding one’s own truth/ Seeking God/Source from ones own Direct Experience to be liberated from ones own illusion/suffering/Veil/False programming/False Indoctrination. Religions are HOW people from the past connect to divinity/cosmos/multiverse/God/guru within. It needs a software update not a downgrade to a pub πŸ˜‚

STARSEEDS:

Extraterrestrial/Intergalactic Being Descendants from other solar system/planets/Universe

Usually higher Dimensions 5D and above. You know who you are. If you don’t it’s okay. Time will unreveal or not but one should be In tune, InTouch and INNERstand Truth direct from Source through The Portal of Heart chakra πŸ’š

– some might find difficult to adjust to Gaias dense AF experience πŸ˜‚

Stay Strong Fam πŸ’ͺ

NPC :

Copies of Original , scattered energy, Agents of Matrix, great Assist for main/originals πŸ˜‚ or

hell’s agent for those who hadn’t done any energy cultivation/alignment/ you get the point. Nothing to worry too much about for light warriors/starseeds who’s working on their own Ascension. NPC basically Sheep that follows the crowd, but hey Imagine what happens when critical mass reached and all quantum jumped into 5D Golden Age Gaia timeline 🀩 unimaginable peaceful, loving, and innocent society.

Enlightenment | Mukthi | 4D/5D &+ :

Depending on stages of Realization or % clearing of the Veil. Knowledge of the laws of the universe including past lives(evolution or descent from extraterrestrial to terrestrial, even experience all the way from Source) , how things are or what’s ALL THAT IS. REALITY is Perceived Clearly. Clarity in Purpose of Life πŸ™ … People who sees without being told or when told. Which one are U? Third one who’s even after being pointed at where and what to look still can’t see? Basically not ready or not in this state yet.

Summary: those who sees/experience truth/reality, or similar with Awakening.

Liberation | Samadhi | Moksha | Self Realization | Nirvana | Elevation | Ascended Master | Quantum Entanglement with Gaia/Cosmos/Multiverse/Ascended Masters | 5D :

Mastered all lessons; complete alignment/mastery of all bodies(Gross human, subtle(astral, subtle, illuminated, dark, light, emotional, Causal etc etc), Co-creatorship Stature as long as body is retained. Some higher levels Can choose to leave the gross body, take birth in Gaia or any solar system/universe at will. May not need to eat/sleep as much as solar energy/pranas/bandwidth of light is accessible easy.

For those who are eligible/qualified/Ascended to be in QE with an Ascended Master/Multidimensional Intergalactic Being/Cosmos One may not know, feel or have extraordinary abilities/awakeness/awareness but you are One and already ONE and taken cared completely. You’re All That IS. Further practice in Stillness+Silence and if possible in Stargates/portal/Gaias chakra Center/Vortexes/Portal/Maha Samadhi of Saints/Concentrated/Concegrated pure energy and high frequency centres one may further access to knowledge/abilities/tools for more fun here 🀩 remember how neo was flying and smoking sheet up as he likes? Alot of ancient saints,sages, extraterrestrial had already reached/at the stage with eternal body, πŸ‘οΈ all seeing eye, Multidimensional capacity like omniscient, omnipresence, omniscience, Omnipotence etc they don’t put it in plain sight(movies) for no reason. Anything in your wildest imagination can be done.

– like an average Joe but you are Joyful One Everytime πŸ˜‚ / Main character in the Movie/Matrix. Many synconicity; good people πŸ€— stars βœ¨πŸ¦‹ animal, 1111, 963…

Summary : those who not only see the truth from the other side and had to play the act and go through the storyline but already crossed the river to the intended shore and are able to manipulate/take charge of life/lives/creations from all concept/solar system/multiverse/

Chosen ones/Originals will or should know this by now! Time has come!!!βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨πŸ€—

Supreme Consciousness | Super Consciousness | Christ Consciousness | 6D &/++

– Currently 12 Stationed in Gaia

– Avatar of the Subtlest/Causal Consciousness. Co-creator/Creator in gross/flesh and blood/carbon like projection but subtly already crystalline/plasma/highly Ascended/🧬 is fully Upgraded body.

– Divine Grace /Divine Will / Cosmic Timeline.

– Can cause Activation to Awaken others!

– Your/their Presence itself is highly Activating and/or Stabilizing others. Not limited to one individual but up to multiple including inanimate beings and non manifested beings.

– Self Realization is OWN EFFORTS! Congratulations πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ , Supreme Realization/Consciousness is purely by Divine Will / Cosmic Will / All That IS / Father himself.

– May appear to be a commoner you’d not pay attention to unless Eligible for QE / Part of the Mission/Lineage/…? It’ll be revealed to you.

Any information may be contradictory to others due to different definitions, concept and timeline. Feel free to share yours. Critical thinking is a good thing. Fear mongering is discouraged, Keep it to yourself! Criticizing and not offering any constructive advice/direct experience isn’t going to help anyone but reflecting on your trauma you need to overcome.

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Gratitude

Nowness/Present in the moment

Truth

Authenticity

Acceptance of Current Reality

Active ✨ Action/Speech etc towards your Goal

Helps in receiving more light codes/connection with universe as the third eye πŸ‘οΈ is accessible through the Uncalcified one.

May all focus on πŸ’šπŸ™πŸ’šπŸ€—

May all ASCEND to Path of Purity πŸͺ·

The Alienated Child -Charlie McCready

It’s painful for the alienated child when they realise they’d put their trust in a parent who didn’t entirely have their best interests in mind, they were mostly thinking of themselves. They were being childish, vengeful and selfish when as a parent they’d have been expected, and trusted to be emotionally mature, mentally balanced, nurturing, and unconditionally loving.

Coming to terms with being manipulated, lied to, and deprived of a relationship with a loving parent can be a challenging process for an alienated child. It often involves recognising and acknowledging what really happened, which can evoke feelings of anger, sadness, and betrayal. Healing and reconciliation requires support from people who understand parental alienation. They can gradually gain insight into the dynamics at play and develop a healthier perspective on the situation. It is essential for the child to separate their own identity and emotions from the alienating parent’s influence, allowing them to reclaim their autonomy and make informed decisions about their relationships. Ultimately, the healing process involves finding ways to rebuild trust, establish boundaries, and create a fulfilling life that includes a sense of love and connection with both parents, regardless of the alienating parent’s actions.

A significant amount of programming of false beliefs and fictions need to be untangled so they can move on with their life as a sovereign, happy, healthy-minded individual who is free to love who they choose, not only who their alienating parent allows them to love.

Alienated children need to be immensely brave and strong to break free, but they can and do. Some cut ties with the alienating parent; some find a way to have both parents in their lives, which was always the best

When they come back

Sometimes when people come back saying that they miss you, they’re confessing that they’ve discovered that no one can love them the way you did.

They once took you for granted and treated your love like a common thing. Then they tried replacing you, and they were shocked at how impossible it was.

Now they’re crawling back, hoping you’re still stuck where they left you and you’re desperate enough to allow them back.

Whenever people return, always remember how they left.

The way someone treats you when they no longer need you is a true reflection of how much they respect you.

When you feel like you miss that connection, just remember the disrespect.

You may not have moved on to another person, but you have moved onto something more important. That’s self-respect!!

Just because you’re not with someone doesn’t mean you’re still vacant.

You’re a complete person by yourself, and you have the right to take your time to heal and regroup.

If someone else has been flipping one relationship after another, it just shows how uncomfortable they are by themselves.

If they need so much support just to face existence, they have a deeper problem.

Never become the plug-in when someone has failed at replacing you.

They will never value you, and their resentment towards you will multiply because, in a sense, you’ll have beaten them.

They will continue looking while still with you. You’re basically a placeholder. Eventually, they’ll leave you for people who don’t challenge them to change or grow.

In short, it’s also self care when you shut your doors to inconsistent people. You may have a history with them, but when they prove themselves unworthy of where you’re going, it’s a wrap.

Sometimes your feelings can’t think and you have to think for them

β€œ Good β€œ Woman

My ex taught me a lesson:

no matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be enough for a guy who isn’t ready to be a man. I don’t matter how much love, care, and effort they give in, if one is not mature or willing enough to become a man, nothing shall work in that relationship.

Being a “good woman” means being kind, supportive, and loving. But if the guy doesn’t value those qualities, it’s not your fault. You can’t make him appreciate you or grow up when he’s not ready. A real man understands responsibility, respects your worth, and works with you to build a solid relationship.

Sometimes, we hold on hoping the other person will change. Fact is, change happens from within, and you cannot make someone change. When the man does not want to be one-to commit, communicate, and care-then end.

This lesson is not one of bitterness. It’s about knowing your value and not settling for anything less. You deserve someone who is willing to be the partner you need, who appreciates the phenomenal woman you are. Don’t waste your love on some bum who’s unwilling to grow up.

Neena Gupta.

β“’ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

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