Tag: woman

The meaning of true love from a man

The meaning of true love from a man.

I hate to say this but most women will go their entire lifetime and never experience the meaning of actual true love.

It’s even slightly depressing to think that most people will never understand how powerful this picture actually is.

This gentleman is a prime example of how men should be treating their partner with everyday that passes.

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real man.

Let me give you a couple examples of a real man ……

A real man asks about your day and genuinely cares about the answer.

A real man respects your boundaries and never forces you to anything you’re not ready to do.

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person.

A real man consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health.

A real man is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes.

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

A real man never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He never confuses you on where you stand in his life.

A real man apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character.

He doesn’t mind hurting other people’s feeling to protect yours.

A real man gives you affection without sexual expectation.

A real man refuses to entertain any women that isn’t you.

He has genuine intentions with you from day one and shows you how it truly feels to be a priority rather an option.

A real man will help you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

A real man values you and would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

Take my advice and wait for the man that never let’s you fall asleep at night questioning your own self worth.

Divine Feminine

“Reclaiming the Divine Feminine”

By shaman Alberto Villoldo

In the Andean tradition, shamans call the organizing principle in the universe “Illa Tici Viracocha”: the one who is everywhere and in everything. But somehow, the Sun Father and Earth Mother gave way to the Father and the Son in the traditions of the conquerors of North and South America. Around the world, the power of the feminine gets lost in stories about goddesses serving male deities, often relegated to secondary or tertiary characters.

With such mythologies guiding us, we shouldn’t be surprised that we no longer honor both our mother and our father, the masculine and feminine, equally. The divine feminine has many faces, but because she has been driven underground in cultures around the world, we don’t really know the extent of her powers.

Stories from Europe about women who were tortured and killed for being “witches” – meaning they followed an Indigenous spiritual tradition that honored the feminine aspect of divine power – are fairly common. The patriarchal diminishing of women and exalting of men can even be felt today, a remnant of the old myths that shape our perceptions in ways we don’t even recognize.

BUT…

Mother Earth and Father Sky don’t have to be at war with each other. The way to mastery and wisdom requires that we help them to reconcile. In the traditions of Andean shamans, Mother Earth, or Pachamama, hastens our evolution by helping us shed the past that confines us and to let go of our fears – fears of both physical death, but also the death of our preconceived notions about who we are and who we can become. Pachamama helps us become wise and to see our lives as part of a larger mythical story as we transcend the limitations of all myths, beliefs, and ideas about what is possible.

Evolution requires awakening to the self that remembers it’s all connected – us, Earth, nature and her creatures, our hearts and our heads, our energy and all the particles that make up the body we inhabit, at least for now. Evolution requires us to go beyond the brain, to take off the blinders that we inherited and have worn, unquestioningly, for too long and to open our eyes to a far broader view of who we are, who we can become, and how we can heal.

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Crone – A woman who has found her voice

”A crone is a woman who has found her voice. She knows that silence is consent. This is a quality that makes older women feared. It is not the innocent voice of a child who says, “the emperor has no clothes,” but the fierce truthfulness of the crone that is the voice of reality. Both the innocent child and the crone are seeing through the illusions, denials, or “spin” to the truth. But the crone knows about the deception and its consequences, and it angers her. Her fierceness springs from the heart, gives her courage, makes her a force to be reckoned with.”

— Jean Shinoda Bolen (Crones Don’t Whine: Concentrated Wisdom for Juicy Women)

Painting by Andrea Redmond

The Female Body

THE FEMALE BODY

The female body was never supposed to be smooth, firm and flawless.

It was designed to create life, to host life, to feed life.

Yes there are many other amazing aspects to us all and this design in no way defines us, but underpinning our fight to retain a ‘figure’, is a whole network of genetics, science and an entire evolutionary process which wants to create, store and produce fat for protection and hormonal health.

So, if you are losing a battle for slimness, do not for a moment think this is all your fault.

You are trying to blow away the wind.

Feed yourself well, physically, mentally and spiritually, and then enjoy your life with the vessel you inhabit.

It’s a one shot only thing.

Peace, laughter and acceptance are the best medicines around.

Donna Ashworth Words

From ‘I wish I knew’: https://amzn.to/3JVMJlZ

Art ‘Hilda’ by Duane Bryers #duanebryershilda

#bodypositive #dietsdontwork #poetry

Acceptance

If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can’t handle the house full time.

If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn’t make money.

If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.

If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.

If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to

accept expenses too.

If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No woman is perfect.

A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.

– Unknown